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Experts say sex lasting more than 13 minutes is “too long” and that a lightning encounter of only 3-7 minutes is quite adequate.

A survey of 50 members of the Society for Sex Therapy and Research, an industry group for sex counsellors drawing in a variety of “psychologists, physicians, social workers, marriage/family therapists and nurses,” asked them what they considered the ideal length for a sexual encounter to be.

They mostly indicated that sex lasting from 3-7 minutes was “adequate,” and from 7-13 minutes “desirable.” However, more than 13 minutes was “too long.”

They did concede that sex lasting only 1-2 minutes was “too short.”

A psychology professor with the group explains that he hopes the results will encourage couples not to think there is anything wrong with the most pathetically fleeting of encounters:

“Today’s popular culture has reinforced stereotypes about sexual activity.

Many men and women seem to believe the fantasy of… all-night-long intercourse.

This seems a situation ripe for disappointment and dissatisfaction.

We hope this survey will dispel fantasies and encourage men and women with realistic data.”

Advice sure to keep people happy and content with their sex lives, and away from expensive counselling services.



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    Comment by Anonymous
    02:19 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Are these doctors retarded? And has the whole comment section got retarded. Who the hell here thinks 7 minutes is enough? Have any of you actually been with a damn women? Because if you honestly say 7 minutes is enough you have to be a virgin. EVERY women I met or everyone women I heard from my friend ALWAYS needs more time to finish then only 20 minutes.

    These test have to be done by old scientist/researchers in their 50's that want to cum just by looking at a women.

    Are you people so self deluded that you believe this crap? Go to the damn site and read the comments their also. No one is buying this bullshit. A young women WILL NEVER be pleased in 7 minutes.

    Comment by Anonymous
    03:23 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Why the fuck are you getting so angry?

    Just do it for adequate time if you know better.

    Comment by Anonymous
    03:16 02/04/2011 # ! Neutral (0)

    It's easy to get annoyed when reading that so many men are so fucking clueless about pleasing women but they want to act macho and say stupid shit.

    These comments are so hilarious today!

    Comment by Anonymous
    02:06 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Hmmm, I thought I heard somewhere that it takes about 20 minutes on average for a woman to reach orgasm. Apparently the experts don't believe in mutual satisfaction.

    Comment by Anonymous
    02:26 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    lol 3 minutes i feel bad for whoever cums at 3 minutes

    Comment by Anonymous
    02:33 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I don't think women will take kindly to such suggestions... I smell blood...

    Comment by Anonymous
    02:35 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I come just in time, every time. Irregardless of how long it lasts... -_-

    Comment by Anonymous
    01:28 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    You all know there is no right answer here, yes? Some couples like foreplay that gets her engines running and then straight to oral to get her off, then a few minutes or less for him to jackhammer away and shoot his load. Done. Happy. Others want hours of foreplay, then oral, then no intercourse as both have had their O. Some like it on top, some want it from behind. Many girls can not even have an O from pure intercourse as there are no nerves inside the vag, past the first few inches. Unless you hit her cervix, then you get a yelp.

    When some people dress up as animals to yiff, others enjoy clevland steamers and yet more with leather or toys or more than two people at once, there IS no norm. You and your partner do what feels good and leaves you both happy. Be it an all nighter with many sessions or a quick minute boom pop.

    Comment by Anonymous
    01:30 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Long time sex is just painful and kind of boring. No matter how much you move aroudn to change the way your junk plows her, or let her take the top to control the speed so you don't hammer away like a moron, it can get dull.

    Comment by RadiantHawkWings
    01:31 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    No one can adequately quantify when you should climax. All bullshit like this really does add tension to something that's supposed to make you relax. So if you are you partner are happy with 2-3 minutes of fucking, cool! If you're a marathon fucker with a marathon partner, bust out the lube and pound it flat. Plus this is a survey of only 50 people, hardly indicative of the entire sexual world.

    Comment by Anonymous
    02:51 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Penetration is the least important part of making love to a woman. Most non-virgins will appreciate this survey.

    Comment by Anonymous
    03:14 02/04/2011 # ! Neutral (0)

    THANK YOU. Someone who knows what they're doing.

    Comment by Sandalphon
    05:01 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Indeed my friend. The secret is not to take it like a 100m dash to the finish line but to take it like a marathon.

    Could you even sit comfortably after 4 hours? My best mark was close to 3 hours and the following day I couldn't pee without my swollen member making me writhe in pain.

    Comment by Anonymous
    04:42 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    2-5min of oral (each partner)(not including 69)
    3-6min for each position

    about 45 minutes overall

    that is ideal for me

    Comment by Anonymous
    03:14 02/04/2011 # ! Neutral (0)

    Why do guys do this? Changing positions a million times is annoying as hell. It takes longer for girls to build up and enjoy themselves and the guy wants to flip her around ever few minutes. SO not attractive.

    Comment by IIRawkII
    03:00 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    You know Virgins had to say something this idiotic.

    Comment by xyanide1986
    20:27 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Even my fapping sessions are longer than 15 minutes, with my girlfriend it's at least half an hour and usually an hour.

    Comment by Anonymous
    20:16 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    epic pic is epic, need more from this artist!

    Comment by Anonymous
    20:43 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Why do you need to listen to those people?!
    If both the couple want to go on, keep doing it!

    Comment by Anonymous
    20:41 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Well, that's good to know.
    :-)

    Comment by Anonymous
    20:01 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Lol, you guys here act like you know anything about sex. They were talking about real sex, not fapping to loli pics, dumb fucks.

    Comment by Anonymous
    21:54 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Why are you idiots comparing sexual penetration times to masturbating? That's completely different.

    Oh, right, because you're fucking virgins.

    Comment by Anonymous
    21:40 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I take it these "experts" are all premature ejaculators.

    Comment by pilandi
    23:37 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    You can masturbate using an onahole you know.

    Comment by Anonymous
    06:04 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    A miserable pile of secrets.

    Comment by Anonymous
    02:35 30/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Well, then I'm doomed.
    My "preliminars" requires from 20 to 40 minutes... sex itself lasts for 30 minutes per round, with 2 or 3 rounds in most cases...

    Well, according to those guys, I'm a sex beast. Nice.

    Comment by Anonymous
    04:22 28/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Some real sex noobs in here with some unhappy partners. Not all of ya obviously, but some… wow. Don’t you know anything? Speaking to the noobs here. Time means absolutely nothing when it comes to erotic play. Every chick is different and what you think you know and think you are an expert at is crap. I’ve had girls that wanted their nipples bit. Hard. And I’ve had girls that didn’t want their nipples touched at all. -_- Some liked when the guy (or girl) went straight to the clit. Others want a whole body lick down. Some couples that have been together for a long time can hold off for a bit, then have a quick blast session where both have their O and are done. Other couples do it every day and can make it last as long as they feel like it.

    Simple fact is, and I have seen it posted here numerous times, as long as both parties ‘finish’, be it a minute or an hour, it’s good stuff. Ask a woman what is better sex… eight hours or playing and boning and no O, or two minutes of know how that gets her off and on the O train? A guy is happy when he cums. A few seconds, an hour, a day, it doesn’t matter. When you shoot your load, that’s payday and feels just as great at the ten second mark as it does at the hour mark.

    But when it comes to sex, on a web forum, everyone is an expert and everyone makes shit up and that’s probably the only true facts any of us can agree on.

    Comment by Cashmoney9000
    15:25 28/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I bet thats all the "experts" could muster, thus that being the "adequate" time. I've had long outstanding sex before, longer is better if you can last that long. Theres obviously a minute, but 15 minutes doesn't cut it in my book.

    Comment by Pyrus
    13:22 28/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    All night isn't a fantasy. It's the result of several sessions of 3-7 min. sex.
    1. Bust-a-nut
    2. Relax
    3. Repeat first 2 steps all night
    4. ???
    5. Profit!!!

    Comment by Anonymous
    21:20 19/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    alot of the bs here is great

    Comment by Anonymous
    22:39 21/11/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    With preliminaries it lasts some 30 minutes before the interest dies down.

    Intercourse itself however, doesn't really go above 5 minutes.

    If after all the fondling, kissing and oral sex you aren't very aroused and ready to pop soon, then truth be told you are doing something very wrong.
    There's really no way around it.

    Comment by Anonymous
    11:05 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Sex?

    What a disgusting concept!

    I'll stick with my 2D wimmenz thanks~

    Comment by Anonymous
    15:42 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I'd be very surprised if you could make a girl orgasm in 3-7 minutes. Whats good for me and my partner is 15-45 minutes. Depends on where and when of course.

    Comment by Anonymous
    18:16 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    No kidding. I've had my girl go off in minutes. Like a dman commercial break. But it's rare. Then again, I've had it take a good hour. -_- And once, we were both about to go at the same time, having played and worked it and whatnot to that point, only to have it ruined by one of the cats jumping on the bed and letting loose a giant hairball right into her hair. Ouch. Mood killer.

    Comment by Anonymous
    03:05 02/04/2011 # ! Neutral (0)

    HAHA! Now that is an awesome story! LOL!

    Comment by Anonymous
    11:24 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Solution: Learn good cunnilingus.

    Comment by Anonymous
    10:52 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    3 minutes is doo-doo.

    Comment by Anonymous
    07:07 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    meh... sometimes you get lazy.

    Comment by AJ12Gamer
    07:02 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    It's about quality not quantity!! n00bz

    Comment by Anonymous
    07:11 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Well using condoms of varying thickness can easily increase endurance per 'session' be reducing sensation. Of course, you are then limited by how many condoms you happen to have on you each night.

    Fun size multipacks!

    That being said, being in in a trusting relationship with a girlfriend on the pill is a wonderful experience... as long as she is reliable.

    Comment by Anonymous
    07:36 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    @anon 02:38
    hahah...oh wait, you're serious? If so, coming from a chick, learn our bodies fool. We don't like when you jackhammer away and think you're god because, trust us, we've had better.

    The little trooper is the last thing I'm worried about when I'm into sex. Same with msot of my friends. It is cute tho, that you put so much importance on it.

    poor little fella. Remember, lesbians aren't just enjoying it from something semi-hard in them. It's about the mouth and the fingers and the know how. Stick it in and pound away is nothing.

    Comment by Anonymous
    03:12 02/04/2011 # ! Neutral (0)

    Some of these men watch too much porn. They think just pumping away is pleasurable for the girl.

    It's not.

    You suck.

    Do some research.

    Comment by Anonymous
    10:23 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    People who think females enjoy being jackhammered non stop for more than 7 minutes are virgins, or have lying girlfriends.

    Stop trying to act macho, no one likes their vagina raw from you being an idiot that just mimics porn.

    Comment by TheBeast
    04:15 28/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    some girls like that.... you just don't introduce them to your parents, lol.

    Comment by Anonymous
    03:06 02/04/2011 # ! Neutral (0)

    NO girls like that. The ones you don't introduce to your parents are just good at faking it.

    Comment by TheBeast
    08:10 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    those dumbasses don't know anything. they are just wasting their backward ass country's tax dollars. 30 minutes is adequate. anything less and you probably won't satisfy your woman.

    Comment by Anonymous
    18:13 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    If you're just using your dick, you probably won't satisfy her at all.

    Comment by TheBeast
    04:17 28/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    sure you can. maybe not as fast as using other tricks, but you can make them peek with just your dick.

    Comment by Anonymous
    15:28 11/01/2011 # ! Neutral (0)

    Are you seriously suggesting all women can achieve orgasm through penile-vaginal intercourse? Or did I incorrectly assume you meant "peak"?

    Comment by Anonymous
    03:10 02/04/2011 # ! Neutral (0)

    Anyone who thinks just using his dick on a woman is good enough is just thinking about his own pleasure. He's trying to convince himself that's a good thing so he doesn't have to actually make her feel good. I'd kick his ass out of bed.

    Comment by Anonymous
    03:08 02/04/2011 # ! Neutral (0)

    LOL! Ignore him. TheBeast apparently knows nothing about satisfying women. He probably gets a lot of faked orgasms out of pity.

    God he sounds like a terrible lay.

    Comment by Abel Liegod
    00:29 28/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I don't have problem with 30 or 40 min of sex with my gf, we know we will do it again after a hour or 2...

    Comment by SaruDa
    02:35 28/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    My sex clinic recommends 13-30 minutes fyi.

    Comment by Anonymous
    00:21 28/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I really really find it funny how you guys talk about sex as if you've experienced it. Jesus. Fucking virgins.

    Comment by Anonymous
    23:10 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    IT IS A FACT that GUYS can only last 3 minutes while girls takes time for around 15 mins or so. Whoever these experts are are just hopeless not to last long in a real thrilling action - or better, had been turned down by women cuz 3 minutes is all they are good at and dead.

    Comment by Anonymous
    00:10 28/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    What experts? From where?

    Considering this is a website based on Japanese media I would assume the report was made from there as well. Japan finds normal human relations disgusting much less sex, look at their birth rates for proof.

    Comment by Anonymous
    12:52 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Gee, even hookers usually give you a full hour. :) :P

    Comment by Anonymous
    15:19 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    not if you come before times up

    Comment by Anonymous
    12:49 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    These 'experts' never met my ex-wife. If it didn't last an hour, it didn't happen.

    Comment by Onanimous
    14:08 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    If you can't make your partner orgasm to satisfaction in an hour, you're doing it wrong.

    Ask her how long it takes her when she's alone.

    Comment by Anonymous
    12:31 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    If it really takes that long, go for as long as you want. I personally start getting bored if it goes past 10-15 minutes.

    Comment by Anonymous
    12:34 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    this study was obviously written by people with bad sex lives.

    while i could careless how long it takes, long as i cum once, every woman i've been with was more than willing to cum as many times as they could. be it 30, 45 or well over an hour, they all wanted to cum over upward of 6 or 7 times before calling it a night. Some would even cum so many times, that they'd lose count and still wanted it, all the way to the point of exhaustion.

    Comment by bolt
    12:55 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    sounds like my ex wife! she'd come like 5 times while we were at it, i'd pop my load, the she'd get her toy and get a few more!! didn't happen every time, but sheesh!

    Comment by Anonymous
    12:38 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I sometimes fap for up to 3 hours when I edge

    I don't think it's too long and sex and masturbation are bascially the same thing besides psychological effects and putting your penis in a vagina.

    Comment by ILoveTsundere
    12:55 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    3 hours?

    Your dick must be screwed up.

    Comment by quelthias
    14:57 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I have lasted more then 3 hours. When doing things solo, you can involuntarily tell when your close so you can slow-down.
    Lasting for 3 hours straight with another tho...

    Comment by Anonymous
    18:22 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    "Honey, why did you stop?"

    "I don't want to cum yet, just give me a minute so I can last longer"

    Comment by Anonymous
    13:17 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    VIDEO OR IT DID NOT HAPPEN!

    Comment by Anonymous
    12:43 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    if you cum in 3-17mins,stick 2 beating ur meat,cause ur pathetic

    Comment by Anonymous
    03:23 02/04/2011 # ! Neutral (0)

    You must be a virgin. This is talking purely about penetrative intercourse, in which case it is CORRECT.

    Comment by Esau
    12:39 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I find it ironic that a community composed of mostly virgins has many questioning the accuracy of this data.

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    Comment by bolt
    12:59 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    it all depends on the person or people/couple.. if i went over 15 min of intercourse, the ex would tell me to stop becasue its rubbing her raw, and starting to hurt! but depended on the day, lube etc.

    and this survey doens't take in to account of you having steady sex, and lasting longer each encounter as you get used to it.. even the quick shots! (there's a spray for that!)

    plus some people are built different! some women i've been with.. 10 minutes just to get them started, while others were 1-2 minutes... and depends on mood, hornyness, etc.. so a group of 50 is a poor study!

    Comment by Psychosomatic
    13:20 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Hmmm there was one time I was going at it with my ex while listening to some trance techno (which I don't advise anyone to do). Lasted for about an hour cus I was focused on the beat (no pun intended). By that time both of us were just tired of the whole session and my hips felt like jello. x_x

    Comment by xyanide1986
    20:32 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I found music while having sex kinda awkward to begin with.

    Comment by shiroki
    13:19 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orgasm_control

    that's bad?

    Comment by Anonymous
    13:28 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Wait, does that 3-7 minutes of adequate sex include the 5 minutes of me crying and apologizing? And 2 minutes of me trying to find the right hole? Or what about the 10 minutes of sloppy and awkward foreplay?

    I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong if my typical sexual encounter is at least 30 minutes. Maybe I'd get it right if these sexual experts could teach me.

    Comment by Anonymous
    15:11 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    lool :D totally agreed. it happens i come early but thats because the lady is an 18 yo model-like beauty. if i know i have the chance to do such thing, i usually jerk it off in advance so that i last longer. sometimes quite long in fact. also, NOT using condoms significantly impacts -for me shortens- the length of the intercourse.

    Comment by Anonymous
    00:15 28/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    And then you woke up from your dream huh, virgin boy?

    Comment by basilio
    13:42 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    What if you last less than a minute? That's not included in the 1 ~ 2 minutes category.

    Comment by xHadriel
    13:50 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    No, just, no. The only lightning encounter I want to have is with a biribiri.

    Comment by Anonymous
    13:42 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    This is crap. There are times when you want a quickie, times when you want a 15 minute session, and times when you just want to spend an hour or more on it, where it's more than just satisfying a need and is a lot more passionate.

    No doubt porn fucks things up, though.

    Comment by Anonymous
    13:12 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Fapping, I'm about 10 minutes. Getting head, I'm about... 15. Sex... I didn't come when I had sex. It was my first time. I feel so fucking terrible about it. But I see it as stamina. :3. She came 3 times.

    Comment by bolt
    00:52 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    im usually the other way round.. fapping 15, oral 10, sex less than 10 (depends on hornyness, last time i had sex.. etc) it just feels to damn good!

    There are women And men out there that just can't orgasim while having sex.. its something in the mind.. and sorry to say, i do feel sorry for those that Have to have atleast 20-45 minutes to orgasim.. same with women.. need to match those people up those that last 2 minutes, put them with women that come quickly, and the reverse.. women that last days, with men that last days.. kind of sad having a man that needs 30 min with a woman that getts worn out or raw at 15... but.. tis life!

    Comment by Anonymous
    02:06 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Like I said, it was our first time. And it was great. I still feel terrible that I couldn't come, though, she even spent a good 10 minutes giving me head. It's been eating away at me ;w;.

    Comment by Anonymous
    13:03 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Haha, I've got a great h-manga where this woman thinks enduring more than 2 mins on par to being raped. I'll probably post a link to the pic after work.

    Comment by Anonymous
    13:00 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Let me tell you about one of my first sexual experiences. It was with a beautiful sex worker. We had some sex, enjoyed ourselves, had more sex, and aw man... 45 minutes had passed. She came twice (my mistake, I should've waited a bit longer), and I was yet to finish... time's up! Time to jerk off and get the hell outta there.

    For a good sex session you need at least 2 hours - including of course, foreplay.

    IMHO those "experts" have very little sex in their lives.

    Comment by Anonymous
    13:03 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    they just want more babys so they taunt people to simply fuck for miserable seconds so that the guys milk from previous wankings can make the girls pregnant

    or ... they just have to say something because they cant keep quiet... like me ...

    Comment by Anonymous
    13:11 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    ^^^ VVVV Virgins! Myself included.

    Comment by Anonymous
    12:25 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    haha the "experts" sure are all male lol

    Comment by Anonymous
    12:25 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I suspect they're talking strictly about the duration of continuous intercourse only--no foreplay or post-coital cuddling.

    Which leads us directly to Clinton's famous "I did not have sex with that woman"...

    Comment by Niwa
    11:43 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    bunch of quickshots if you say 3 minutes is good enough.

    Comment by Anonymous
    11:42 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    these experts are just jealous

    Comment by Blkant
    11:48 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    How about couples just do wtf feels natural to them.

    Comment by Anonymous
    12:03 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    10 seconds is natural?

    Comment by Anonymous
    01:24 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    if both are happy with it, yes.

    Comment by Anonymous
    11:59 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    i want to know these "exeperts" and beat the shyt out of em

    Comment by Jareth
    11:58 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    3-2-1 ding! Okay 7 minutes have passed!!
    Time to come!! *comes*

    LOL

    Comment by cupcake_deluxe
    11:16 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    3 minutes seems kinda short but I guess 7 minutes isn't too surprising.

    Comment by Riiku
    04:09 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I dont know.... I am satisfied as soon as I cum. Doesnt matter if it happened in 3 minutes, that's all I need to get satisfied. Too bad that isn't the case for the girl. My girl need about 30 minutes to come, that's including oral and other stimulation.

    Comment by Wishy
    11:14 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    What the...

    Comment by Anonymous
    04:18 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    The Fuck? An hour at least!

    Really, is it so hard to learn to coddle a hard on for hours and train yourself to last longer?

    Comment by jayizdrunk
    04:28 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    And how often in that hour are you changing positions and shifting around to stop yourself from cumming quicker than you want to?

    Everybody needs to stop fronting, nobody here is a marathon fucker, we all have our speeds and times and tricks to make the sex last longer, but there's no way without them that any guy could go longer than 10-15 minutes.

    Comment by Anonymous
    11:15 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    If you stopped using cocaine, you'd find the experience more pleasant, and you won't be so sore in the morning.

    Comment by Anonymous
    12:52 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I'd say anyone should remember these words if they really need to: "Me so horny, me love you long time." Nothing much else to do.

    Comment by Striker25
    11:19 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    The most is 4 minutes

    Comment by Anonymous
    14:42 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    The results themselves aren't that surprising(I'm mainly talking about the 7-13min mark)but what upsets me is that I don't know where they conducted these results, and the fact I wasn't invited.

    Comment by Gradius
    01:36 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    30min at least, but I prefer 2h as ok!

    Comment by Anonymous
    03:22 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Don't know about you guys, but I usually hear complaints of "getting sore" at a two hour mark.

    Comment by Anonymous
    23:59 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    So they are telling me that all those long hours were for nothing??

    Comment by Anonymous
    06:45 29/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    ronery otaku think
    fap lasting time = sex lasting time

    God, it totally does. I think I fapped all my nerve endings out or something.

    Comment by Anonymous
    05:18 29/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    ronery otaku think
    fap lasting time = sex lasting time

    Comment by kajunbowser
    12:06 30/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    idk what they're talking about. Clearly their research doesn't count foreplay into the equation, neither did they put into consideration that some ppl can go sessions of these 3-13+ minutes in one day, let alone a night.

    Sure, lower the expectations of night-long marathons of copulation happening a lot, but don't be a fukken buzzkill.

    Comment by Soljashy
    15:48 28/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Lonely Otaku talking about their imaginary girlfriends. :\

    Comment by Anonymous
    01:30 28/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    so doing a 29hr marathon with my girlfriend was a bad idea? >_>'

    Comment by MasterYuke
    14:54 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    we're going about this the wrong way; it says 7-13 minutes is desirable, and I agree with that part.

    Comment by Atashi
    14:52 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    The best length of time for sex is when both partners are satisfied.

    Comment by Anonymous
    02:50 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I can say that my fiance is among the group of women who is completely incapable of having an orgasm from internal stimulation. She has never achieved it through her own adventures and no amount of effort on my part has achieved the goal either. Sexual intercourse is fully enjoyable and heightens the orgasm many fold but direct stimulation of her clitoris must be maintained for her to climax. So either a session of intercourse of us involves myself finishing her off with oral stimulation or, regardless of positions used during intercourse she or I maintains one hand on her clitoris providing various degrees of stimulation to synchronize our orgasms.

    Comment by BlaqCat
    03:31 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    やれやれ sounding kind of pro there. It's cool that your so knowledgeable of your woman's body. We should all follow in your example (mind you I'm not being sarcastic).

    Comment by Eddyak
    19:37 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Can just imagine a couple staring at the clock as they go at it.

    "Time!"
    "Dammit, I was almost there!"

    Comment by Anonymous
    20:10 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    The problem with the survey is that maybe they are not taking to account the women may take for ever to be satisfied. With a percentage actually never no mater what is done reaching climax and getting any satisfaction.

    Time seems to be more for men than women, so good luck on the men side if you can find a women that gets satisfied so quickly. But society and expectations are so high that who cares if both are satisfied as long I am satisfied. Get out the battery if you want to join the party.

    Comment by Anonymous
    01:16 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    But then many women can't have an orgasm from intercourse at all. Ever. So the only option left is usually oral. Or, some vibrating toy (or simple finger motion) applied as you are also engaged in intercourse.

    Comment by Anonymous
    16:18 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Finally some common sense. This b.s. survey is just that. there are so many things wrong with that. Such as are they counting actually intercourse? or from hey you wanna to let's do something else now. ? Seems pretty vague. and as such totally and completely useless. and personally quite insulting and potentially dangerous.

    Comment by yuriphoria
    18:41 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Certainly the best time is when both parties are satisfied. The problem is that people have built an expectation that they must last for longer than that and that's the problem he's trying to address.

    "No, that your sessions last 7 minutes doesn't mean that your relationship has problems"

    On the other hand some women take as long as 20 minutes to get there so yeah, 13 minutes may not be enough.

    Comment by Poyo The Great
    12:16 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    A virgin's dream of having an all night sex shattered like glass thrown onto the ground (after reading the article).

    Comment by Anonymous
    23:48 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    What is a virgin?

    Comment by Anonymous
    02:00 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    You.

    Comment by TheBeast
    04:04 28/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    ha ha ha.

    Comment by Dia
    15:47 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    At least now that you give up and finally buy the escort, you'll be smart enough not to book the whole night...

    Comment by Anonymous
    01:06 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    @ Dia and Poyo the Great :

    "Insert Coins now to continue. 10..9..8..7..."

    Comment by Poyo The Great
    10:57 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I'll definitely insert more coin.

    Comment by Anonymous
    18:14 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Be a miracle if a virgin could last even 5 mins.

    Comment by Anonymous
    03:06 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    A miserable little pile of secrets.

    Dracula.

    Comment by Poyo The Great
    19:01 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Press "continue" button then.

    Comment by Anonymous
    14:05 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    It was more fragile than glass. Maybe more like a hymen.

    Comment by Yuki
    01:10 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    people can't hear hymen breaking, hence glass as the next best (and practical) thing. xDD

    Comment by Azure Xuchilbara
    12:20 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    And that, friends, is what separates Hentai from real life sex...

    As for me, I can hold it in for about 8 minutes before I spill my hate paste all over the keyboards...And then promptly licking it up...

    *goes back to reading his loli-futa x shota hentai doujins*

    Oh, and it's also a fact that loli-futas can come 10x more and have a much bigger cock to pleasure both MILFs and little boys than the average guy in a hentai doujin, for anyone curious to know~

    Comment by Anonymous
    04:21 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Your doing it wrong. Your supposed to stop before you climax and train your endurance. Feels a helluva lot better.

    My personal best was 4 hours.

    Comment by Anonymous
    20:12 21/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    best record was 40 minutes WITHOUT stopping for climax (with stopping 2 hours, had to rage quit coz parents coming back ><)

    but fuck i dont recommend it, my hand was numb for the rest of the day and since im circumsised even with lube my dick was rubbed raw and i had to take a 2 day break

    Comment by Sandalphon
    00:07 28/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Indeed my friend. The secret is not to take it like a 100 meter dash to the finish line but rather like a marathon.

    Could you even sit comfortably after 4 hours? My best mark was almost 3 hours and I couldn't pee without writhing in pain the next day.

    P.S. "Server no responding" be damned to hell

    Comment by Anonymous
    12:57 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Ya just lick it, stick it, see-ya-later-bye!

    Comment by thanto_
    13:11 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    GI JOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOE

    Comment by Shippoyasha
    16:15 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Sounds about right to me. People get off in masturbation way quicker than 5 minutes if they can. The stimulus is too much for it to go on that long. Plus it can chafe and get uncomfortable for the guy.

    Girls actually have it kinda easy. They can get off multiple times and they don't have the same kind of chafing problem.

    Comment by Anonymous
    20:16 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    The problem is that guys get used to quick masturbation so they can't last longer with women. They should train themselves, like my boyfriend who can last at least 20 minutes. Or even an hour if we change poses. Oh, and it just the intercourse.

    Comment by jayizdrunk
    04:24 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Yea that's not exactly what you think. We don't last a whole hour through training. That's basically forcing your penis to lose blood so it softens up, and then forcing yourself to get hard again. So basically going from hard penis to limp penis and back to hard penis....no different from you girls cumming, and then building up to another orgasm. How do we do that? Thinking of other stuff besides humping, and then watching you enjoy getting humped.

    Jerking off just stimulates you to stay hard just enough to get the job done, because who else are you pleasing but yourself?

    Comment by Anonymous
    13:09 29/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    or, based on what i do... foreplay, if youre both exicted and you (as a guy) have masturbated recently.. you can last longer.... but the actual exictement makes it last longer, obviously if your just fucking for science.... its not as fun, as playing around with your partner, until youre both like SUPER horny, you you know?

    Comment by skriticos
    16:21 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I call this complete bullcrap. Sometimes you just are just on the run (i.e. on some mornings) and just want some speed fucking before levaing.

    Other times you take the whole evening with several rounds and various poses.

    If you start counting minutes, then you are seriously doing something very wrong.

    18:12 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    And I, was looking forward to Aya doll and buy them as soon as they are on the market and have sex...

    Comment by Anonymous
    18:27 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    what the fuck is this bullshit? Sounds like everyone here is just accepting the low standards to feel better about themselves. Around 40 minutes guys is good. If you are honestly happy with just 7 minutes I honestly do think you need real help. And these women are bull shiters. Pleasing some women takes much more then 7 minutes. What standards is this? 40-50 year olds?

    Then again...I had a blood test. And my testosterone was 956. When the normal amount if 300.

    Comment by Anonymous
    19:29 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Macho internet guy to the rescue.

    Comment by TehBoringOne
    19:59 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Take this into account: Japan is a nation whose population is aging like crazy because they produce less children. What would you expect from a bunch of geriatric sexologists? Geriatric advise for geriatric sex, of course!

    Comment by Anonymous
    01:19 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I've dozens of married and single friends. Not one goes more than 15 minutes on just one session of intercourse. Throw in viagra and then both parties complain about it hurting and not being much fun when you're both sweaty, breathing too heavy and feeling aches everywhere.

    Comment by anime batman
    06:18 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    The article is from a UK news site, with data from US and Canada.

    Comment by Anonymous
    20:45 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    You should really cut down on the steroids. It's all fun and games until you hit 40 and start dealing with heart disease.

    Also 40 minutes of continuous sex is impossible even for a professional porn actor. The science people were talking about a continuous sex without interrupting or slowing down to "hold it in".

    Comment by Anonymous
    02:38 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Wtf is this roid shit? I was naturally like this. Then again I bet none of you had a blood test recently to see for yourselves. Young people tend to have high amounts. Mine happened to be very high like my fathers.

    You guys mostly have to be virgins if you think 7 minutes is enough. NO women is satisfied in 7 minutes. NONE. Most women would even want to go more then a hour. These are scientist/researchers/doctors most likely all much older then us here.

    If you are in your 20's and you can't last more then 7 minutes you need to focus more on your head. Lasting longer is all in your head.Being able to cum is all in your head.

    Honestly your girlfriends must be cheating on you if you only last 7 minutes.

    So again this information is retarded. They did not state what age group this is. They did not factor and medical facts with the person. And they have NO SOURCE on the people you claimed 13 minutes is too long.

    You guys are mindless sheep if you believe everything you read.

    Comment by jayizdrunk
    04:26 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Nobody is having straight sex for 40 minutes. That's constantly changing positions and kissing and caressing...that's called dick breaks...not the same thing as straight up intercourse for 40 minutes.

    Comment by Anonymous
    01:10 27/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    @ Anon 23:57 :

    She's bleeding after four hours because you didn't properly lube her tube.

    Don't use petroleum-based lubricants.

    Comment by Anonymous
    23:57 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    You are mistaken sir. I know I am a minory, but 40 mins is too short for me. I usually stop when she has had enough. I know going on for more than 4 hours causes bleeding. I know other guys who are the same. Not sure if being latin has anything to do with it, but 10 mins sex, at least for some of us, is unthinkably short.

    Comment by TheBeast
    04:08 28/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    my testosterone was right under Goku and Chuck Norris. 8x7^10,000th power.

    Comment by Shaawin
    14:35 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    i like how they want to introduce us to realistic data, yet their picture about it has abnormally large breast to body ratio.

    Comment by DeathCrunch
    15:27 26/06/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    On their site it's a close up of faces.
    If you mean the one we have on this site, you know the one completely unrelated to the people doing the survey, it's a stock sex picture from the galleries.






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