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Syvere

Nice first post, but I just have to open up somewhere so bear with me.

I'm a 24 year old university student. And yes, a virgin. I have only ever had one girlfriend for a month which ended, well I don't really know why. She just said I was a really, really nice guy but due to the distance it just wasn't practical. I sort of see her point but it still hurt as I liked her quite a bit.

I don't go to bars and only ever really go outside only to commute to my university. I don't even get to meet women, at all. Recently I have gotten really lonely and have even contemplated on a suicide "playfully". Usually when I get lonely I sort of forget about it after a while but now it just doesn't seem to go away.

I know bars or clubs would probably work eventually but I don't really like drinking nor am I looking for the kind of girl who goes to bars either. I'm really depressed right now and feel a little better just by typing this. Thanks everyone for any tips and for reading this.

Posted 5 years ago #
Loryhae

Just so you know.

I was...no. I am a lot like you.

You aren't alone, new guy.

Don't give up. *thumbs up, smiles, then goes to work*

Posted 5 years ago #
Blank

Man, it'll come sooner or later. And don't go out of your way to find a girl, if you have to do that, she probably isn't worth it.

Just cheer up a bit, nice guys finish last, right? :)

Oh, and welcome by the way.

Posted 5 years ago #
Fonzer

yes check manhood 101 e-book
Reffering to the nice guy very informative:
http://manhood101.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=18&t=2229

Are you the kind of nice guy who thinks that will get anything by just being nice and not asking for anything giving away free attention?
If yes you already lost sir.

Posted 5 years ago #
Lens

You still have the 2D world!
Also, welcome to the forums

Posted 5 years ago #
Uncommon0taku

Welcome, to the community, don't be discouraged to post your two bits on the issues you're passionate about.

Posted 5 years ago #
Syvere

Fonzer said:
yes check manhood 101 e-book
Reffering to the nice guy very informative:
http://manhood101.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=18&t=2229

Are you the kind of nice guy who thinks that will get anything by just being nice and not asking for anything giving away free attention?
If yes you already lost sir.

Hmm...I don't really know. That girl was my first girlfriend so of course I always asked "well, what do you think?". But I don't think I was being a wimp or anything like that. I did take advance and even french-kissed her a few times, and she seemed to like it. I'd like to think that she genuinely meant that I'm a nice guy and the distance was the reason for the break up. Who knows...I have gotten over her already thankfully.

The thing is that I'm not even looking to lose my virginity. I'm looking for the one to share my life with. That's the core issue of these feelings.

And thanks to everyone for cheering me up!
Lens: 2D world is really nice, too bad it doesn't comfort you or offer you companionship. It only goes so far...

Posted 5 years ago #
Mika the Banned

You could always go gay :)

jk trollkastel

Posted 5 years ago #
Syvere

Mikage-sama said:
You could always go gay :)

jk trollkastel

Haha, you know sometimes I think it'd be so much easier if I were gay.

Posted 5 years ago #
Shi nai weaboo

Get a prostitute!

Syvere said:

Haha, you know sometimes I think it'd be so much easier if I were gay.

How hot are you?

Posted 5 years ago #
drunkspiderman667

get some duct tape and some roofies......figure out the rest on your own...

no but seriously just try talking to them more.

Posted 5 years ago #
Icy-nee-san

Lens said:
You still have the 2D world!
Also, welcome to the forums

Listen to this man

unellmay02 said:
Get a prostitute!

Ignore this child

Posted 5 years ago #
Huey

Syvere said:
And thanks to everyone for cheering me up!
Lens: 2D world is really nice, too bad it doesn't comfort you or offer you companionship. It only goes so far...

YES!!! only goes so far.....never been a replacement never will

Posted 5 years ago #
Mika the Banned

Oh shit when you quoted me I thought you were gonna say you were Trollkastel :P

Anyways yeah just do what you do you don't really need a partner now and since you're here that means you like animu so go watch some happy/comedy anime and you'll feel better :)

Posted 5 years ago #
Vicious

awwww =3.
I would say uh 43% of all men are in your situation.
They either Have friends Set them up
Parents set them up
or Meet people in the workplace.
Women don't just fall into your lap,
not even because you're a super nice guy.

Clubs and Bars are for that scene. people who go there frequently
if you go there just because you heard it was an easy place to hook up,
you'll be sorely mistaken.

The Easiest thing to Do. Is to find a girl and pick her up
The Hardest thing to do. Is to find a girl and pick her up :p

Posted 5 years ago #
Syvere

unellmay02 said:
Get a prostitute!

How hot are you?

I don't think prostitutes are into relationships.

I think I look "normal"? I might take a picture at some point, but yeah, like I said I'm not into guys.

drunkspiderman667 said:
get some duct tape and some roofies......figure out the rest on your own...

no but seriously just try talking to them more.

Indeed, I am a shy guy so talking to them more would help. That is if I met them in the first place.

Even at school there really aren't any girls/women as I study information technology (majoring in software engineering) and I'm sure you can imagine not a lot of women are interested in that field.

Posted 5 years ago #
Sukunai

Hmm I was a virgin till I was 25. Not by choice though.

I can relate.

Life though it moves in odd ways.

Ya see I was much the 'nice guy' type too. But occasionally it's a good thing. Ya see I had a drinking pal that was also female. Good to go dancing with (looks better than dancing by yourself eh). But I was juuuuust not the sort to say things like 'hey deb, want to go back to your place and fuck?'
As a result, I never ended up fucking her.
Many years go by, and we are laughing and she basically says ya know, if you had said 'hey wanna fuck' ya know, I always wanted you, the second you had asked, I'd be riding your cock.

Sounds nice, but my long time buddy deb is incredibly lousy with her finances and she has no real desire to NOT have kids eh. getting a regular screw is nice, but you want to know what's going to come of it normally. Girls don't always mean it when they say they are using protection :)

Much as I like my friend, I didn't want to be her sperm donor, nor locked down with a woman that's lousy with money.

My advice, go 21st century, and check online dating. Be honest about yer details, be honest with your objectives. If you just want a fuck friend, say it :) Hey, girls like to be fucked too eh.

Posted 5 years ago #
Shi nai weaboo

Syvere said:

I don't think prostitutes are into relationships.

I think I look "normal"? I might take a picture at some point, but yeah, like I said I'm not into guys.

I can dress up if your hot

Posted 5 years ago #
Vicious

unellmay02 said:

I can dress up if your hot

......................................
>.>
don't scare away newbies
(but i still love you.)

Posted 5 years ago #
Mika the Banned

unellmay02 said:

I can dress up if your hot

unell, shut up.

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