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Hey, they ruined my childhood so it's alright to blame them.
Not interested in real life anymore, being a hikikomori is much more comfortable for me. btw I'm not suicidal
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Well my real parents never let me do much because they thought something bad would happen to me (can’t blame them though most of the time bad shit happened) and my father was very distant from me.
My step father nags me allot but he trusts me
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My parentsssszssss...
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maga said:
My parentsssszssss...Posted 6 years ago # -
I wish i could blame all my shit on my parents. It would make shit easier, but i really can't believe its true. Doesn't mean i have to like them, though. Although, i think technically speaking i got my chronic depression tendancies from my mother and my massive crazyass general anxiety disorder from my dad, but whatever. Its not like they wanted to have that shit, either.
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momokiller said:
if you're thinking you're better not being born, just slit your wrist and be done with it.The world is only what our senses perceive. And so everyone in "your" world will only exist as long as your senses work.
Thus, in killing yourself, you kill everybody in your world too. Revenge complete!
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I just realized how unfortunate Fiona is... ;_;
Somebody hug Fiona. Right now.
NOW!Posted 6 years ago # -
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*hugs Fiona*
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Obsidian said:
I just realized how unfortunate Fiona is... ;_;
Somebody hug Fiona. Right now.
NOW!Sigh....yes master.
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This thread is not about finding solutions. Besides it doesn't matter whether the forum a conversation takes place in is online or offline. There is no solution for a rotten personality. Furthermore you should have realized before you were old enough to be left alone on the web that life isn't about finding solutions to its myriad of problems. The most we can do is find coping strategies to deal with the limitations. Still this thread's primary purpose wasn't that though if someone wanted to discuss some we could.Ribbons said:
But the spirit of this website is one of loneliness, and it shows. The people who visit this site on a regular basis show signs of needing an emotional outlet in real life, because as I've found out through my own tribulations: the internet does not solve my problems.There are some that use it as a means of asking people they barely know, and I see it as an act of cowardice of not being able to tell people in real life.
In real life you typically get a very narrow, myopic view of any situation from those around you. Also most no matter their limited real life social network have talked the problem over in the real world before coming to the internet and the discussion has gone as far as it will go. I think you are just attempting to stigmatize and label those who possibly would like to converse on a topic to thwart discussion from developing. That is quite a typical troll maneuver.
For most it rarely is but that shouldn't stop it from being a place to temporarily unburden oneself of whatever it is they might be carrying.While the internet is good for letting off some stress, it should not be your primary place to rant and rave.
I've had my share of troubles with my father as well, but I don't feel the need to post it on a website where everyone can see.
It is fine that you feel too much shame and embarrassment to contribute but you shouldn't be censoring others who would like to pursue this topic.
Everyone is needy. Being unable to share this with others is what is unhealthy. It isn't surprising if like yourself others can't share certain parts of themselves even on a pseudonymous internet board with the degree of asocial behavior many here display in their daily lives.That shows signs of neediness that's not healthy in the least.
I want to tell my problems to people who can help stop them, not to those who are powerless on their side of the monitor.
A problem can't be stopped. You can only move around it. Whether you turn to the real or the virtual for help the people are typically as powerless, ineffectual, or unconcerned as each other. Seeking aid either way brings you to the same result, nothing. Again as mentioned earlier we aren't here to solve a problem. You mistakenly see life as a series of problems that need to be solved or can be solved. You don't comprehend the power of just talking about an issue without the goal of fixing it.
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This is a lame excuse for not addressing those with horrendous personalities simply since they birthed you. If anything they deserve more condemnation for their awful character leading to a hostile home life.momokiller said:
well, blaming your parents is one easy way out but a negative one to dump all your frustration. without them you will not even be around here to post stuffs and etc.
No one was discussing or contemplating suicide. You went on a purposeful, irrelevant tangent to leave a morsel of troll bait for someone to come along and rage at. Well I have taken the bait but won't be furnishing upon you the attention you desire so you can move along to the next topic you wish to flame.if you're thinking you're better not being born, just slit your wrist and be done with it.
If not try to be better than the shit around you. That's my motto, be the best and fuck the rest. you have a better way of life and higher standards of living and get to trample the shit around you.
it's much more satisfying anyway.
Being worse than what you came out of is never a good direction.
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Parents eh?
While I’m not creative enough to do such a long list (and neither have the skills to write it in English) I can say that I’m kind of bitter about my parents, as some people here are too, I presume.
Reason? Well, as any human beings they were fallible, troubled people who from time to time, felt their troubles were beyond their capacity…
My mother for example was always sad of being a middle class person. While my father was a perpetual teenager, who never wanted to take any real responsibility and blame others for his mistakes.
All that being said, I don’t think I can be a better parent, so I prefer to not have kids.
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Fiona said:
This is a lame excuse for not addressing those with horrendous personalities simply since they birthed you. If anything they deserve more condemnation for their awful character leading to a hostile home life.
you do not have the power to change the people around you but only the power to change yourself. Blaming others will never get you anywhere might as well change that attitude towards yourself for a guaranteed positive results.
Fiona said:
No one was discussing or contemplating suicide. You went on a purposeful, irrelevant tangent to leave a morsel of troll bait for someone to come along and rage at. Well I have taken the bait but won't be furnishing upon you the attention you desire so you can move along to the next topic you wish to flame.What, my bait have been spotted?
i'll throw the lines in the other pond then.
Fiona said:
Being worse than what you came out of is never a good direction.sitting on your hands and let your mouth do the work never get anything done except gaining sympathy from the public which is easily distracted by the Superbowl on the next channel. At least you're starting to move in a direction, which direction depends on you.
Most people don't realize that the hardest thing to do in life is to start
moving. That's why i gladly encourage any action other than bitching around.Posted 6 years ago # -
momokiller said:
you do not have the power to change the people around you but only the power to change yourself.The individual doesn't even have that power. People can't change. This is one of the reasons why you have to learn to deal with what you have and cope with what you don't.
Holding those accountable for their wrong doing goes far beyond blame. People need to be held responsible for their actions. Though in the end neither brings a positive result. Not doing what was wrongly done is the only positive course but nothing can be undone. Yet this topic originally wasn't about blame or accountability so let's drop it. This topic was started as a conversation on only the deep and serious character flaws of our parents.Blaming others will never get you anywhere might as well change that attitude towards yourself for a guaranteed positive results.
sitting on your hands and let your mouth do the work never get anything done except gaining sympathy from the public which is easily distracted by the Superbowl on the next channel.
Thinking and discussing issues are some of the most important actions we can take which you falsely assume is doing nothing or has anything to do with sympathy seeking. On a side note, the superbowl isn't until January or February.
Most people don't realize that the hardest thing to do in life is to start
moving. That's why i gladly encourage any action other than bitching around.Moving is easy. Thinking about your next move is harder which is why so many like yourself prefer blind execution. Mostly they don't have the patience for thought.
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'If you spend too much time thinking about a thing, you'll never get it done.' - Bruce Lee..
and.. 'It is not necessary to change. Survival is not mandatory.'
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MelancholyMomo said:
'If you spend too much time thinking about a thing, you'll never get it done.' - Bruce Lee.."The unexamined life is not worth living." - Socrates
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Nice Bruce Lee quote... sure those Hong Kong martial arts stars are industrious people.
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Fiona said:
"The unexamined life is not worth living." - Socrates'Pure reason avoids extremes, and requires one to be wise in moderation.'
anyway.. heres a hug
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Argh, there you are again Momo...But I won't be tempted..I won't comment! D:
And my parent beats yours if that's all about him.
But somehow I have to agree with the uselessness of thinking about it.
If there is something bothering you, you just have to either destroy/ get rid of it or ingnore it. Just live on in the way you feel most comfortable.Posted 6 years ago #
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