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Cyberbullying

  1. palmtop-tiger said:

    bye

    Posted 2 months ago # Quote
  2. no dont leave

    join the secret santa

    and then you can send pantsu poop

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  3. i have 0 income

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  4. use your own poo

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  5. i cant afford postage

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  6. Rub-Jelly-On-Me said:
    i cant afford postage

    send it business reply mail.

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  7. You guys, I know this is really out of left field (or right, I don't know about faggy sports, those assholes need to be beaten) that I don't condone bullying. I just think it is wrong. I know that has always been a widely hated view but I will be the social pariah to say it, I don't like bullies. I think THEY.ARE.BAD!!!!! Bullying is so bad. Come at me bro!

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    Nin

    Does anybody really like bullies? Bullies are scumbags. It's just that their victims are often unbearable energy leeches as well.

    But yeah, bullies are scum.

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  9. ^

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  10. I like it when cute girls bully me.

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  11. Ninsheart said:
    But yeah, bullies are scum.

    And it bitea you back in weird, ironic ways.

    I want to share a story but you've probably read about something similar somewhere :P

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    Nin

    genosabre said:

    And it bitea you back in weird, ironic ways.

    I want to share a story but you've probably read about something similar somewhere :P

    I'LL BE THE JUDGE OF THAT

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  13. I can only remember being bullied once and I've never bullied anyone.

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  14. Ninsheart said:
    I'LL BE THE JUDGE OF THAT

    JUDGE THIS:

    During third grade, me and this girl started talking about the sweater I was wearing that day. It was a souvenir so it wasn't rare, but seeing a classmate have the same one you have may have been interesting at the time.

    While we were talking, this other classmate started teasing us together because children. The next day, I decided to pick on her so that they wouldn't tease us together anymore. Bad. Move. The rest of the assholes in my class joined in. Looking back, it was really bad. There were times I'd take it to far and make her cry.

    As the years passed, even when we're placed in seperate classes, we'd be teased like we're a couple, and we'd also clash everytime we meet. My craziest memory of her is when she chased me with a pen once.

    When we got into highschool, we both mellowed down a bit. There's still some hostility, but we can talk normally and sometimes team-up against the guys who picked on us. Later on, there was lesser hostility, but I haven't apologized to her yet.

    On our third year in high school, we were classmates. We were more civil with each other and talk about our favorite shows and anime. Our usual clashes turned into banter. There were times when she'd actually come over and watch movies with me. For some reason, mom approved of her O_o

    Before the prom, I was already prepping myself to apologize. took me about a week. Prom night came and while everybody was dancing, I sat beside her and apologized and confessed. I got her to dance with me.

    The next school day, we pretty much one-upped every other couple in our batch. Then the original reason of my picking on her made a comeback. That made things extra awkward between us and we never talked again until we graduated the next year.

    I got to contact her again when we were in college. But due to very personal circumstances at the time, I decided to end my feelings there because a relationship will be hard to maintain.

    I invited her to a movie date. We ate out and ended up watching a crappy local movie instead of Narnia :P

    I still can't figure out when in those seven years did I start to really like her :P

    We're still friends and contact each other. She invited me to try out at the company she was in but I never got to do it :P

    TL;DR: Never bully the first girl you meet because heartaches.

    Posted 2 months ago # Quote
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    Nin

    To think you were initially going to withhold this heartrending, A-grade story from us! What a fantastic build-up; from being the girl you picked on to being your girlfriend. I love it.

    I don't really get one part, though. How did the original reason you picked on her make a comeback? Did she bring it up because she still had hard feelings about it? I would imagine this moment to go like: you say "oh I was so silly as a little boy back then and I did it out of embarrassment" and then she'd be like "ahahaha oh you silly♥♥" and then the camera pans into the sunset behind you guys.

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  16. Ninsheart said:
    I would imagine this moment to go like: you say "oh I was so silly as a little boy back then and I did it out of embarrassment" and then she'd be like "ahahaha oh you silly♥♥" and then the camera pans into the sunset behind you guys.

    She actually went "Stop it, you're making me angry again.". Grade school was the worst part of her life because of that one very wrong decision I made. A few months ago, I learned that she had a difficult time maintaining relationships and pretty much on the way to giving up on finding somebody.

    Here's the bites back part:
    I tried but I can't stop comparing the days I spent with her to the days I spent with the other girls I was with. Of all the girls I can be myself with was with her. I had a hard time dealing with women because they're not as harsh as she was. Hah! I pretty much scarred myself for life with what I did :P

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  17. It's nice to know you found someone you can be honest with, though. Even better when she can be honest right back.

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    Nin

    This story is platinum sad.

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  19. In my school nobody bullied anyone, but we were teasing each other constantly. Once a guy from an other school thought we were bullying one kid, so he started bullying him. After nobody helped the bullied kid we ended up ganging up on the kid from the other school and beat him up kinda badly. The fun memories~

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  20. Oh, note: She's not the girl I tried out bullying on.

    Bullying on purpose and bullying as an outlet feel very different.
    IF the person is doing it on purpose, they'd have the feel of their conscience nudging them to stop.

    IF a bully does it without knowing and uses the usual 'it's just for fun' or 'we're just roughhousing' reasons (they're reasons to them) and is told that they're already bullying somebody, there's a chance that guilt might set in and make them stop. If that doesn't, they're very wrong in the head and needs treatment.

    I've shot down people who bullied me with the guilt-trip approach (plus my fists). In high school, I actually had some of them protect me from others who tried because we became friends OR I'm as much an asshole as they are.

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