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Posted 10 months ago #
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From what?
Now his current avatar triggers me with that limp-wristed grip.
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The last one was sad and depressing.
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Removing images because they have a nipple on them triggers me.
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It's Friday!
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Yay! Bank holiday in the UK, so I've Monday off too.
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Woo hoo! Friday!
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I produced a tonsil stone today! I named her Akiko. She wasn't fully calcified, but upon cutting her in half she showed a very nice concentric pattern.
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Congratulations! It's a girl tonsil stone!
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i drink an lagers
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I need some kind of relationship enlightenment. In a relationship with someone who won't stop becoming depressed. There is literally nothing I can do to snap him out of it. Yeah I make him happy, but when he goes into phases of not knowing what he's going to do in his career or when his close friends are moving away etc. The mood instantly drops when I'm with him. It feels like I don't make him happy enough even though I know that's untrue.
His moodswings are absolutely unreal.
I feel guilty trying to persuade him to have sex with me when he's feeling down. (By persuade; I meant touching his penis or lifting my skirt and go into a doggy style pose. Then he would either A) do it B)80% more likely say "behave. Not in the mood to".Alas, I don't know what to do if this keeps up. Of course there are so many lovely things about him but pretty much he makes the relationship all about him - no kidding. There is no room for a self-loving Amy.
I've been supporting him throughout the whole thing... and I don't know how long I want to stay in this role.
Instead of being so damn negative all the time, all I want is lots and lots of sweet cuddles and kisses and S&M roleplay.
So yeah
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he needs therapy and possibly meds, depression is not something you fix with happy thoughts and sex, amazing and grateful as they may be
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LSD helps with depression
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uteki said:
So yeah
All 'this' makes me remember why it's not that bad being single.
Sounds like the situation I was in a few years ago.
> Depressed girlfriend
> I make her happy, but nothing seems enough
> Neglect myself in return
> Start feeling depressed also
> Put up a fake smile since you do love that person
> Start missing things we used to have, less intimate relationship
> Bad spiralThough if there is every a day my girlfriend offers to have sex with me and I say 'No I'm not in the mood right now.' Please tied my to the bed and punish me.
Uteki, it's a decision only you can make. I remember well enough how friends and family gave me advice, and I didn't listen to any of it. But in the end I regret not doing so. I would've had less hardship for sure. - We can give advice but it's hard to follow advice which might tell you to part ways, when you still love that person.
You need a good long chat with him, but I kinda assume you already had.
He sounds like the girl in the relationship tho. Wut. But if you love him just try to do all you can to.. whatever he needs to have. If you can keep up neglecting other things without hurting yourself too much.Posted 10 months ago # -
pantsukudasai said:
he needs therapy and possibly meds, depression is not something you fix with happy thoughts and sex, amazing and grateful as they may beI don't think he needs therapy or meds, besides they wouldn't solve it.
It's more to do with his self-esteem, and him being a graduate - looking for a 'proper' job and the horrible process of constantly job hunting, along with constant rejections.It's a low-level depression at the moment, been happening for months since graduating.
A long with this, arguments with his parents and little things can lead him to inflict his pain on others (verbally) or physically at objects to express his frustration - which does scare the fuck out of me because 1) It's a behaviour that's childish, 2) I have no fucking clue in how to act in that situation. I have discussed about this with him constantly. By physical abuse against objects - I don't mean breaking a table, more like push or slam it etc.I just hope he finds an okay-ish career soon and perhaps things will turn a lot better
Imagine waking up to texts about how down someone is feeling... almost everyday, for months.Posted 10 months ago # -
Urgh. That brings back more memories of my ex than I like. People have to actually let you cheer them up. When their goal isn't to actually cheer up but to be pitied, they're a huge energy drain and there's no way you get them out of it. Only external factors will then influence them. I remember one time I'd already been futilely trying to cheer my ex up for easily two hours when suddenly her spirits were lifted by the fact that something she'd ordered arrived in the mail. (I told her I was very happy that she was feeling better but of course I was terribly annoyed about it.) It's nothing short of parasitism.
I've had a huge complex about people with emotional baggage since.
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I had "low-level" depression for a while after I graduated. I didn't recognise it and didn't do anything about it. Look how well that turned out! \o/
srsly tho tie a rope around his balls and drag him to the doctor. This shit needs to be nipped in the bud because it doesn't always go away on its own; sometimes, it just gets worse, and you end up with someone fit for sancon.
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btw, nin, remember that when you have depression, someone trying to make you feel better can actually make you feel worse because you feel guilty about not being able to respond in the right way. Or you feel that they're not being sincere because your perception is fucked up. It's not parasitism; it's a disease.
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lol just get over it ya homos
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@artwork ,Yeah it does feel like that in what you listed.
I just don't really know what to do at this point. We do discuss our feelings a lot and pretty much everything and anything that was a concern.
He is my first boyfriend and I really don't know what I should do. I haven't got advice from anybody.I love his body, when I lift up his shirt to feel it. He sometimes tells me to pull it down because he feels fat, unattractive. I really do feel there is nothing I can do to help him love himself.
I do feel hurt sometimes the way he responds when he's not in the mood - when I try to be affectionate towards him.I guess after this, I'm going to have a conversation with him on depression and see how that goes. I still love him a lot and want this to work. And I mean, a little less arguments and a little more love with him.
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kudichan said:
btw, nin, remember that when you have depression, someone trying to make you feel better can actually make you feel worse because you feel guilty about not being able to respond in the right way. Or you feel that they're not being sincere because your perception is fucked up. It's not parasitism; it's a disease.Hm...
This is making me wonder if it's possible that I didn't recognise depression in my ex.
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