SaruDa said:
Yes, because middle-schoolers: totally trying to take advantage of each other.
One of the most important things women have sex for is male attention and attentiveness. Another reason is to improve her social status by associating herself with important males. A third reason is to be taken care of. It isn't about taking advantage of each other. It is about a trade. Men want sex and women give sex for what they desire from the male.
Also, dildos don't exist.
Wine is made in America but only a very small minority enjoy in the majority of it. Same thing with the sex toy industry. Also who is to say those dildos and sextoys for females aren't mostly bought up by gay males?
edit: If sex is being done properly, the woman should enjoy it
That's a myth. Many women try every which way with and without a partner and either can't or rarely reach climax. The female orgasm for the most part is broken. At the same time there are some capable of multiple orgasms but those women only represent a sliver of the female population.