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  1. Why do some women get so pissed off when they catch men staring at them?

    When men stare at them it basically re-affirms that they have power over men and they hold sexual power and that people find them attractive, yet they always act like it's an inconvenience. Do you know how much men would love for women to ogle them constantly and have that kind of power and desirability? What's with the pissy attitudes?

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  2. Because it's really creepy.

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  3. Because they want you to stare, but not like that much. It's just cultural stupidity.

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  4. nEveR.Fly_ said:
    Because it's really creepy.

    This

    Staring just makes people uncomfortable. And girls with low self esteem will just think you're staring because there's something wrong with them.

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  5. buddahbullz said:
    Do you know how much men would love for women to ogle them constantly and have that kind of power and desirability?

    I wouldn't want women staring at me all the time. It would just be creepy.

    Also, I've had men stare at me before, so I can understand why women wouldn't want us doing that to them. It's not as flattering as you seem to think it is.

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  6. buddahbullz said:
    When men stare at them it basically re-affirms that they have power over men and they hold sexual power and that people find them attractive, yet they always act like it's an inconvenience.

    What's with the pissy attitudes?

    Right, women do nothing but worry about whether or not they have power over men, but they can't read your mind and may think that you're plotting against them when you stare. Maybe you should just walk up and announce that you're their slave and see how that goes.

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  7. Thinking about it, it isn't just cultural stupidity, it's also an evolutionary stupidity. Finding stares creepy was an extremely useful thing until recently. Now it's just stupid.

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  8. I stare all the time and they haven't gotten angry at me(yet). Are you staring at friends or strangers? Or maybe you're making it too obvious. Try disguising your stares. Pretend you're looking at something else.

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  9. I don't like people staring at me either. It's creepy. At least remember to blink, so I can rest assured that your a not a zombie.

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  10. What I hate is when women wear clothes to attract men, but when a not-so-attractive guy like me stares, they get all pissy.

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  11. StefanKinoshita said:
    What I hate is when women wear clothes to attract men, but when a not-so-attractive guy like me stares, they get all pissy.

    How do you know why they're wearing those clothes?

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  12. StefanKinoshita said:
    What I hate is when women wear clothes to attract men, but when a not-so-attractive guy like me stares, they get all pissy.

    Maybe they just wear what they like. :| It's not always about attracting as many men as possible.

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  13. ^

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  14. You can stare all you want as long as you're stealthy.

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  15. aneko said:
    How do you know why they're wearing those clothes?

    mere said:
    Maybe they just wear what they like. :| It's not always about attracting as many men as possible.

    Maybe I'm making incorrect assumptions, but sometimes it just seems that way.

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  16. mere said:

    Maybe they just wear what they like. :| It's not always about attracting as many men as possible.

    Staring at a naisu bodi is like the beating of the heart, it comes mostly preprogrammed, so you can't really control it.

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  17. StefanKinoshita said:

    Maybe I'm making incorrect assumptions, but sometimes it just seems that way.

    Unless they're wearing a shirt that says "I want men to look at me", maybe you should lay off.

    I have a large bust and it's hard for me to wear a lot of shirts without it looking a bit questionable. I wear more conservative clothes these days but I sure hope people didn't think of me that way. Not that I get mad when someone stares at me or comments on my breasts anyways, I just want to shrivel up and die.

    pilu said:

    Staring at a naisu bodi is like the beating of the heart, it comes mostly preprogrammed, so you can't really control it.

    I know that, my eyes will linger a little too long on women I find attractive too. That wasn't really the issue.

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  18. pilu said:
    you can't really control it.

    No, you can't.

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  19. Peter Barton said:
    You can stare all you want as long as you're stealthy.

    Haha, I was reminded of this.

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  20. Peter Barton said:
    You can stare all you want as long as you're stealthy.

    That's true. I stare at everyone, all the time.

    /stalker

    Posted 3 years ago # Quote

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