Despite all of their variations in sex clubs and porn and hentai, Japan's idea of what sex should look like is pretty cliche. Pain, tears, sounding like Ryo-Ohki in bed, etc.
Let's say you had a long time sex partner. Not a one-night-stand or anything casual, so don't bother bring it up. I'm talking an actual sex partner that you like.
What would your ideal sex life be like? What would the dynamics of your average sex session look like? I don't want hardcore details about it like some otaku fanfic.
Do you prefer to be in control? Do you like when your partner is always a little shy? Do you like when your partner usually takes control or initiates? Does them pretending it hurts a little turn you on?
Obviously it won't always be one way in reality, but this is an ideal imaginary relationship.

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