tingle said:
Doesn't this pic belong to the pony thread?
UncommonOtaku said:
yeas & noas,... its also possible that you might be attracted to either fem guys or masculine fems.
Naw, it's definitely just Utena.
dirtypair said:
Doesn't this pic belong to the pony thread?
L o L, BFE boys!
master-evil said:
I wonder how real life futa are treated ? either side ain't they gay or maybe bi ? it so confusing.
Well
>You're born with both the male and the female sex.
>Your parents decide what you should have left (most often than not you get to be a girl 'cuz that's cheaper)
>In some cases they let the patient have her organs left and she/he will decide later in life what she/he wants.
>It's more of a mayor mindfuck for the patient. Personally, I don't think doctors or parents should decide for the person if he/she wants to be a woman or a man. That should be entirely up to the person in question.
Personally; I love being both.
Your parents decide what you should have left (most often than not you get to be a girl 'cuz that's cheaper)
If one is naturally born with feminine features that might be the case, but manlier patients go through a lot of different operations which all cost more than 1000 USD...Counted together plus the hormon treatment it's a pretty high sum to become a woman...
Well of course, nothing is cheap in that department. But it's still easier for the patient to "become a woman" so to day. Thought the person may not like it in the future.
Antika mentions,...
Yah, but females are lucky in that they get to wear all kinds of cute things if they so desire, while males on the other hand are publicly ridiculed if they wear items of a questionable nature, anytime they are out in the public eye.
**nao its just a matter of tiem until some asshole adds the tag of "a couple of cowgirls eating fruitloops"
sighs
What do you mean by "not like it in the future"?
If someone feels to be born in the false body, doubt he/she will regret any changes on it...Just listen to actual ppl who underwent sex change surgery, most of them claim to have chosen the right path...
This isn't just a decision on a whim and reliable plastic surgeons will never start such a procedure without proper mental examination of the patient...
The reason most sex changes happen in late teen and early twenties is because our own notion of gender identity is way intense during these years - as children we rarely give a fuck about gender...Besides adults also rarely notice any "deviance" in the behavior of prepubescent kids, since society considers these early years as neutral...
( A boy playing with Barbies or a girl smashing Hotwheels' isn't considered as a sign of gender identity - and by most cases it really has less to do with it...)
UncommonOtaku mentions sometink
about girls and fruitloops, is this similar to 2 girlz and 1 cup?
^_^
UncommonOtaku said:
Yah, but females are lucky in that they get to wear all kinds of cute things if they so desire, while males on the other hand are publicly ridiculed if they wear items of a questionable nature, anytime they are out in the public eye.
What kind of cute things do you mean?
Look I've seen pretty hot guys wearing headbands and everyone thought they are stylish...
I've seen/known 100% hetero guys shaking hands and kiss eachother on the cheeks and noone laughed them out...
I knew hetero guys acting really cute and gay with eachother yet everyone thought they are fun to look at...
It's all a matter how you sell your own persona...
If you feel uncomfortable wearing something or acting somehow don't expect others to respect you...
Its also about having a healthy perspective of ones self. Though not all guys look good in tight jeans/pantz (especially with belly flappage)
^_^
Strawberry Suicide said:
What do you mean by "not like it in the future"?
If my parents decided that I was a girl and made me go through that kind of operation even though I was indeed born with both the female and the male organs then I'd get mad. That's what I mean. Of course it would surely have a lot of difficulties growing up like that, but in the end you're the one choosing in the end and not your parents.
Strawberry Suicide said:
It's all a matter how you sell your own persona...
If you feel uncomfortable wearing something or acting somehow don't expect others to respect you...
It's definitely not that easy. It's not in the person itself, it's on how everyone else views you. A guy wearing ribbons and shit will be seen as a joke and people will make fun of him ('cuz people are stupid but we know that already). A girl wearing baggy jeans and big t-shirt will definitely get the "omg-she-doesn't-know-her-place" look.
Come on, whatever we say about "you being free to wear whatever you like" is a big fat lie. 'Cuz I know that I can't wear a mini-skirt without getting the "tsst-you-dirty-hoe"-look and a guy can't wear nice high heels without getting the "fucking-fag"-look.
And yes, you will be treated badly simply 'cuz you don't follow an useless norm that no other than we ourselves have stated. A girl will get pink frilly clothes as a baby and a boy will get blue stuff. That's how they have brought us up 'til now and it will keep going like that 'cuz people have the need to always put the strict line that differs a man and a woman.
...I encourage people to dress their children in yellow.
Anyhow, of course we can say that "you should ignore people and be who you are". Yes, I do encourage that. But I think I do know very well that it's hard. AND I'M NOT EVEN A GUY WEARING DRESSES!! I'm a girl wearing the clothes I like and people feel the need to point out that I look like a girl whom sells sex. I can only begin to imagine what a guy wearing a dress would have to go through.
I experienced on my own flesh that ppl change attitude towards you if you start to at least act like you're confident...
I'm not saying that all ppl will catch up on one's confidence but those who reject you just to follow the masses are going to reconsider their actions...I took chances of one-on-one talks with these ppl and saw them acknowledging my existense as is...
Of course too much deviance shouldn't expect understanding to begin with...
I'm also for self-expression but personally I think acceptance is a game of pingpong...If you want to keep the game in tact, you have to just as much give in as you wish for the public to understand you...
Keeping a good ballance is always the best way, excessive behavior is only alienating others from your world...
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