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Negative Anime/Eroge Effect?

Started 6 years ago by Nishou, currently has 37 posts - latest post is by sonicflame

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Nishou

Hey, this is my first post here on SanCom. Been here on SanCom for some time, now but never botherd registering.

But, there is something that has troubled me for awhile now and I thought I'll make a post here and look what you boy's and girl's have to say about it.

Well, I started looking at anime around 6 years ago. And my first reaction to it was, Wow, this is pretty good.
Some series later I started to notice that almost all the girls where slim and good looking, while the males where quite muscular and in a fit condition.
I started to think to myself, "Hey, no wonder I'm still a virgin and have no girlfriend when I look like this!"

I started training on a regular basis some weeks later, so I could atleast lose a few kilos(Not that I where "very" fat to begin with) and try to build up some muscles while I where at it.

A year went on and I continued to look at more and more anime, while going to the gym and try to get in a better shape, so I could lose my virginity and get a girlfriend. Then me and my friends went out drinking one night, and a girls started hitting on me. I was like "Wow?!, this is something new! But it doesnt feel bad at all!" "Maybe just a little more time at the gym, and I can start dating for real" I thought..

Well, now 6 years have passed sense I started watching anime and going to the gym. I'm now competing in body-building and is a total sucker for anime. I got many friends that is girls and when I'm out drinking there is always some girls coming and asking if I want to go with them home to have a good time. Well ain't I happy?! I got what I wanted, girls all over me and is in really fit condition. Yeeey....

Well, NO.. the last years of watching anime, have totally made me lose interest in 3D girls. The only thing I get turned on by now is 2d.

I still have my virginity and no girlfriend. I wanted to lose my virginity badly before, but now I don't want to lose it from a normal girl. Now I want to find that "special" someone, and let that person take it. But yeah Good Luck with that, now that my standards is sky high after this obsession for anime. Let the loneliness begin!

I can only blame myself for being retarded, and didnt stop looking at anime earlier, but who can do such a thing?. Well, "HEY!" atleast I got the body I wanted *Drumroll* Epic Fail!T_T

So here is a question. Have any of you had any similar problem after you started with anime, hentai, eroge, etc OR wish you had quit anime before you got to obsessive?

Posted 6 years ago # Quote
maga

TL'DR

Real girls are overrated...

Posted 6 years ago # Quote
Icy-nee-san

Nishou said:
Well, NO.. the last years of watching anime, have totally made me lose interest in 3D girls. The only thing I get turned on by now is 2d.

WELCOME TO THE TRAP THAT IS CALLED ANIME!!!

Posted 6 years ago # Quote
SaruDa

Personally, I was into animation before I even heard of Anime. Like Sesame Street? I didn't touch that shit, but Arthur and The Magic Schoolbus were awesome. I never have and probably never will consider skinny blonde "typical girls" hot or muscular shaved "typical guys" hot. At this point I'm about as attracted to anime girls as I am to 3d girls. It's really just your own damn fault for being so easily influenced. That said, you'll find there are lots of people around here who share your interests in 2d girls, so at least you won't be 100% lonely in your love. Good luck in the future with that.
Oh, btw my personality is the opposite of obsessive. You might wanna stay away from heavy drinks when you're feeling depressed.

Posted 6 years ago # Quote
Cinaed

Nishou said:
I wanted to lose my virginity badly before, but now I don't want to lose it from a normal girl. Now I want to find that "special" someone, and let that person take it.

nothing wrong with that.
Go to an anime convention and pick up otaku girls! find someone cosplaying something your into and be like 'hey im an otaku and im not fat' and she will be like 'omg /swoon' but then you have to come high five me, its mandatory.

Posted 6 years ago # Quote
Idle Hands

Hello another newb.

I can relate, anime women will always be prettier and friendlier than real life women, because the artists and writers make them that way. The problem with real women is that you have to work to get lucky with them, get a relationship with them etc. It might be tough, but 3-D women are worth the trouble if you're willing to try hard enough.

What you might want to do is go cold turkey on anime and hentai for a while and check out some pics of real naked women. Rewire your head to where you find them just as attractive as their 2-D counterparts.

(One funny thing, I've seen so much anime that when I fantasize about screwing a girl from an anime, I have trouble not imagining the mosaics covering naughty bits. )

Posted 6 years ago # Quote
Yakimaki

o.O So you blame anime for your obsessions... interesting ^_^.

Posted 6 years ago # Quote
maga

Cinaed said:
I wanted to lose my virginity badly before, but now I don't want to lose it from a normal girl. Now I want to find that "special" someone, and let that person take it.

nothing wrong with that.
Go to an anime convention and pick up otaku girls! find someone cosplaying something your into and be like 'hey im an otaku and im not fat' and she will be like 'omg /swoon' but then you have to come high five me, its mandatory.

I've always had that thought in the back of my head Cinaed. If I for some incredible reason ever get myself another girlfriend she has to like anime or at least support my obsession with anime.

Posted 6 years ago # Quote
Idle Hands

Cinaed said:

nothing wrong with that.
Go to an anime convention and pick up otaku girls! find someone cosplaying something your into and be like 'hey im an otaku and im not fat' and she will be like 'omg /swoon' but then you have to come high five me, its mandatory.

Great suggestion to the Op! You might not be able to really screw an anime girl, but scoring with a girl cosplaying as one would be full of win!

Posted 6 years ago # Quote
Michio

Well that's an interesting way to turn an interest into something positive. I applaud the OP if this is indeed true, lol.

Btw, being hard to get and not "chasing women" will cause you to be more relaxed around women as a side effect. This naturally makes you more attractive because girls consistently rate "confidence" as the most attractive characteristic in a man.

Strangely, not chasing women will get you more than chasing them. :D

Posted 6 years ago # Quote
Tzion

SaruDa said:
Personally, I was into animation before I even heard of Anime. Like Sesame Street? I didn't touch that shit, but Arthur and The Magic Schoolbus were awesome.

This.

Also, I have not had this problem. But I don't work out, either, so some of the independent parameters are off... I'll let you know in about 6 years.

Posted 6 years ago # Quote
Michio

Arthur was the most amazing show I had seen in my childhood.

Posted 6 years ago # Quote
Huey

Nishou said:

So here is a question. Have any of you had any similar problem after you started with anime, hentai, eroge, etc OR wish you had quit anime before you got to obsessive?

I never wish I quit, I love anime but at the same time I take it into moderation. Whats fantasy and whats reality, I weigh the two - no matter how much I want fantasy it can only go so far and its not real.
I Gotta find a mate, I want my family name carried on. People who neglect realness are selfish, your seed cant be born to carry on your family legacy because you refuse to acknowledge (woman) because of fantasy? thats nonsense.

Posted 6 years ago # Quote
SaruDa

M I N N said:

I never wish I quit, I love anime but at the same time I take it into moderation. Whats fantasy and whats reality, I weigh the two - no matter how much I want fantasy it can only go so far and its not real.
I Gotta find a mate, I want my family name carried on. People who neglect realness are selfish, your seed cant be born to carry on your family legacy because you refuse to acknowledge (woman) because of fantasy? thats nonsense.

There are all sorts of opinions, and I don't think it's cool to rip others for having one that de-emphasizes the real just because you've got 99% or more of the population backing you up.
Most of our parents don't give a shit about continuing their seed or whatever anyway.

Posted 6 years ago # Quote
Otaku Girl

Anime has had a bit of the same effect on me, but not to that extent... I think.

Posted 6 years ago # Quote
Yakimaki

Well dude your desire for random sex is down probably because it has been oh say six years? Unless you are still in your teens right now it is probably just your sex drive is lowering from when it was six years ago. I don't generally believe in premarital sex but I just recently realized how easy it is for me to turn sex down as to when I was 15 where I would hit my head saying "Stupid Stupid" and take a three hour cold shower. Of course you could always try getting the girl to sort of dress like your favorite character and see if that does the trick and just say its a style you like (dont even have to mention its from an anime) and that you would do one thing for her in return.

tl;dr
Sex drive dieing over time and playing dress up is always kinky.

Posted 6 years ago # Quote
solace

M I N N said:
People who neglect realness are selfish, your seed cant be born to carry on your family legacy because you refuse to acknowledge (woman) because of fantasy? thats nonsense.

I actually applaud selfishness, as long as you're not going out of your way to hurt other people. But as far as passing on one's seed. Unlike my parents, I'm smart enough and kind enough not to subject another generation to a life with my genes. Meanwhile, fantasy is a great outlet for when reality just ain't workin' out.

Posted 6 years ago # Quote
Envoy Loves You

maga said:
TL'DR

Real girls are overrated...

And that goes even if you didn't watch anime and became "overidealistic" about life, as I can sense from Nishou's post.

Posted 6 years ago # Quote
Fonzer

I hardly even had any interest in any love relationships,becouse this is how i grown up.

Now becouse of anime and hentai i actualy became interested in real 3d girls.And im not kidding here.What is it that i started checking anime and hentai for real.Like 2 or 3 years ago.
So to me it kinda had a reverse effect.

Posted 6 years ago # Quote
sycamore

OP cares too much about his virginity.
-edit-
This could also be why he has trouble loosing his virginity...

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