After scandal at Shiga shocked the nation, a survey of over a million Japanese has revealed the unshocking truth of bullying in Japan – that most Japanese have been bullied, some 40% have got in on the action themselves, and that massive numbers have considered killing themselves as a result of the torment inflicted.
The survey, conducted online by NicoNico Douga, probably ranks as one of the largest ever taken of Japanese, with 1,072,014 participants.
Asking whether respondents had ever been bullied at school or college, they found 57.2% of those asked had, with women slightly more frequently victimised at 60.5% to men’s 54.1%.
Unsurprisingly for an all but universal social phenomenon, there was little difference between the areas with the highest reported incidence (Kanto and Kyoto with nearly 60% having been bullied) and those with the lowest (various backwater prefectures with only 50%).
Also unsurprisingly given the Japanese love of preserving “harmonious” relations, most bullying manifested itself indirectly – 32% experienced malign gossip and ostracism, 19.3% experienced insults and “verbal violence,” 15.6% had their possessions hidden or destroyed, and 12.6% were outright assaulted.
Gossip and exclusion were far more prevalent against women (38.3%) than men (25.%), with men instead finding themselves beaten up twice as much (17.6% vs 9.9%).
Most tragically given recent events and the noted preference of young Japanese for killing themselves rather than anyone else in response to such abuse, fully 27.4% of bullying victims had considered suicide, and a further 8.6% “couldn’t remember” whether they had done so.
54.3% of victims found they had nobody to turn to, with the rest favouring family (26.5%) or even teachers (10%).
Most unsurprisingly of all given the preference of Japanese schools for covering up any and all untoward events, over half of all those who did seek help failed to see an end to the bullying – 21.5% saw it continue unabated, 2.6% saw it worsen, 24.4% saw it lighten, and only 36.8% saw it abate completely. 14.7% reported an “other” outcome.
Few Japanese seemed to think the victim could do anything about their own situation, let alone best the bullies – in spite of all the evidence to the contrary, 26.9% thought teachers were the best way of ending bullying and 22.6% hoped a vanishingly rare police intercession would be the best way of tackling it.
9.7% believed a school counsellor might actually be of some use, 9.4% thought rules against bullying were the answer (perhaps overlooking the fact most schools already have them for whatever good they do), 4.9% saw inter-parental negotiations as best, and a charmingly optimistic 12.7% thought the key was the victim talking things out with their tormentor.
As to the bullies, nearly half of respondents were prepared to admit to bullying – 15.9% “had experience of bullying,” and 26.7% had committed acts “which might in reflection have been considered bullying by the victim.” However, 68.9% of these bullies had been bullied themselves as well.
Finally, of the nearly two thirds of Japanese who had witnessed bullying, 54% pretended to see nothing, 12.3% tried to help, 10.1% tattled, 5.6% asked friends and 2.4% actually joined in.
Isn’t there a sort of taboo with seeking help when it comes to emotional/mental problems? I seem to remember someplace saying seeing a psychologist or even a counselor was considered “abnormal”, so many don’t go that route.
Sad, really, either way.
The data is not valid, and probably extremely innacurate. It suffers from self elected statistical flaw. (where the datum can choose to option in/out of the data)
I think almost everybody is bullied when growing now and then. It is almost a right of passage. I say man up. Granted if it is constant, then I see the anguish you will feel. But everybody calls each other names or flicks an ear, or what not and so forth. Do the same back I say. You will not be picked on if the bullier has any chance of getting it back as well.
holy s♥♥t i took that survey lol
These stats are no different from any other part of the world. There is an extremely large percentage of people anywhere and everywhere that have been bullied. Most of the people who are bullied are people who are easily offended or have (or at least think they have) no one to turn to.
The way most people deal with it?
Look the other way.
Being a bystander is considered bullying as well for allowing it to continue.
So, Yes bullying is a problem, just don’t see why people are so surprised by these stats.