Japanese men and women quizzed about the top reasons their amorous relationships are cut short supply a ranking which may just be very handy – for those Japanese who are lucky enough to be able to get themselves into a relationship in the first place, at any rate…
1. You’re too restricting
2. You cool off quickly if they differ from your ideals
3. You try to push your values on them
4. You concentrate too much on trivialities
5. You don’t listen to your partner
6. You soon tire of their personality
7. You are always negative in your appraisals of them
8. Your emotional ups-and-downs are extreme
9. You express your gratitude and favour to them ineptly
10. You date them despite not actually liking them
Less cited reasons included “feigning friendliness,” “being too absorbed in your hobbies,” and of course “not calling,” “not spending enough time together” and “spending all your time with your same-sex friends.”
“you cool off quickly if they differ from thier ideals.”
So, not arguing?
All very very true. Im sort of a confidant for a lot of couples and mediate thing between them those top 10 are heavy hitters
How about “he/she’s too secretive.” I’ve been friends with a girl for 2 years now and getting her to talk about stuff is like pulling teeth. She made it clear she’s in love with me but I cannot deal with all the secrets. Also #5 is a big issue with her. If it’s not something silly, sexual or complimentary, it’s like talking to a brick wall, never mind us having nothing in common.
Where’s “becoming broke” on this thing?
Why not “Killing the parasite before you run out”?
Women lose out on cash with spend crazy assholes!
*Imagines how much I’d’ve had saved away…*
“2. You cool off quickly if they differ from your ideals
3. You try to push your values on them”
This is contradicting…