Top 10 Ways of Losing Your Lover
- Categories: Japan, News
- Date: Mar 12, 2012 08:38 JST
- Tags: Comparison, Dating, Marriage, Rankings, Relationships
Japanese men and women quizzed about the top reasons their amorous relationships are cut short supply a ranking which may just be very handy – for those Japanese who are lucky enough to be able to get themselves into a relationship in the first place, at any rate…
1. You’re too restricting
2. You cool off quickly if they differ from your ideals
3. You try to push your values on them
4. You concentrate too much on trivialities
5. You don’t listen to your partner
6. You soon tire of their personality
7. You are always negative in your appraisals of them
8. Your emotional ups-and-downs are extreme
9. You express your gratitude and favour to them ineptly
10. You date them despite not actually liking them
Less cited reasons included “feigning friendliness,” “being too absorbed in your hobbies,” and of course “not calling,” “not spending enough time together” and “spending all your time with your same-sex friends.”
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Dont forget the fact that you complain about yourself too much like "I'm too fat", "Are you sure you love me and not her?", "Am I pretty enough for you?" "Are my boobs too small/big?" Same thing for guys, but put 'penis' in place of boobs and 'him' instead of 'her'.
We never complain "I'm too fat", because we are smart enough not to stand in profile in front of the mirror
Damn right.
I sure think I am a worthless piece of shit and bad-looking too.
But I try as much as possible to not point it out to people who very kindly chose to ignore it. That freaking annoying to hear.
Well it is annoying to be asked by a guy with better hair (texture) and clothes (provided by his mother): "Do I look okay?" then see him get pouty and run to the bathroom to slick his hair back with water (I can't) when I say its fine.
I'm surprised that NTRing is not at the top of the list. Also stupid things like "Oh you look fine in that dress" responds with "FINE WTF IS FINE???"
"You look good today" "I LOOK GOOD EVERY DAY"
"Does this dress make me look fat?" "NO YOUR FAT ROLLS MAKE YOU LOOK FAT"
your comment was good until you mentioned guys
There may be 10 ways to lose your lover, but there must be at least 50 ways to leave your lover.
Ooh, just slip out the back, Jack~
Make a new plan, Stan~
You don't need to be coy, Roy~
Just get yourself free~
Hop on the bus, Gus~
You don't need to discuss much~
Just drop off the key, Lee~
And get yourself free~
Yeah, I thought of Paul Simon as soon as I read the headline as well. Good Song.
Thank you. This is exactly what I was hoping for when I clicked on this article.
I thought women liked when i pushed my values on them, like diamonds and gold...
you are mistaking gold diggers with women.
Gold diggers & "trophies" can be women, we just tend to want the gold diggers a little less than the "trophies".
But I've panned for gold before! And been to a gold mine! I was too young to work though...
to sum it all up, totally neglecting your spousal responsibilities and basically ignoring the half that is better than you.
You are gonna get dumped
What if that other half isn't better?
so smart, captain obvious y u no shut up ლ(ಠ益ಠლ)
"You cool off quickly if they differ from your ideals"
I hope this is just phrased oddly, it sounds like cooling off as in you were mad and now calm, that seems like a good quality.
It is just phrased oddly.
More like you walk away from them or ignore them because you can't agree with them.
You just slip out the back, Jack.
Make a new plan, Stan.
Don't need to be coy, Roy, just listen to me.
You hop on the bus, Gus.
Don't need to discuss much.
Just drop off the key, Lee,
and get yourself free.
Oh my GAWD!! Fifty ways to sound like your PARENTS...LOL!!! (grandparents?)
I heard that song as little kid. I won't say how little...
I tried not calling for 3 months and long distance, it's not working... I want to be with my 2D waifu back...
So i guess they don't care if they get cheated on or Abused Physically?
I would say there strange people but would that be fair?
I'd have more problems with my sweet one suddenly denying me the hobbies and friends I want, or suddenly treating me like shit, than I'd have with her cheating on me. As long as she usually gets home.
Of course, often when you cheat on someone, you usually prefer the unofficial relationship, and think the cheatee is annoying.
Where's "becoming broke" on this thing?
Why not "Killing the parasite before you run out"?
Women lose out on cash with spend crazy assholes!
*Imagines how much I'd've had saved away...*
"2. You cool off quickly if they differ from your ideals
3. You try to push your values on them"
This is contradicting...
"you cool off quickly if they differ from thier ideals."
So, not arguing?
All very very true. Im sort of a confidant for a lot of couples and mediate thing between them those top 10 are heavy hitters
How about "he/she's too secretive." I've been friends with a girl for 2 years now and getting her to talk about stuff is like pulling teeth. She made it clear she's in love with me but I cannot deal with all the secrets. Also #5 is a big issue with her. If it's not something silly, sexual or complimentary, it's like talking to a brick wall, never mind us having nothing in common.
Not sure if I'm still in love...
Working through my pregnancy, and can't keep a dime in my pocket after ATTEMPTING to keep his attention. Our alone time has to involve money for some reason and I hate it...
Begging for physical contact (a hug or a belly rub) and labeled a "Bitch" as our "friends" complain...
Want to avoid my "friends" (guys) but he always stays out with them.
I've heard everything he has to say...
I want to start over or make better of our relationship before our child is born...
I don't want money to spend, I want a home (or apartment) and a smile in the morning, I want a happy life...
Am I asking for too much?
"Am I asking for too much?"
Nope. Not really. He should be paying more attention to you, if what you say is true.
01. you lost your money and can't afford her any more
02. some1 else has more money
03. something about money..
04. she's bored
First 5 could be summed up with 1.
11. You play love plus
Huh, I thought I was reading men's list. But it appears to be for both genders.
interesting. hard to argue with this list.
Is it just me, or do 2 & 3 contradict themselves?
No, those are not the values of one single person, but a compilation of reasons.
10. You date them despite not actually liking them
anything for teh pussy
Why not go straight for a hooker?
Hookers have syphilis and stuff.
I'd say this is common sense more than anything else.
Sadly, common sense isn't all that common...
All I know in this sad world is that Taiga and Ryuuji are bond to be forever together (???)
9. You express your gratitude and favour to them ineptly
Depends on what kind it is and who considers it inept...
10. WHY ARE YOU EVEN GOING OUT THEN!???
Social obligation apparently. Some people feel pressured to find a SO.
lonelyness can be a bitch, though im always alone, im, and thank fucking christ for this, never lonely.
Sometimes the only thing worse than being with someone is being alone.
Being alone has peaceful moments, but otherwise sucks.
Not happen with 2D (even if 2D girl have these trait)
nowadays, all men need in girls is girls love them whole heartly (like 2D). (you rarely find any real love , all about moeny and girl treat boy like slave...)
but these words come from "Emperor of pervert" is strange right?
When I read something like this, I can't help but feel pity.
I think you're projecting when talking about money. You're the one who is too concerned with money.