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“1 In Every 200 Japanese Women Have Appeared in Porn”

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1 in every 200 Japanese women have appeared in an adult video, claim pornographers with an intimate knowledge of the industry’s vital statistics.

Amongst Japan’s AV industry the claim has been made that of an average Japanese school year of some 400 students, of the 200 girls at least one will turn out to be a porn star.

An industry insider supposedly explains that the figure is more than just delusional slander against Japan’s admittedly less than pristine womanfolk:

The number of AV titles produced annually, if we include online and underground videos, is said to be in the region of 35,000 titles.

Simple arithmetic suggests 100 videos a day are being released.

Since we see from 2,000 to 3,000 new AV girls making their debut each year, it’s said that 150,000 women have worked in the industry.

There are some 30 million women aged 19 to 55 in Japan, so the 150,000 performers give us the rough “1 in 200” figure.

Nobody can say for sure whether these numbers are correct, but adding to them the number of women involved in Japan’s enormous prostitution industry – whether formally in quasi-legal brothels or informally as “enjo kousai” harlots – rather suggests that it is at least not implausible to think that a great many Japanese women have such experience.

Online this is treated as old hat, not least with AV performers long since turning up in the most unexpected places, though it evidently also serves as a welcome outlet for venting all the pent up misogyny a lifetime without female company apparently engenders:

“We knew.”

“Wherever you work, play or study, if you look hard enough through enough AVs, you will find an AV of one of the girls – how wonderful.”

“I once picked up a girl who casually admitted appearing in one… it was good as she proceeded to do for me the same things as in the AV!”

“My favourite performer changed her name 5 times though…”

“Japanese girls are easy. Virtually all of them could be AV girls.”

“Why up to 55? Surely it should be up to 30, in which case the proportion is rather higher…”

“And the industry is totally centred on Tokyo, so it should be closer to 1 in 50 there, and much less elsewhere.”

“There’s no real basis for the statistics they give in any case.”

“90% of them come from the sex trade. There are clearly enough of them to give rise to the 150,000 AV girls figure.”

“DMM have 180,000 titles. They’ve been around 10 years, so that is 18,000 a year.”

“Non-virgins are disgusting sluts.”

“I’m embarrassed to be Japanese.”

“I think it is more like 2 in every 400.”

“That’s if you count rank amateurs with only one appearance. But I expect 1 in 3 have experience of prositution though…”

“AV is prostitution, you’re taking money to have sex with men after all. Include prostitutes and sluts and you probably get most women.”

“It’s all those filthy Korean sluts.”

“Most of them are just Koreans!”

“It should be ‘1 in every 200 AV girls are Japanese’.”

“Are these people who bring Koreans into every single thread Koreans themselves or something? Give it a rest already.”

“The net right can’t decide whether it should be bashing women or bashing Korea so this is the result.”

“You guys just blame anything inconvenient on the Koreans…”

“Japanese women are the world’s worst bitches. They are worse at doing the chores than English women, more selfish than American women, more arrogant than French women, and as greedy as Korean or Chinese women. And their hobbies are bullying and killing their kids. Cockroaches have more sense of shame than Japanese women.”

“Stop bashing your fellow Japanese – this is all a plot by Korean agents!”

“This topic really set off the net-uyo, didn’t it?”

“Most only have 1 or 2 appearances, I’m sure. Only a tiny number will be professional AV performers.”

“Really, if you include prostitutes you should have 1 in 5 I think.”

“If 10% of Japanese are petty criminals and 1% serious felons, it’s hardly surprising to have 0.5% AV performers. And there are barely enough Koreans in Japan for anything but the vast majority of AV performers to be Japanese, idiots.”

“At 0.5% it is nothing to get worked up about.”

“It’s really worse than that. With Google, all of them are going to be preserved online for the rest of their lives, and beyond. There’s no way to avoid being found out now. What happens when they are wives and mothers…”

“These trashy and baseless articles will be translated and published overseas as part of a plot to ruin the image of Japan!”

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  • The simple truth is without a fathers discipline women will revert to their natural state, which is a whore. The problem with japan is women have all the power in the family and men work 90 hours and never see their kids. So naturally a young girl raised like that will not have a father figure, will not trust men or know how to relate to men, and so will think it’s rational to sell her youth, innocence and beauty for money in sex. ie whoredom

    Remember ‘marriage’ is a completely male institution. And women need to be raised to believe in it. Marriage doesn’t exist in the hunter gatherer world. Where serial monogomy and wholesale prostitution for food is the norm.

  • Anonymous says:

    No one wants to work in porn. Often times some women have to just to get by. It is a profession that you don’t need school or resources for and it pays well, But you need to be desperate to turn to that. This is more a reflection on the Japanese society and pressures placed on the youth, more than it is a reflection of the morals of Japanese women.

  • The real tragedy is the inequality in the access to sex.

    So much women are being fucked by a few lucky men, and the vast majority of us can only watch, and never touch the flesh, living the happiness of a bunch of lucky bastards.

    • You get to touch those women when the few “lucky bastards” are not willing to put up with them anymore.
      Which is why they try to criminalise older men-younger wmen relationships.
      The older women want a man to hang onto, and they can’t do that if the older men are after younger women.

  • “These trashy and baseless articles will be translated and published overseas as part of a plot to ruin the image of Japan!”

    Seriously? Wouldn’t have thought they’d be translated.
    He/She is wrong on one point though. Japan doesn’t have any reputation it could loose in the first place xD.

  • I don’t buy this bogus claim. They make the colossal “mistake” of assuming every new porn title features a brand new set of pornstars when everyone knows it’s the same girls over and over again.

    Japanese porn actors also do what Americans do—they give themselves 4 or 5 aliases, so the 2-3000 “new” pornstars a year is also inflated.

  • “Japanese women are the world’s worst bitches. They are worse at doing the chores than English women, more selfish than American women, more arrogant than French women, and as greedy as Korean or Chinese women. And their hobbies are bullying and killing their kids. Cockroaches have more sense of shame than Japanese women.”

    qft ftw

    Only problem is, I think this statement actually applies broadly to women and general. Womenz iz bitches and hoz, niggaz been saying this for how long?

  • I have to be honest here. I’ve taken a look into Japanese Porn plenty of times and I swear it barely arouses anything.

    I don’t care about Japanese Women who love showing their skin or Japanese Men whom can’t sexually please anything.

    All I need Japan to produce is more Doujins, more 2D goodness, and more artists to create my 2D goodness and Doujins!!!

  • oh i would love to read the comments from girls who have given their opinion on marriage and relationships in 20 or even less 10 years, when they enter that time of life when they feel lonely, and only share life with a bunch of cats, and are so downhill nobody likes them, unless they are lucky enogh to be rich. men on the other side wins with age, because young girls start hanging out for you, yes for money, but as it has been pointed out we no longer can expect anything different from that so who cares, enjoy your lolis my friends.

  • “The net right can’t decide whether it should be bashing women or bashing Korea so this is the result.”
    “You guys just blame anything inconvenient on the Koreans…”

    Can these be anymore true? Is this kind of news only posted in 2chan or something? Because it’s tiring to see people using scapegoats to get off topic.

  • Oh nanpa, you really aren’t a myth are you..

    If only the subway wasn’t just a sardine can that was almost always segregated females-males in reality and had willing girls “submitting to” chikans also..

    You can dream..

  • This may sound noob, but why are there so many av girls there??
    Is it due to their peers, society? money? sluttiness?
    what makes these girls do this?

    I hope someone can answer this intellectually…

  • To be honest, I can’t really say I can trust these statistics–it could be more than that. Think of the men that will marry these women someday, I truly feel sorry for them. And to the women who will marry those “men” someday… Life is so fucked for Japan.

      • sex goddesses?? In the future will become wives sexually frustrated, after getting laid with half world will settle for a guy who barely was to bed with 4 to 6 ??… that being optimistic.
        Sooner or later it will saturate … too many prostitutes less jobs 😛

        My opinion is: If you can’t find in your country … look in another …

        Passing of the 30 most of them won’t get employment in AV or husband rich, then the change of attitude or will live alone .. rest of life..

        • Or keep the attitude hidden until they get married then make the guy’s life a living hell and divorce him.
          With women 30 and up you have to be very careful: you are probably being lied to when she talks about “true love”.

    • At least in america its not widespread media. I mean in japan these AV stars appear in soap operas. If some one in america did this she would be critizided forever. How Kim K. has done it is beyond me, but I wish she fell of the face of the earth.

      • Probably because in Japan they don’t give a shit about a woman’s porno past as long as she can decently act?

        The Kardassians are famous because they’re rich enough (daughters of a famous attorney & step daughters of Bruce Jenner) to buy themselves onto a reality show and they’re just fappable enough for enough guys to jerk it to them. That’s why they have longevity. Take away their fappability and they don’t have anything. They can’t sing, act, hell they probably can’t even cook.

  • Or you can just say that almost all of them have or will eventually prostitute themselves.
    Pretty soon the Japanese guys won’t have to visit brothels anymore since Japan will be full of whores. Yay?

  • SLUTS WILL BE SLUTS NOT LONG AGO WE HAD THIS DISGUSTING PORN STAR READ A BOOK TO CHILDREN IT WAS ONE OF THE MOST SADIST THINGS YOU CAN EVER SEE CAN YOU IMAGINE HEY KIDS GROW UP LIKE ME AND HAVE 40 PLUS COCKS IN EVERY HOLE YOU CAN IMAGINE!

    • This is a profoundly stupid and retarded comment.

      If you walk past Sasha Grey on the street you don’t automatically smell porn star on her. The children don’t know she’s a porn star unless you tell them. Since they were kindergarten age it wouldn’t mean anything to them anyway. She’s just a pretty lady reading a book to them.

      Given a choice between having dinner with Sasha Grey or you, based on your comment and what it says about you, I’d go for Sasha.

      Is 40 cocks in every hole a particular fantasy of yours?

      • agreed. business is business, but everything else doesn’t have to be. i work for a frozen french fry plant, but i don’t go around telling everyone to eat at MacDonalds because we produce their french fries.

        also, i don’t think there’s room for 40 cocks in every hole. i’m not just talking abou the space on the inside, but where would all the dudes be positioned? it just doesn’t work.

  • “These trashy and baseless articles will be translated and published overseas as part of a plot to ruin the image of Japan!”

    Really?! Because I, a filthy gaijin, after reading this article, I got a strange and powerful urge to travel to Japan, but I can’t explain why…

  • Am i the only man who has nothing against prostitution?
    These same otaku that complain like this are the #1 customers of the porn companies and the fuzoku, but that’s not even the problem.
    i just don’t see what having sex for money has to do with the person, in a way it’s a form of jealousy, that you can get paid a disproportionate amount for lying on your back, but it’s just as legit as any other job, politicians are paid more for less.

        • Hey, some seiyuus are married, as we’ve discussed ad nausium. Among them are Belldandy’s Kikuko Inoue. How many lonely otakus do you think have fapped to Belldandy? How many lonely otakus do you think want to fuck Kikuko? Don’t you think Kikuko-sama probably knows this? (Probably.) Do you think it seriously disturbs her or her husband?

          Of course not. They would just know it’s part of the job, and as long as someone doesn’t try to get TOO close, there’s no harm done. So if I were dating a girl who appeared in a porno, I would just know it’s just a job for her. Hell, I’d be pretty grateful, IYKWIM. 😉

    • I’ve long thought of many Japanese women as sluts. The ones that travel particularly don’t mind having one night stands with local hunks as long as they play the words right. You’ll know this if you worked at hotels and resorts in tropical countries, lol.

      Not really saying they’re second rate human beings though. Just more sexually liberated. If I can be sure they don’t have STDs, even I wouldn’t resist.

  • pfft, the world is filled with “whores” its the oldest profession and as long as dudes and chicks get horny there’ll always be prostitution, they can talk about the sanctity of their virginity for as long as they want but time changes all. they’ll mature someday and crave that pussy or dick. thats why so many teachers rape so many students annaully cause they missed out in their youth and are playing catch up. go out meet a girl or heck pay for one if you’re so inclined and these stats become meaningless. everybody likes to fuck just gotta find what turns u on and your left or right hand ( or feet )will not suffice for your entire life.

    • I found out what turns me most on in the age of 11 and after 9 years I have not even had regular sex. But that’s what you get for living in the middle of nowhere and being nobody. Girls want their bf to have some status, I have nada because I’m a loner and don’t seek the acceptance of others.

      • Women use nice guys when they cannot attract bad boys anymore.
        Of course, nobody is saying you should get married to such an opportunistic woman.
        Have fun then send her along; she would do the same to you if you got married to her.

      • Look man, what you need to do is turn your life around. Exactly what the other guy said, if you don’t care about people accepting you, they really aren’t going to.

        Build your confidence by doing something that is important to everyone. Plenty of assholes do volunteer work, go skateboarding, play sports, or play guitar so they can look good in front of the ladies and get some pussy. But you should take the high road and get an education and/or a good job that pays well. Women respond to a wild sense of entitlement or accomplishment. You should do something to become accomplished.

  • sir/ma’am,

    you do realize that an AV actress will not just appear in a single clip in year, right? If you take an IV actresses, they usually have a new film every 3 months, so that is about 4 films a year. In the case of AVs, I won’t be surprise to find that each actress will have more then 6 films a year (with her being the only woman in the film… unless it is a lesbian film!).

    As for internet clips….. those site usually have the very same bloody woman in every other clip. If the site have 2000 clips, it doesn’t mean that they have 2000 individual ladies. It mean that at most they have 100 different ladies uploading/working there.

    And now… add the fact that many AV actress have the habit of changing their names every once in a while (don’t know why?).

    Sorry sir/ma’am… you are wrong!

  • I like how an industry insider can just can blantantly say this and not get fired, or make the whole company go down since Japan is cracking down on hentai, anime, manga,prostitution, and all the other lovely ways to keep people from making/finding love.

      • You may not understand since you’re a virgin, but picture the following scene: you just purchased an expensive dick sleeve, suddenly, without you knowing, some other dude with a dick more impressive than yours starts screwing it. Then he gives it a quick rinse and passes it over to his friends who also use it without giving a shit that it’s not theirs. This repeats a couple times each month, now tell me, would you still stick your dick in that sleeve after at least eleven guys used it for extended periods of time? I sure wouldn’t.

        Of course, this doesn’t take feelings into consideration, but even then, a bunch of men have sex with your wife for cash and then what, does it sound exciting to kiss the mouth that just swallowed 10 loads? Or to have sex with someone who fucks strangers for a bit of money? What about having kids, imagine you have a son and one of his classmates finds AV with his mother. Life fucking ruined, especially since tweeter, facebook and all other shit exists.

    • They are only attacking the women because the men attack themselves. Men in porn are generally hideous fuckers who won’t shut the fuck up and whose only value is having a huge cock. Unless you are talking about Japanese porn in which the men are ugly and have tiny cocks and no value at all.

      I’d watch a hell of a lot more porn if the men were actually attractive.

  • my mom did some porno videos. so have both my sisters, if you count webcams and photos. i love showing off my body and my skills and see nothing wrong with it. i serve privately now and love it.

  • Listen, I may find it pretty offputting that 0.5% of women in Japan may have been involved in shooting an adult video, but that’s nothing compared to how disgusted I am at the ridiculously high rates of STDs in the US. I don’t know what the figures are in other countries, but if you tell me that 1 in 4 teenage girls have an STD in the US, then I’m inclined to believe 25-50% have been whoring it up, teenagers and young adults alike.

    I’ll take a JAV girl over the ones I don’t even know who they been fucking.

      • A woman that has a higher STD rate than Caucasian females and is 4 times more likely to have STD’s than Asian males.

        According to Professor Hyeouk Chris Hahm at Boston University from Boston University website from search engine :

        Asian American women had a higher prevalence of STDs than White women in both 1995 (10.4% vs. 7.7) and 2001 (13.5% vs. 8.3%). The incidence of STDs (not diagnosed with STDs in 1995, but developed STIs in 2001) among Asian American women was also higher than that of White women.”

        Moreover, the power dynamic between genders became immediately clear. Asian American women were four times more likely to have a STD than their male counterparts. This was shocking, said Hahm, It was so much higher than the males.

      • Outwardly sexually conservative, inwardly sex obsessed. America simultaneously raises a big to-do over anything sexual that occurs out of context (celebrity/politician affairs, “wardrobe malfunctions”, child porn) while casually being oversexed in other areas (advertisements, women who sleep with three and four guys every week, obsessing over when teen actresses or pop stars turn 18). The empowered feminist cracks down harder and harder on men who make unwanted advances, while at the same time finding more and more ways to be provocative.

  • 1 in 200 sounds like an acceptable estimate given the imprecision of that data. Porn money (and prostitution money to some extent) is easy money, so it’s not surprising.

    It’s not like 1 in 200 medium-high class housewives are there, but if the national average is taken, there are plenty of people who struggle daily to have food on the table. So if the woman is marginally attractive, porn is a pretty good idea.

  • Well half of Japanese women only really want you if you have money and can take care of them..probably more than half. And the few good ones out there get bypassed by all the men who prefer 2D, usually because they do not know how to handle women. With these two factors I could see how so many could end up in porn.

    Plus alot of women these days are lazy in general rather just try n look pretty and find someone to take care of them. Which is pretty much domesticated prostitution. So if you combine those with industrial prostitutes the number is more like 9 out of 10 worldwide. Don’t wana work or study and love sex sooo yeaahh…Sorry ladies. Theres a reason the porn industry is booming and has been unaffected by the economic crisis, in fact probably made a lot more gains.

    Personally I’ve always tried to support 3d girls over 2d but honestly…I’m starting to reconsider.

    If there are any girls reading this please I invite you to plz prove me wrong. I’m losing hope. Can any girls out there explain why guys should continue getting girlfriends and wives? Girls don’t expect commitment before sex anymore like in the old days. Plus with alot more sex workers out there sex is covered. And girls don’t cook and clean anymore and if you expect them to you are sexist. Most don’t want to work so if the man does and the woman “takes care of the house” as they say, they will really just end up finding someone to F on the internet or screwing the milkman because they feel ‘lonley’ and husband not giving them attention they need anymore n blah blah. So why are girls needed in relationships anymore?? Companionship? hmm maybe but most aren’t good at that these days either and expect you to say everything and hold up all the conversations and you be the one to entertain them..Plus if I want to hold hands and cuddle or whatever I can do that with a friend.

    Just hard to see how women are much good anymore.. So not surprising more are going into porn now a’ days. Meh Oh well back to my precious 2d.

    • The girls you’re looking for are probably too busy working and enjoying their lives to give a shit about websites like Sankaku, let alone it’s commenter.

      Thoguh I run a business, my girlfriend has a successful career (refuses to quit, actually), and my mom is still working. And what about single parents? Being someone’s girlfriend, wife or mom doesn’t mean they quit their jobs instantly.

      If they suck the money out of your pockets, it’s because you let them. You hate that they do, but don’t want to have to deal with the drama and pleading, or worse, she can leave you. No more getting laid for free! So you go to a sausage fest like Sankaku to whine.

      I say stop being a pussy, slap that bitch straight or kick her out of the house. Simple. Manly.

      • The guy who can get away with slapping a woman without a charge … is a guy she is terrified of losing.
        A woman can only take disrespect from a man she doesn’t want to lose.
        Every other guy is going to get told that he has no right to have a different opinion.

    • My question is, why do so many men think women care if they are into 2D? o__0 Most women can get sex any time we want. Why should we care if you are into fapping to cartoons? And besides, anime has enough 2D men and women for everyone to like 2D. =D

    • Why should women want boyfriends or husbands?

      Men have been obsolete for a long time now. They are good for sex, but only if they have a nice cock and if they know how to use it, which so few do.

      Getting married these days is pretty stupid. Men who are married expect you to be a maid and are really only in it for regular sex without wanting to meet any of your needs, so why tie yourself to one guy? Men are too selfish and geared towards their own needs to know what love is.

      I don’t understand why anyone ties themselves down these days. Get out, have fun, stop complaining.

    • “Well half of Japanese women only really want you if you have money and can take care of them..probably more than half. And the few good ones out there get bypassed by all the men who prefer 2D, usually because they do not know how to handle women. With these two factors I could see how so many could end up in porn.”

      Your first mistake here is thinking that porn has anything to do with men. Women don’t go into porn because some men like 2D. Men like to think it’s all about them, but it isn’t. Most women aren’t threatened by 2D or porn and couldn’t care less. Men like to think women care, because they want to think themselves important enough for women to worry about what they are doing. But the reality is, women don’t care about what you want to “replace” them with.

      Why? Because this has all played out through history already. The sex trade has been around for centuries. And men seem proud of themselves for finally discovering onnaholes and 2D, but 2D and other idealized men are just as popular for women AND women have had sex toys for decades. Women have known for centuries that it’s retarded for men to feel threatened by plastic dildos, so no woman in her right mind will give two shits if you have an onnahole and masturbate to a picture.

      Some women go into sex for the easy money, and some do it to feel sexy (not to men, but for herself), and some do it because they want sex. Rarely is a woman going to give a shit what men want when she enters the sex industry. Counter-intuitive, but true.

      Next, you have to understand the minds of a lot of women these days. Most of us get hit on from an early age and learn that men will do anything for a pretty face. Not all of us USE this, but we know it’s true. You can’t stop men from doing this and it will never end. So the result is that, until men actually decide to value women for more than looks and be more picky about which women they give time and attention to, you’re going to have gold-diggers and shallow women who don’t put much work into relationships.

      But again, this isn’t going to happen. Most men won’t turn down the chance to have sex with an attractive girl no matter what she is like. The men get five minutes of feeling like a badass afterwards and the girl has already shrugged it off and forgotten about him. She gets what she wants and moves on. But she also has the further validation that all she has to do is be attractive enough and she can get what she wants out of guys AND she can fuck any time she wants.

      So basically, men not being picky enough is what leads to so many lazy, shallow women. These men only constantly reinforce bad behavior for young girls, and then they grow into shallow women.

      • Not just that lady bane. The media has a bad influence too. Most shoujo and josei manga I read and focused on romance pictures the perfect guy has a rich, beutiful man. Nd if he is flawed the main heroen ignores that since he i rich and pretty and sparckles in the sunlight like a certain bloodsucker.

      • Thank you for disagreeing with me in a logical reasonable way.

        Two points I’ll make, one I will admit it is my belief that maybe 8 times out of 10 if a girl gets a really good guy to love and care for her she will avoid getting involved in the sex industry. So what I was saying with 2d is men seem to be becoming less interested in pursuing a serious relationship with women and go off to these other sources because girls today do not seem to be worth the work. I know women get hit on all the time but getting hit on a lot isn’t the same as finding a good guy who’s interested in you and so because there is less of that women also are finding alternative sources for sex and money which is why you get articles like this one. It seems a woman will just become a slut to have an easier life rather than work hard like a man would which sounds terrible I know but the reality is the numbers support the theory.

        2nd point is you’re blaming the slutty shallow behavior of women on men. You said women don’t care about what men think or what you replace them with, women aren’t threatened by what men are interested in and like the other girls who have replied you made very very strong case about how women don’t care, don’t care, don’t care.

        How can you say women don’t care, and then blame everything on men? If women really don’t care what men think how then does the thoughts of men cause women to become goldiggers, lazy, and shallow and reinforce bad behavior? How can you say its a mans fault women begin to think like this when you said women don’t care what men think? And if it’s a mans fault women become like this then men truly are the leaders of women so you all should try and convince men to get girlfriends and wives because according to lady bane if you don’t, how men think and reinforce you can drastically decide your future on whether you becomes a shallow lazy goldiggin slut or not.

        • Lady Bane to say that I make no sense saying women won’t usually go into porn if there are good men is completely discrediting a perfectly logical point. Whist at the same time contradicting your own points for the second time.

          You said “I’m saying they go into porn for themselves and that men do not factor into the equation at all.”

          (first of all thats an absolutist theory that can’t possibly make sense because you can’t possibly say that about every case. Seems more feminist than anything else.)

          and then you said..

          “But if men want to see a rise of women who aren’t [sluts], they need to stop giving all their time and attention to women who are.”

          I hope that this time you can see the direct contradiction in your own point. If a womans decision to go into porn has nothing to do with men, then why would a man giving his attention to those types of girl then lead to a rise in that type of behavior.

          And I won’t respond to your personal attacks against me. Its silly.

        • Your first argument was that women will go into porn if there are no good men around. I’m saying that makes no sense. A woman who wants to do porn will do porn regardless of having a man or not having a man. Your argument was that the lack of men is what makes women go into porn. I’m saying they go into porn for themselves and that men do not factor into the equation at all.

          And you’re latching onto this “blaming men” thing which is skewing the argument. If a woman is slutty, that is her choice. But if men want to see a rise of women who aren’t, they need to stop giving all their time and attention to women who are. Men don’t lead women, but adults lead children. And young girls growing up seeing the interaction of the adults around them.

          I can see from your response that the problem appears to be your insecurity of a perceived inferiority. You’ve turned the whole issue into a men vs. women thing and made some sexist assumptions. Why make comments like that unless you had some unresolved sexism which may be what is getting in the way of girls liking you?

    • LOL, you’re a real piece of work.

      Here, I’ll do this:

      Why are guys needed anymore? Most of them are lazy bastards, especially if they’re into gaming and anime. The ones that aren’t generally drink themselves to death every night, and don’t tell me they’re not out cheating on their girlfriends or wives when they go to the bar more often than they’re home or at work. Even before commitment, they want sex. One night stands are everywhere, commonplace. Wake up in the morning, and they’re gone. Or they give out a number and then they only want to answer when sex is involved, otherwise they don’t want a relationship at all. No feelings or emotions, it’s all just physical. I may as well just play eroge, at least 2D doesn’t leave me.

      • Look for someone who is active or hardworking, who doesn’t drink to get drunk, and who doesn’t frequent shady places. Simple.

        If he wants a one night stand or sex before commitment and you don’t, part ways. Don’t sleep with guys like this and you won’t have to worry about them not being there in the morning.

        All of these worries can be lifted by making good choices.

        • All I did was turn it around on him to make a sarcastic reply back, hence my opening sentence.

          I’ve been happily in a relationship for quite some time now and am engaged to someone wonderful. We both work, we both contribute, and we’re both head over heels for each other.

    • “If there are any girls reading this please I invite you to plz prove me wrong.”

      Why? Who cares? Why should we give a damn?

      “I’m losing hope. Can any girls out there explain why guys should continue getting girlfriends and wives?”

      Why should we explain to you why you should want something?

      “Girls don’t expect commitment before sex anymore like in the old days.”

      Some girls just like sex without commitment. Dick size and looks matter if you’re just having sex with a guy. Why work for a commitment? And even if a woman does want a commitment before sex, most guys just whine and bitch that she’s not meeting his needs.

      “Plus with alot more sex workers out there sex is covered.”

      You act like this is a new thing. You’re several centuries behind.

      “And girls don’t cook and clean anymore and if you expect them to you are sexist.”

      It is sexist. You live there too, so you help. Having a penis doesn’t exclude you from cooking and cleaning. And why the fuck should you get to find a career you like while the woman is stuck at home doing boring domestic shit that barely anyone likes. Men just like to romanticize the housewife because they are too lazy to do any chores.

      “Most don’t want to work so if the man does and the woman “takes care of the house” as they say, they will really just end up finding someone to F on the internet or screwing the milkman because they feel ‘lonley’ and husband not giving them attention they need anymore n blah blah.”

      If you are stupid enough to have a housewife when you don’t have any children then that’s your own fault. If there are no kids to take care of, she needs to have a job and bring in a second income. Oh wait, you don’t want to do any chores and if she has a job then you’ll have to help out, and you don’t want that do you? And if you don’t pay attention to her then what did you think was going to happen? Women get hit on all the time. If you don’t work hard to keep her she’ll easily find someone else and drop you. Most women won’t say it, but it’s true.

      “So why are girls needed in relationships anymore??”

      Again, why should we have to convince you about what you want? If you’re too stupid to make up your own mind about what you want then you aren’t mature enough for a relationship.

      “Companionship? hmm maybe but most aren’t good at that these days either and expect you to say everything and hold up all the conversations and you be the one to entertain them.”

      It’s the way of the animal kingdom. Men do the mating dance, women decided whether or not she wants to mate. If you’re dumb enough to stay with a girl who can’t hold a conversation then you have no right to bitch about it.

      “Plus if I want to hold hands and cuddle or whatever I can do that with a friend”

      LOL. Okay.

      “Just hard to see how women are much good anymore.. So not surprising more are going into porn now a’ days. Meh Oh well back to my precious 2d.”

      Yes, please keep your 2D. Women won’t miss you, trust me.

      • Girls won’t explain what they want to a guy for only 3 reasons:
        1. They don’t know;
        2. They are embarrassed by it;
        3. They want the guy to be a fallback for them later in life, which is not possible if another woman is attracted to him because a girl gave him good advice previously.

      • I’m not phased by these comments, so I’d be happy to give you some rational answers. When it comes down to the points made, I think they are fair, but in some cases misguided.

        “Why? Who cares? Why should we give a damn? Why should we explain to you why you should want something?”

        You shouldn’t have to explain why one man in particular wants something. Often when guys ask these questions they just want assurance that the bad things they’ve heard really aren’t the norm.

        “Some girls just like sex without commitment. Dick size and looks matter if you’re just having sex with a guy. Why work for a commitment? And even if a woman does want a commitment before sex, most guys just whine and bitch that she’s not meeting his needs.”

        Some people do like casual sex, and that’s fine if they want to do it that way. But to discredit commitment altogether is wrong. Some people do want a commitment, and yes it takes work, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t worth it. If a guy complains that you aren’t meeting his needs if you don’t have sex with him early on, then he’s probably not looking for a commitment. Despite how guys talk, there are many, myself included, who refuse to have casual encounters. Not all people are wired the same.

        “You act like this is a new thing. You’re several centuries behind.”

        Same old nonsense, new technology. That much is true.

        “It is sexist. You live there too, so you help. Having a penis doesn’t exclude you from cooking and cleaning. And why the fuck should you get to find a career you like while the woman is stuck at home doing boring domestic shit that barely anyone likes. Men just like to romanticize the housewife because they are too lazy to do any chores.”

        I don’t think many men these days would argue that chores should be shared. Especially in countries like the USA where so many households run on two incomes. But if you happen to be in the situation where you don’t work, then you should be taking care of the home. I would personally prefer that the person I was with worked to help with the income and to show that she had goals that didn’t just include getting married.

        “If you are stupid enough to have a housewife when you don’t have any children then that’s your own fault. If there are no kids to take care of, she needs to have a job and bring in a second income. Oh wait, you don’t want to do any chores and if she has a job then you’ll have to help out, and you don’t want that do you? And if you don’t pay attention to her then what did you think was going to happen? Women get hit on all the time. If you don’t work hard to keep her she’ll easily find someone else and drop you. Most women won’t say it, but it’s true.”

        I don’t understand why someone would get into a relationship and not pay attention to their partner. But this sort of thing would probably be present before they got married, so it should have been addressed then. Cheating is never the answer. Work on your relationship or leave it. Don’t violate it.

        “Again, why should we have to convince you about what you want? If you’re too stupid to make up your own mind about what you want then you aren’t mature enough for a relationship.”

        I can agree with this.

        “It’s the way of the animal kingdom. Men do the mating dance, women decided whether or not she wants to mate. If you’re dumb enough to stay with a girl who can’t hold a conversation then you have no right to bitch about it.”

        If women do the choosing, women should be making better choices in men. I have no issues with women being picky if the items on her list are about good character and not shallow itemized qualities like his car and his wallet.

        • I agree with all that you said except of course when you said ‘I can agree with this’ XD but thats only because my point had nothing to do with her question. But anyway thank you for rational thought-out unemotional perspective. Wish others will learn from your example. We can disagree without acting like idiots. Sadly no one will vote you up unless you disagree with me and call me a name XD

      • All you really did was make a long angry reply telling how much you DON’T care…which is..a little odd. And basically agree with me that women are sluts and worthless not in defense of them at all.

        So yea..well thanks anyway for clearin’ that up. Guess you’re saying I’m right so ok. Oh well.

        • Making the discussion about me is not veiling the fact you have no counter-points.
          anon 6 Like I said, insulting me because you can’t think of any point to make a good argument with is a fail strategy. What a random anon over the internet thinks of me is meaningless and not worth me bothering to fight back. You say I’m a pussy, ok I’m a pussy. Now that that’s settled think of something smart to say, if you can. try again.

          Thx.

        • Taylor stop.

          It’s typical to try to dismiss everyone because you can’t handle the fact that they are pointing out your flaws. If you had just calmly and rationally refuted the points made instead of making defensive, sexist, or belittling comments, then maybe this discussion might have gone somewhere.

          I’m almost positive that there were some good girls here who wanted to comment, but when they saw how you viewed women, they decided not to take part. I don’t blame them, but it’s too bad, because I would have loved to see some positive comments.

        • Just the fact that so many of you are just assuming I have trouble with women make it hard for me to take your opinions seriously. Never in any post that I’ve made did I mention personally having any trouble dealing with women or making them like me. With my amount of insight whether you think its misdirected or not it would make much more sense for you to assume I didn’t have trouble making girls like me at all. That’s not my problem believe me. Being able to see things the way I see them should automatically suggest to you that I know how to talk and easily deal with women when I feel like it as a simple process. I know how to say the right things people will like, I know how to make comments that’ll get voted up and get voted down. People are simpletons and easy to figure out. But instead it just seems like some sort of defense mechanism to make you feel better about yourself to say I can’t get girls to like me. Its so far from the truth that if thats your assessment of me its hard for me to possibly take anything else you say seriously when you can be so off on just that..and also when my comment had nothing to do with me personally, but alright. Anyway I’m pretty much done with with topic. I know its easier to just rant at me over thinking of something smart to say but still you shouldn’t give up so easily. It doesn’t seem like anyone has the ability to actually say something intelligent enough to attack the issues and argument and instead are just making it about me and attacking me personally instead of the views. Which also I originally left up to negotiation not assuming I was right or wrong. But if all you can do it tell me how im wrong and resort to petty insults because you can’t think of anything substantive to actually say to the issue then theres no point in me continuing. Reply to me if you have something of worth to say about the issues I’m not offended by anything personally any of you have to say about me which is why I didn’t even bother to retalitate and attack you personally in return. Probably makes more sense for me to just assume my comments offended you because you knew they were true but couldn’t produce a counter point so resorted to personal attacks and voting down instead. Well whatever makes you feel better about yourselves I guess. Really wish I could have gotten some intellectuals to reply, but hey this is SanCom what am I really expecting XD

        • Taylor, everyone is skirting around it, but, you’re a pussy.

          You’re not a man. You sat here blubbering like a bitch and then blubbering when people didn’t tell you what you wanted to hear.

          But give up, because you’re a pussy. You’ll never find a good woman, because you don’t have a masculine bone in your body.

          A man doesn’t sit there crying about women he shouldn’t even be giving the time of day to. A man can handle a disagreement with logic and not playground insults. A man doesn’t make excuses and try to blame others for his bitchy behavior. A real man doesn’t have to put women down with his grand-daddies mindset to make himself feel better.

          The worst thing of all is that you’re whining about bitches you shouldn’t give a shit about. Gold-diggers and sluts? Fuck ’em. Who gives a shit? Why are you worried? You don’t want them anyway.

        • As I said in a previous post, your views are sexist towards women, otherwise your snide remarks wouldn’t have even come into the equation. The problem isn’t women, it’s your outlook.

          If women subconsciously see how sexist you are, how you don’t respect them, and how you think men are superior to them, naturally they will want nothing to do with you.

          Your reply at 20:49 is laced with blaming, shaming, illogical statements, and sexist remarks. It shouldn’t take a genius to tell you women would be put off by that.

        • Taylor, your entire post was butthurt and emotional. That’s why I’m saying you need to resolve your issues before you can find a good woman.

          You can’t expect to write out a butthurt, whiny, woe-is-me post and then accuse people of having an emotional response. Also, many of them did give rational answers, but because they weren’t what you wanted to hear, you disregarded them and dismissed them as overemotional, which shows your own sexism.

          Your post doesn’t make men look like leaders and thinkers. In fact you make men look whiny, overemotional, and quite frankly it’s embarrassing. And the fact that you then layered these excuses on top of it makes it a million times worse.

          Man up, shut up, and seek to improve yourself to better women come.

        • I partially agree with both responses, but in no part of the anon’s response does it say anything about women being sluts or worthless. You came to that conclusion on your own based on your own hang-ups. You can’t expect to have a good relationship until you resolve that.

        • If you’re the type of guy to just complain, and if you can’t come to your own conclusions about relationships, then you shouldn’t be in one. Otherwise you’re just forcing yourself into one for poor reasons.

          That’s why no one can convince you to be in one. Hope that makes sense.

        • The problem is no girls are even attempting to explain with rational well thought out responses to the statement. They’re all just seeming to respond in butthurt emotional ways which beckons to support the age old sexiest theory that women are incapable of logical thinking and can’t see passed their emotions. Which is why no one wants them in politial office or in positions of power. “Why should we girls care what men think we can have sex all we want anyway!” How is that making you look any better? It Seems to be the only theme girls are responding with then voting up each other. Guess its better to just have this debate with men.

          It is not complaining and of course from original post I can draw my own conclusions. I just don’t like to assume I’m right all the time so I opened the invitation for a female reply which looks like it was a mistake. Oh well at least I tried, I guess men make better leaders and thinkers afterall.

    • “If there are any girls reading this please I invite you to plz prove me wrong. I’m losing hope. Can any girls out there explain why guys should continue getting girlfriends and wives?”

      Why should we care or try to convince you otherwise? I love when whiny guys think girls are missing out if they take themselves off the market.

  • >“Japanese women are the world’s worst bitches.

    There is a whole lot of competition for that title.

    >They are worse at doing the chores than English women,

    Not the Cockney girls I used to know!

    >more selfish than American women,

    Maybe, maybe not.

    > more arrogant than French women,

    I doubt it.

    > and as greedy as Korean or Chinese women.

    True.