Aya Hirano: “Stop Sending Me Pics of Your Penises, Freaks!”

Nice attempt at shaming tactics, but that's reality. There was nothing false about that statement.

Most girls just don't care about penises. While many men can get turned on by disembodied female body parts, most women just don't operate in the same way.

It's important to note that most men get their information about women from other men, and it's often wrong. And then when someone posts something correcting them to what is correct, they usually use shaming tactics or try to argue the point, which is ridiculous, as they are not and will never be women.

@7:02

I don't care about your relationship with penises. I was talking about your attitude. I do find it amusing that you didn't even recognize that. Men won't normally treat women as sex objects unless you treat us as sub-human as you seem to. Think about it for a moment. What use are you to men if you've already proven your personality toward us is like sandpaper? If you were interesting, you'd be interesting to us.

Women love to claim men are simple or stupid, and yet there are two people in relationships that don't work. If you're not interesting or prove you hate us, then we'll find a way not to waste our time by looking at your chest, otherwise, why be around you? It's so popular to blame men for everything wrong in a relationship, when most women honestly don't know what the hell they're talking about when it comes to how men think either. You SHOULD be ashamed if your relationship to men in general is 'a useless creature with a penis,' because you're treating men exactly as you just seemed to claim men treat women: like sex objects. You're being a hypocrite.

I'm 7:02, but I'm not 3:39. I made an earlier comment closer to the top about how women generally don't find interest in penises in and of themselves. I find it hilarious that you took two completely anonymous comments and seemed to think without a shadow of a doubt that it was the same person.

And as we're not the same person, your entire comment had nothing to do with mine. In fact you seem to bring up a lot of issues that point to the chip on your shoulder, instead of anything that had to do with my post.

Not once did I claim that men were sub-human, simple, stupid, useless, or sex objects. Nor did I ever imply anything close. I also said nothing about relationships or where women get their information about men. And so your catalog of shaming tactics is rendered useless simply by being completely irrelevant to the topic.

All I pointed out was that men can easily get aroused by female body parts (pictures of breasts, close-ups of vaginas, and so on,) while women generally need a larger picture and generally don't find penises on their own all that attractive. That's it. If you saw more in my post then it has much more to do with your own negativity and tendencies to force your issues into the topic in order to justify your beliefs.

@ 17:32

Very well, my mistake. Different person, similar styles of thinking I guess. And if you had read your own comment, I didn't have to read more into it. Referring to only those potentials that a penis could be attached to, and then you talk about me injecting my negativity? May have been toward a different comment, but the same level of hypocrisy. You didn't choose a single good word to describe the hypothetical man you were implying.

Anyway, both sexes take in the whole picture. The difference is in the perceptions. Men can assemble an image with imagination like women can, but they will do it for physical features in terms of mating, while women may do it for a personality for security. There is of course overlap in desires, and it also depends on the mindset. I'm sure a horny woman fantasizes about her desired body shape just like any man would. Seeing a picture of a woman's crotch can actually cause the imagination to assemble a body shape based on proportion whether we intend to or not. We are designed to mate, and as such you probably can't imagine how fast our minds can 'calculate' the female body. It baffles us pretty often as well, trust me.

Plus it's only teenagers and younger boys who are fascinated by pictures of random sex organs. We graduate from that preeetty fast...

@HouseLife

His/her statement was:
"Sure, when it comes to sex size matters, but who the hell cares if it's attached to some ugly/poor/fat/balding/boring/annoying/etc loser?"

What on earth do you have a problem with here? You're upset that women want smart/successful/kind/intelligent men? You'd rather that women fell for anything as long as his dick was big enough? That women should ignore good men if their package is below a certain size?

Either you didn't comprehend that statement properly, or you're arguing that women SHOULD be choosing men based on superficial qualities.

Either way, yes, you're coloring this entire conversation with your negativity and are STILL further proving that you're seeing things that aren't there.

When someone says to you "Who cares about a huge cock if the guy is a jerk" and you want to argue that point, I'd say you should get your priorities in order.