Japanese men asked what they consider the most bothersome conversations they find themselves engaged in with members of the opposite sex supply a ranking likely to resonate with men the world over…
1. She insists on telling you some drawn out old story
2. She’s checking whether you like her or not
3. Her attitude is that you should sympathise with her without her even telling you why
4. She fusses about everything being “kawaii”
5. She’s just jealous of her female friends for some reason
6. She’s become fixated on some anniversary or other
7. Her conversations have no conclusion, her stories no ending
8. She asks for advice with no interest in finding a solution
9. She jumps to conclusions
10. She won’t say what she wants to eat
All of these could probably be condensed to “she talks too much” – a harsh assessment if ever there were one.
I find this post and pretty much 90% percent of the comments to be horribly sexist. All I can hear is “lolol women talk too much about stupid s♥♥t. Women need to stfu.”
The first way to control any minority is by silencing them. Historically speaking, women have been told they “talk too much” because their opinions and viewpoints were (and still are) devalued. Men talk just as much about just as much stupid s♥♥t but you never see people complain about it. And yet when women speak it’s “bitching” and “nagging”…
I need to get off Sankaku, the rampant sexism here always makes me want to claw my eyes out ffff
hmmm let me try~~
1.She insists on telling you some drawn out old story
maybe sometimes
2. She’s checking whether you like her or not
no, and thats annoying
3. Her attitude is that you should sympathise with her without her even telling you why
not at all.and if i tell you my problem i still don’t expect you to sympathise.
4. She fusses about everything being “kawaii”
yeah all the time
5. She’s just jealous of her female friends for some reason
nope
6. She’s become fixated on some anniversary or other
i can’t even remember them most of time
7. Her conversations have no conclusion, her stories no ending
Sometimes when im hyper, if not im quiet most of time.
8. She asks for advice with no interest in finding a solution
no, i never ask for advise unless i really need it.
9. She jumps to conclusions
no
10. She won’t say what she wants to eat
im indecisive got a problem?!
Why would anyone do number 10? I don’t understand.
1.She insists on telling you some drawn out old story
I think this one is okay in some ways ( as long as it’s not repeated over and over or I’ll get mad )
2.She’s checking whether you like her or not
( If she truly likes me and I like her, she won’t even ask about that, and if it’s only checking : I will PROMPTLY say NOT )
3.Her attitude is that you should sympathise with her without her even telling you why
( THIS, I experience it firsthand, she asked me to symphatize with her BUT SHE DIDN’T TELL ME HER WHOLE STORY, AND I AM EXPECTED TO KNOW ABOUT HER.AM I A GOD to KNOW ALL HER STORIES of LIFE ???, if you want ME to KNOW about YOU, just TELL IT DAMN IT )
4.She fusses about everything being “kawaii”
( This, I think I can withstand, just praise or even just flatter her to shut her up )
5.She’s just jealous of her female friends for some reason
( Why should be jealous ? )
6.She’s become fixated on some anniversary or other
( Please remind me ! or I should use remainder 😀 )
7.Her conversations have no conclusion, her stories no ending
( Yes, just SHUT UR TRAP, bitch, or just ignore her )
8.She asks for advice with no interest in finding a solution
( This I often meet ones, Girls TEND TO JUST ASK ADVICE/QUESTIONS THAT SHE ACTUALLY ALREADY KNOWS THE ANSWER to TEST NOT to FIND the SOLUTION )
Solution : Ask her back about her opinion
9.She jumps to conclusions
( Not only girls, men do this too )
Solution : Investigate first and do first before jumping to conclusions
10.She won’t say what she wants to eat
( Just EAT IT DAMN IT )
What, so you can’t like girls who enjoy talking and having long conversations?
Yeah, enjoy your ideal, mute dolls guys. I think I’ll go after the ones that open their mouths once in a while.