Top 10 Cute Girly Mannerisms, Even If They Are Deliberate

The part of you that does not want to do physical things to her means either A) You don't find her that attractive compared to another girl, considering you're talking about a hypothetical 12-year-old to whom you can hypothetically deny sexual attraction, or B) You have programmed yourself as society wants to not want to approach her. But I simply chose 12 as an age for pubescence. Try 14 or 16. I personally have seen dozens of 14 and 16-year-old girls who are indistinguishable to 18 and 20 and even older.

The issue for that comes down to the fact that even if we are not attracted to the lack of wisdom or knowledge of a younger girl, we are attracted to lithe, healthy young bodies. There is no denying that. The unwritten rule these days has loosened more to 'look don't touch' rather than 'you even look and you're sick' among the general internet. I think it's a step in the right direction. Denying sexual attraction when it is there is actually exactly what causes sexuality to become overwhelming, and I believe also part of the larger issue.

The unfortunate reality is that if someone does crave something sexually, even pedophilia, they must admit it to themselves and find an outlet. If they deny it outright, it will merely come back stronger over time. They're trying to prevent their most basic driving force, and it will NOT work with just denial.

This is where I have to disagree with you HouseLife.

Someone disagreed with you and told you that they aren't attracted to twelve year old girls, even attractive ones. Then you started to tell him why he's mistaken and why any healthy man SHOULD be attracted to twelve year old girls.

In other words, you've left no room for consideration that maybe a great deal of men just aren't attracted to twelve year old girls, no matter how attractive.

In other words, you're so caught up in your argument that you've become hypocritical, trying to tell people what they do and don't actually like... just like the people you're so heavily against.

If someone is attracted to a sixteen year old who is indistinguishable from a twenty-two year old, then it follows that they are attracted to the traits of adult women, not young teens. :/ Why would you try to tell us what we're attracted to? You make it sound like we're abnormal if we don't like pubescent girls.

There is a difference. I guess I should have said not 'fake' girlishness. The Japanese fakeness I think has become embedded in the culture through generations. As an American, we grew up with individuality in our culture, so fakeness is among the greatest turn-offs ever for me.

The Japanese are so good at it however, for me it's actually a strange trick. You know they're fake, but you like seeing just how they do the fakeness. In JAVs for example, it's almost like watching triple-layer acting, like an actor acting like they're acting, yet doing it well. Almost like a sexual satire. It's hard to describe. I don't sit there and analyze it, it just occurred to me a few months ago as I watched one.

If you've ever been friends with or around a woman who is in touch with her 'inner little girl,' she has this very sensual aura around her. You find yourself acting like a little boy again around them naturally. In the sense of being more willing to be playful and foolish to the external observer.

And how adults basically act like little kids again during sex? As in being playful, giggling, having fun? That is our inner child. In many ways, sex and sexuality is very childish psychologically. If people can understand that connection, they wouldn't be so concerned about people attracted to younger people.

Most people who don't want to think about it usually just mindlessly accept "these people are all wrong and evil and should be thrown into a cage forever" without understanding where that thought process came from.