Japanese asked how they would try to get someone they have their eye on to ask them out offer up a list of tactics considered likely to elicit the desired advance.
The ranking (votes):
1. Increase the frequency of your mails (10581)
2. Try to appeal based on free time (5339)
3. Keep talking to them about their interests (4466)
4. Smile and touch them (3600)
5. Invite them to discuss something (1697)
6. “Body touch” (1479)
7. Other (1342)
8. Invite them to an event organised by your friend (1033)
9. Dress like them (316)
Sadly there is a fine line between a displaying a flattering interest in exchanging mails with someone and outright stalking or harassing them – although this is at least less risky than the “body touch” method.
Fortunately, with it mostly being women who are placed in this position, and presumably giving these answers, the chances of wandering hands causing offence seem much reduced.
lol dress like them omg im gonna wear maid outifts all the time lol
why oh why is it all about getting someone else to ask you out?! ASK THEM YOURSELVES!!
It’s what I do and I’m currently very happy with my boyfriend.
Why not just ask them out instead…?
Why don’t you just ask them out.
Desperation & Confidence are confusing things.
But if someone called me desperate.
I’d say, “Sure let me go find a Pro and pay her and you can watch us screw in front of you.”
That is desperate, but some might enjoy the experience.
HAHAAHAHAHAH
#4 is good
Lol #6″body touch” you better hope they like you or be damn slutty