Japanese asked to rank what they consider to be the likeliest signs a partner, male or female, might be acting unfaithfully yield up an unsurprisingly (for Japanese) mobile-phone centred set of signals to watch out for.
Signs a woman might be cheating:
1. Even when you’re together she’s mailing someone more and more…
2. She hides her phone or won’t let you look through it
3. The frequency of her communications has dropped off
4. She starts to lock her phone
5. Sometimes her explanations for things just don’t make sense…
6. She often refuses to hook up with you because she’s “playing around with friends”
7. She even takes her phone to the toilet with her
8. She starts getting a lot of overtime and begins drinking with a friends a lot more
9. She refuses to make eye contact more often
10. She suddenly has a business trip
Signs a man might be cheating:
1. Even when you’re together he’s mailing someone more and more…
2. He often refuses to hook up with you because he’s “playing around with friends”
3. The frequency of his communications has dropped off
4. Sometimes his explanations for things just don’t make sense…
5. He hides his phone or won’t let you look through it
6. He doesn’t converse or smile as much
7. He starts to lock his phone
8. He starts dressing more sharply for some reason
9. He starts getting a lot of overtime and begins drinking with a friends a lot more
10. He even takes his phone to the toilet with him
The rankings seem to show an especially pronounced preoccupation with mobile phones – apparently considered to be the number one tell.
Of course, for someone to notice their partner started locking their phone implies they were snooping to start with…
Thats right. If your partner isnt cheating on you then:
1. they dont mail anyone
2.they dont hide their phones
3.they talk to you constantly and just dont shut the hell up
4.they dont lock their phone
5.sometimes their explanation for things still dont make sense
6.they always want to be with you because they want to play around with you
7.they even take you to the toiled with them
8.they want to get drunk with you
9.they always stare at you
10.they take you on vacation trips
A man is only as faithful as his options. If he isn’t cheating, he doesn’t have many options.
Always remember anime goers. As cool as it looks in shows and manga to be hard ass and sad. Humans are by nature, supposed to be happy. If you aren’t smiling. It’s not normal. There is something wrong and seek help :3
No matter how you look at it. Unless the person you are with is just a f♥♥k buddy, there should be no reason to hide your phone from your partner. Unless you are very very insecure. Which even then isn’t an excuse. It just means you’re insecure and have s♥♥t to hide that for some reason you tell yourself; “No one but me can know this”
The lack of respecting privacy and individuality from that list somehow corresponds to the usual cultural belief I see most Asians follow. Seriously, no, keeping phone away from you is not a sign etc. God damn it, are all Asian culture surrounded by anti-individualistic values?!