“My Bride is a Prostitute, What Should I Do!?”

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A man who learned his prospective wife had secretly been working as a prostitute whilst he was dating her wonders whether he should dump her, or forgive her and continue the relationship.

The story begins with a 28-year-old man looking for advice – he has learnt that his 21-year-old university student girlfriend, with whom he had been contemplating marriage, had actually been working as a prostitute whilst dating him.

She apparently explained she “had intended to work at a maid cafe” but “ended up working in a brothel,” an easy mistake to make it seems.

His girlfriend offered a selection of excuses:

“I wanted the money.”

“My initial motivation was curiosity.”

“I had to turn it into a mechanical process to make it bearable.”

“I had too much free time and became lonely. It was fun talking to the other working girls.”

“I wanted to quit but I couldn’t as I heard they might expose me to my family. I was trying to think how to quit.”

Reportedly a significant number of Japanese students engage in prostitution ranging from “compensated dating” to traditional sex work – a situation apparently replicated in the nation’s schools.

In spite of the deception, the man doesn’t feel he can take the high ground:

To be honest, I have been to brothels many times myself. To think my girlfriend was doing that is harsh, but what can I say to her, as I’ve been to such places myself? I told her as much.

[…]

Part of me can’t trust her. I keep thinking ‘Can I expect to find happiness marrying a person who’d lie like this?’

Unsure as to what to do, the man took the obvious course of action and asked complete strangers on the Internet for their advice.

2ch has its say:

There’s no way you can love her, you idiot!

Impossible. Looking after this trash – give me a break.

Maybe as a sex slave.

Loving a cum-dumpster – what kind of fetish is this?

No. At best, sex friends.

She’s probably a psycho, give it a break.

If she’ll support you financially…

How can you love a sex machine?

If she’s a virgin…

I’d be a bit leery of marrying a girl who can put a condom on you with her mouth.

Whores are completely out. I wouldn’t even be friends with one.

If she’s hot and has no STDs…

Given the choice between a 20-year-old whore and a 30-year-old leftover, I’d take the whore.

There’s no point in asking all you creepy virgin-hunters anyway…

Would you drink from the gutter? That’s how it is.

All of the girls using online dating sites are earning on the side like that. Seriously.

If you handed me a cup which had just been filled with the semen of two of the lowest guys and told me “it’s OK, it’s been washed properly” I still don’t think I’d be drinking from that cup.

Remember – it’s almost certain her sense of money is totally messed up as a result of all this.

Girls as stupidly honest as this are a rarity. Most guys probably never find out what they married.

There’s a 100% chance of her cheating on you and I couldn’t think of her as a woman. You could use her as a ona-hole I guess.

Better than a woman in her thirties. All Japanese women are bitches anyway.

When I look at these brothel homepages and see these women putting that their dreams are to get married I am seriously disturbed.

Maybe their bodies are good, but most of these whores are cracked. Even if she’s just a sex friend she’s probably a psycho who’ll start calling you all the time.

I dated some of these girls. They were nice girls and earned more than I do, and paid for the date too. A bit sad really.

Depends on her motive. 90% just want the money to play around with anyway. No way.

Utterly impossible. Selling your body is the last resort. As if she tried everything before that.

Girls who think this is an OK way of making money have a major character defect. They’re sure to bring down those around them.

Would you fall in love with a toilet?

She sells her body to people. How can you possibly trust her?

I could love her if we shared interests, liked to talk, she had a nice body, was cute, could cook and was a nice person. But a girl like that wouldn’t become a prostitute, would she?

With porn stars and whores they’re all defective in some way – no morals or mental health issues.

Most of them are not OK in the head are they? The ones I went with really didn’t seem to know what I was saying even if they were hot.

First take her with you to a clinic.


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    Avatar of moebius22
    Comment by moebius22
    08:16 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    She should have told him from the beginning. Dump the bitch.

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    Comment by Ben
    15:39 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Yep, she fucked up. You'd imagine her work would have come up at some point and she probably dodged the topic.

    Comment by Anonymous
    08:32 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Well, if she can support herself and actually cares about you... then it should not be a problem.

    However, if he sticks with her, I wouldn't let her be a homemaker if you get the meaning of that... since boredom with that much experience is a bad combination...lol...

    Comment by Anonymous
    08:04 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I agree and laughed at many of those 2ch comments.

    As for would I, that depends on if my dick has been banging that raw or not and at what point in the relationship she admitted to being one.

    It's like porn and stripping, I could careless if some whore I was fucking did porn or stripped. I just do not want any whore diseases.

    If the bitch is honest, not a druggie and not bipolar, there's not much to complain about. Seriously, I've met some fucked up bitches.

    If the bitch can make you cum like Old Faithful and sucks dick like a pro, I'd say you've got a winner. Just make sure that you're pussy eating skills and lasting ability are up to snuff or she'll be fucking one of her friends 6 months from now.

    The best piece of advice I can give you is to follow your instincts and wear a jimmyhat, until the bitch tests clean. Remember, HPV takes 3-6 months before it is detectable in the blood stream. And HIV takes equally as long. After that, if she tests clean for HPV, PSV and HIV, rawdog that bitch til her thighs & knees hurt.

    Comment by Anonymous
    07:26 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    "Given the choice between a 20-year-old whore and a 30-year-old leftover, I’d take the whore."

    A dilemma indeed. I'd take the one with the lower
    (STD+wrinkles+diameter of vagina)/hotness ratio. If equal, then take younger whore.

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    Comment by Quack!
    07:52 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I would go by those principles, but my penis can't do mathematics, so I'll take the better looking one.

    Comment by Anonymous
    06:59 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Oh boy... Yet another 2ch "interview."

    They're really being trolled hard over there. Seriously! lol!

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    Comment by AJ12Gamer
    07:51 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    You can't make a wife out of a whore. -Senses Fail

    Comment by Anonymous
    08:01 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    What's with all the fucking whore hate? Seriously. She's human just like the rest of us. And this guy's a fucking dumb ass for letting something as simple as this give him second thoughts about marriage. If he wants to marry her, I can assume he's in love with her, right? Then why should something like this fucking matter? Plus, he has been to brothels too, so if there is anything wrong with either of those things, they are practically equally wrong. Also be cause of this, he's a hypocrite.

    I say DON'T marry her, because clearly, he doesn't actually love her. How can he love her enough to want to marry her if he thinks less of her just for being a prostitute? It's just a job involving sex, asshole. And if, to him, a decision like this is not an immediate, definite answer, he should have never even considered marriage. And since he's actually leaving decisions like these in the hands of 2chan, he's even more of a fucking idiot.

    Comment by Anonymous
    04:17 24/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Get out of here slut

    Avatar of Ben
    Comment by Ben
    05:16 25/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    U mad also?

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    Comment by Ben
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    Comment by Rei Fukai
    07:52 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    as always.... 2ch prove to be mostly a bunch of fags...

    Comment by Anonymous
    08:48 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    No fucking way can he marry this bitch! doing it before you date is messed up but what can you do, but doing it while they were dating.....no leaving the slut is the best thing for both.

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    Comment by motaku96
    08:54 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    If she had a history of prostitution but gave it up when they got together, I'd say stick with her. But if she was doing it while with him, don't trust her.

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    Comment by Tom Sewell
    10:33 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    First, have any of you looked at 都立水商! Toritsu Mizushō?

    Second, my first wife was a hooker. My current one is a lawyer. You be the judge.

    Comment by Anonymous
    10:44 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    You downgraded imo. I'd love to be a fly on the wall in the event (god forbid) you get a divorce.

    Comment by Anonymous
    10:44 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    you went from bad to worse ^_^

    Comment by Anonymous
    09:52 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    it's sad but that's what happens when the japanese women want to be housewives. No man in house so they seek other men.

    Avatar of Tom Sewell
    Comment by Tom Sewell
    11:05 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Maybe I should have left out the lawyer part. My point is that sex workers deserve just as much respect as any worker. Why is it that so often those fearless crusaders against the oldest profession turn out to be some of its best customers? Or making the most profits on it?

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    Comment by Ben
    15:45 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Respect sure, but it isn't a job you should have unless you're desperate or just don't give a shit (neither of which should apply in such a strong relationship as to be getting married).

    It's undoubtedly an ugly market though.

    Avatar of Tom Sewell
    Comment by Tom Sewell
    00:45 24/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    It is a tough job in many ways. I'm writing a fanfic touching on some of those ways. My first marriage failed because I failed to bring in enough money to support my family. Maybe if my ex had gone back to hooking we could have held it together.

    http://mostlymizushou.blogspot.com/ for more about that series I mentioned in the first post on this subject. 都立水商! Toritsu Mizushō is about a teacher in love with a former prostitute, at a high school that trains prostitutes.

    Avatar of Ben
    Comment by Ben
    05:14 25/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Fair enough, it's still a matter that should have come up though.

    Comment by Anonymous
    06:46 25/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Wow! THANK YOU!!! Thank you for bringing this great manga to my attention! The concept is irritating as hell at first (considering this is not an h-manga), but it's been pulled off so well... and the artwork <3
    I've been instantly hooked. Gonna import the tankoubons as soon as I have the spare cash.

    Comment by Anonymous
    09:49 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    You know, it's always much better to face these kinds of things with a sense of poise and rationality.

    Comment by Anonymous
    09:41 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    What he should do is continue writing the travails of having a prostitute fiance on 2-chan, and then later have it serialized as a manga/anime/live action story.

    Comment by Anonymous
    09:06 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    would someone please think of the children

    Avatar of Master Evil The Return!
    09:19 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    can we stop this shit ?

    Comment by Anonymous
    09:05 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    "My Bride is a Prostitute, What should I Do!?"

    Fuck her.

    Avatar of Master Evil The Return!
    09:18 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    WOW, this article is defiantly not for the ladies xD
    Ok were to start I understand, why he is worried but seriously this is a matter you handle by yourself, no one can give you the correct answer, they can give handy advice but at the end of the day you chose, THIS GUY IS A MORRON why you ask ? because your asking advice from idiots like 2ch.
    Now then "what happened in the past is in the past", all he should do is
    1)get both of them tested
    2) think over if he is truly mentality strong(which seems not so)
    3) IF he truly is strong enough to move on, marry her.

    simple as that

    now what is the difference with a girl who is a prostitute and a girl who has had many many many boyfriends or partners ?

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    Comment by Ben
    15:41 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    You spelled "moron" wrong...

    Comment by Anonymous
    06:42 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    They report you if you quit? That's blackmail and the prostitution should die for it.

    Comment by Anonymous
    06:51 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    You mean the prostitutors? But yeah, that sounds quite fishy to me. Even the Yakuza don't force their hookers. She's either in a rather dangerous situation and they should involve the police, or she's just trying to make up excuses.

    Comment by Anonymous
    04:34 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    2ch only want to date virgin girls who will serve them exclusively (and not question their authority).

    No wonder many of them turn to 2D.

    Comment by Anonymous
    05:17 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    so much butthurt

    Comment by Anonymous
    06:18 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    right, because anyone who wouldn't marry a whore is obviously a ronery virgin otaku destined to spend the rest of their life humping a pillow with a anime girl's picture on it.

    not that I'm disagreeing with you about 2ch but this statement is irrelevant to the situation.

    Comment by Anonymous
    08:07 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    That statement was from the article, retard. Simply put, other 2channers said that about 2channers.

    anons reply was the snarky comment about 2D characters. You should learn to read the article or start using those memory training games. Either way, you're an idiot.

    Comment by Anonymous
    14:27 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    butthurt much?

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    Comment by Ben
    04:33 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    "Loving a cum-dumpster – what kind of fetish is this?"

    Haha, only on the internet...

    Comment by Anonymous
    04:31 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    An hero. DO EET

    Comment by Anonymous
    04:31 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Would you believe me if I said that I was the guy asking this, because I am a lonely troll who wonders how people would respond? :3

    Comment by Anonymous
    06:42 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Re-post your original call for advice here, in Japanese, and I'll believe you!

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    Comment by xRif
    03:51 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    i think there are 2 or probably more things to check before deciding 1)is she pregnant with my baby?. 2)check her past or ask one of her friends about it. 3)do i have to move to a bigger place. 4)-_- do i have time to play eroge?. 5)is my skills on mmo going to be stable?. 6)going to be awkward if i saw her working at the same place i go to, might as well choose her -_-". 7)if we both are working the in-law should take care of the kids. 8)if we both work then we got no financial problem or does she got a huge debt?.

    Comment by Anonymous
    03:56 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    What's the poverty rate in Japan? Because it seems to me Japanese women just prostitute themselves for money and shining things.

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    Comment by Kouma
    04:13 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    From what I've seen, most young women do it more for pocket money or college money, not because they're truly destitute.

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    Comment by dumba989
    04:29 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    The relationship would be too unstable. Once someone's trust is broken in that situation, the bridge is burnt & there is no turning back.

    Comment by Anonymous
    05:23 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    uhhh... you have been one, she knew it right? she forgave you right? why can't you forgive her???

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    Comment by cax
    05:30 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Once a ho always a ho, drop that bitch

    Comment by Anonymous
    06:32 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I think most Japanese women whore themselves, so it doesn't matter unless she do it after the marriage.

    Comment by Anonymous
    08:35 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    agree with if she'll do it after marriage, also recommend they move far far away to avoid the conversation 5-10 years down the track with friends, "hey you look familiar do I know you, oh wait never-mind..."

    Comment by Anonymous
    06:35 23/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Go fuck a pig and see what's better? xD








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