35% of Japanese Women: “Sex is Nothing But a Hassle!”

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35% of Japanese women apparently regard sex as little more than a “hassle,” whilst more than half of Japanese in their twenties thought romance equally bothersome.

Quizzed about their attitudes to love in a survey of 1,000 Japanese conducted for a Japanese newspaper, 45% agreed that “engaging in a romance is bothersome,” with both genders feeling equally put upon at 43% for men and 47% for women.

Young people were particularly negative – 58% of men in their twenties regarded it as a hassle, as did 50% of women of the same age. That for various (primarily financial) reasons marriage is now all but impossible for Japanese men in their twenties probably plays into this perception.

Regarding sex, 28% merely regarded it as “a hassle” – with a substantial gender gap evident, as 35% of women regarded it as such, versus 20% of men.

However, when the results for this question were broken down by age a slightly different picture emerged – 24% of men in their twenties, normally thought to be their sexual prime, thought it bothersome, versus 21% of women of the same age.

Once into their thirties the responses reversed – 19% of men and 33% of women called it a hassle, which rose precipitously to 42% of women versus only 22% of men in their forties.

Media froth over so-called “herbivorous” men, a class of young men generally perceived as being uninterested in courting, does not seem quite so hyperbolic in light of such results.

Meanwhile 25% of both men and women reported themselves entirely “sexless” as they had no partner.

With over half of young Japanese apparently regarding love as little more than another of life’s obstacles, it seems little wonder that their leading cause of death is suicide.


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    Avatar of Quack!
    Comment by Quack!
    09:55 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Clearly Japanese men aren't too good at it.

    Comment by Envoy Loves You
    Comment by Anonymous
    10:17 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Agreed, 2D guys are so much more appealing than 3D.

    Comment by Anonymous
    10:39 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    why is this marked down? So you guys can you on about how superior 2D girls are to 3D girls, but the second someone gives you the cold hard truth....that 2D -guys- are better than you, you can't handle it? Do you really, honestly think you guys are better than the idealized 2D guys? give me a break.

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    Comment by cupcake_deluxe
    10:40 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Go anon. :) Men can dish it but they can't take it, huh?

    Comment by Anonymous
    10:41 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I don't get the tang either way, so whether or not girls like 2d or 3d guys is no problem :D

    Comment by Anonymous
    11:50 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    so yellow b1tches besides being lazy and shallow are frigid... yuck.

    Comment by Envoy Loves You
    11:54 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    The statement was made in reference to males, females and hermaphrodites

    Comment by Anonymous
    12:11 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    HELL YEAH! OVERWEIGHT NERD GIRL POWER!

    Comment by Anonymous
    12:39 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Regardless of any 2D competition, I think it's fair to be honest and concede that almost none of us otaku have the sort of bodies that are going to arouse anyone.

    Comment by Anonymous
    12:56 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Maybe the poll is screwed and 30% from that 35% are actually tsunderes XD

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    Comment by alidan
    12:59 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    i do, technically. at least on an outside appearance i have relatively great genetics, on the inside.... not so lucky, every joint in my body sucks

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    Comment by carn
    13:16 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    The tsunderes would have picked the option that says "I-I-Its not like I wanna do it or anything"

    Comment by Anonymous
    13:47 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    @alidan - pics or it didn't happen.

    Comment by Anonymous
    14:23 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    So about 20,000,000 Japanese women are tsundere. Yummy

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    Comment by alidan
    14:35 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    computer wont accept any external storage device, i don't know why, but it only accepts my 750gb usb hdd, anything else and it tells me it wants to format it. never wanted to fix the problem because if i fail, that hard drive wont work on this computer anymore, its not worth the risk.

    im not saying im a god amongst men, but im not a typical sterotype fat fuck either. im at least quite a few steps above what most people imagine someone who has no life to look like

    Comment by Anonymous
    16:25 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    1000 people... This is really a bit too small a sample to judge and entire culture...

    Comment by Anonymous
    16:54 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    "im at least quite a few steps above what most people imagine someone who has no life to look like"

    That's what we all would like to think...

    Comment by Anonymous
    19:21 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    @Anon 16:25

    Go Back to highschool and learn statistics.

    Comment by Anonymous
    19:43 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Idealized 2D guys?

    "Mustn't run away, mustn't run away"

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    Comment by Schrobby
    23:34 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    If Shinji'd put it in Asuka, Rei, Misato and Hikari Evangelion would've been an even better series. ^_^

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    Comment by Rethardus
    03:23 29/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    @anon 13:47

    Not EVERYONE is a fat fuck on the internet. He doesn't have a reason to lie, so yeah.

    Comment by Anonymous
    06:37 29/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    @ the survey results : "You're not doing it right, and/or you're not doing it with the right partner."

    @ the anon saying otaku bodies can't excite:

    The most important thing in sex is wanting to be with your partner, and of your partner wanting to be with you.

    I'm not talking about lust, I'm talking about love.

    Relationships-of-convenience don't qualify.

    Comment by Anonymous
    10:14 29/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    That's why rape it's always an option; sluts have to open the legs sooner or later, willing or unwiling ^_^

    Comment by Anonymous
    11:39 29/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    So a lot of them think of romance as a hassle? Huh.. good for them :)

    Comment by Anonymous
    12:26 29/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    after they get their first gang rape, they would think romance is a good idea.

    Comment by Anonymous
    14:46 29/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    It's all about the penis size. I was in the military and had a damned awesome body, but every woman I laid was like "meh, small penor." T_T Then after a 12 yo asked me if I was in yet, I decided to no longer maintain my physique. I no longer care about my looks or health. So for me 2d women > 3d women. I tried 3d women, all they really care about is what I can't provide them.

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    Comment by TehBoringOne
    19:14 29/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I think you have a clitoris, not a penis down there. :P

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    Comment by tyciol
    13:47 31/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I am perplexed that 1/5 Japanese men consider sex a hassle. How enlightened.

    Comment by Anonymous
    04:15 10/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    to anon at 14:46 :
    1) Keep yourself in shape for YOUR sake, never for someone else. Be in shape and take advantage of it! Do things people in poorer shapes cannot, and feel great about it!
    2) Those women clearly would have been poor sex partners in the long run anyway. Sex is not just about penis-in-vagina, sex is about all sorts of great things arousing and exciting. Someone who has a good attitude about sex could easily have mindblowing sex with you even if you would have not just had a shorter penis, but a micropenis. I'm not talking about toys, but those are a fun thing to add too. (If your next girlfriend bitches about your penis, just make her use an "egg" or the like at the same time as you penetrate her - as well as you two checking out real lesbian/queer porn to learn how to not be too PIV obsessed.)

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    Comment by joshua
    13:06 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    well the women might as well start fapping just like some of the men then if they find sex such a hassle lol.

    Avatar of Darkrockslizer
    Comment by Darkrockslizer
    15:59 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I bet they already do.

    Comment by Anonymous
    22:37 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    i guess "fapping" is not the right term

    Avatar of Schrobby
    Comment by Schrobby
    23:36 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    They are shlicking.

    Comment by Anonymous
    04:22 10/09/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Actually, a lot of women fap (sliding the hood up and down the clitoral shaft - no, I am not kidding. Look the anatomy up, the clitoral structure looks like a fucking alien!) as it isn't unusual for a woman to find direct stimulation of the clitoris too intense and rough with things such as fingers.
    A lot of women not only fap, but schlick at the same time, too. Stimulating several bits at once FTW. Of course, women can just schlick too.

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    Comment by Ghost Dog
    13:27 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    More sad poll news. I blame the old-ass politicians for the lack of marriage prospects in the younger generation. They seem to forget that people need to marry and(or just) have children for a population(and economy) to sustain itself.

    They need to get their act together.
    A - Pay more money to people of marrying age
    B - Start a war and get kids when the soldiers return home
    C - Let foreigners into the country

    Comment by Anonymous
    15:20 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Foreiengers are already coming into the country. And if they come in, which ones will come in? Probably all wapanese and we'll just see tons of mixed whites and asians in the future, we already are unfortunately.

    Avatar of Darkrockslizer
    Comment by Darkrockslizer
    16:01 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Immigration just helps improving the statistics, problems in society still would remain.

    Comment by Anonymous
    18:19 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    ^ THIS ^
    It would be fighting the symptoms, not the cause.

    Comment by Anonymous
    18:36 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    @15:20 I see what you did there by repeatedly saying how they are 'coming' into Japan..I bet you don't live there so that makes it even more intentional...

    Comment by Anonymous
    20:23 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    I think these surveys are completely fucking pointless when they only survey a super small margin of 1,000 which doesn't give a good representation AT ALL.

    Avatar of Shippoyasha
    Comment by Shippoyasha
    15:54 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    More confirmation that self-worth and confidence for Japanese women is very low. Something is seriously wrong with the way they view sex over there.

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    Comment by kache
    04:55 31/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Indeed.

    Avatar of Schrobby
    Comment by Schrobby
    23:38 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    If 35% of the women regard sex as a hassle the men in Japan obviously do something wrong.

    Avatar of Quack!
    Comment by Quack!
    10:07 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Ah well. At least I'm not getting hate mail.

    Avatar of Darkrockslizer
    Comment by Darkrockslizer
    16:03 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    You now are.

    Avatar of Sithreis
    Comment by Sithreis
    10:54 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    You, tonight.

    Avatar of Azure Xuchilbara
    Comment by Azure Xuchilbara
    11:12 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Thank the Old Ones for masturbation...

    It will never go out of style...

    And with this...

    *stares at his Gigabytes upon Gigabytes of Hentai*

    Your 2D partners are unlimited...

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    Comment by Stangace20
    12:06 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    @ least 35%,lol

    Comment by Anonymous
    19:34 28/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    well, 2 inches are never good enough :}

    Comment by Anonymous
    01:09 29/08/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Good at it? They don't even seem interested in it! The whole nation will eventually die out, out of sheer apathy.








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