“My Boyfriend’s Hiding BDSM Eroge! What Should I Do!?”

"Among the many roles she has played, one of her better known is that of Queen Beryl in the 2003-2004 TV series Pretty Guardian Sailor Moon."

.... HOLY SHIT

"In September 2008, Sugimoto became the first Japanese model in PETA's international nude anti-fur campaign."

.... SORT OF NO, BUT YES!

Can someone tell me the source of the first pic ???

Hey, nice OP pic there, where is it from?

if only more women were like her

Aya Sugimoto has done some prett well known BDSM adult films before. She's pretty open minded about these things.

well....that doesn't mean he's an M

She's just stupid

My girl had dumped me BECAUSE I werent into BDSM and she was, she was constantly reminding me how she wants to rape me with a strapon....

Leave your boyfriend.:P

Artefact, u are great.
i collect a lot 2d piercing picture but i don have yours.

So, she hasn't got any good advice yet.

She wants to know, basically, "Is he safe? Is he gonna go wild one day and do stuff to me I don't want him to do to me?"

If he's an evil guy, he'll lie and say "Oh, no, honey, I'd never do that" -- and then put sleeping pills in her coffee, tie her up, and bring out the whips.

Just "taking his word" for things isn't safe enough, going through his PC or hiring a detective is too privacy-invasive to the guy.

How is she gonna safely find out in advance?

Anyobdy know the hentai title of the cg picture?

I'm curious, what if the boyfriend is into child porn. Would Aya still give the same response? =o

She looks familiar *-*

Ah.. she played the bone lady in Jigoku Shoujo LA, no?

This chick who answered that girl's question should totally take over Equality Now so she can end it. Damn feminists...

That sure is bad timing, after all the articles,twits and news about how much Japanese [men] are perverts, huh.

I think i'm convinced! Japan is a sexist & repressed nation of perverts.
Thanks, CNN...or FOX or whatever the hell you want to be called nowadays.

...SIGH

Well time to imprison her and make her my sex slave

What a jaw-droppingly rational response. Expect her to be attacked by 10,000 enraged feminists and lose her job.

If BDSM turns him on, eventually he may want to go from fantasizing to trying the real thing. Please be careful, Baby Girl. (That's what I call my own daughter and it's the same advice I would give her.)

One thing I'd want to point out is that there's a lot of women out there who think like this. They're a dime a dozen, but they do exist. :)

I could do Sugimoto-san all day! God DAMN she's sexy!

For once a woman with common sense when it comes to stuff like this..And so what if he/she is into that stuff wouldn't you ask your girl/guy before you ever did BDSM.

Fucking holy shit, women like this exist. That is fantastic.

We demand an Aya Sugimoto BDSM gallery, Artefact.

damn if only women are as hot and understanding as her.

Something is wrong here.

THERE IS NO SUCH WOMAN IN REAL LIFE WHO LOOKS THAT GOOD AND IS OKAY WITH MEN PLAYING *ANY* EROGE!

Aya-chan, marry me!

Am I the only one pissed off by the response to the girl's question? Yes, she is ignorant. Ignorant does not necessarily denote WILLFUL ignorance, but ignorance to a multitude of ideas that she may not have considered before.

However I think it's absolutely wrong to meet this with condescension and anger. When you meet someone with that kind of tone and launch into a rant that she may or may not be able to follow, you leave no room for growth and wind up alienating her. Sure I agree (for the most part anyway) with the response, but that is no reason to treat this girl as if she were some demon or tyrant! You educate her, not fucking LECTURE her.

"You might be a bit put out by his taste for SM, but there’s no shortage of women who are really into that sort of thing. However, society generally tells them a woman shouldn’t be seeking that kind of thing out." <-- This is a great bit of advice to offer. Because when you tell a scared young female that there are women out there willing to love him for who he is, it puts pressure on her to perform and to possibly not only tolerate, but to accept and proliferate a sexual fetish she may not even be ready to become accustomed to! So just help put the girl's relationship in that much more danger why don't you?

"Your boyfriend was just enjoying a simple fantasy, wasn’t he? The real issue is not his fantasies, but your paranoia about them!" <-- All I would change about this sentence is the exclamation point at the very end of it. To change it to a period would lower the tone of the sentence to a more relaxed quizzical kind of pondering. It would be far more effective than the generalizing and debasing attitude being presented toward this girl.

"With this, the junk sex you’re having just to satisfy your lust can advance to become truly psychologically fulfilling sex!

To conclude, there’s no need to repress yourself sexually just because you’re a woman – try making an effort to understand your man’s desires." <-- this is the worst part of this condescending despicable response. One, she is using demeaning language, that the girl's sex she enjoys is somehow wrong. Two, she is assuming this girl both represses any kind of sexual tenacity she may wish to evoke in bed, and that she even has any. It's not fair to just assume what kind of sex life this girl has, and that it's somehow incompatible with her relationship! If the girl's sexlife was insufficient for the guy, he would have already left her, and there would have already been many other problems with the relationship. However, like I said before, if the girl takes the response to heart (which I SERIOUSLY hope she doesn't, at least not some of the lesser points) it could jeopardize a potentially stable relationship.

I don't know who this Sugimoto Aya lady is or what she's done, but she seems like a crazy totalitarian who needn't ever advise someone on their relationships as if she were a therapist. It's not that I disagree with Miss Aya, to the contrary, I completely agree with her. However, vilifying this girl who has a concern is NOT the way of going about answering someone needing knowledge! This isn't the kind of stuff they teach in Japan, is it?

.....Omg.....OMG....OMG!!!! I LOVE THIS WOMEN!

ok ill just say there seems to be this belief spawned mainly by media and stupid scientific studies that say that theres a higher chance of a person that into this stuff being a rapeist or muderer.i for one believe however it is just a coincidence i mean i cant speak for everyone but just cause i like loli hentai or s&m hentai/porn doesnt mean i want to go out and kidnap a lil girl, far from it the thought of ppl that do that extreamly infuriates me pedophiles should all be killed along with rapeists in general. what a majority of the world cant seem to comprehend is my imagination isnt strong enough to reach out and harm real ppl. just let me think what i want to think let me look at what i want to see as long as its not hurting anyone and yea you can say that loli encurages pedophiles but its just a conveinient argument for those agaisnt it, pedos are gonna do there sick lil thing with or without loli. basicly thinkin you know a person based souly on there fantasies is plain stupid, is her concern valid? yes it is. did she over react? no i dont think so she went seeking advice, wether it was given in a constructive way or not is beside the point, aya is compleatly on the money she should just talk to her boyfriend about it and hear him out theres always that chance hes not even interested in doin that kinda thing for real. i mean half the stuff i look at in hentai is stuff i have no interest in doin for real, mostly i find the stuff interesting or mainly find the art to just be really good theres alot of talent out there and i can apreitiate that whatever the subject. case and point if you find cp or a secret stash or poloriod photos of girls being raped then yes please be concerned and keep yourself safe, but if you find animated matierials or legal porn you dont quiet agree with or feel confortable with just talk to him about it and be openminded, something the world is in such short suply of you never know you may learn alot more about him and yourself.fyi love is not always perfect btw, sometimes we have to accept certain things about that special someone if we truely love them. finding someone and then trying to change them to make them right for you is not the way, and if it turns out that your just to different and you cant acept it then it is probably best for both parties to seperate, but if you love that person truely love them then youll hear them out and try your best to understand them and acept them and that true of both parties.. so srry to be so long winded and srry for the likely horrid spelling and grammer but its 3 am and i havent slept so please forgive :P

omg... it's totally normal... this is like when you found out that your boyfriend watch porn... it's the same~~~ the important thing is that he doesn't mix up with his fantasy and reality

Like artefact said, she's the embodiment of reason.

Someone cloner her quickly!!

3D win!

Thanks Aya Sugimoto.

Omg source of title picture please!?! What game is it from?

Nonsence in deed, for that women to worry about.

For example, my girlfriend told me her fantasy, where she whant to be tied (ala Hentai Slyte), but you know, is really dificult to get a good quality rope for here, as i dont really want to tear her skin.

In other words, womens has wild fantasies too, the problem comes when a girl in question tell it to their patneth, as is frequently a more dificult fantasy that a normal man can handle.

I don't even like the stuff, but I have a bunch... such is Japanese porn, really. Even rape-themed, and that's about the most unsexy thing I can think of - but hey, if it's by a good doujin circle, how can I pass it up? lol

eastern version of madonna, but better!

Hone Onna gives the best advices! <3

"What should I do"

Get back in your cage like a good little slave.