Top 10 Cutest Girlfriend Traits

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A survey of Japanese men asking what sort of behaviour they find most cute in a girlfriend yields results which probably resonate with men the world over…

The ranking:

1. She links arms with you

2. She makes you bento

3. She does her best to help out in your daily life

4. She asks “Do you love me?”

5. She always spends the weekend with you

6. She asks “What were you doing?” if you don’t see her for a day

7. She wants to accompany you everywhere

8. She cleans your room for you

9. She does her best to match her hobbies to yours

10. She’s jealous of your last girlfriend

The corresponding male list may also make interesting reading in a subsequent article.


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    Avatar of Endersgame
    Comment by Endersgame
    15:00 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    I actually find #6 annoying =/ Don't get why they think its cute.

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    Comment by takuya13
    15:08 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    yeah so do i... but i guess some people like girlfriends who are kinda clingy?.. 6, 7 and 10... and i find 9 a bit over bearing sometimes too

    Comment by Anonymous
    17:26 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Overbearing? Try yandere. O.o''
    Read the list again with a yandere in mind, I'd run like heck.

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    Comment by Ken
    17:34 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    cut out the #6 and I'll marry her.

    Comment by Anonymous
    18:03 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    kinda feels like they surveyed males with no gf(s) >.>

    Comment by Anonymous
    18:05 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    feels like they surveyed men with no gf >.>

    Comment by Anonymous
    19:00 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    like they surveyed men with no gf >.>

    Comment by Anonymous
    19:01 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    they surveyed men with no gf >.>

    Comment by Anonymous
    19:02 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    surveyed men with no gf >.>

    Comment by Anonymous
    19:04 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    men with no gf >.>

    Comment by Anonymous
    19:05 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    with no gf >.>

    Comment by Anonymous
    19:05 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    no gf >.>

    Comment by Anonymous
    19:06 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    with no gf.

    Comment by Anonymous
    19:06 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    gf >.>

    Comment by Anonymous
    19:15 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    >.>

    Comment by Anonymous
    19:16 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    0.0

    Comment by Anonymous
    20:20 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    qft...everything above.

    Comment by Anonymous
    22:38 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Dick Slap

    Comment by Anonymous
    23:11 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    eh.. it kinda feels like they surveyed males with no gf(s) >.>

    Comment by Anonymous
    23:30 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Wait one bleeping second isn't number 4 on the list of annoying things as well?

    Comment by Anonymous
    00:55 25/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Hmm, something like this:

    Men like girls to confess, but the girls don't. Not manly enough. NOT GAR ENOUGH.

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    Comment by Kortaku
    03:09 25/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    GARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

    Comment by Anonymous
    06:09 25/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    (reality version of #4)
    -Do you love me?

    ...(silence)

    -Fking hell, I just told you yesterday and the day before yesterday. WTF do you want from me?? Can't you please STFU for one second, I am trying to concentrate here!

    Comment by Anonymous
    09:10 25/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Those also happen to be the 10 things my girlfriend doesn't do.

    Comment by Anonymous
    18:01 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    #5: might be a bit much for those who want to spend their time alone on a weekend once in a while
    #6: can be annoying >.>
    #7: anywhere? does that includes the gents or strip club?

    Comment by Anonymous
    18:46 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Yes #7 to a strip club is great....
    But if you have that, then they usually want you to go with them to a male strip show too. Take the good with the bad.

    Comment by Anonymous
    23:55 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    or if you're lucky they'll become jealous, take you home and try to outstrip them.

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    Comment by Pandemonia
    05:53 27/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    bi girls, my friends

    bi girls :3

    Comment by Anonymous
    12:23 29/04/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    yes i agree, clingy. maybe japanese men imagine it would be nice but in reality...

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    Comment by Trepiz
    15:18 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    indeed not a first, though it definitely annoying after the first month or so.

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    Comment by notanother4non
    15:57 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    it's not like having a gf, it's like having a "mom" taking care of you
    .
    insert milf jokes

    Comment by Anonymous
    16:39 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    My mom doesn't do 4, 5 and 7.

    Comment by Anonymous
    19:08 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Yeah she does, she does that all the time.

    Comment by Anonymous
    04:20 25/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    freaky! tooo freaky!

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    Comment by Canadane
    16:04 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    I find them all annoying...

    Comment by Anonymous
    16:15 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Ya actually:
    3. She does her best to help out in your daily life
    I just got out of the reach of my mother and don't need someone to fuss over me ~~
    4. She asks “Do you love me?”
    yea, yea, give it a rest already
    5.always? nothing else to do? boring? I want some privacy too
    6. & 7. scary obsessive?

    8. As long as it's only occasionally, like said I have a mother and don't need another one

    9. & 10. see 6 & 7

    So for me, most of the listed things are more scary than cute ~~

    Comment by Anonymous
    16:52 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    you guys gotta keep in mind this is a survey of the japanese guys, not you white people. They have different taste then yours, also a different culture.

    Comment by Anonymous
    17:18 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    i'm no white people or chocolate people, but i find them annoying too

    Comment by Anonymous
    17:22 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Man! I guess we are different!

    Comment by Anonymous
    17:45 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Dude! I guess they are different!

    Comment by Anonymous
    19:11 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Bro! I guess them are different!

    Comment by Anonymous
    00:28 25/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Who us?

    Comment by Anonymous
    06:34 25/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    these are traits you think you'd like before having a gf but after having one for 2 years, you'd give anything to make them care a little less abt mundane shit you don't care about.

    Comment by Anonymous
    22:01 25/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    If I had a woman that had any of those traits beside #1, I'd end up burying her in the back yard.

    Comment by Anonymous
    00:00 26/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    lol or you could just not date a girl like that, there's tons of other guys who'd love a girl like that.

    Comment by Anonymous
    17:25 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    >implying anyone viewing this page had/has/ever will have a girlfriend

    Comment by Anonymous
    04:24 25/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Do have gf too! 7 of them in fact!
    and i keep one of their heads in my backpack too for company (i'd bring the rest of them but their joints might break).

    Comment by Anonymous
    17:46 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    You're annoyed cause you're doing something you don't want your girl to know

    Comment by Anonymous
    18:59 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Oh dear, busted!

    Comment by Anonymous
    23:30 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    =<

    Comment by Anonymous
    06:02 26/03/2011 # ! Neutral (0)

    More like i'm annoyed because it means she doesn't trust me to not be doing something she doesn't like. If she doesn't trust me, why should i trust her? What is a relationship without trust?

    Comment by Anonymous
    18:59 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    LOL I like clingy girls.... makes you feel uber special....

    Comment by Anonymous
    23:30 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    depends on the looks of the girl

    Comment by Anonymous
    01:56 01/12/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Truth.

    Comment by Anonymous
    19:40 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    #6 is annoying if they ask it in a nasty way, almost accusing you of cheating or something. But it's very cute if they ask it in a 'Where were you yesterday, I really missed you...' way. Eventually would get annoying though.

    Comment by Anonymous
    21:58 24/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    A day is ok, but if a chick calls me just to screw me on the phone cuz I went out with my friends without telling her, insta breakup

    Comment by Anonymous
    10:37 25/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Those characteristic doesn't exist anymoar

    Comment by Anonymous
    02:55 20/04/2011 # ! Neutral (0)

    probably because women aren't property and don't have to act like docile little creatures that exist purely for the benefit of their man. They have their own daily lives to deal with, their own room to clean, and their own plans on days when you are apparently too busy to fill their existence with meaning via your presence

    I'm sorry, but any dude who reads this list and thinks this is how a real girl should act is going to be foreveralone

    Comment by Anonymous
    07:44 13/07/2011 # ! Neutral (0)

    Is it weird that my 4 year relationship is like this? But to be fair we both do these things (I do all but 2 and 9 and he does all but 8). I know that these days it's considered clingy to think of your SO throughout the day (not every second but we txt every hour or so). My last bf on the other hand was TRUELY bordering-creepy clingy and like the anonymous above said, he was only thinking of himself and I feel he made it seem he would be COMPLETELY helpless without me (which I feel is different than what I have now but it's hard to explain the mannerism).

    I do however think that EXPECTING every woman you date to do this for you because you are entitled to it just because your clit has testis dangling beneath it is sexist/unreasonable/stupid. You shouldn't force them to do these things, in my case we both just naturally wanted to. If your gf is doing all these things and wants you to do the same but it's not going to happen, save some time and break up.

    Comment by Anonymous
    17:21 25/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    I wholeheartedly agree

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    Comment by necxz
    23:18 25/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Yeah no. 6 is kinda anoying XD it seems like she doesn't trust you and needs to know what and where you are every minute XD

    Comment by Anonymous
    08:08 21/11/2010 # ! Neutral (+0.2)

    easy the guys who have ansered dont have any girlfriends

    Comment by Anonymous
    08:24 18/02/2011 # ! Neutral (0)

    1. She links arms with you
    Awesome!
    2. She makes you bento
    Awesome!
    3. She does her best to help out in your daily life
    Thats over-doing it... Still awesome.
    4. She asks “Do you love me?”
    She better not question me too much... It's a sign that she doesn't trust me.
    5. She always spends the weekend with you
    ... ALWAYS?... I like being alone from time to time...
    6. She asks “What were you doing?” if you don’t see her for a day
    OH GOD!
    7. She wants to accompany you everywhere
    STALKER!
    8. She cleans your room for you
    Over-over-doing it, but awesome.
    9. She does her best to match her hobbies to yours
    STALKER! GO AWAY!
    10. She’s jealous of your last girlfriend
    ÜBER STALKER! I'm going to call some kind of shrink and make him/her take care of her...

    Comment by Anonymous
    20:35 25/03/2011 # ! Neutral (0)

    yea, outside of the first 2, too much of the rest means a clingy girlfriend.. no thanks!

    Comment by Anonymous
    20:18 06/06/2011 # ! Neutral (0)

    Holy shit, isn't that the natural progression of a yandere girl?

    Comment by Anonymous
    09:55 22/06/2011 # ! Neutral (0)

    A clingy girlfriend... Why is that a bad thing?
    It's cute if the girl behaves like she's a small child(i.e. being clingy like a daughter clings to her father)and who the hell complains if the girl voluntarily cooks,cleans,adjusts her life to yours, aren't that traits of a typical domestic wife that every man should desire to have(because she can bear/raise/educate your children + always fills in/helps you out)? Not marrying such a girl is like throwing pearls to the pigs when offered,it's sad that you think such a girl can only be a Stalker(a Stalker doesn't even consider any of these points,his/her actions have only the purpose to satisfy his/her egoistic desires while this is more like sacrificing oneself for another person,it's the greatest proof of love you can ever get)









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