Japanese Women “Cruel & Heartless”


A Chinese writer writing that “the Japanese woman we know is a thing of the past” has unexpectedly been hailed by 2ch as possessing an accurate grasp of the state of the nation’s womanhood.

His thoughts can be read below:

A perfect life is said to be “an English house, an American salary, a Chinese cook and a Japanese wife.” Probably the whole world thinks of Japanese women as meek and obedient.

What we see in movies shows them making breakfast for their husbands, getting his clothes ready, taking care of the kids, doing housework, and greeting the husband on his return with supper and a bath.

I asked a Japanese friend about this. He laughed and said “That’s the past.”

I heard a relevant story about this; a romance between a Chinese man living in Japan and a Japanese doctor ended in marriage.

After they married, the doctor never once used her money on household expenses, everything was paid for out of the man’s earnings. Later, when the economy weakened, the man lost his job and his wife told him “As you can’t fulfil your responsibility as a man, we can’t go on living together.” She divorced him.

I was surprised when I heard this. It seems Japanese women think a man with no job is utterly worthless. They seem cruel and heartless.

He goes on to talk about the bizarre behaviour of Japan’s “gal” subculture, saying a visitor to their haunts might think they had stepped into another world.

Fortunately for what remains of his image of Japanese womanhood, he seems not to have heard about the vast numbers of Japanese girls engaged in casual prostitution, else he might truly despair…

Coming from a Chinese person, it might be thought that the immediate response of 2ch would be to tell him to go back to eating cats and Tibetans, but this seems not to be the case, as the responses overwhelmingly agree with him:

“He’s really hit the nail on the head.”

“Well, they are still preferable to Chinese women…”

“Exactly. There’s no way to dispute this.”

“This is probably written by a Japanese.”

“I can’t dispute any of this.”

“What about Chinese women? At least the Japanese ones won’t marry you then kill you.”

“He finally discovered reality.”

“With all the sex in shoujo manga and the sex tips in teen magazines, and with ‘keitai novels’ being nothing but sex, it’s obvious women will turn into bitches when surrounded by it all. Instead of banning loli they might want to try banning those.”

“I don’t know about the past, but he certainly knows about the present.”

“We don’t want to be told this by the Chinese!”

“The truth is worse. 90% of Japanese women are prostitutes…”

“This is correct. The ‘Yamato Nadeshiko’ has fallen…”

“This thread is going to be long…”

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    Comment by Conrad awesome
    09:41 24/07/2009 # ! Neutral (+0.4)

    I hate the fact that Japanese women are becoming like American women.

    Comment by Anonymous

    I blame women's rights groups. This is why you keep bitches in the kitchen, their wombs filled with your offspring and a knuckle sandwich handy at all times.

    Comment by Anonymous
    19:55 24/07/2009 # ! Neutral (+0.2)

    lol, it's the same everywhere, not just in Japan

    Comment by Anonymous
    06:54 25/07/2009 # ! Neutral (+0.2)

    YES!!!absolutly true,just depends on human nature.

    Comment by Anonymous
    16:01 24/07/2009 # ! Neutral (+0.2)

    I think the post above is quiet true, despite the writer seems didn't so happy since it wrote by the Chinese.

    It's not because Chinese woman is better and kind, but it was influenced by modernization. A modern Chinese woman will look like that in the near future, may be. A serious problem for the future, people need a strong education, to teach them about morality and ethic code.

    I also find this website has a racist tendency about anti-Chinese. All they see in his eyes, Chinese is bad, ugly, evil, idiot, etc.

    Yeah, Japanese is always world no.1, is the best of the best. Too much pride of them self.

    Comment by Anonymous
    20:24 21/04/2012 # ! Neutral (+0.2)

    Chinese women already like that right now.

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    Comment by Ray
    09:56 24/07/2009 # ! Neutral (+0.2)

    Getting married in this day and age is a suicide. Especially with how cold and bloodthirsty women have become. You give them and inch and they take a mile. Better to have a fuckbuddy and keep your money and liberty to yourself.

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    Comment by DieHardjagged
    13:15 24/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Dont give them a finger or they will swallow your WHOLE Arm, woman are pathetic these days.

    Comment by Anonymous
    10:04 24/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    quoted for truth.

    Comment by Anonymous
    22:04 07/09/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Well, good you got your gay fuckbuddy then.

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    Comment by maxchain
    09:40 24/07/2009 # ! Neutral (+0.2)

    Huh, I never noticed how drop-dead gorgeous Mai Shiranui looks with her hair down! And in fanart!

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    Comment by onitake
    19:29 24/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    some people are taking 2ch too seriously.

    Comment by Anonymous
    09:25 20/09/2013 # ! Neutral (0)

    >>After they married, the doctor never once used her money on household expenses, everything was paid for out of the man’s earnings. Later, when the economy weakened, the man lost his job and his wife told him “As you can’t fulfil your responsibility as a man, we can’t go on living together.” She divorced him.

    This really disgusts me. That cunt should be forced to pay alimony or some form of restitution, for draining him blind and leaving him the second their ship hits rocky water.

    Comment by Anonymous
    16:57 24/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Japanese Women “Cruel & Heartless”

    I thought ALL women were cruel and heartless?

    Comment by Anonymous
    10:18 24/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Well, at least they aren't flabby walruses, yes?

    Comment by Anonymous
    10:01 24/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Well, at least jap women are still good for fucking and prostitution....right?

    Comment by Anonymous
    09:30 20/09/2013 # ! Neutral (0)

    Only if you're someone NOT their husband. Like the neighbor, some guy at a pachinko parlor, etc. Marry them and the sex dries up, til the misses needs to hide the fact that she got knocked up cheating on you.

    Comment by Anonymous
    23:26 07/12/2015 # ! Neutral (0)

    Japanese women are heartless I know from experience I had a girlfriend did everything for that bitch she throw it all away cause eof a few disagreements ! 3 days before I was gonna see her again I hope Karam fuck her life over and she get fired from her stupid jop!

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    Comment by Sevodax
    09:41 24/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Puff...Humans are so complex yet soooo simple!

    Comment by Metalbunny
    11:58 24/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Cruel world, cruel life and a cruel existence..
    nothing could drive you better >.....<

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    Comment by Miroku74
    12:04 24/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Well, looks like I'm staying a life-long bachelor.

    Not that I wouldn't *mind* doing my part to up the collective IQ of the human gene pool, but..... ugh. >< Double ugh!

    Natural Selection. Your best friend (and mine).

    Comment by Anonymous
    11:55 24/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Cannot unsee...

    Comment by decepticon
    10:41 24/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    wow so many comments on this topic as expected.

    (btw i'm a guy)

    Firstly this does seem the reality in japan~
    but having said that, it seems such influence have spread to worldwide too~

    but i guess just emphasizing japan, like one of the 2ch posts said, with so much eroge material and stuff in magazines, are we really that suprised to see society shaping these girls into these heartless gold diggers?

    Let's look at teenagers for example, everyone once was or is one~ now look at how easy it is to conform and be just another teen, to fit in,to be popular.

    when something is popularized, sensationalised- it then becomes somewhat mandatory , and people then conform.

    yes these women and girls are to blame, but i think we should also look at what caused it, and that seems to be society.

    it's so dissapointing that these girls are losing their morals, ethics or to an extreme sense,their souls...

    but in this age and day of fast food,fast money, there's also fast women and fast sex and both women and men,instead of focusing on important,sentimental and deep things, all seem to concentrate on how fast they can get something without second though or consideration of developing relationships.

    i feel sorry for all guys wanting to find a decent girl, and girls who have lost faith in guys.

    problems create problems, so layer by layer we should fix this before the world is really fucked.

    if we look at the mindset of guys and girls, it seems:

    girls think: guys just want sex sex sex,they care more about my breasts and ass then my thoughts or heart, so why not control a few with my charms and get what i want, cos i've put faith in objects now instead of relationships.

    guys think:deep inside i think i really want someone special that will stay with me cos i'm lonely, but i don't wanna admit it.
    instead i'm gonna stare at this eye candy, fuck confused girls,read some porn hoping that it will fulfill what i truly want when i know it won't.

    so much confusion leads to only more confusion...
    when i think deep inside everyone just wants to be loved by one other person, as idealistic as it sounds.

    what causes women to develop such horrible manipulative personalities is the faith in men they once had.

    and what causes men to be like this is their search for something that is quite rare these days, and that's sincerity.

    i wanna write more, but i'll stop here~ thanks

    Comment by Sta2sQuo
    19:31 24/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    I applaud you.

    Comment by Anonymous
    11:08 05/11/2009 # ! Neutral (0)


    Comment by izo84
    10:41 24/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    screw china for its thoughts!!

    But if there is a woman, who can only live with me together because of my money, than I kick her out of my live. There are enough women in the world.

    Dalmatians and half-dalmatians like me are abit cruel in this thing...sorry

    Comment by Anonymous
    11:28 24/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Quotes of Socrates:

    Once made equal to man, woman becomes his superior.

    As to marriage or celibacy, let a man take which course he will, he will be sure to repent.

    By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you'll become happy; if you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher.

    Comment by Anonymous
    11:29 24/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Another from Socrates:

    Beauty is a short-lived tyranny.

    Comment by Anonymous
    15:34 25/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Quote from Socrates:
    To Do is to Be

    Quote from Plato:
    To Be is to Do

    Quote from Sinatra:
    Do Be Do Be Do

    Comment by Char
    07:55 27/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    over 265 comments?! holy crap

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    Comment by Mimi
    15:44 26/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Nice Gaia-art-arena-winning pic.

    Comment by Eamon
    13:16 26/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Thats the case for all present day girls from all developed countries - -

    Comment by Yamza
    19:17 25/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Lol so true...

    I am actually married to a japanese girl for 2 years now and have been dating her for 4.

    After dating her for 2 years we decided to marry sincer we love each other so much blablabla

    if someone asked me today if I'd like to marry a japanese girl I would laugh first, and then curbstomp him to death..

    Comment by Anonymous
    23:02 25/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    And many like Tsundere...which is not true in real life.

    Comment by Anonymous
    21:22 14/09/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    I thought I should chime in on this subject, Now I too have some rough experiences with Japanese girlfriends in the U.S; which I won't go into But a friend of mine whom, I was talking with the other day and told me, that because he lost his job his Japanese girlfriend told him that he was unmachuline and dumped him, funny thing was they had been together for a year seemed quite happy too but I guess the funds just ran out : P
    Be careful

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    Comment by Stormy001
    22:27 15/09/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Ah well, all over the world women as well as men can be cruel in romantic department. This story is applicable everywhere, to be honest.

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    Comment by tyciol
    12:39 12/12/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    I feel bad for that poor Chinaman. He should have had her per much of the expenses to be secure.

    Comment by Anonymous
    23:01 18/04/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Fuck. They need to fuck harder. I don't want to explain my grandchildren what exactly an "anime" has been.

    Comment by Anonymous
    12:44 13/05/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    Female liberation,my foot. I truly feel sorry for that unfortunate husband for getting the raw end of the stick. Women who don't pitch in to support a home besides cooking, cleaning and fucking are my worst enemies and I'm a woman and then she divorces him? Makes her look like a whore with a ring.

    Comment by Anonymous
    00:21 04/03/2011 # ! Neutral (0)

    yet, those women keep complaining about the way men judge base on the look

    Comment by Anonymous
    01:57 21/12/2010 # ! Neutral (0)

    its the feminist desire for total empowerment that corrupts the minds of us women today. being black in my case would make 2ch claim me as a loud mouth gold digging whore with no hair. but my only wish towards gender equallity is the dropping of those hypocritical double-standards....

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    Comment by TheBeast
    14:01 20/11/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    serves the poor fucker right, he should have known something was up when all his money went to paying for the house and electricity, and her money went into her bank. if the dude had any fucking sense, he would have seen the big red flag shoot up. oh well, it's better for him this way anyway before shit gets too serious. hopefully he got some hot japanese sex out of her.

    Comment by Anonymous
    08:59 01/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    this is propably how they get revenge for us raeping them all the time, only problem is both side are shooting at innocents

    Comment by Anonymous
    15:54 16/09/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    yeah, my eye have can't believe what i read, cause I'm also a believer that "Japanese women"="ideal" suck a true shocker to me, and my choice well would be Russian, hope hasn't gotten as bad.

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    Comment by Bronxdragon
    01:05 28/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Wow just wow.....couple of years japan is going to be extint and guess who's fault it is?

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    Comment by Sinkross
    16:46 15/11/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    “With all the sex in shoujo manga and the sex tips in teen magazines, and with ‘keitai novels’ being nothing but sex, it’s obvious women will turn into bitches when surrounded by it all. Instead of banning loli they might want to try banning those.”

    “This is correct. The ‘Yamato Nadeshiko’ has fallen…”

    ahh this... so, SO TRUE

    Comment by Anonymous
    00:33 25/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    omg!my dream of having japanese wife is disrupted..omg!!!T.T

    Comment by Anonymous
    06:51 25/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    dont worry,there still some jap women not like what is writen in here,i have a jap teacher,she's marrying a spanish,and she doesnt seem that bad,and she has her own restaurant,XD

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    Comment by Reo
    23:27 24/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    That's why i hate human =(
    even myself.... L@L

    Comment by F*CK YOU
    06:27 25/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    I second your notion lad

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    Comment by Riot Gear
    00:41 25/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Does this chinese writer means that chinese women are better than the japanese?C'mon,gimme a break!It's all in the past.

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