Why Won’t Women Kiss on a First Date?

Memo to self, "No means no" is BULLSHIT.

You might be surprised at how quickly women will throw out "logical thinking" and social pressures when they're REALLY INTO a guy. If you can develop your confidence and learn to be who you truly are (not some nervous, ass-kissing pussy), it becomes easy to trigger powerful feelings in a woman.

That's speaking in general when it comes to dating and sex. If you want to actually be in a relationship with a high-quality lady, you should at least have a job.

Bums are not boyfriend material.

Well, I'm a woman and I have never kissed on first date. Though you could say I've once kissed without dating, but he had been a lifelong childhood friend, so it isn't quite the same thing.

I wouldn't like it if a guy/girl tried to kiss me on first date either, I think it would mean that we have different values for relationships. Myself, over at least the first few weeks, I just want to get to know the person I'm dating with without making any significant progress in the physical part of the affair. I'd regret it if I kissed a person I ended up hating. Or got herpes simplex, lol.

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We of the superior women race hate you 'otakus' and your rape simulators!

Vice President of The Organization for Equal Women - Equality Now,

Barbara C. Oldbag

where is the picture from? Seems like from a visual novel. I rlly like the style, which game is it?

I kissed my 1st girl friend on my first date.

Well heck, we care about their feelings by not wanting to mouth-rape them and get punished. This is the kind of thing that sends mixed signals.

go for it. be assertive. that's what anime pr0n teach so don't question it. when will males ever learn. females like me want to be violated in a romantic and sometimes forceful way.

I am all for her going down on me on our first date, and we can skip the kissing till we get to know each other better.

there seems to be a subtle but aggresive competition between asian males and females (i exclude myself clearly from them, period) to become more attractive (in my own words: lalaism), which seems to be the reason why they generally prefer to be as effete as their female counterparts... i believe you have your answer...

Well I'm not surprised by the effeminate thing. In a big piece of western(ised) society men are taught from a very young age to treat women extremely carefully, like handling a priceless vase. So unless it's made extremly clear by a woman they want to be kissed a lot of men will act very cautiously.

That and in certain parts of the US an unwanted kiss/advancement will land you in jail, it's not weird men are more cautious :P

Men should be taught that is ok to be rejected, that it's ok to chase multiple women, that it's ok to experiment instead of the highly romantized image of love that corrupts a big piece of modern society.

this is japanese we're talking about, they're known to be modest when it comes to showing affection. western society just don't have this kind of problem (well not as much)

bottom line, they're too shy!

In the old days when i was an uncontrollable horny teenager i would really suck at this shit.
Now i don't try anything except asking for another date. The fact that she's willing to go out again with out finding excuses to avoid me after the first date means that she has some interest in me. And since am not some horny teenager anymore i keep dating her with out even trying even a single kiss.Usually by the third date she will start going crazy with thoughts like "Am i not attractive enough? Doesn't he like me that way? OMG what if he wants to be just friends. Could he be gay? No, he doesn't seem to be.Maybe his shy. Should i ask him or try to make the first move?"
And there you are my friends, while you are in piece with out wondering what would happen if you tried to kiss her and how you will get her to bed and all that, she will simply be going crazy and she will give you anything you want in no time after that while you will have the upper hand of letting her appearing like she's the horny one. Just be a little patient.

The only thing I'm kissing is my wallet goodbye on my first date

According to these surveys it seems that im the perfect male for japanese women I even fit all the emotional and physical traits sadly I wasn't born or am anywhere near Japan (T_T)

Kiss on the first date, no need for it. After a few dates I would expect it. Now how long do you wait for sex? (longest I have gone was 3 weeks)

"Just do what you think is right" is the only advice you need, if you're too pussey just stick to the 2D. Great pic btw.

I'm not that aggressive in terms of kissing on the first date.

Kissing leads to Bukkake!

So Japanese women want rich romantic men. Universal concept in my mind...