The latest in a long series of unflattering survey results shows Japanese women can apparently be trusted about as far as they can be thrown, with a not inconsiderable 45% of them admitting in a survey that they have cheated on a partner.
However, 37% of them reported being cheated on at some point, so it seems that this untrustworthiness runs both ways.
When asked just what it is they considered the point at which cheating started (when done to themselves at least), the number one concern was “holding hands” with 37% considering this infidelity, “because lovers do it”, and “holding hands has a deeper meaning even than H or kissing.”
The next most unfaithful act was “being alone together”, at 20%, as “without a good reason drinking together is already cheating” and even “because it doesn’t feel right”.
The third start point for infidelity was said to be “kissing” at 18%, since “kissing can’t happen without affection” and “from here on it is serious.”
9% thought exchanging mail and phone calls was the beginning of cheating, and 8% listed “H” as being the point at which cheating occurs.
These results stemmed from online surveys of the members of a woman-oriented site, and with no detailed methodology apparent they should of course be taken with a grain of salt.
Even so, it is hardly a reassuring picture, especially considering the rather mercenary tastes of Japanese women with respect to their money providers…
The pattern I’ve noticed is people who lack self-awareness cheat. People who are unwilling or unable to truly look inward tend to have unexpressed and unaddressed dissatisfaction. Over time, for relief, they fall in to seemingly more “romantic”, less complicated relationships. Often they even seem to justify their doing so by blaming their partner for not tending to their (unexpressed, or passive-aggressively expressed) dissatisfaction. People without self-awareness seem markedly less capable of real intimacy, and therefore, more vulnerable than others to extramarital affairs.My husband cheats on me at any point and constantly accuse me of cheating,all thanks to ”hackingloop6 @ g m a i l . c o m” for their investigative and hacking service that helped me gain access to all my husband’s phone activities remotely,though the saga was so painful,but i feel much better facing my fears.
Why they are cheating?
Because husband is almost NEVER at home.Work, drinking Friday after work, pachinko or Golf are far more important than wife or children.Almost no sex life in married couple.after 2 years of marriage, especially when first child is born, no more sex nor affection.
all divorced woman i talked with here, told me the same scenario.
Reason of divorce:
1)Never at Home
2)Does not have a f♥♥k about the children
3)No sex/ affection(one didn not had sex with husband for 6 years…)
4)cheated on her.
domestic violence was not mentioned, not even once.
Gar these seem like assumptions meant to justify cheating. Plus, we’re talking about cheating, not divorce. I don’t think anyone here has a problem with a wife divorcing if she feels neglected or unhappy or in danger. I’d probably have more of a problem with people make stupid dedications to people they don’t know well in the first place.
A lack of sex life can just as often be the wife’s fault if she lets herself go.
So you’re saying if the wife keep turning down the husband’s offer for sex it is his fault for letting himself go?
The Blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice…^.^
Isn’t it interesting that these articles about girls cheating show a guy and a girl making out and ANOTHER GIRL walking in on them?
So if it’s the girl who is cheating, then… I like where this is going 🙂
Maybe my last chance at finding a girl, is to go to Japan…