80% of Japanese Women: Marrying Poor Men “Unthinkable”

or use it to buy a flesh light.

XDDDDDDD

LOL THAT MADE ME LAUGH SO HARD

Anonymous, that was pretty hilarious. Have to admit

thats all LA has got anyway

trolling ?
are you sure you are trolling enough ?

i don't care.

it's just a word. " Love " is just a word .

Nobody loves me and
i'm not loving a girl.

So who cares.

Wake up, it's a empty/void
word .

You are lame.

I feel bad for anyone who thinks its lame as their lives must be very 1 dimensional and unfulfilled...

I agree with the sentiment that such a materialistic approach is one-dimensional to say the least...

...but unfortunately, it is that quality of thought at which most people are, and remain stuck in. There are a few ways to go about handling it. First though, have the wisdom to look at where that level of values get both women, and the men catering to it. What fidelity (if you care for that sort of thing)? What loyalty? What genuine caring? The kind of relationships that typically result from pursuing such a shallow level of values is typically very low.

So... one approach, if you don't want that for yourself, is to let the fools have it! Look for someone with similar values. You're likely to search for a while and go without in the meantime, but enlightenment and refinement of philosophy takes work. People aren't usually fond of work. Them's the breaks.

Probably the most skillful means of dealing with it would be to learn to work with, and treat people within the level they are at. So, if girls value money, work, etc. over everything else, meet them on that level (assuming you can get those things), but treat them like the whore they are. They're getting what they asked for, and so are you.
Just don't pour all your feelings and effort into them unless they are deserving. That's a hard lesson and harder still to learn to practice, but simple to understand.

only a one time fee thou

But they'll cost you money just ONCE.

but they don't eat, cheat, nor bitch. sounds like a great deal.

LOL as much as it pains me to agree anonymous is right to a certain degree.

I have a better idea.

Buy one of those silicon love dolls by 4woods for about 700000 yen each. Or maybe even more.

Those are pretty customisable to an extend and they look pretty damn realistic compared to a blown up doll.

Yeah they don't eat or bitch and they never complain when your friend have his way with it and all you have to do to remove the stain is to "clean her up"

used goods Nagi?

"Now I ain't sayin' she a golddigger, B\ut she ain't messin' wit' no broke n****s"

^.^

Really though, as I was saying above, just get some money and meet 'em on that level.

If you're looking for love, then you have to look elsewhere... but otherwise, you aren't being asked to love them, care about them, or do anything else, really. Just have money, a car, a job.

You get to have sex with them and otherwise treat them like dirt until either you run out of money to waste on them, or they get smarter. ^.^

They don't get it both ways. Learn to look for and love someone with a better values, or be passed around like a whore until they're used up and in their mid-thirties or married to an asswhole they're unhappy with. That's where you come along and get them to cheat on said husband with you. ^.^

Have no sympathy for the sobbing moron of a woman (on this level we're discussing) complaining about being two or three-timed, treated like dirt, caught the clap so many times her nickname should be applause... ^_^

Daoist Sage...all i can do is bow to your wisdom and words.
I think all you are saying is true...even though it's not something easy to accept.

look for Love ?

it's a freaking game !

how freaking boring.

i'm too lazy to do that.

the right girl ?

who the hell you think to be ??!?!?

LoL at you .

the right girl.

LoL.
we have another Misandry Woman here.

No one's saying being financially stable is a BAD thing. This is about marrying a person being "unthinkable" just because that person is poor. It's discrimination! That means these women would put money before anything else when it comes to a relationship, including putting money before love. What if you had to choose between someone who loves you, and you love, but has no money, and someone who does have money but doesn't really love you, or you don't really love? In the end, will money prove to bring you more happiness in life than love would?

It's more reasonable to say that it's PREFERABLE that the person you marry ends up being loving as well as financially stable, but who's to say how things will turn out? You may very well end up in a position where you have to choose between the two, and these women say they'd side with the wealthier one? lol. Worse than that, these women probably flock to places where richer men hang out, causing an imbalance where less wealthier men are left in the dust as they're not even given a chance.

^ Listen to this Anon, people.

Of course it would be wonderful to marry someone you truly love, but face it these days who really does. There is three reasons why people get married. 1. unplanned pregnancies. 2. health benefits. and 3. You realized you're not getting any younger and the well is starting to dry up. Fortunately for me, my wife and I have been dating since we were 11. She went on to be a RN and I became a Systems Integrator. Our combined income is more than enough for the two of us plus a baby girl on the way. But my situation is just part of that small percentage of fairy tale/corey and topanga/lovey dovey bullshit you see on television everyday. Hopefully you all will be just as fortunate.

You are forgetting Tax reduction.

very insightful comments that I completely agree with from the anon's above