pardon me for taking too long, I was trying to achieve a better understanding of the chinese language, and utterly failed at it. oh well.
let's begin -
I – Introversion preferred to extraversion: INFJs tend to be quiet and reserved. They generally prefer interacting with a few close friends rather than a wide circle of acquaintances, and they expend energy in social situations (whereas extraverts gain energy)
but of course! I honestly don't care about the average person. I'm really after people who can follow my reasoning, who can be smart and intelligent, never too focused on a single view, who can link facts and thoughts from different grounds and arrive to a new destination. I'm after people who seek something in their life, who want to earn their place in the world, and so on. For that reason, if I think I've found someone interesting, then in those rare cases I talk in extreme ways. If I'm judged "extreme", and who does so can not realize the various reasons behind my talking, then that's it, goodbye. I'm not interested.
If I'm hated for a specific reason, there's room to talk! I'm interested.
If I'm loved, well you first have to show me why. I might be interested.
All in all, the people I find by my side are just a few. The major part of my so called "friends" are just people I interact with, but with whom I'd never share something very precious, or with whom I wouldn't spend much time.
N – Intuition preferred to sensing: INFJs tend to be more abstract than concrete. They focus on the big picture rather than the details, and on future possibilities rather than immediate realities.
Oh, this is like talking about sex. I don't care about sex per se (does that work in english?), I care about a relationship. I don't want happy moments which are not linked to anything else. It's true one should always treasure every moment, but that does not mean that you can't achieve them while taking a look at a greater picture, in order to plan something even better. I might miss something along the way, as I sure did, but well, I don't care about it that much. And, it's more or less the same with whatever topic we're talking about.
F – Feeling preferred to thinking: INFJs tend to value personal considerations above objective criteria. When making decisions, they often give more weight to social implications than to logic.
Alright, this is impossible to explain. I just get the feeling. By the way people act, talk, move, I tend to compare myself to them, to put me near them and say "would it work?", and I get an answer. It might be right, it might be wrong, but it really feels wrong to just cast that feeling aside. And, I'm absolute, when making such decisions.
It's worse when I feel attracted, and then realize it just won't work in any way. Oh, I told you, sometimes I just get the wrong feeling.
J – Judgment preferred to perception: INFJs tend to plan their activities and make decisions early. They derive a sense of control through predictability.
This seems to be awfully similar to intuition, doesn't it. There you go.
It's just that, although I really plan a lot of things from way before the act, I tend to mess the plan up in the actual doing. If I'm emotionally touched, because the matter involves me in a personal way, well... I screw up a lot.
Now, since I think I've written way too much, I'll just stop here for now. Heh, maybe later I'll write something else.
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