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Love In The Time Of SanCom

  1. NO!

    /steals khan's pants and gets in them

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  2. Be gentle.

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  3. use more tongue, then

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  4. :3

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  5. I'm gonna find out where you live, Palmtop

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  6. He lives in your pantry

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  7. Vegio said:
    I'm gonna find out where you live, Palmtop

    I'll be waiting.

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  8. The kind of thing i didnt expect to see from sancom...

    Well, if anyone wanna listen to my story, here it goes...parents has been nagging me to get a gf, so i got a gf for parents sake. A friend of mine introduced her to me...initially we always have issue, since i seldom take proper "care" of her...didnt call her that much, didnt really tell her i miss her, shit that girl can tell that i dun give a shit about her that much.

    So the relationship has been rough in the first few months...but after sacrifice plenty of stuff, and put more attention to her.... here i am in relationship for 2 years...and probably will marry next year, the end.

    Its as boring as that...it's abit hard to let go the otaku part of my lifestyle...it's still there, but has been suppressed greatly

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  9. That doesn't sound all to enthusiastic. You aint marrying her just for parents sake I hope?

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  10. It can't be helped.

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  11. baronight said:
    another_one_bites_the_dust.sad

    now that's just sad, no one should ever be in a relationship to appease their parents, and parents should never be so full of themselves to where their kids' happiness and wants are disregarded for the sake of the parents' selfishness.

    to an extend I did something similar with my second girlfriend. she was the cousin of a friend of mine, and we caught each others eyes, but I didn't feel we had that much in common, but my friend, all her family that knew me (and it was a lot), other friends, and other "adults" in my life, kept bugging me about it. basically rejecting a girl who likes you after you've given her some attention kinda "taints her honor" (ive mentioned I come from a stupid ass town).

    I was already in the process of moving to the US, so at most we could've dated 3 months, and I thought this would've discouraged her but she insisted, so we dated. I was very unenthusiastic, felt nothing for her, and at the end when I moved to the US had to force a break up, as she had hoped that we would stay in a long distance relationship.

    Of course everyone hated me after that, in part because she was heartbroken (it didnt matter that it was our deal, it was considered my fault) and because I was letting go of a girl way out of my league, in both looks and money. One (then) friend literally told me I should've stayed in Mexico, married her and enjoy her money and fuck girls on the side.

    The saddest part is that she got married to the next guy she dated a little over a year after, and that's exactly what happened. I think they have a kid now but they're in together for appearance's sake.

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  12. Actually, who knows?
    who knows if i have kids and my life keep move on... i will find happiness?

    It certainly sound bleak when i think about myself in 50's still living alone, have no purpose in my life than enjoying my little time of playing online game, watch anime and occasionally attenting TCG tourney...

    They say if you have kids, you find a new joy in life, a purpose to life and the joy of working hard for the sake of other....blablabla sentimental things. I'm actually wholeheartedly agree with this. My parents show it first hand.

    So instead of being shun by society, i try to adept...
    am i feel sad for letting go big chunk of my hobby? kinda
    but is it worth it? maybe, i can't tell for sure, but you will never know if you didnt try it...then maybe, just maybe, when i grow old, i still get to enjoy my hobby while having my little minion support my life

    Do i really love her? that's probably the biggest question, and the answer is "yeahhhhhh-ish.....kinda?" i dun hate her for sure, and i would love to spend the rest of my life with her, she is a lovable person and easy to hang around with...tying knot? make vows? why not? i would not regret that...gotta take the big step to know if it will work or not....

    but do i truly deeply madly in love with her? let just say its around 55-65%...
    Its hard to let go the unrequited love...even when the anime, the manga and the game has stopped completely...i still find myself occasionally listening to her song.

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  13. can you live without her?

    if the answer is yes, she's not the one.

    as for kids, they don't fix shit, they're not duct tape, and bringing them into a loveless relationship for the sake of not being shunned by society is the worst thing you could do to them.

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  14. If you have a hard time deciding if you actually love her. 'Yeahhhhh-ish kinda'.
    Exactly what Pantsu noted down. Can you go without her?
    Nobody wants to spend the rest of their lives alone (Maybe a few ppl do, but that aside.) But if you look at it this way, what if it goes wrong, you have children and shit, but that didn't fix your love for her, and you just can't seem to get with it? That would suck as well. Sure you can tell yourself to stick with her for the sake of your kids, though that would only effect your children later.

    You've been together for a fairly long time already, so I'm sure she means something to you. But don't jump the boat. ;)

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  15. i dun think the word loveless can describe our relationship...its certainly few steps better than that...for once, i do feel my life has more meaning when im with her...

    but, the word "the one" is not in my dictionary, end of story. Its either find those that you can get along with the most...or none at all. Soulmate is 100% pure bullshit, that shit aint exist. Well, I feel like thats the curse of being otaku..."the one" is practically not exist in 3d world.

    Our relationship is not that weak, although the truth is... i might be possible to go without her, but is that really how you should judge a relationship is? i dun like to put thing in black or white...there is always grey zone where i think its good for me to sacrifice something in benefit of something in return and i'm totally fine with that...can't be too selfish, beside, some of those sacrifice lately has become rewarding and worth it.

    Will my relationship go wrong in the future? no one will know...but i think i can do a fairy good job of keeping it safe... afterall, alcohol, drug and girl are not really my hobby. And she seems to be deeply fall in love with me, and it give me the encouragement to love her back. Probably my worst nightmare is for her to not love me anymore, coz it will be darn hard for me alone to fix it. Begging for her to come back? kneeling on her? that might not happen... i will maybe do it once to fix the relationship...but i would not fall in despair if she do not want to come back.... and that somehow make me scare abit on how weak my resolution is.

    will perfect soulmate always happy forever? you cant guarantee that either right? thats why cant be too calculative when deciding this thing...wait abit longer to find "the one"... and i might be too late.

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  16. being an otaku or any other type of nerd is not somethign that makes a person undateable, every convention Ive been to there's tons of couples, and its not different than any other hobby, you just find someone who shares it, or that doesn't really care for it but is not a cunt about it.

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  18. baronight said:

    Its hard to let go the unrequited love...even when the anime, the manga and the game has stopped completely...i still find myself occasionally listening to her song.

    She exists in those infinite of infinite universes continuing on. Will you ever meet her? Who's to say. One person may bridge the gap that separates us and then she will be able to tell you about everything that has happened since.

    aneko said:

    Yes, you do give bad advice.

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  19. bro do you even read what you post

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  20. Vegio said:
    bro do you even read what you post

    Yes, the day after. And every fucking time.
    I known it wasn't directed at me.

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