uteki said:
But I haven't ruled out Vaginismus.
Does it hurt when you go to the doctor? Can you stick the dildo or a couple fingers inside np? If you only feel pain during intercourse, it might not be it.
uteki said:
He's normal size, I think around 6 inches or something.
That's actually the least important size you should care in most of the cases. Also, a length of 6 inches is far from being a problem. The girth (or width, with special attention to the head) is the one that may be giving you such a pain, being a newbie and all. Are you getting plenty foreplay? Does he go slowly at first? Tell him to wait a bit before thrusting until you get used to it or get in control yourself and go at your pace.
If you can, test with your fingers or dildo positions (legs, knees etc) you feel more relaxed. Using something inside there the whole day for some days usually helps as well.
I'd give a thought on Boss' advice too since some couples actually only do that and I'm not talking about Muslims. But then again, if he's that large it's probably gonna be a pain in the ass. Sorry, don't ban me.
And you're not the only one who should see a doctor, specially if you guys aren't that fond of condoms since you can get infections that can lead to something like getting a sore throat or even becoming sterile. Also, does his penile curvature look normal? That's another thing that might be making your little game painful.
Artwork said:
Broke free from the chains that bind me!
Which means.. I am single!
Felt like this wasn't going to work out.
Best thing you could've done. Eating a lasagna wouldn't ever be as great.
Imo a long distance relationship is only justified if they don't give you any headaches, if you can get quite some money from it, if it became long distance in the middle of it or if you are too busy to meet in person anyway and thinks that the emotional support is enough. There will always be dozens of options around you that you simply fail to notice or consider. Heck, there might even be a girl nearby that wouldn't mind dating a trap. There's also Pantsu.