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Who can you spill your guts to?

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Azure Sky

You've had a hard day getting your ass kicked physically and mentally and your guts are so ****ed up that you want to spill em out, who could/ and or do you spill em to? (edit: hope iit makes sense now)

I always spill my guts to the same person, my closest friend since highschool. I've been doing it for years now and I respect her advice when she gives it. (kinda off topic but...) I asked her what she thought of me after knowing me for 8 years, and there was more bad than good. So I'm (according to her) "Anime obsessed, a procrastinator, masochistic, and a pussy (<----cause i can't hold my liquor lol).

I spill my guts to you guys sometimes as well! （−＿−；）

Posted 1 year ago # Quote
คภєк๏

Usually, nobody.

Posted 1 year ago # Quote
Azure Sky

aneko said:
Usually, nobody.

Aww come on, there's no one for you to let out your worries and frustrations with?

Posted 1 year ago # Quote
คภєк๏

The question was "who do you", not "who could you".

Posted 1 year ago # Quote
Nin

Yeah, same as Aneko. I honestly don't mind, though. Screw the people who say it's bad to "keep your emotions pent up" and such. Escapism is awesome. After a good night's sleep, things don't bother me anymore. And that way, you don't have to live with the fact that you've just told someone all your deepest thoughts and concerns (and looked like a soggy rag to them).

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Azure Sky

aneko said:
The question was "who do you", not "who could you".

My bad, your right. Too much guts spilled today! D: I'll change it (if i can).

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Azure Sky

Ninsheart said:
Yeah, same as Aneko. I honestly don't mind, though. Screw the people who say it's bad to "keep your emotions pent up" and such. Escapism is awesome. After a good night's sleep, things don't bother me anymore. And that way, you don't have to live with the fact that you've just told someone all your deepest thoughts and concerns (and looked like a soggy rag to them).

Yeah, but what if by keeping it in, your hurting the person Closest to you because they can see how much crap you go through but won't let it out/ talk about it with them?

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Nin

Azure Sky said:
My bad, your right. Too much guts spilled today! D:

You don't have to apologise, Azure. The thread title is (was) fine. Any normal person would read it as an invitation to elaborate on who you could or would "spill your guts" to. Aneko just has a tendency to ignore implications (I'm convinced he does actually have the ability to read implications) and tries to look sophisticated by doing so, probably thinking that he'll make a conscientious impression that way.

Azure Sky said:

Yeah, but what if by keeping it in, your hurting the person Closest to you because they can see how much crap you go through but won't let it out/ talk about it with them?

Well, ideally, I don't show other people that I'm worried, hahah. But in all honesty, if someone's concerned about me, of course I'll let them in on what's going on.

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Azure Sky

Ninsheart said:

You don't have to apologise, Azure. The thread title is (was) fine. Any normal person would read it as an invitation to elaborate on who you could or would "spill your guts" to. Aneko just has a tendency to ignore implications (I'm convinced he does actually have the ability to read implications) and tries to look sophisticated by doing so, probably thinking that he'll make a conscientious impression that way.

Well, ideally, I don't show other people that I'm worried, hahah. But in all honesty, if someone's concerned about me, of course I'll let them in on what's going on.

Lol alright, I just didn't want any more misunderstandings! XD Oh, I thought that even if they'd ask you about it, you wouldn't want to talk about it. It actually takes a lot for me to show concern on my face. (So resilient am I lol)

Posted 1 year ago # Quote
Spirit

Ninsheart said:
Yeah, same as Aneko. I honestly don't mind, though. Screw the people who say it's bad to "keep your emotions pent up" and such. Escapism is awesome. After a good night's sleep, things don't bother me anymore.

Bottling up my emotions doesn't hurt the people around me because they don't know I'm withholding anything from them. I never act sad or depressed around those closest to me so there's no reason for them to think that I'm going through anything painful.

Also, most the people closest to me are a lot like myself in that they don't openly share their innermost emotions, so even if they did know something was going on, they wouldn't pry or feel bad if I don't tell them everything.

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คภєк๏

Ninsheart said:
Aneko just has a tendency to ignore implications (I'm convinced he does actually have the ability to read implications) and tries to look sophisticated by doing so, probably thinking that he'll make a conscientious impression that way.

That's much worse than playing amateur psychoanalyst to appear superior, right?

Posted 1 year ago # Quote
Nin

Absolutely. Especially now that, instead of refuting it, you've turned to ad hominem remarks to defend yourself. Someone carry this walking façade out of the room. ┐('～`；)┌

Posted 1 year ago # Quote
คภєк๏

You read that as defending myself? Amateur, indeed.

Posted 1 year ago # Quote
Mistress Antika

aneko said:
Usually, nobody.

Then take my Skype and go ahead and add me to your list. I am one of the people who think it's important to be able to talk things out, at least to joke about it and feel a bit better.

I have no problem talking about my problems and such, but the people I speak about them to are the ones I personally think are close enough to me to understand when I'm being sarcastic and when I'm not. That's like... yeah, a few people.

Posted 1 year ago # Quote
Mere

I don't really like bugging most people with my problems.

Posted 1 year ago # Quote
お茶

Azure Sky said:
You've had a hard day getting your ass kicked physically and mentally and your guts are so ****ed up that you want to spill em out, who could/ and or do you spill em to? (edit: hope iit makes sense now)

I always spill my guts to the same person, my closest friend since highschool. I've been doing it for years now and I respect her advice when she gives it. (kinda off topic but...) I asked her what she thought of me after knowing me for 8 years, and there was more bad than good. So I'm (according to her) "Anime obsessed, a procrastinator, masochistic, and a pussy (<----cause i can't hold my liquor lol).

I spill my guts to you guys sometimes as well! （−＿−；）

Maybe her Birth Date is compatible with yours.

Posted 1 year ago # Quote
jamesownsall

Until college graduation, when my best friends were still around, sometimes I'd release. They've got to let me; they have their own frustrations too and when they felt it, I was there for them.

Now though I don't talk about my problems with anyone anymore. Those friends I used to have are already far away, with their own jobs and all having relationships or just plain married. It'd be awkward to talk about my problems to them when their baggage seems much more.

Sadly, no one at my workplace is compatible with me to that extent. I basically have no close friends left within the vicinity of my home. Naturally the likely place I'd let go is on the Internet, but even then I very rarely talk about it specifically even with my longest online friend.

Since I don't draw anymore, I tend to write fictions to let those things go. Of course, stuff written when you're in angst mode tend to be terrible emo story filled with Mary Sues, so no one will ever read them, nor will I let them.

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H-Ero

There's a few people from here who I can tell just about anything to. Lately, it feels like all I've been doing is whining to them about things that are stressing me. They've been such a big help to me though, and I don't know what I would do without them.

I usually don't tell my family any of the things that are bothering me. Yesterday was actually the first time in a long time that I talked to my dad about something that was seriously upsetting me, since I hoped he would have some advice that he could give me (and thankfully he did).

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pikkamakk

ocha said:

Maybe her Birth Date is compatible with yours.

That moment when you realize that some people are just doomed.

Posted 1 year ago # Quote
Mæriden

I used to do that with my cousin, but now that we grew apart I just rant on whatever chat I am at the moment, which usually is skype or my wow guild

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