Ok i know this might sound a bit stupid(or a lot) but i really need your honest opinion or maybe experience for those that are already married.
And no, im not getting married yet since im still in my 20 and still in campus.
I just wanna know will it be hard to manage your life, and what will happen if someday you'll be asked by this legendary question that im always pissed at when i heard it:
"Choose, your hobby or me, which is more important?"
no,... I is married, I has a waifu.
~ mieyaoh'zz
mai waifu does not mind my viewing anime, nor does John's waifu or Deth's.
hmmmm well for me at least it "will you marry me?" would have to be the first thing they say to me.
I want to make cartoons for a living. If they don't like anime, I wouldn't marry them.
finding more and more girl into anime and gaming.. that is just the trend nowadays. and I like it.
Hahaha, like any l-loser here can talk to a girl, much less get married!
Srs answer: Of course I would still watch anime. Just like there are married guys who have to watch their sports, It would be the same for me and anime. Only difference is the misses would join me.
And any girl I would propose to would know my interests already and be accepting of them, otherwise I wouldn't be in a relationship with her.
I don't see how getting married is going to affect it. You just won't have as much time for it as you did before.
The Antiweeaboo said:
I don't see how getting married is going to affect it. You just won't have as much time for it as you did before.
thats called affecting it my friend...
hayate90 said:
thats called affecting it my friend...
Do you spend your entire day watching anime?
The Antiweeaboo said:
Do you spend your entire day watching anime?
right now, mostly(im on campus break)
giascle said:
If they don't like anime, I wouldn't marry them.
this
The Antiweeaboo said:
I don't see how getting married is going to affect it. You just won't have as much time for it as you did before.
this too
I don't see why it should cause you to stop.
Not watching Japanese animation because you get married is akin to saying that you will stop watching Hollywood movies because your wife hates EVERYTHING about movies.
There has to be SOMETHING tasteful you both can watch. Unless she is a total philistine, she will probably like some of Miyazaki's films or a Ghibli animation.
And seriously, if she doesn't even give it a chance because it's nerdy, well, your relationship probably won't work out because nerdy behavior doesn't just stop at anime usually. Denying anime is usually a big sign that she has a bias against nerds and will have a very hard time accepting you for who you are.
The same goes for nerdy girls that somehow got a normal guy. He needs to give it a chance. Is he a basketball player? Have him watch a sports anime like "Slam Dunk." Most anime is made to appeal to males anyway, so there must be SOMETHING for him. If not, well, once again, he probably is too prejudiced against nerds, and things will most likely not work out.
Speaking for myself, I won't stop.
With anime making up roughly 90% of my viewing content, I'd have a hard time if I was to relate with someone who doesn't like it.
Ergo, the relationship will not work and won't even lead to marriage.
I particularly detest those people who have the misguided need to change their partner's ways to suit their own.
This is something that I'm just regurgitating from other sources and paraphrasing:
People do not change. If you try to be somebody else for your partner, your relationship won't last.
(-Or at least that was the gist of a more eloquent wording that I've forgotten.)
Married? AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Even if you marry a fellow anime fan, there might be conflicts over what series you want to watch on the big screen in the living room or wherever. You're gonna want to watch Strike Witches or something similar while she might want to see her pretty BL anime adaptation.
hmmm, will it affect your kids?
The Antiweeaboo said:
I don't see how getting married is going to affect it. You just won't have as much time for it as you did before.
For the nearly and basically just recently past 20 somethings, don't assume YOU will want the same things all of your life either.
When you hear of people that have spouses (often wives it seems as men seem to complain about it more so), that dislike their husbands over interest in a hobby activity or sports, what is likely the case, is the person didn't truly find out enough about the person they married before getting married.
I have been married 25 years now, and it hasn't always been a rosy event. But the key detail is the bumpy parts have never had anything to do with my hobbies. Life throws curves at you, and it's how you deal with them that determines a lot of things.
One of my oldest closest buddies has recently likely shot his marriage in the head. It wasn't any of his hobbies though, but rather, it was some of his beliefs. His belief that as long as he doesn't mind her getting some extra when he was away from home for a while with work, that it was ok for him to get a little extra when he was away from her for a while thanks to work. It appears he was mistaken in that idea.
I build models every fucking day some weeks. I have a whole room devoted to my hobbies here. I am usually IN my hobby room if I am anywhere in the house.
But I have ensured she gets her own space too, and I do make a point of being WITH her during the day. Heck I make it fairly plain she is top of the list on my list of things I like eh. Every morning we have sex when I wake up. She would need to be plenty dense to think I need anything else in my life more.
You 20 somethings have a much higher chance of getting bored with anime long before you get married, than you do having trouble liking anime while being married.
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