Sankaku Complex Forums Topic: Who can you spill your guts to?

The Superior Triniking on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

The Superior Triniking — Sun, 17 Jun 2012 14:44:50 +0000

Jesus, you people take me too seriously.

overfiend on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

overfiend — Sun, 17 Jun 2012 14:28:24 +0000

<blockquote><cite>triniking1234 said:</cite> Jesus needs to stop spamming that pic before I tell his dad. </blockquote> Trini, I was not spamming that image just for fun (well, it was partly for fun). If you have time, please read from <a href="http://www.sankakucomplex.com/forums/topic.php?id=12483&page=5#post-913928" rel="nofollow">this post</a> up to yours. I hope you see that I had (in my opinion) good reasons for using it. First time, I was trying to cheer up Antika. Second time, I was trying to show Vegio that the use of that image was not limited to one and only one version. Third time, I was trying to apologize for not knowing that Vegio was teetotal (which, by the way, so am I). As I read what I've just written, I realize that not having someone to spill my guts to, or blow off steam to, leads to long, rambling posts. Also, it explains why I have a tendency to walk around my house, talking to myself.

Uteki on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

Uteki — Sun, 17 Jun 2012 09:41:09 +0000

<blockquote><cite>H-Ero said:</cite> Jesus, get off of that cross. You're drunk. </blockquote> What cross? Are okay H-ero? Have you been taking any drugs? I think you are the one that's drunk silly.

H-Ero on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

H-Ero — Sun, 17 Jun 2012 09:38:48 +0000

Jesus, get off of that cross. You're drunk.

The Superior Triniking on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

The Superior Triniking — Sun, 17 Jun 2012 09:27:57 +0000

Jesus needs to stop spamming that pic before I tell his dad.

overfiend on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

overfiend — Sun, 17 Jun 2012 07:22:26 +0000

<blockquote><cite>Vegio said:</cite> *you're and I don't drink alcohol </blockquote>

VillainousHanacha on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

VillainousHanacha — Sun, 17 Jun 2012 07:13:23 +0000

I generally live by the idea not troubling others with your problems, so I don't really open up to just anyone. I use Anime, Manga and games (i.e. escapism) to vent my frustrations, as I view unloading your troubles on the unwary (or those you don't know that well) to be rude. Though if necessary, I do have people I can talk to. I have a very good relationship with my Mom (though it's really only my Mom as far as family is concerned), and 2 friends who I have known for a while and I don't mind exposing myself to. But even still I am reluctant to really spill my guts to any of them, even though in all honesty they probably won't mind. I just prefer dealing with things myself.

Vegio on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

Vegio — Sun, 17 Jun 2012 07:01:10 +0000

*you're and I don't drink alcohol

overfiend on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

overfiend — Sun, 17 Jun 2012 06:59:58 +0000

<blockquote><cite>Vegio said:</cite> That jesus picture is wrong. This is the right one: </blockquote>

Vegio on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

Vegio — Sat, 16 Jun 2012 23:48:26 +0000

That jesus picture is wrong. This is the right one: And to answer the thread, I usually talk to many people. For different issues, different people. Sometimes I'm not comfortable with speaking to just the first person to pop online... it's like you need to reach a specific someone in order to calm down. Even if you spill the bean with the first available person, well... it may not be enough. It needs to be someone who understands what I'm talking about, yeah.

Bane, The Greatest Evil on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

Bane, The Greatest Evil — Sat, 16 Jun 2012 13:42:53 +0000

I spill my guts to close friends or people I know well(or figure i know well) its like only a handful of people I can truly talk with, some even from here, others irl, tho I tend to something keep certain thinks to myself.

overfiend on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

overfiend — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 13:51:58 +0000

<blockquote><cite>antika said:</cite> No it's actually a more than horrible mistake, seeing as I have read a lot into astrology, I should've noticed. But I write fast enough to keep up with my train of thought. Gah, I'm a bit embarrased now. </blockquote>

คภєк๏ on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

คภєк๏ — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 10:57:45 +0000

<blockquote><cite>ocha said:</cite> Why you want to continue derail? </blockquote> Just stop replying.

お茶 on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

お茶 — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 10:47:45 +0000

<blockquote><cite>antika said:</cite> Because I don't mind at all explaining the way I think and the reasons why you think you're wrong. It'd be rather disrespectful to tell you "You're wrong, GTFO" without explaining why, and I like you enough to give you an answer. </blockquote> ┐（￣ー￣）┌ No point talking much to a liar. I've my own rules and regulation. Always be truthful to exchange for greater truth, even if it hurts/depress me badly. I can let you cheat once/ make use once (kinda silly) but not twice (a fool). I've zero respect for liars. Not worth. That's my way of life. I'm most willingly to chop off any relationships especailly with - 02F. <blockquote><cite>antika said:</cite> Thank you for proving that you're a weak-willed & ignorant person. </blockquote> Live happily. Take care.

Mistress Antika on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

Mistress Antika — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 10:46:22 +0000

Thank you for proving that you're a weak-willed & ignorant person. <blockquote><cite>ocha said:</cite> I decide to stop. Why you want to continue derail? Take care. </blockquote> Because I don't mind at all explaining the way I think and the reasons why you think you're wrong. It'd be rather disrespectful to tell you "You're wrong, GTFO" without explaining why, and I like you enough to give you an answer.

Mere on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

Mere — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 10:45:38 +0000

<blockquote><cite>ocha said:</cite> Thanks for typing. But I didn't read your reply. Take care. </blockquote> Dayum

お茶 on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

お茶 — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 10:45:13 +0000

<blockquote><cite>antika said:</cite> </blockquote> Thanks for typing. But I didn't read your reply. I decide to stop. Why you want to continue derail? Take care.

Mistress Antika on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

Mistress Antika — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 10:39:41 +0000

<blockquote><cite>ocha said:</cite> *Sigh. Looking outisde my window.* I have nothing to say but is because I give up on talking. Because Antika idea/thinking is totally different from me - belong to different world. It's fated, I can't help much. It's always the behaviour which land you in the current/ future situation. Maybe it's good, maybe ir's bad, for now. But in future, you wun know. Because you dun know what might happened so you let it run like what it have to be. </blockquote> Nothing is decided or written on the stars, the future changes every minute depending on every decision you make. And each of those have chain reactions which will affect others, either negatively or positively. But when it's about this kind of thing, I've got no right to tell you it's absolute, since that is simply the way I feel things are and not necessarily how the world works. <blockquote>If decide to start, then just continue all the way. The only advice to the guys, if you believe you can then love all the way and be faithful. Many say yes, but as time go by, many go sick and start to cheat their spouse. And certain foundation, have the ability to let the guy to continue to cheat.</blockquote> Let me explain one thing: "attraction" is built on so many different factors you wouldn't be able to count them all. I can fall in love with someone because of how they smell, because I think we'd make beautiful children or simply because they got a good look in their eyes. That affection is no more than a chemical reaction at first, which then grows into - more often than not - a sexual relationship and we decide to call that love. Now, there's no such thing as a "soulmate". It if existed, it'd be impossible to love many people at once. But it is possible, simply because by having different "love interests" your chances for reproduction are higher. That's how we WORK. Being unfaithful is something that happens more than we can imagine because we decide to step over that line that holds us bound to our spouse simply because a book says so. You truly believe nature decided for us to love only one person in life? You truly believe nature knows anything about love at all? That's naive and cute. I honestly don't know how much experience you have in relationships, but I can tell you this: I've had relationships, I've had flings, I've had crushes and all those things and each and every one of them have been different but not because of that have they been any less meaningful than the other. People have different relationships and that's simply because we work in different ways. Some may allow each other to sleep around, but just jumping in to their situation and saying they're wrong because they're being "unfaithful" is stupid. It's NONE of your business, it's not ANYONE'S business than their own! <blockquote>I pity those ladies who is on that path. If those situation is going to happened to them, then there's nothing much I can do. Friendship to me, is like a parent and child relationship. I warn you multiple times, not to play with fire. You insist on playing, then I shall let you burn one time to know what's pain. It's part of growing up. Pains make you grow and love part is even more because another half of you already given to the other person. As a friend, I want to help. I always want to be more than friends - best friends in helping you.</blockquote> I don't know what kind of "friendships" you've had but last time I checked, my best friend wasn't grounding me for staying out too late. There are also different types of friendships, but I've never heard of one where there's a father and child role. That's no friendship, that's just one person patronizing another. <blockquote>Sut sometimes, love is like the movie "Final Destination", you escape once, you may not escape the second time.</blockquote> Oh you seem to know SO much about love. I'm guessing you've found your other half then? Please, I don't need a fucking lecture on love. It's nothing more than an illusion to clothe what we're really feeling: and that's simple sexual affection. We may want to make it pretty, cover it up with flowers and candles but LOVE is just a pretty name for FUCKING.

Envoy Loves You on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

Envoy Loves You — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 10:20:14 +0000

<a href="http://www.sankakucomplex.com/forums/topic.php?id=12343" rel="nofollow">The appropriate thread for all this.</a>

お茶 on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

お茶 — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 10:18:43 +0000

<blockquote><cite>antika said:</cite> That is a truthful answer. Happy now? </blockquote> *Sigh. Looking outisde my window.* I have nothing to say but is because I give up on talking. Because Antika idea/thinking is totally different from me - belong to different world. It's fated, I can't help much. It's always the behaviour which land you in the current/ future situation. Maybe it's good, maybe ir's bad, for now. But in future, you wun know. Because you dun know what might happened so you let it run like what it have to be. If decide to start, then just continue all the way. The only advice to the guys, if you believe you can then love all the way and be faithful. Many say yes, but as time go by, many go sick and start to cheat their spouse. And certain foundation, have the ability to let the guy to continue to cheat. I pity those ladies who is on that path. If those situation is going to happened to them, then there's nothing much I can do. Friendship to me, is like a parent and child relationship. I warn you multiple times, not to play with fire. You insist on playing, then I shall let you burn one time to know what's pain. It's part of growing up. Pains make you grow and love part is even more because another half of you already given to the other person. As a friend, I want to help. I always want to be more than friends - best friends in helping you. Sut sometimes, love is like the movie "Final Destination", you escape once, you may not escape the second time.

Mistress Antika on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

Mistress Antika — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 08:19:59 +0000

No it's actually a more than horrible mistake, seeing as I have read a lot into astrology, I should've noticed. But I write fast enough to keep up with my train of thought. Gah, I'm a bit embarrased now.

overfiend on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

overfiend — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 08:18:25 +0000

<blockquote><cite>antika said:</cite> Oh lordy, I'm so sorry. That's a horrible mistake. </blockquote> It's all right. We all make mistakes. As a long time amateur astronomer, I probably react more strongly than the average person when astrology and astronomy are confused with each other. Just don't ever do it again. (JUST KIDDING!)

Mistress Antika on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

Mistress Antika — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 08:02:00 +0000

Oh lordy, I'm so sorry. That's a horrible mistake.

overfiend on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

overfiend — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 07:35:51 +0000

Dear Mistress Antika: I know that other persons posts upset you greatly, and you replied in the grip of strong emotions, but: please Please PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE Remember: ASTROLOGY =/= ASTRONOMY Astrology is the pseudo-science, Astronomy is real science. I thank you for your attention.

H-Ero on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

H-Ero — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 07:23:03 +0000

Excellent response, Antika.

Mere on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

Mere — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 05:35:15 +0000

Well done antika

giascle on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

giascle — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 05:28:08 +0000

\o/

Mistress Antika on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

Mistress Antika — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 04:22:06 +0000

<blockquote>How do you calculate? Random website of 35% compatibility or 75% compatibility? You better not. Everyone know their Sun sign, I remember you once mention you know your Moon, 8 planets.. Do you know your Ascendant? Did you tally one by one and criss-cross the planets to tally? Better answer truthfully, Sis. You've bad records of lying to every SanCom members a few times. What if someone new here believe in you and go ahead but end with an ugly break-up or divorce (worse with kids) in the future.. Your words can save/harm someone. And you better dun harm anyone. Rather you save someone.</blockquote> NIGGA YOU JUST WENT FULL RETARD. Astrology is not the fucking answer if you're having problems in your relationship. The answer is that you don't have the goddamn balls to face the problem in itself. THAT is the problem 90% of the time! If the two sides are honest and work together they can have a good relationship. And there are million different types of relationship, as are there million different types of people. SIMPLY BECAUSE THE STARS SUPPOSEDLY SAY THAT I AM A CARING PERSON, DOESN'T EXACTLY MAKE THAT REAL. Most of the things that the astronomy says are normally stuff that everyone can feel related to. FAULTY. I'm sorry, but what? Has astronomy helped you find your sweetheart? Or fixed your marriage? Astronomy doesn't help shit. If you want something done, you fucking do it yourself goddammit. Same applies if you're having a bad relationship. You don't fucking listen to starts to tell you if your husband is gonna stop beating you soon. YOU CALL THE POLICE AND THEN YOU DIVORCE THAT MOTHERFUCKER. People like YOU are so fucking weak-willed, they are too afraid to take matters in their own hands so they go around having their oral bullshit diarrheas all the time. They leave their decisions to cards, stars. They leave their decisions to COINCIDENCES. I got all I have in this world thanks for what I've by myself have chosen and done, not thanks to astronomy, not thanks to cards, not thanks to a coincidence. Thanks TO MYSELF. Leave your goddamn stars for a second and try to decide for yourself once. You're almost as bad as the religious people that follow the bible blindly. If someone asks me for my point of view in their relationship, I'll answer them truthfully what I think after I've heard the story but I make it VERY EVIDENT to them that the choice is ALWAYS up to them and they NEVER should leave such decisions to anybody else. If they do, they disrespect the other person. Bringing an outsider to DECIDE? To give his/hers point of view is acceptable, but to DECIDE? BALLS, I tell you. People need BALLS and their own BRAIN. That is a truthful answer. Happy now?

Eleriel on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

Eleriel — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 02:59:14 +0000

I spill my guts from time to time to my honourary sister. she's generally the first person to find out when something bad, or good has happened in my life. as an example, she was the first one I talked to about talking to a shrink about sexchange (still no news on that front, been talking since Feb, wont know for another six-seven months if they'll agree to give me hormones and eventually surgery)... well, technically the first one I spilled my guts to was the shrink... I digress.

giascle on "Who can you spill your guts to?"

giascle — Fri, 15 Jun 2012 02:52:50 +0000

<blockquote><cite>ocha said:</cite> Or maybe even being... low in confidence and self-pity but join a similar group of people to feel safe and comfort but end up sinking even further.. And unable to leave the room, too afraid/ too weak to open the door. </blockquote> I know way too many people like this.