Japanese are yet again aghast at the results of surveys demonstrating marriage in Japan is rather less monogamous than might be suspected.
A survey of 500 Japanese housewives found 14.8% freely admitted they they had sex with someone other than their husband whilst married.
Quizzed as to how many partners they had, most admitted to having had many – 60.8% had “2-5,” followed by 36.5% with “1” and 2.7% with “6-10.”
A marriage writer familiar with such matters comments that “2-5 is the most common number we see here, so it would seem once you’ve done it once the hurdle to taking further partners really lowers. Also, a lot of people refer to this as ‘extra-marital romance’ rather than ‘adultery,’ lessening the sense of guilt.”
Such extramarital trysts were generally long lasting – 48.6% reporting their longest affair lasted over 3 years, whilst 20.3% had ones lasting 1-6 months, 13.5% 1-3 years, 6.8% 6-12 months and only 10.8% under a month.
The writer remarks that “such affairs tend to last a long time as a way of preventing the family from collapsing. And with cell phones, adultery is easier than ever.”
The survey also found no correlation between adulterous liaisons and the absence of sex in the marriage itself – so called “sexless” marriages being extremely common in Japan, a nation which generally comes in quite low in national comparisons of actual sexual activity.
Japan’s menfolk are in no position to criticise, however – according to a similar survey published by the Monthly Charger, only 44.8% of men reported they had “never” cheated on their wives – whilst 20.4% had ‘only’ had sex with prostitutes, another 20.4% only having cheated, and the remaining 14.4% having enjoyed both prostitution and infidelity.
2ch is apparently full of experts on the topic as well:
“Housewives with kids meet a lot of people so I suppose this helps.”
“First they get people to start calling casual prostitution ‘compensated dating,’ next adultery is ‘extramarital romance’ – when will these idiot women be satisfied?”
“Why are people so keen to dissuade single men from marrying with these kinds of findings?”
“They want to destroy Japan!”
“This is just some Korean survey designed to make Japan’s women look loose!”
“The figures seem a bit low really, I’d expect another 20% holding out on the survey.”
“1 in 7 is excessively low, what a bunch of liars!”
“I’d have thought 60-70% – if you limit it to wives who aren’t hideous.”
“When women do it, it’s extramarital romance. When men do it, it’s cheating and infidelity…”
“The surveyers are a bit simple for thinking women would answer this truthfully.”
“Today’s housewives are the enko generation so I doubt these figures will stay so low.”
“Wives in sexless marriages give some hot sex with all that pent up lust. Shame about the deterioration from childbirth though.”
“I don’t even have a boyfriend, how am I going to get in on this…”
“Get your kit off!”
“The way the original article is written is almost an endorsement of women’s right to cheat.”
“They really do seem intent on beautifying this…”
“When the mass media trot out random surveys like this, I fail to see how they are really any credible than the dross people spew onto 2ch.”
“And yet married men who use prostitutes are completely tolerated. Are you in any position to criticise women? This is just sexism.”
“The proportion of Japanese men who are unfaithful is probably triple this figure.”
“It must be 90% if you include prostitution.”
“In Arab nations they stone adulterous women to death, Japan could learn a lot from them!”
“Enjoy all those STDs.”
“So their husbands are just considered ATMs. Kind of like all those men who think sex with prostitutes doesn’t count as cheating on their wives and girlfriends?”
“I thought all you guys liked NTR?”
“Compensated dating and extramarital romance, aren’t euphemisms wonderful?”
“Honestly, I think the real issue here is how excessively hot women in their thirties and forties are these days.”
I like the be the one that does the NTR 🙂
WTF guys?! Why the debate of such trivial matters like marriage, relationship and morality bullcrap.
We need to see the bigger picture here.
This is a serious matter.
Now…
What is the name of that hentai shown as the topic image? 🙂
How about you off yourself cuck?
14.8% is actually a pretty low number in my opinion, Even if the figure is actually closer to 20% then thats ONLY 1 in 5 women! Japanese women arn’t too shabby when you think about it.
as some one who has lived in japan for 3 years(still here) as an English teacher let me tell you some things, this place is quite NTR during the 3 years I have slept with 6 married women(2 of them I still see 3 of them were to the mothers of the very children I teach 1 was a woman I met while waiting for the train and she got knocked over and me being the nice guy at the time helped her) these woman either easily get bored with their lives and want excitement because of their boring sex or sexless lives they need an outlet others need that outlet from the stress of their husbands never home or their children or jobs even, one of my students mothers told me this ” my husband like most Japanese men are absorbed with their work he is rarely home and when he is he doesn’t get there he is usually drunk and goes straight to bed and is gone before I get up, I hate being alone so I would go to men for the attention I felt that I as a woman deserved, the last time I actually had a passionate night with my husband would’ve had to been 3 months ago(this conversation happened like a year ago)and I honestly don’t feel guilty over it because it helps keep my family stable.” I, as a moral man, feel somewhat guilty for taking these women but in the overall spectrum of romance here. As a red blooded man,I feel proud of myself for giving these women what they want and that is get thoroughly fucked multiple times ( i’m sure i might have gotten at least one pregnant cause homie don’t do rubbers). ok let me wrap it up here before I keep going in an endless rant. The biggest reason these women seek or hope to get taken away by another man is because they want the satisfaction of physical contact that they can’t get from their lovers or husbands,they want to be ravished physcially and crave the aspect of feeling full (both in satisfaction and in emotion)
/end rant fyi I don’t plan to stop my NTRing
To hear your story and that of the women that you have spoken to, I can’t even really pass judgement on you at all. It’s really damn sad to think about.
I wouldn’t blame you for not wanting to stop doing what you are doing either. It’s something that you obviously get to take advantage of.
I really wish you would wear a rubber though, but that is also your own choice!
Take care.
Since when was 14.8% a huge number? The flip side of that number is that 85.2% of Japanese housewives claim they have never had an affair.
Keep in mind when reading the above article that all of the referenced statistics are a subset of the 14.8% of women who admitted to cheating in the survey.
>2ch is apparently full of experts on the topic as well
Nice one, I lol’d hard 😀
I’m of the opinion that the only thing keeping most people from being happy in a relationship is themselves. If having sex with more than one person is your thing, let your partner know early on. If they’re receptive to the idea (and a surprising number of people are if you’re direct with them) then you can experiment together, responsibly. If they’re not receptive and it’s something that you really want, then you know that you probably need someone who is a better fit for your needs. Either way, you’ve resolved the issue fairly, rather than going behind your partner’s back.
There are numerous reasons why marriages are unhappy, and non-monogamous sex is one of them you degenerate. If people waited until they were married instead of riding the cock carousal or “getting laid” marriages would be happier and last longer. It’s a statistical fact. HOW CAN YOU CLAIM YOU LOVE SOMEONE WHEN YOU WOULD RATHER SCREW SOMEONE ELSE.
Feminism just makes the whole thing worse, since that’s where a lot of this comes from.
Every country has people who cheat on their significant other, just some more than others.
For the people that do cheat on their spouse, enjoy your AIDS.
Sexless marriages?! wats up with that as a guy i mean even if I hate my wife im at least fucking her regularly since its the only benefit of the damn situation lol
As always, what kind of demographic were surveyed? 500 readers of a porn mag? Makes projecting the findings to a whole country very easy, eh?
Most surveys are like that. Surveys on a certain website, magazine or whatever only capture a certain demographic and can’t be used to generalize over a whole country much less the whole human population.
That pic looks like Oshino fucking Senjougahara
“Oh no, a negative result we don’t like!”
..”Lets all bring in another country and place the blame on them to start a shitfest!!”
“Fuck it, lets all blame korea!!!!”
poor Araragi!, I thought Oshino was his friend!
If there is one thing all of us on Sankaku share, it’s that we’re hurting for Japan. :'(
I am laughing my ass off actually, because one of the girls I met in japan already had a boyfriend but went with me instead. When the boyfriend found out we met him in front of the apartment, but when we met face to face the boy just sputtered and spewed while I held him by the cuff of his throat. He almost cried tears then slunk away.
His girlfriend’s response? “That’s why I broke up with him.”
NTR nation indeed. First hand experience really puts this in perspective. Japanese girls for everyone!
LOL fakest story ever read
Congratulations on being the answer to this question: http://trialx.com/curebyte/2012/11/07/what-is-vaginal-douche-douching/
Fucking lowlife scumbag
The sad drinker type, more like.
Much better than the violent drinker one.
Should have told her you need to perform a spot check because that boy clearly had a vagina between his legs.
No shit. Better than a chinese kid though. At least japanese know if they have no balls, rather than deluding themselves thinking they do like the chinese.
Oh my God… AKB48 its in the top charts, Japanese wifes cheat, Birthrates drops… Japan its going to hell or what???
Quick, let’s blast those housewives for being sluts despite the fact that a much higher percentage of husbands cheat!
God damn.. this is fucked up.
Femanon: That [14.4% having enjoyed both prostitution and infidelity.] sucks.
It’s so scary…their wives might catch some venereal disease.
REALLY? PROSTITUTES? This world makes me sad.
Well it would be kinda obvious as it seems the mindset in japan for women is the just marriage a man that have a good income and dont care about love.
So they get a man with good income to have a good daily life then have sex with ppl they find attractive.
Humans are polygamous by nature, so not sure what exactly is unexpected here, or how exactly Japan is different than any other part of the world.
So I guess this means that a lot of those women working the hostess bars & advertising themselves on the dating sites are actually screwing each other’s husbands unbeknownst to many of them. I can just see this actually playing out:
Husband: I’ll be home late because the supervisor expects me to help treat our latest client to a good time at a bar.
Wife: It’s okay, I’ll be working late too at my “catering” job.
Later that night at one of the downtown “hostess” bars…
Husband: Well Mr. Client, the proprietor has promised to send us a couple of his best girls since we’re using the VIP booth tonight.
And then the girls show up…
Husband & Wife simultaneously (pointing at each other): Wh-what are [I]you[/I] doing here!? Wo-…working!
i call BS on this. the few netorare doujin during c83 prove that they are as vanilla as potllatoes.
So 15% of women and 55% of men cheat in Japan? Seems terribly unequal.
“20.4% had ‘only’ had sex with prostitutes” ~ It’s not really cheating if you’re just paying for a quick poke, unless you wind up giving the misses a case of crabs.
So it’s okay if your (potential) girlfriend pays for a quick poke from a stranger?
’cause women likes money.
Not sure if this will change people’s opinions but, 14.8% of 500 is 74 woman. The percentages might seen big because they do the percentage of 74 woman and not 500. Also the survey does not inform us of who they interview such as age range and other aspects. For all we know they could of just found woman who they thought are unfaithful. This survey has no credit attached to it(the faq does that even mean lol?). People are getting way too exited over this B.S. I personally believe that if these were the real states of a country, there would be HIV STDS and all sorts of other things going around already. Now you look at USA. Which country is the one with NTR?
I know what you mean. I just wached Teen Moms on Mtv…
I remember a year ago I read on msn.com that every 3rd highschooler has some kind of STD due to unprotected sex.
well there’s your reason for the decline in childbirth. Cheating woman who’d rather have sex elsewhere with protection instead of screwing their husband.
Yes, because the hardest part of rearing a child in decent conditions is conceiving.
“I thought all you guys liked NTR?”
lol
Monogamous relationships just don’t make any sense.
Harem is the way.
Is anyone surprised? This isn’t just limited to Japan. Cheaters exist everywhere. Men and woman cheat, though men seem to be treated more harshly for it. People seem more sympathetic toward women.
People cheat. It sucks but there it is. I’ve been cheated on though I can honestly say I haven’t cheated on any of my girlfriends, however I was tempted more than once.
Sometimes I really think people just weren’t meant to be monogamous. It seems there are just too many people who feel the need to spread their sexual encounters around between multiple partners. We try to hold ourselves to this “moral standard” of monogamy because that’s what tends to be considered “correct” but I wonder if we are just denying our natural instincts in the name of being “better than that”.
Monogamy’s quite uncommon across cultures, but ,sadly, so is polyandry.
The most suitable target for the word ‘cheating’ in the context would probably be the passing off of what is a manifestation of a hierarchy of power as a moral standard. It wouldn’t have to be reinforced so vehemently by different calibers of literature and other popular media if it was one. Even here they speak of guilt, which is also the writers’ favorite alleged consequence of masturbation. I’ve read about it multiple times, but I’ve yet to hear from a morally well-developed person who’d feel any guilt doing either. I never have.
People are customizable, and monogamy is a custom still supported by conservative extensive economical growth models, that tries to equalize the values of individuals on the mating market to stress only those aspects of such interactions it finds contributing to its interests. But it’s just like with the sexual taboos young people are being crippled with – you can come of age and realize polygamy’s always been there and – for your purposes – it’s better than the alternative. You risk a lot if you want to be open about it, though.
Japan is a crumbling nation.
Just looking at numbers here.
There are 128 million people in japan, 120 million adults. lets assume only 20 million of them are married (a sixth of the adult population). A sample size of 500 means NOTHING. Especially when there is nothing to compare it to.
Now where are the results for the rest of the world?
JAPAN: “FOREVER ALONE NATION” Title Fixed
People seem to forget that this isn’t an uncommon thing world wide. “Older” stay at home wives will fuck and suck their way through a stable of younger guys because their husband can’t satisfy them. These poor bastards get so beaten in by their jobs they come home practically lifeless.
I’m not saying it’s justified, life long commitments and death do they part so on and so forth, but can anyone really say it’s a surprise when these women speak up?
Only in 3D!
2D marriages are increasing!
look at America and you’ll see nearly identical stats.
Yes, because americans prefer your 2d wonder woman.
No because they let their women get away with ewerithing. If I remember right it was on discovery chanel where they said about every 6th woman cheats regullary on their husbands, and that every 7th of these cheaters also cuckold their husbands making them raise another guys kids.
lol @ marriage
“This is just some Korean survey designed to make Japan’s women look loose!”
Oh God, the denial is delicious.
While the linked survey doesn’t mention male infidelity, I’m sure the posters on 2ch are aware of it, as some seem to be. Either way, neither males nor females seem particularly faithful.
this is just a sad read. it just goes to show that marriage is flawed, and the only reason why people do get married is just for money or status.
Marriage wouldn’t be as flawed if it was intended to be ‘just for’ anything, whatever it would be. One of its main faults lies in trying to bundle unrelated matters together, so that the selling points obscure deficiencies or mismatches in other vital areas, leading to prolonged disasters.
Not really. I get veteran’s benefits which are shared with my wife. If we’d just lived together, she would have gotten nothing. A lot of benefit plans work that way, which is probably why gays fought for the right to marry.
I support gay marrige. Let them suffer too like we heteros do…
lol
If two guys marry, then, you would be missing the problem factor.
You’re the first person I’ve heard say that. I was wondering when someone else would deduce that.
this reminds me of american pie:
“if a girl tells you how many men she have had sex with, multiply it by three. that’s the real number”
“if a guy tells you how many girls he have had sex with, divide it by three. that’s the real number”
Did they mention dog kennels?
I won’t even ask how you can have 1/3rd of a sex partner.
I’d imagine 1/3 of a sex partner meaning you’ve passed first base and are attempting to steal second.
1/3 is like for 8 hours a day. Quite a lot.
🙁
It’s better than 0/3… at least…
*cries*
NTR, I’m fine with this.
Beside they need to impregnate more woman anyway.
Declining birth rate and all.
I just want to know from what hentai that picture came from. Thanks in advance.
Sadly, I’ve forgotten the name. But I recall someone on this site saying that story was about how the 2 guys in the picture wanted the girl since high school. The guy sitting on the floor had the better grades and more promising future, so the girl married him. However, the other guy then got serious, got his life together, and took her away from the other guy in the sense that even though she stayed married to the guy on the floor, she bore the other guy’s child. And the guy on the floor was for some reason, unable to stop this from happening.
This pretty much says what my reaction would be.
http://de-motivational-posters.com/images/this-will-not-end-well.jpg
On the next day authorities will find another decapitated corpse or two in the river.
My reaction would be the same except it would be guns.
“Decapitated corpse”
Cop1: “Hmmm guys I think this pretty clear to me”
Cop2: “Suicide?”
Cop1: “Yup”
14.8%? That’s NOTHING! I’m pretty sure America’s rate is somewhere in the 40% range. Whores will be whores, Japan. Don’t sweat it.
Is that what you tell yourself before you go to sleep everynight? Your inflatable girlfriend didn’t cheat on you. She popped remember?
NTR would mean Killing Her , Killing Him , Killing Anyone else who knew about it before i found out and did nothing to stop it . And then go to the top of a tall building with a silenced sniper rifle to play pop the heads off people until they found me … moral of the story .. cheating hurts and cheaters need to Die or make sure that the only function to the “Relationship” is as Fuck buddies Period
blame the husbands. all they gotta do to keep their wives faithful is fuck her stupid at least once every week.
It is extreme feminisim and things like americas “Title IX” that are causing problems in modern western cultures:
If a women asks out a man, it’s flirting.
If a man asks out a woman, its exual harrasmant.
If a woman wants to marry, it’s future planning.
If a man wants to marry a woman, it’s female oppression.
If a woman wants to have kids, it’s family planing.
If a man wants to have kids, it’s Rape!
If a women wants to have an abortion, then she is pro choice.
If a man wants her to have an abortion, it’s planned murder…
Men do hold a certain degree of power over women. It is simply a matter of female-male gender dynamics in terms of relationships and relative power.
Therefore, men are, at least in ideal, held to a slightly higher degree of standards then women, since we are the ‘go-getters’ vs. ‘defenders’. We must be more careful, respectful, and solid in our actions.
This however does not excuse irresponsibility in the part of women in terms of ruining their own dignity and worth by being not just irresponsible and impulsive and immature as a women, but as a human being. Their gender does not excuse them from same basic rights and responsibilities that people of either gender are beholden to: That is, respectful behavior, responsible actions, and a degree of dignified presence that commands gravity and respect.
If they are frivolous with how they dress or act, just as men are looked down for being so, then women must change their ways so that their presence doesn’t elicit derision or ‘being taken lightly’ but rather gravity and respect that the less expandable gender must have in order to maintain a degree of security for themselves. Just as men are given harsher sentences and little mercy is spared for their actions, so too must women realize that their gender does not excuse them from the most basic of responsibilities and discipline that makes the difference between a dignified and respectable mother figure vs. cheap slut and whore.
I agree with you exept the part where you claim men have power ower women. Because, in modern western scoceity, we dont.
Long sentences do not excuse poor grammar. Are you trying to make a point or is this some sort of useless drivel?
You make it sound so ez.
The woman also have to contribute to you know?
Muslims had it right; all women are mindless objects & should removed from functioning society.
[quote]Anon 03:35 is an idiot. Of course muslims treat their women like objects. And i for one can’t fully say they’re wrong in doing so. With results like these and it being pretty much a standard in most of the “civilized” world i have to applaud muslims for having some foresight to women nature.[/quote]
And that’s why you don’t argue with trolls. There are no meaningful arguments against insane troll logic.
Anon 03:35 is an idiot. Of course muslims treat their women like objects. And i for one can’t fully say they’re wrong in doing so. With results like these and it being pretty much a standard in most of the “civilized” world i have to applaud muslims for having some foresight to women nature.
What you just mention is plain false statement. Muslim do not treat woman as mindless objects & should removed from functioning society.
When women do it it’s flirting.
When men do it it’s sexual harrasment.
How do they expect to get collecteble results with only 500 women??? they should have at least done a survey to 5000 women and then they would get true results… 500 women can just be found 4 km around your home…javascript:ToggleElement(‘p’);
The survey would also have to be done in multiple places across the country to see if there are differences in different cities and towns.
I’d say they should shoot for 2 million men and 2 million women.
Holy fuck.
Getting yourself engaged doesn’t mean shit anymore in Japan???
It doesn’t mean too much over here in america either.
I just tought of Bridezillaz…
I’m a girl and I would never cheat. I think it’s wrong and horrible. I even get a little jealous when my boyfriend looks at hentai or porn. (Yes, there are girls who look at this kind of website. There are plenty of girls who watch anime or play games at my high school and I’m sure 90% at least KNOW about hentai.)
I really hope Japan won’t die anytime soon.
I need my lolis. :V
I hope it does, it’s a shitty nation run by aging dinosaurs & racists.
wut anime is that 😕
You know, it always seemed really stupid to me, but have you ever noticed how in current society (not sure about Japan, tho) women get away with cheating on their partners (one time I heard some woman on TV say “I’m a woman and I deserve the right to go out with other men without my partner’s knowledge” – I shit you not), but when a guy cheats he’s automatically considered the lowest of scum?
Quite annoying.
I’m certain most of the men who admitted to having cheated or hiring prostitutes wouldn’t have done it if their wives/girlfriends agreed to have sex with them more often.
This is actually good news. Birth rate might increase.
Wouldn’t birth rate fetish have its dedicated porn genre anyway?
I have the solution to this
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=24METZsnd1U
I don’t mind if this happens in hentai but in real world? This is fucked up… Consider a hard working husband working his ass of 10+ hours a day, 6 days a week and get home just to fnd out his wife is banging the mail man…
It could get worse like: Black mailman, several black mailmen, your father, your little brother, etc…
Remember children, this is why you’re supposed to FUCK your wife after she gives birth to your child.
Problem – Majority of women actively refuse to have sex with their husbands/partners because:
1. Their bodies are ruined thanks to pregnancy (saggy breasts, loose vag, stretch marks, increase in body fat, ruined teeth (caused by breast feeding) etc) to the point where they no longer agree to undress for you
2. The kid takes up 70% of everyone’s time, wakes everyone up multiple times at night, hard to be “in the mood” when you can’t even rest properly. This actually goes for both the man and woman.
What you see in TV shows, handsome actor and a supermodel taking care of a cute clean baby is a massive, utter lie.
>he thinks their vag STAYS loose, after popping out a kid
lol someone’s never had sex before
>implying vag will eventually completely return to its original, pre-birth state
>implying females don’t develop long-lasting insecurities about the shape of their vag after birth
>implying I never had sex
gtfo
AND, what I forgot to mention, some men are awful enough to actually tell their wives that their post-pregnancy bodies are disgusting.
Fucking scum.
If something (or someone) is objectively disgusting, don’t see why you should shut up.
This is why you stay single guys
Apparently you’re not getting any either
so can anyone provide me a source of that ‘monogatari picture? I mean who drew that, I like his art style.
Ohhhh I see what you did there~!! Subtle drop to look at moar hentai
Egad! I’ve been found out! But no seriously any source? I mean I am already in a hentai filled site why not go all the way?
> “The figures seem a bit low really, I’d expect another 20% holding out on the survey.”
And some % men may exaggerate about cheating in order to not become a perfect target for NTR in front of friends/surveys. Or they may have cheated with 2D waifu.
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“This is just some Korean survey designed to make Japan’s women look loose!”
Japanese sure to love to deny everything wrong with their culture, then blame it on ‘Koreans’.
“Enjoy all those STDs.”
And so will their unsuspecting husbands, idiot.
“48.6% reporting their longest affair lasted over 3 years”
That’s actually the worst part, cause it means they’d rather leech off their husband’s financial stability & suck some other dude’s cock than actually move on. NTR doujins were right, Japanese women are like parasites.
Just thinking this would might happen to me someday make me sick inside. Makes me want to puke. Being a single isn’t bad at all… Specially when there’s stuff around you that makes you smile. 🙂
I’ll just do a facepalm and just leave.
*facepalm*
Now I’m leaving.
No one apparently gives a shit. Just leave
Bitches and whores.
That’s why NTR is not so good to read in any doujin manga. Its literally sucks.
Not if you are imagining you are the bad guy, banging the heroin away from pretty guy that look like a woman. Or from a dickless wuss that is called the main protagonist.
My girl and I have an agreement. No one gets with her unless they get with me as well. And I’m not into guys, so that leaves one option.
Pretty sure she’s been faithful to me, but I have my suspicions.
Otherwise, we still have sex on a pretty regular basis so I still get mine.
So has your girl sprung any leaks? Or is she as full of air and solid the day you took her out of the box and inflated her??
considering Japanese are work trained to work for looong hours everyday then come home very late, it doesnt suprised me the wives get lonely.
Does someone know where that picture is from?
Japanese men are weak beta males. It takes an Alpha to keep your wife, kids and country in line. Japanese men need to stop being feminine weak asses.
The need to first stop banning manly hobbies.
Loosen up the gun control laws and stop taxing the shit out of any car with more then 2 liters displacement.
The 2.0L+ displacement tax is not that much actually, the price of gas is the real reason so many Japanese cars have such tiny engines.
But yeah, otaku need to stop playing commando with airsoft rifles and Japan needs a more manly national sport, like rugby.
They just have to stop wearing those diaper, white like underwear and wear some real man underwear. That and grow some inches on their dicks
First, they need to step out of their basements…
Excellent point
Seeing how marriage is often still treated as more of a business or family thing here than a romantic thing, I’m not surprised. I have had friends before who had a long term loving relationship with a girl, only for her to abruptly break it off because she felt pressured to marry someone better for her family. In that kind of atmosphere, who can blame them for looking for some actual romance in their lives rather than staying faithful and sexless to someone they may never have loved in the first place?
I think you are right but the males need to be heard too. I believe that marrige in a modern western soceity is a waste of male potential. When a women gets married she gets babys permanent and almost unlimited access to the man’s penis, bank account, she gets a car a house, a living piggy-bank, a mechanic, and a provider all in the same person (husband). And the man gets… umm… pussy. If! She is in the mood.
Now i would like to note that I am NOT talking about women in general here. I am talking about cheaters who dont really love their husbands. It is better to stay single and live together with a woman than marrying her. Many do that in my country too.
So Japan is the place where people get married so they can stop having sex with their spouses and then have sex with other people…
No they get married so that the wife can take care of everything while the husband secretly faps to Lolis and anime
Just like the U.S.
Just like your ex girlfriend and wife.
I am amercian.
No, I’m fairly certain that’s France
That happens if the housband should spend 99% of his lifetime in his worplace, mostly without any reason.
In an age where Japanese men can access the internet and see the beauty of white women at their leisure, is there really any surprise that they don’t want to have much sex with Japanese women? I would say sexless marriages are to be expected. Hell, their manga and anime artists even depict so-called Japanese women with 100% white characteristics almost every single time.
Well nothing surprising here, where do you think japanese av made from?
better NEET than NTR. Thats why I was wizard in training till i was 24. I got an attractive virgin.
I still prefer tentacles
Nothing beats tentacles.
Exept a succubus girl who can grow a dick whenever she wants, is bisexual, and helps you get your own harem…
So marry an octopus.
Buff demon with twin cocks does.
I’ll take your buff demon with twin cocks and raise you futanari.
I bet you most of the wives that cheat are wives of the infamous “salarymen”
You know, the poor bastard that works 12 hours a day and has to go drinking with the boss and laugh is his horrible obnoxious jokes. then crawl home at midnight in a drunken stupor and get up 5 hours later and do it all again.
The wives are pretty much sitting at home ready for the taking.
Having one partner be a workaholic is a sure fire way to desultory a marriage and make sure the kids grow up having issues.
Stupid shitty auto spell checker and broken editing I meant destroy a marriage.
Insistently, it’s the very same boss they’re forced to listen to porking their wives.
It’s good to be the Boss.
I bet you that you are sitting in your parent’s basement, can of opened gravy in one hand, the other hand in your double xlarge shorts, scratching the yellow, smelly crust off your tiny balls while you read comments on sankakucomplex.
My son! Is it you my son?
Nobody asked you to describe us your daily activities…
I don’t know if that’s what he does everyday but he seems to have given us a 100% accurate description of your daily life
It is a sad comment on the morals of a nation that so many wives and husbands cheat on their spouses by having sex outside marriage.
Japanese should be encouraged to engage in more incest, that way at least it remains in the family.
Instant win/
+1 internet.
In a society where women only care about money and men only get married because their family(and society) pressure them into it, is it really surprising that that so many end up cheating on their spouses?
Finally someone with some sense.
Every modern western country has this.
It just prooves that marrige is obsolite, and a waste of male potential.
Ummm, I got news for you……it isn’t just Japan.
Japan is a shame as a nation must have burned all the August 6, 1945, happened before were better, you had honor and were admirable, their women are impure and dishonest prostitutes
And a very nice name it was, dear Mauricio Ballén-kun.
And you’re a proud member of what nation?
Ah, forget it. Not enough balls to say your name.
Japan social structure is degrading and if this keeps up, Japan may no longer be a country. The next generation of Japanese will suffer from broken homes, lose values, and other negative issues. Its unity is at stake.
just like all the black familis in america. it’s very sad when society accepts the term, “baby mama”…
family? what’s that?
What else do we call it. It is what it is, Your baby’s mother.
Yes they should go back to the past and just hack each other to death. Its not that bad, most of the people cheating should not have gotten married and that is the truth. The are not the type that would not cheat now then or in the future.
Lol degrading..it already has degraded to the point it’s become a farce of a society
why are you talking about america?
Huh? Repeat comment?
Well, in America they tend to act on something like this one way or another….unlike japanese pussies.
Japan is a shame as a nation must have burned all the August 6, 1945, happened before were better, you had honor and were admirable, their women are impure and dishonest prostitutes…
i think social services is the thing that fuck Japanese people so hard. Newer generations abusing the right and services what they were made on the thought of keeping people being supported to be as productive before they could find another job.
“Suck on that. Bitch.”
The fuck you think this is, a school yard bitch fest? You got a mouth on you, get it over down here and bitch in public. Remember what you just mouthed off about, and be ready to get your lips tucked in. Little fucker needs an attitude adjustment, so get over here or scream like a whore elsewhere.
14:57
Cheeky little fuck. Sankaku is apprently eating up comments so go bitch elsewhere. You will see the comment in day or two and I expect you to talk some more shit when you show up in public. Let’s see that mouth of yours and how far it gets. Either put up or scram back to your hole.
@11:27
Only mouthy arrogant fuck who stirs up shit, thinks he knows something and just asking to be fucked here is you.
Sankakucomplex, where bashing other countries/races over anime is the norm
@11:27
I didn’t stir shit up in the first place, you retard.
You’re also presuming that YOU know everything about the rest of the world because of what you read on Sankaku Complex and the rest of the web when you say that “he thinks he knows something about the US trying to figure out identity from behind a monitor.” Are you a fucking hypocrite or something?
If there’s anyone more childish than others on this planet, it’s you Americans. You’re all big-bodied 12-year-olds who think they can do anything they want in other countries and expect no repercussions. That goes for your “asking for it” comment too–if that’s your mentality on most topics, if not everything, then don’t be surprised to be hated by other countries.
Suck on that. Bitch.
@10:37
You should do the same.
You ‘Murica and anti American stereotyping ignorant hordes are all the same. Maybe if you get some higher levels of education in you maybe your stagnant piece of meat up inside your heads you pathetically call brains will actually be worth something.
@7:03
“Typical anti ‘murican mentality?” Hello sir, are you some kind of expert on this subject?
What’s up with all this ‘boy’ shit? Are you some kind of American south hick?
I find it fascinating that you believe your American ‘bad ass’ and disrespectful attitude towards other nations makes you look cool, while everyone else sees it as one of the major reason why they hate your fat, arrogant and ignorant people.
Go suck a dick.
@01:53 You shouldn’t talk shit after getting bitchslapped with what you were doing.
Typical anti ‘murican’ mentality. Bitch like a whore in heat and always shift responsibility.
At least they back it up with some balls. Lets see you bring some boy 🙂
All mouth and bitch attitude makes for a fun rape victim, just so you know.
Us MURICANS? Ha learn to spell And to be honest There is Pro’s and Con’s to all countries i hate where i live “America”. Its slowly going to hell I’m not saying America is bad but living there is a pain anyway anyone that judges a country that they just read about or watch is an ass you need to go live there get to know the people the places you need to experience it to get a full understanding 1 person nor 1000 people represent japan as a whole. I went to japan for 2 years as an exchange student it was rough at first with the family but now there like a second family. we went all over i have seen the good and the bad in japan and i still like it there and when i get enough money im going back to say hi to Da 2nd family
@01:00
Are you surprised? You ‘Muricans’ are often the first to talk shit about other nations.
@22:53 Whenever painful issue comes up, mention or blame ‘Murica’.
Bitch move, you just made.
@22:26
Sounds like ‘Murica
12:03 This bitch just keeps getting better.
From the get go, who the fuck was it that ran its mouth off and was made a bitch to begin with? You, little fucker with a mouth that you can’t control.
Believe me you think you have some kind of international experience to talk shit, go work and live in five different countries like I did. You assume fuck ton thinking ‘Americans don’t have experience’.
Your mouth definitely started shit your ass can’t hold up to now. Don’t bitch out on people and expect not to get slapped around for being mouthy. America this, America that, tell me, where in America do you live and where in America have you been that you are so knowledgeable?
Who the fuck you think ‘Murica was starting shit when your people’s nations spend wee hours like you bitching on a porn site about America?
How old the fuck is this brat? You sure sound like some kids I remember from elementary school 30 years ago when we just got out of national history class.
Watch your lips if you don’t have what it takes to mouth off in public. Otherwise, name your shit and bring that mouth of yours to somewhere everyone can see what a bitch you are for thinking you know shit.
Either put up or shut the fuck up. Let’s see that mouth of yours in public or be a bitch and crawl back to your hole.
10:04
Bitch please.
Mouth off some more and show everyone what a ‘badass’ you are for stirring up shit you can’t finish. Funny little shit thinks he knows something about US trying to figure out identity from behind a monitor.
Always with ‘fat’ and other childish insults. You sucking on cock with that mouth of yours? It’s real amusing to see some mouthy fools bitching off about how they think they ‘know’ Americans. There’s a reason why they are so condescending – you are asking for it. Like stepping into a ghetto overnight with a ‘Fuck me’ taped to your ass.
Bitches are always writing checks with their mouth that their ass can’t cash in. Better check yourself.
It’s strange that their fertility rate is even lower then some of the 1st world nations in the west.
Not to mention western families are actually dragging themselves back together while japanese are on at best stagnation or downward spiral just like their shit economy.
Who would really want those monkey-child faced people anyway? Their women are all flocking to foreigners to get married. I know plenty of japanese girls here, many of them decent looking, and they are all going out with non-japanese people, with increasing number of koreans and chinese taking them as well as whites, blacks and mexicans. Being fucked to pieces no doubt.
We’ll all end up looking the same and having no one to blame for our problems.
I can somewhat see that. I’ve met a few Japanese girls before and as a rule of thumb, foreign males tend to be sought after rather than Japanese ones recently. Something about Japanese men being too timid, work obsessed or running away into fantasy land. Also something to do with how outdated men see women still being common within Japanese culture. That’s not to say whores and gold diggers aren’t around one has said, if anything there are plenty in Japan. But because there’s this endless loop of social collapse, the hole just gets deeper for them.
I’ve known a number of Chinese, American, British, German and Brazillian men to have Japanese wives. Hardly do I ever hear or see of Japanese men having foreign wives.
And the bastardization of homo sapiens is a bad thing because…
I’m pretty sure part of the reason the Japanese girls are choosing western guys over Japanese guys may lay in a westerners willingness to express all kinds of love to their girls. Also I assume a westerner makes huge efforts to be around his girl as much as possible with no assumption on how encounters are supposed to be conducted.
Basically more love, more freedom, and less rules.
DAMN Fuck you sankaku.
For a second I though that picture was real of the monogatari series.
DAMN I almost had a heart attack. Don’t freak me out EVER again like this.
Man FUCK that NTR shit
What is NTR?
South India’s best dancer.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cv5pe1fTkBE
watch it if you into Black man..
A genre of hentai that only sadists and people who insert themselves as not the MC can enjoy.
That’s me, the sadistic fuck self inserting as the woman stealer.
Nuclear Thermal Rocket
Netorare. Essentially means Cuckold. Means something along the line of a person stealing someone’s significant other who is a willing participant.
Nipple Twisting Reaction
http://i689.photobucket.com/albums/vv255/chrissyisawrinkle/Jokes/11407.jpg
One of my most hated genres ever..
Government Official: “I honestly can’t seem to understand why are we in an ageing population. I mean, why are all the men so engrossed in anime and manga ?”
That’s like dinosaurs!
“Because we’re a fucking degenerate society sir???”
no doubt you’re a degenerate as well
@23:35 Don’t they already succeed in killing each other anyways? I seem to recall people bullied into suicide.
Or everyone times a nationwide suicide jump from bridges. I wonder where Japanese people go when they die??? It’s apparent they have no souls
@23:27 Yeah next thing you know they’ll all get guns and start shooting each other.
Why so mad at the truth? Only a degenerate society like Japan’s could produce the kinds of people and culture it has
monogamy is overrated, an artificial social or self-imposed barrier. what matters is devotion to be united/supportive of eachother(s) and that doesn’t imply monogamy.
and they wonder why japanese men don’t get married or have girlfriends.
Inorite?! Because they’re too busy fucking some other guy’s girlfriend or wife
No they’re too busy licking off the Choco stains from their underwear
So we know now your fetish…
Seems like you already know the answer to the question you’re asking. Not my fetish but a Japanese one. Don’t believe? Look it up
What does this even mean anon 18:47?
Is licking choco stains your fetish?
Or more like too busy wallowing in self pity because they have dicks the size of 8 year olds. Japanese penis Sooooooooo small
You’re not making any sense there. On my last trip there I saw plenty of young couples in the city.
It’s okay. This is Sankakucomplex. The people here dont take too kindly to Logic and reason here.
You are thinking some people are actually only getting their news from this porn site. Are you that blind?
Well that’s because 99% of the people here are making up the fact they’re in a relationship when really the closest they’ll ever come to touching a woman is when they have to roll their fat mothers out of bed
You forgot jealousy. Mention that you have a real relationship and you automatically get mega-downvotes.
He’s talking about 2ch…
Anyone know whats the picture from?
他の男の精液で孕んでもいいですか…？3
An eroge that features characters suspeciously resemble those of Bakemonogatari, but has nothing to do with it at all.
Seriously, is that Senjougahara getting it on with Meme? That is really dumb NTR. At least use that other gloomy-faced bastard.
It’s an anime called “Get out of your parent’s basement and get a real ducking job!”
Reminds me of a drill sergeant from ‘The good soldier Sveik’.
My ideal job would not involve ducking for a living.
NTR is not cheating. WTF is that title
I don’t even know what NTR stands for.
Yup, if they don’t leave their original partner it ain’t NTR.
Don’t tell the idiots editing wikipedia that, they combined NTR with cuckold.
Was there ever a difference between the two?
The real question is, Who really gives a shit if the two are mixed up?
You’ll find that misleading titles to enflame the comments section are common on Sankaku. It arbitrarily ups the page-views, thus increases Sankaku’s revenue; as such, it is in its’ best interest to do so, in order to gain more pageviews and obtain the all-so-wonderful monetary currency.
In short, just as keikaku.
The site itself is just one big joke. Kinda like the lives of the morbidly obese that skulk about the forums
[quote]Your attempt to troll is laughable at best. Go practice some more before you try and take me on[/quote]
Not laughable enough, apparently, considering you responded.
Or perhaps because if the large amounts of adipose tissue on your back, you can oy skulk??
I make a habit out of skulking, It’s alot more fun then just walking.
Your attempt to troll is laughable at best. Go practice some more before you try and take me on
Like you?
You could have just said “it’s for the ad revenue” and saved us the hailstorm of hard-to-follow sentences.
Poor koyomi onii-chan…
Heh, now he can drop the crab and get with cat.
It’s the year of the snake, dude. Nadeko FTW
I think the point is anything is better than crab.
Unfortunately, instead of a cat, he got it on with the snail.
Wolverine getting raped by an anus? What will they think of next.
a snail is a minor tentackle monster…
a snail is fine too
What about an anus raping wolverine?
“The proportion of Japanese men who are unfaithful is probably triple this figure.”
Over 100% of Japanese men are unfaithful?
An astonishing statistic!
women are bad at math; fact
You’re a pathetically fat seal looking for attention; fact
Attempt to be a troll, fail; fact, now get off the computer and help your parents clean the garage
you’re a virgin 4 life; fact
I’ll tell my friend. She has a doctorate in Mathematics. Won’t SHE be surprised?!
Which she no doubt earned by blowing her professor.
/is unimpressed
not all men are unfaithful, unless they had issues related to broken family, they need a SPIRITUAL ADVISER
I don’t take advice from ghosts. LOL
Spritual Adviser, I’m referring to either a friend, religious organization or a Priest/Buddhist Monk/Pastor.
I’ve had loads of family issues happen to me, and it will be a cold day in hell when I cheat on a girl I love.
Ya I know. But I’m speaking in the sense of my personal character.
I don’t have a girl right now, but that won’t be forever.
That’s if you had a girl to cheat on
>tfw you remember the figures for male infidelity were part of a separate survey and 2ch was referring to the figure for women rather than the actual survery on men
>tfw try to delete stupid post immediately after making it
>tfw commenting system is broken and deletion and edits of posts is impossible
>tfw this is the front page, so the fact that my comment is worthless means it will probably get upvoted while the good comments get downvoted
Why the fuck are you greentexting out of 4chan? Fucking retard.
Considering most are single because they are not rich probably not that high.
They forgot 100% of Japanese men also have penises the size of cocktail wieners. And you wonder why Japanese women cheat? It’s because the Japanese man has the smallest dick out of all Asian men
Wanna measure mine too?
You can suck it if you say please…
This is a mith like womens floppy vagina.
You go around measuring Japanese men’s penises? What an interesting hobby!
You’re right, they’re even smaller than that. Tpyical animu, always trying to grossly distort facts with tales of big dicks.
things in anime = facts. Yeah right… *Eyes roll*
Like ANIMU is the expert on the size of Japanese men’s penises. Oh please
Everyone needs a hobby 😀
Don’t need to, animu already told us the average is 13cm or 5 inches.
http://s2.postimage.org/mv1ls2iuh/yellowpenis.jpg
u mad?
So if 100% of Japanese men have small penises, then who are the women cheating with? I really don’t think you thought this one through.
*Read all comments*
So japanese women cheat because… japanese women have small penises?
Wait… Ow! My head hurts…!
Do I???
I think you mean women??
Lol stealing Japanese men with their superior penises
With foreigners, obviously. Why else would all those HICK FARMERS living around Yokohama hate servicemen & gaijin sensei so much?
Maybe Japanese women are doomed to never be satisfied by. Japanese man. Perhaps they should look to other countries. Either way I find hilarious how you argue the later half of his statement but agree that 100% of Japanese men have small penises
I found a wideo on youtube in wich a kaukasian and american woman talks about penis sizes she tells that she’s been with many asian men and that they all have small dicks is a mith and a big fat lie.
Smallpenis =/= bad sex. the Kama-Sutra said there are 3 different male penis sizes. Women just have to pick out the one they like best. Some prefer the small, some the big.
Video on youtube = fact.
LOL retard here. Look up some scientific facts instead of desperately searching on youtube to dig up smallest excuse to bitch.
How many tear eyed yellow monkeys are there on this site? Enough to downvote this truth!
Haha what a bunch of bitches.
meh NTR, not a fan at all.
I never hated a hentai, but I hate NTR! I think one of the worst, especially when it ends with the guy just by looking at his girlfriend or wife fucking another guy and ending this way.
At least take revenge or even kill them!!
But finishing in a corner crying is pathetic.
I do not think this situation is only in Japan but in many parts of the world where feminists trying have everything to the point of equal rights be forgotten and only the rights of them worth something.
It’s just more power to feminists and man lower the head ..
it’s not just NTR, it’s called reality
also, “coolidge effect” explains it all
The only NTR I give a fuck about is Nuclear Thermal Rockets.
How about Neatly Tailored Robes?
I would totally flip my shit if my wife cheated me. And no, I would not beat the guy, I would beat her, if she could not run fast.
Oh I’d do worse, there’s no way that bitch is getting out with half or all my shit.
lol like you would ever have anyone to cheat on you in teh first place.
I sincerely hope you remain a virgin forever, for the sake of whoever would get stuck with the abusive fuckface that you are.
big man, attacking someone without them attacking you first.
If you are a woman you are a faminist.
If you are a man, then you are a mangina…
funny anon @23:40, I’m male. Suck it up.
oh look, a feminist who can’t get laid and can’t figure out why.
I would hope he’s a big man, the bitch would deserve it.
You don’t have to be a feminist to dislike possessive selfish assholes.
Exactly. Stuff like this really just makes me not want to even get married at all.
Marriage is just a title. It’s only meant to “symbolize” the act of loving and cherishing your partner. Putting a material object on his/her finger doesn’t make the love you feel for him/her any more potent. Why do you feel you need to proclaim to the world that you love your partner? Just love them, cherish them and all will be well. After all, you’re loving THEM and not everyone else.
Unless you’re poly, in which case rock on with your bad self. No hate.
>Marriage is also reassurance to yourself that you are ready for that life long relationship<
Kingfisher, no, it's quite on the contrary. It shows you and your partner you trust some entity, that has no business whatsoever with the so-called relationship, more than the partner and yourself. Which means the matter is not very profound as things stand.
And as of the durability fetish, quality takes care of that, if you let it.
Well said KingFisher. But are you on the right site? It seems wierd seeing someone posting thoughtful ideas about love, relationships, & family on this site. I’m thinking those concepts are beyond the understanding of the nuerotic virgins that are reading it.
Marriage is a legal contract. IMO it isn’t done to prove your love (or shouldn’t be the reason). But if you really love someone & want to spend the rest of your life with someone, it should be considered at the very least for financial planning reasons.
You have a point, but think through this more….marriage is a way to keep families together. Sure you don’t need some piece of paper to proclaim your love, but Marriage is a binding vow. Swearing to a life long commitment with your partner. It’s a reminder of that vow. Any two couples can be in love. But words only go so far. Each partner will later on probably want insurance that they love them and only them. And like all human beings, its a psychological thing. There will always be uneasiness and worry. Also when a couple has kids its, there is moral obligation for you and your spouse to do what’s best for the kids. Without marriage I think it makes it easier for someone to cheat on their spouse and later come up with excuses for their cheating. Marriage is a reminder of the life long commitment towards family. Having a family and taking care of them is a lot of stress and even the best of people will maybe for a second or two think to run away from their family. I don’t mind free love, but the idea of riding a life long commitment towards your partner on just words alone doesn’t say much in today’s society. Marriage is also reassurance to yourself that you are ready for that life long relationship. The people who can have life long relationship with one partner and not need to use the setup of marriage are really unique. Most people aren’t that strong and need that symbol.
Love is love, and I don’t need a piece of paper to prove it.
Rock on anon 21:40
Exactly.
Marriage isn’t even about romance at all, it was created centuries ago as a way to unite two families for whatever reasons under some kind of divine mutual consentment, usually because of goods, lands or peace treaties.
The institution isn’t even needed for a couple to love each other while the feelings lasts, people marry as if this will make one love each other forever and everything will be okay because they are now chained by the law, but no one is prepared to live the illusion to protect the family created after the romance ends.
Of course, some couples are lucky enough to make this work, but many are just marrying because society tells them to do so.
I’m in favor of this, this has to resolve without ended up Divorce because of Broken Marriage, but the last part is another issue.
Don’t let it throw you unless, of course, you believe polls and live in Japan.
I’m getting married in a few days and this article doesn’t bother me in the least.
I surprised you wanted to get married to begin with…
08:29 04/01/2013
That sounded like if a conscription commission supervisor was being apologetic to a candidate he ruled out from forcible draft. Scientists often find out it’s not quite that lab mice like cheese so much that they can be put through the motions with it. The one man’s meat may need veterinary attention or be plain rotten.
All these comments are pretty funny…it is amusing when people pretend their failures at life were a “choice”. Usually what people are insecure about not achieving (but want) is very thing they go out of their way to try to convince everyone else they don’t care about it.
Example: “The hell with women. I will never get married”
Translation: “I am lonely. I sure do wish I had someone special in my life”
to find a girl is freaking easy, the problem is you’ll need to stop to watch animes and play games frequently. Then fuck this, girls are money whores, could NTR ya and even stalk you if you don’t want her anymore. too problematic. Eroges are better
do it for pity or boredom, but never for love
At first, I wanted to marry Shinobu, but now I feel a little scared.
Why do I always end up arguing with myself.
sadly enough i am fat slob lazy pathetic. yet i have a beautiful girlfriend who love me. LOL. just because i love cat <3
your wrong. i’am not fat
Your mom isn’t your girlfriend. And she’s just as fat and ugly as you are
You fools talk like you actually have the option of getting married. To get married you need a girl that loves you first. But no girl will ever love such fat, pathetic slobs such as yourselves lmao
This has been another useless comment brought to you by Justin IZ
Just have a 3 way…
More like a one way with either your left or right hand
“2ch is apparently full of experts on the topic as well”
“apparently” being the key word here
“Apparently Sankakucomplex is full of experts on the topic of analyzing topics as well”
“Apparently” being the key word here
NTR is the genre of hentai. I have no need for any thing else.
*best genre
I’m Lovin’ it
What about a real fucking life? Surely you have some sort of desire for that no?
18:39 NTR’D VICTIM!
Go somewhere else you ugly troll.
This is assuming you’re the same age as him. Considering that you’re a middle-age troll living at the bottom of his grandmother’s cave, that is surely not the case.
I’ll leave after you get a real life. Which means I have all the time in the world