Japanese women quizzed about the which aspects of their relationship history they would much rather avoid being asked about are none too subtle in decrying questions about their ex’s sexual proclivities as “bad manners” and “overly embarassing.”
The ranking, based on a sample of Japanese ladies in their twenties:
1. About sex with your ex (42.8%)
2. How many men you’ve dated so far (25.6%)
3. About your memories of your ex (17.8%)
4. Regarding why you broke up with him (17.5%)
5. Questions about his history (15%)
6. How you feel about him now (13.4%)
7. As to whether you are still in touch with him (13.1%)
8. Where you went on a date with him (9.1%)
9. How you met him (6.6%)
10. What his occupation was (5.6%)
So basically its just about how slutty ur gf is =O
lol good that i dont care about any of those questions.
These can just be summarized to “Don’t ask anythings about her ex” -_-
You guys have girlfriends?
Who cares? Nobody on this site has a girlfriend anyways.
Number Zero :
“Have you ever experienced “sex” ?”
Top 10 Things Your Waifu Doesn’t Want You Asking About
~fixed
Guess the ladies don’t want it out why they were dumped, how long it’s been since they were virgins, or how easily they gave up the coochie (or why for that matter) in the first place.
Funny cuz some girls would be asking these same things due to their own insecurities
The more I see of these polls and the more I see elsewhere, the more apparent it’s becoming that the females in Japan are the biggest reason for the declining birth rate and the reason why guys seem to be running to 2D. It’s been obvious who’s been behind the attacks on the anime/otaku culture for some time, but if you add everything together, you begin to see the whole picture.
Females want:
1.) 6 figure incomes so they can live like princesses.
2.) A guy that’ll fawn over them and never say anything bad about them.
3.) A guy that isn’t working all the time (1+3 = want to have the cake and eat it too)
4.) Complete obedience from the guy and no secrets of any kind.
5.) Want absolute secrecy as far as their business is concerned.
Plenty more but this is getting long.
As for the attack on 2D, they want to get rid of the (winning) competition. Really though, with the obvious stress factors the males will be put under, who would want to bother to try?
The government should spend less on mixers and more on reeducating. The populous there needs to be taught that nobody is perfect, you can’t have everything you want (it’s about give and take), and in a working relationship, you can’t expect to keep everything about your life when they aren’t around a secret while expecting no secrecy from your partner.
What am I saying, it’s so~ obvious it’s all the guys fault
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for everything. /sarcasm
Thinking about what I’ve written, a lot of it fits with what’s expected elsewhere, isn’t it. The females in Japan seem to really push it too far though.
I should just delete this, but *pushes button*
….no, no and no.
Do you guys seriously posess no ability to think for yourselves to the extent that you will believe anything spoonfed to you by this site…?
This isn’t exclusive to Japan. This is how very many girls actually act. Do you seriously possess no experience to the extent where you will deny something that happens so often in the real world that stereotypes about it exist?
They say it all the time, stereotypes exist for a reason.
lol the neckbeards voted this down because they hate the idea of their dumbass stereotypes being wrong.
who he heck are these guys that would ask all this? Most guys I know here in the states, could careless about all those questions.
Heck if anything the most you might here is, “am I better at sex then him?”
“Can I get your ex number? Just in case it doesn’t work out with us, I might be able to hook up with him.”
they dont want you to ask about their last biyfriend because they are still sleeping with them. japanese girls are secretly sluts.
Hey, look up the late, great Sam Kinison on YouTube from the “have you seen me lately” comedy skit. He gives perfect relationship advice on this “About your ex” thing, the guy would be going “Do NOT tell me about your EX!!!!”
“But, honey, You are so conservative. Look at that church! He made me go there and we did it on the altar, but a priest caught us and joined in…though he mostly was interested in my ex and asking if we’d had kids yet…”
“Shut UP you WHORE!!!!”
HEY OTAKUS THOSE QUESTIONS ARE OKAY TO ASK BUT DONT ASK THIS
1.) ARE YOU MY HAND???
foreveralone.jpg
traslation; I don’t want you finding out how much o a dirty slapper I really am, nor how emotionally damaged I am either..
Honestly? I wouldn’t WANT to hear her talk about any exes, much less ask about them.
Funny thing is those are the same 10 things (besides a few other related ones) I don’t like my GF to talk about without me asking.
and yet they’ll probably want to know every little detail about the guy’s history
But what happens if I am the ex?
I thought this was a question TO the boyfriends, so I got to the answer about past boyfriends and was incredibly confused. D=
Also, asking someone general questions about sexual history is SMART.
Different from western girls… who love telling me and their girlfriends how much i’m so much bigger and thicker then their ex’s.
Do you actually fall for this?!
No, really? Do you? ROFL
Every girl I know says this shit to make her current boyfriend feel like a big man and I can’t believe that EVERY single one of them falls for it.
Then the guy walks around like he’s the shit and is so proud of himself. It’s hilarious. Men are so easy.
That’s why i love the 2D LOL
Even when they tell their friends to the point girls you know are saying so and so said you have a big one? They would really go that far to tell third parties too? i dont think so…I guess im gullible then or they really mean it, I’ll choose to believe the second one.
So well said, I care less if its bigger or not than the last looser she was with. All I know its me getting it and my tongue is what they can’t get enough off. After all that what women really want… 😛
Never get any licking complaints which is what really satisfies all you bitches.
Or they’re faking it?
We also got guys here in the west that will ask similar stalker like questions to the girls as those in the japanese survey. But they would be regarded as jealous, insecure about themselves, akward, controlling etc… fits japanese men well?
I guess guys are different- my boyfriends have never minded me asking about their exes, and I haven’t minded them asking about my exes, even about sexual experiences with them.
In fact, it’s actually gotten things going before.
You may be wondering why a fag like myself is on SanCom- it’s probably because I’m just weird like that.
Pedobear said Why don’t go for a loli? You won’t be bother if she had an ex but make sure you tell her if someone ask about you tell them you’re her brother, father or guardian excuse.
Pedo-Bear you are my idol. Marry me.
definitely girls is like this and if they aren’t you probably got a tiny dick
Forget all that hillbilly dick stuff. Its the tongue that counts and how you flick it.
i love how u made girls singular and plural in the same sentance
He’s probably just black, which surprisingly makes up a large portion of the SanCom population. Black people on the internet SaY WuT?
And to point out something so trivial you probably are one of those with a small wee wee. But hey, at least you can ‘bang lolis’ right? /snicker
who are you again?
…or how small you really are depending on the half empty half full scenario…. \(^_^)/
In a month you will know the truth, son.
and how about when they get mad because you want a threesome, and you ask her to call her ex.
threesome with 2 guys? You’re doing it wrong…
a threesome must be 2 girls… 1 guy
(I almost write cup LOL)
Crossing the streams would be so wrong…
It ain’t gay unless balls touch amirite?
Nothing wrong with a spit roast, Just no crossing swords.
“It’s ok, if you’re in a three-way,
It’s not gay, when you’re in a three-way,
When there’s a chick in the middle there’s some lee-way,
The area’s grey, when it’s in a 1-2-3-way.” or something along those lines.
♪(*^^)o∀*∀o(^^*)♪ (I have no clue what this is but it has music notes)
“its not gay,if its in a threeway” -justin timberlake and the guy from The lonely island 🙂
fat and stupid?
oh ye?
I wouldn’t want to know anything about her ex. I’d probably get really jealous.
So it’s all related to their ex uh… Bunch of whores don’t want to you know they had so many cocks in them that they don’t even feel yours.
Aside from #2, everything can be summarized into #3 – dont ask about [her memories of] her ex. Where’s Top 10? I see Top 2:
1. Dont ask how many men she’d had
2. Dont ask ANYTHING about ANY of her EXes
Number 7 happens, so I don’t see how asking that question is wrong…
Number 6 is also a good question… in the case number 7 is a yes… though they’d probably lie about their true feelings towards the ex when talking to their current. Suppose that makes 6 a “no point in asking” question.
Exactly. “How you feel about him now” and “As to whether you are still in touch with him” are actually very important, and people *DO* have a right to know where their significant other stands on these things. Otherwise it’s just a big gamble.
what title this image?
Tsukasa is fucking pissed.
God damn. My wife has asked me almost ALL of those questions! I guess for the girl to ask isn’t bad manners?
Double standards! But only women are entitled to complain about them, of course.
This is why otaku are obsessed with their pure virgin waifus
That DOESN’T exists anymore, thanks to cheap a high availability of DILDOS, so forget it!
Why is DILDOS in all CAPITALS?
2 4 and 6 r average questons
Its me or the person who asks that is in love with the ex?
“Do you fungus?”
Shouldn’t this just be “1. ANY questions about your EX.” Then something else for the nine other positions…
>>How you met them<<
never asked this.. don't wanna know :@
i actually asked all of the above~
Thats crazy, number 1 is , what are you doing with all those double AA batteries all the time?
Main point: Just pretend she never have any ex.
Wow its all about the ex. What if there is no ex? Problem solved.
Japanese men are incredibly insecure aren’t they?
More like the cultural expectations are different, and women are not following them anymore and are behaving more and more like western women. This upsets quite a few people.
It bothers me too, unfortunately. I hate the way I was brought up that gave me this mental set. This no sex before marriage and the first date must lead to marriage stuff really doesn’t do me any good in today’s world. Sadly, it worked with every single member of my family so it seems to be like the social norm. But it really isn’t. People sleep around until they meet the right person. And if I can’t deal with that, I’ll just keep watching anime.
No hun, not every western woman sleeps around to find the right guy. I won’t sleep with someone unless I can imagine myself dating them, and not just whimsical imagining too as in it’s gotta be going somewhere, not just one night stand.
I think it’s sad to think that people nowadays think that sleeping around one night stands is the way to go to find a partner, it really isn’t.
What’s up with fallen11 & Achiuakuna’s downvotes?
Achiuakuna, I feel your pain. You’re not alone, man.
every woman has exes, there are no exceptions.
There are always ex-ceptions!
How ex-asperating.
Well that’s just ex-traordinary!
reading that pun… i just died a little inside
basically, dont ask. just buy her dinner
There is always an ex…
Not if she is a loli.
Pedobear said Did someone say loli…
“Top 10 Cute Little Girls of Anime”
Is what I see next to these comments, coincidence?
About dem lolis. Gradius might not have been too subtle about it but… yup.
“kids these days.”
This saying has been true in every age and era.
cool.. incest 🙂
Every little girls first boyfriend is her daddy. So yes, there is always an ex-.
And no, I don’t mean it THAT way.
“Not if she is a loli.”
Wow, you’re fucking wrong here, those types are the FIRST to lose it wildly. If you haven’t the experience yet, then it proves you just SUCKS!
I dated a girl once who didn’t have any ex-boyfriends. She had several ex-girlfriends though, and was only too happy to tell me in great detail about what they used to get up to together.
im sorry, but this ^
a) and then you woke up
b) and then you climaxed and decided to hang up the phone as it was a premium rate line
c) you’re gay and she was trying to gross you out
d) you’re a girl
LMFAO!!!
anon broh, im really sorry, but right now, i DEEPLY hate your ass.
Women can’t be ronrey. This is not to say that finding a soulmate is easy for either gender, but okay to reasonably good-looking women get offered sex 1D3+3 times every day. Unfortunately, the same is not true for men.
Its not about getting laid, but lets be for real, a guy walks up to a girl and says I like you lets fuck probably not going to get the reaction you want.
On the other hand women walks up to me who has a good body and ask if I want to fuck her and trust me I will be in her faster than it takes an otaku to watch an anime. Forget patients forget work forget everything for the next hour or two. Got my condoms and I am ready to burn every hole in her.
The reverse will get me a slap or someone calling for the police. Been good looking from a guys point does not get you squat unless your ok with fugly girls.
@08:38: 1D3+3 is shorthand for roll one three sided die, add three to the result.
Basically just a nerdy way of saying “4-6 times a day”.
…Wow, really people?
Out of that “1D3+3” chances, women get asked “1D3+3” times, and for that to happen, men must ask them out “1D3+3” times as well. It’s common sense.
You may think that women have “more” chance because there’s more offers for sex than they accept, however every time they do accept, no matter if 10% or 90% of the times they get offered, both involved parties succeed to get sex, so your argument is invalid.
That’s where the logical fallacy lies.
@stillcode less women with more men also do happen, just as homosexual relationships do, and latter ones are about 10-15% for both genders, I think. That’s why I said “about same”.
…
Not if a larger number of women are getting laid with a small group of men.
Logic fallacy much?
Not true. I consider myself good looking but I’m not offered sex 1D3+3 times a day (whatever that means). Prolly cus I don’t put myself out there in positions where people ask for sex and that’s all they expect.
Also they prolly think ‘man she’s got to have a boyfriend with they way she looks so I won’t even bother’, which is true now but it wasn’t for years before 🙁
The amount of women gettin laid must be about same as the men they get laid with?
Logic fallacy much?
You know, it is actually possible that she doesn’t have an ex — when she has a boyfriend right now. Problem not solved.
Unless we are serious about raping here.
1: Would it be alright for me to try dating your sister?
2: Would you like to try a threesome?
3: Can you grow a moustache?
4: Can you go get some plastic surgery for your breasts?
5: Your mom is kind of hot, is she available?
6: You’re wearing so much make up, is it alright for me to see your actual face?
7: I want some privacy, can you get out of my house?
8: Could you go fetch me some fastfood?
9: this tastes like crap, could you go learn cooking?
10: you were (age+5) years old, right?
Could this list really be true? Why so obsessed over the ex-boyfriend?! Geesh.
I have ever asked the number 6
And she replied : I don’t wear any makeup
Me : *shocked* ( Is this true ? )
“Why so obsessed over the ex-boyfriend?”
Note that the article says, “Japanese women quizzed **about which aspects of their relationship history** they would much rather avoid being asked about” (emphasis added). So the title is misleading, either intentionally (which wouldn’t be a surprise) or unintentionally (for brevity purposes).
OH GOD YES! number 6 and 7 especially.
6 was the aggravator that made one of my exes ditch me.
But for the love of God, she looked like a Thai shemale! It got some of my collegues speculating about my orientation!
And no, I knew her since we both in elementary. There’s no way she’s actually a shemale.
…Is she…?
Hahaha, she a male!
Who the fuck would ask these questions..?! ESPECIALLY #1 and #2… >.>
Are you a retard anon?
The threesome above is: you (well, not you since your a tard!) + her + her sister!
u forgot about anal sex
Don’t ask. Just do it.
Anal sex is so gross though
I did it one time and it was super uncomfy for her, and it felt like my dick was hitting her pelvic bone, and my dick came out with poop on it… not really my thing 🙂
That’s why you usually get the one on the recieving end to rinse out first.
Youdoingitwrong does not mean it’s bad. 😐
That’s not the pelvic bone. That’s poop your hitting.
Now that is what guys should be asking. Ex who F cares its not his dick in her mouth.
Oh god… I actually said #6 to last ex. Not as harshly.. but still. And number 5, but I’m sure she noticed it for the joke it was.
Yes, I approve your list…
Seem to be everything normal here, if you basically want to be her current boyfriend or is her current one. Kind of makes me feel that I would have been able come up with this list
Seeing that every taboo question concerns their ex, I have a feeling that most women are not too happy in their current relationship either, if they don’t want to be reminded of their previous one so badly 😛
Yes, every taboo question in a survey about questions involving past relationships concerns… past relationships. Imagine that.
#11: So, when you had sex with those fifty guys, how often did you use condoms?
#12: So, you have just a few venereal diseases now, or quite a lot?
In short, anything related to her ex.
so 100% girls have an ex?
For all intents and purposes… Yes.
This list seems like your more interested in her ex rather than her.
“So this ex of yours… How big was he? You know, just to compare.”
Number 1 should be “are you a trap”.
now that’s funny… :3
A trap is fine too (if I happen to be gay)
I have the record.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_fQLqNzS0NM
Aki, are you really love Sakamoto’s Back that much ?
You dont love my back at all ?
Even I have the feeling but the truth still really shocking.
Plus ten point
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=54uk_ollm00
WHERE DID YOU GET THAT SANTA TAIGA PIC X_X
tell me, rite nao.
me sucks at shoop ;_;
1. Open shoop
2. ???
3. You get smth like a hat, like dis ->
Bro…..people these days can crop in Santa hats onto things.
It’s photoshopped of of another Taiga picture, adding a christmas-hat. Just find two different pictures, take 5 min i PS and voila.
That’s a crossdressing Yoshii-kun..
A candygil is all I need!
*shrug* It depends on how pushy the questions may be or if the guy is doing that to bully. Or just do it all one better and ask him about his ex. Though I don’t think the dynamic would be the same..
Japanese girls are crazy anyways, why would you want a relationship with them?
Unless they are exposed to “western” culture, they have FUCKED up views about relationships and communication.
This is better than girls comparing you to their exes. I’d rather not talk about their exes as well.
why the fuck would you like to know about your girfliend’s ex?
Sweet, in japan i can ask my girlfriend ” Can you make me a sammich?” without thinking about the consequences! 😀
1. “So you’re on the pill right?”
1) Weight
2) Size of boyfriend’s c***.
3) Anime fan or not.
So basically the “Top 10” are just all generally about their ex’s. Pretty sure that’s not really a list at all.
There ARE women and men out there who have never had EXs you tards. Look at the tiny surveys here or elsewhere with men liking their 2D girls better. And who can blame them?
But the real question is, do you want to break in a virgin and then try to teach them what you like, and suffer many many epic fails or grab a girl that knows what she is doing and hope you’re not getting images in your head of all the wang that’s been there before yours, both much bigger, and smaller.
this makes it seem like every japanese girl’s last BF was a basketcase or nutjob
why the hell would you want you know so much about an ex? As long as they were clean and didn’t give you anything then we in business.
this survey is JUNK, wtf, is that beach bitter or something?.
The correct title
“Top 10 Things Your Girlfriend Doesn’t Want You Asking About Her Ex”
“Everything”
Or; anything that may be related to Her fault.
Takes two to tango, all i’m sayin.
If she has anything she’s trying to hide, she’s not ready for a real relationship. Period.
The same goes for men.
i am sorry, but 4 and 7 are things i would have to ask.. the rest would be her business and in the past.
#2 May ask.
#6&7 Will ask.
The rest I’d not care.
Insecure guys ask these questions because they want to know where they measure up in the ranks (dick size, money, performance). Been guilty of it myself at times.
Sometimes too much knowledge comes at a price and you ruin the relationship with jealousy and insecurity.
Even if he was a corporate CEO with a 12 inch dick it obviously didn’t work out and she has chosen you.
Like Jack Nicholson said “You (read guys) can’t handle the truth!” So chill.
Not true about her choosing you, the ex may of cheated on/dumped her, you might just be what she settled for/the rebound.
it’s not just about insecurity, my beloved non-anon.
i’m gonna tell you a little history. my former girlfriend -sorry for the self-reference- had a particular ‘conductual pattern’ as far as bf’s went. how did i get to this conclusion? i didn’t.
we spent several years together, then out of the blue, all started to went down the toilet. “why?” we discussed for a couple of months, and also talk’d bout our previous relationships, how they ended, etc. it was the first -and last- time we talked about it.
thing is that she realized that the same issues that made her ditch and be ditched before, were poping out with me.
if we didn’t have this talk, i’d never realized that it may be truly important to talk about previous experiences with your actual gf/bf. tho im not sayin that it should be the ‘first’ thing to talk about.
that’s it. thanks for listening.
Finally an honest answer.
OH MY GAWD, WHO THE HELL CARES?
this list is retarded. it is always awkward for your current partner to be asking about you last partner. seems like they just wanted to put something up.
how bout the question have you been raped before?
You will know if she is going to slap you too, which solved:
1) Does she have good tolerance level?
2) If she is going to slap you, which hand would she uses…
3)how strong is she….
have you experienced chikan? and love it?
No normal person would ask that question, so I doubt they considered it.
i would ask have you ever been “raped” before…
it gets 3 things out of the way,
1 will she ever decide this was a mistake and report it as rape
2 was she ever really raped, the baggage is to much for many men to handle, and most of the time, comes out to late in a relationship to easily back away from
3 will she be offended by weird questions.
it gets 3 main points out of the way in 1 simple question.
And she’ll know you’re not considerate of her feelings, especially if she hears the reasons you list.
alidan: Dude. This is brilliant. Not sure about the practical usage, but this is pretty clever on a theoretical level.
11) Why does that health clinic keep calling?
12) And why do they need a sample of MY blood?
13) What is with that long mound of dirt in your basement?
14) Why are so many homeless guys with no pants on out front when I stop by after work?
15) Why does your dog’s breath frequently smell of peanut butter?
16) Didn’t you just rent Fatal Attraction last week?
17) Why do your friends keep giving me cultist literature?
18) Why are there so many missing pets signs posted along your street?
19) Did I leave my platinum card over here?
20) Why is there a charge for a single plane ticket to Aruba on my card?
For a second i thought it was a list of what you don’t want you gf to talk about …
Seriously what BF on earth want his GF to speak about her EX ?
When that GF kept in close touch with that EX of hers….
still get annoying when you hear her cry about how it was great when she did this and that with her EX while YOU’RE her boyfriend …
If you truely love her, there are things you want to know, all of these seemed pretty reasonable for a guy who truely loves a girl. If you do not agree to this, that means no matter what happens, you will not be jealous, you will not ask, you will not fight about it, even if she still continues to date, have sex, kiss with her ex. But you know this already, otherwise people wont go to court over family dispute, because if you love her, why care if she has sex with other guys, you would simply say, hey, Im only interested in you, not your ex, not even in the guy you are having sex with right now. End of story, grow up, we are all humans.
Wait, love?…. Gay
If she truely love him than tell him everything. If he truely love you than he can accept everything.