35% of Japanese Women: “Sex is Nothing But a Hassle!”
- Categories: Japan, News
- Date: Aug 28, 2010 09:53 JST
- Tags: Dating, Marriage, Otaku, Relationships, Ronery, Statistics
35% of Japanese women apparently regard sex as little more than a “hassle,” whilst more than half of Japanese in their twenties thought romance equally bothersome.
Quizzed about their attitudes to love in a survey of 1,000 Japanese conducted for a Japanese newspaper, 45% agreed that “engaging in a romance is bothersome,” with both genders feeling equally put upon at 43% for men and 47% for women.
Young people were particularly negative – 58% of men in their twenties regarded it as a hassle, as did 50% of women of the same age. That for various (primarily financial) reasons marriage is now all but impossible for Japanese men in their twenties probably plays into this perception.
Regarding sex, 28% merely regarded it as “a hassle” – with a substantial gender gap evident, as 35% of women regarded it as such, versus 20% of men.
However, when the results for this question were broken down by age a slightly different picture emerged – 24% of men in their twenties, normally thought to be their sexual prime, thought it bothersome, versus 21% of women of the same age.
Once into their thirties the responses reversed – 19% of men and 33% of women called it a hassle, which rose precipitously to 42% of women versus only 22% of men in their forties.
Media froth over so-called “herbivorous” men, a class of young men generally perceived as being uninterested in courting, does not seem quite so hyperbolic in light of such results.
Meanwhile 25% of both men and women reported themselves entirely “sexless” as they had no partner.
With over half of young Japanese apparently regarding love as little more than another of life’s obstacles, it seems little wonder that their leading cause of death is suicide.









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Well, maybe because 2d > golddiiggers has something to do with it. Or maybe Jap women should lower their (ideal husbands financial status) standards just a wee bit.
Well...
I'm a girl, i'm in my early 20ies, i'm attractive, and i love em 3D japanese. <3
Let me in there, i'll change their opinions~
Hehehe
j men... teeny weenuses = hassle. Like driving the Nuremberg ring in a 2HP riding mower. No wonder they have a bad impression of the act.
Then again if they took as good of care of their little sisters as the average coastal chick, they might get extra attention that would alleviate the need for magnificent wangage.
douche or shuddup.
you're the douche, so shaddup...
it's just a fucking personal preference
don't try to force your ideals on other people
and make up reasons why they don't prefer it
35% of Japanese Women: "I never had satisfactory sex!"
So thats why the Japanese don't allow non Japanese into the country, the ladies might get a taste of a real man sized sausage bratwurst and realize its 2 1/2 times the diameter and 3 times longer than the Japanese mens tinie winies. Now we know, of course the women aren't going to be happy with something the same size as their tampon inserter that he has.
yes because last time I went to Japan these big security guards appeared at the airport and escorted me back to my own country. No foreigners are allowed to Japan, ever.
seriously wtf are you talking about?
Obviously when you ask people in the young twenties they'd think relationships is a hassle, especially when they're thinking about their careers, or just want to have fun.
Ask them again when they hit 30 and they'd be desparate to find a partner.
Crazy panda people... I wonder if there really is something to the concerns about phytoestrogens in soy? I always thought it was bunk.
Or maybe they've just become too skilled at making world class porn...
More like world class crying videos that happen to contain sexual situations.
and guess which gender is driving humanity to extinction
men, right? Because they make up so many myths about women and then sit in a circle jerk believing them. Lol.
When people get rejected, they can develop a "I never really cared, anyway!" attitude if they don't deal with it in a healthy manner.
Kiss the nation of Japan good-bye, folks. It'll be free land in 100 years.
I'd consider it a hassle too if most of my choices were ugly 3d jap women. -__-
Dude, all japanese women are fine to me!
No one says they have to do anything. Just lay there and take it.
So men's desire for sex increases with age while women's decrease? or did I completely misunderstand something?
No wonder lolicon subculture thrives.
the image is from which game?.
If Japanese women consider it a hassle, it means they don't see enough money in it.
Now, I wonder why Japan continues to have a declining population...lol...
Wtf? They're crazy if they think sex is a hassle! It's the best thing in your life!
Man, sex totally is a hassle. It's women's way of sucking the life out of you.
"After Nagisa died, Tomoya had sex with a random orange haired hooker as a compensation."
sounds like what sousuke almost did in second raid.
"After he was forced away from Kaname, Sousuke (almost) had sec with a random blue haired hooker as a compensation."
Well no wonder.
To "help himself/herself" is easier xD
And the toys in Japan are cheaper too`(?).
...Japan is full of fail...won't take long for their crash.
Well than..
Just don't have sex.
I'd go sexless too with just 4 inches...
Japan's future is fairly fragile and surely uncertain.
I'm a herbivorous man then.
Same here.
It seems that this will indeed result in a serious birthrate issue :(
I object to equating lack of love with suicides. You don't need love to live a full and pleasant life. If anything, breakups and obstacles between lovers cause suicides (and murders).
And with porn so easily available, one might think that the japanese will be more interested in sex.
Porn > sex
If sex for you is just a hassle then you failing in communicate with your partner.
You're failing at communicating as well.
"If sex for you is just a hassle then you failing in communicate with your partner."
No, it's the communication that IS the hassle!
Zero Population Growth, everyone should do it.
Actually, we need negative population growth for a while. The planet is *already* overpopulated. Japan is overpopulated, too -- very much so, which is why they have to live close together. Population density in Japan (and most of Asia) is pretty high.
What the world needs is a mass suicide of the useless people.
I suggest that SanCom members start this as a service to humanity. God knows you dumb losers are just taking up space.
The race of SankakuComplexians will die out in few decades anyway...
Japan isn't over populated, it's that everyone try's to cram into the same place. Do your research.
More like Tokyo.
its the fucking third world thats over populating. i say fucking let them. they will eat themselves to death, try to war for food, and get killed by better equipped well fed people.
now seriously, it is the third world that the world cant support.
the world only has food for 2/3 of the people liveing here. 1/3 of them have to go.
japan can more or less self sustain itself, but can india, africa and china? fuck no. let them die off.
No, a higher population of people in the third world means they will come to developed countries like Germany and use their raw population to subvert democracy to institute things like sharia law in a western liberal democracy.
no, this is hard to explain.
we stop major genoside form happening, or at least appear to prevent it.
and we are also more technologically advanced. so most of what you said cant happen.
what can is kill green peace motherfuckers and do genetically modified food on a much grander scale.
The "third world" should do what Europeans did in the 1400s-2000s and go to war and commit genocide on other continents, then settle in and form a new nation. Genocide will knock off human populations and resettling in that area will alleviate overpopulation from where they came from.
Think how overcrowded Europe would be if all the european-americans, canadians, and australians went back to Europe. Their population density would be 5x worse than China.
Maybe it's a hassle because the woman has to shower after sex, otherwise she'll feel dirty.Men just have to clean their dicks with a napkin or something.
Dude I always shower after I fap and I'm a dude.
If I'd shower after each fap I'd only leave the bath to eat and sleep. ^_^
i shower once or twice a week and i fap up to 35 times a week, more or less depending on the porn
Wait wait wait wait WAIT..
Is that picture of a female Sunohara and Tomoya after they did the deed?
Eww..
And yet..
*fap*
Damn, a lot of people are doing it wrong. The worst I ever had was wonderful!
Given the size of the Japanese penis, I'm surprised they even notice.
2D guys have better size dicks. 3D Japs does not have it.
Never compare 2d and 3d. You'll pollute my 2d fantasy. >ς<
Fun fact: Race doesn't affect penis size. There has never been statistical evidence to back up this myth. Also, yes this means blacks have nothing special going on down there. No matter the race the average remains about 5.1 to 5.9 inches.
I think there has been statistical evidence to suggest race affects penis size, but the difference is so insignificant that it doesn't really matter.
Also, it's not what you've got, it's how you use it.
According to your stats, Anonymous, the penises of the US are smaller on average than those of Japan, while European penises are surprisingly enough, quite big.
This could be relevant to someones interests.
Mine is longer than an average black's? Cool. ^_^
http://www.everyoneweb.com/worldpenissize/
There you go..
no no no, thats not the right one.
there is one that shows the difference in a bell curve
asians peak out an inch lower than white peak out, the they have a slower drop off than white,
same with blacks, except the reverse they have a slightly bigger build up to the average but drop off faster after it.
now here is a fact, you dont want a long penis, you want girth. because a vagina is not meant to hold more than 7-8inches. but with is where they feel it more.
Yup, girls don't like it when you hit their womb.
actually the difference is about an inch.
asian peak length wise 1 inch lower than white, and black an inch higher.
otherwise the outliers, as in extreme big and extreme small are about the same for every race,
As if you had an 8 inch dick.
I do.
It doesn't get used but I have it.
So do I. I keep it in my closet.
Actually, so do I. lol.
Ah yes, yet ANOTHER confirmation of why Japan has low birth rates.
I think this applies in any country. Let's face it, any woman, even the fugliest and most inexperienced, can make any man come, but hardly any men can do the same for any women.
So the women just have to tell them what they like.
tenga
It's actually the other way around. With women, it's more about all kinds of tricks like foreplay and mood-setting and fingerwork, while with men, the looks of the woman play a major role.
Personally, I wouldn't be able to cum - or even get up - to an even slightly ugly woman, or a woman I found ugly on the inside (pervertedness is the biggest turn-off for me), but you might be different.
If you only go after innocent virgins you'll have a really ronery life. Now that I think about it, don't most japanese men do exactly that?
Ha ha, that's the foremost reason why I prefer 2D over their real-life equivalents. Even if they aren't physical, I can always eliminate the turn-offs regarding 'inner ugliness' at will. To be fair, this can be applied to normal porn too, but that's when 2D's visual supremacy comes in play.
On another note, virgins aren't always non-perverted. Many of us in Sankaku are great examples of this.
Yup, sure would.
But that would go to far.
There are virgins in the EU, you just have to check the Kindergardens. ^_^
Than you will be lost in the EU.
iff pervertedness is such a turnoff for you i have to actually ask you
"What the hell are you visiting this site for?"
Your question doesn't make sense to me; even if you're attracted towards hot people, you aren't necessarily hot yourself.
We enjoy listening to the perverts.
That why Im holding out on sex till I get my stuff straight*wink*.
This is depressing, one of the many leading factors of low birthrate, now if they only let the foreigners in we can change all of this :P
Will they all be white people? I hope not.
Foreigners have never made a good impression on the Japanese. For hundreds of years they have seen them as 'barbarians'. With good cause.
Go to another country, adopt their ways, and then look at American tourists, contractors and servicemen. You will then understand the true meaning of the word 'obnoxious'. I did it, and it was the only time I felt ashamed to be American. We are a great people, but individually, especially on foreign soil, we can be real a**holes.
Foreigners are not all Americans you know.
American tourist seem like hillbillies to many people in many nations not only Japan.
funny thin g to is that Americans are not the worst tourists in the world. its a tie between the French and the English.
they would rather die then do that.
Fancy that. At this rate they will.
Japan needs more black men.
America needs fewer.
Haha! Yes, Here! Here!
Hell they could ever Borrow some asian-American men. they'll show those women whats good ;)
Would there big dicks even fit in a asian pussy? ^_^
Lube, lube and more lube is the key. And then go in gentle, just a bit at a time. Get her the right attention and she will enjoy sharing her ballon knot with you as much as you will enjoy the tightness.
The joyful screaming at the end is the music of love.
lube? If you can't get them wet you are a wuzz
"Jam it in!"
Nothing wrong with some diversity. A few blonde oujo-sama girls sure won't hurt. ^_^
White boys have no problem polluting asian women unfortunately.
@ 2DGIRLSONLY
Pikachu
More like, "Say 'when'."
Maybe we shouldn't pollute their 'pure' yamato race...and uh black + yellow dunt really mix, no racial offense but, when u paint u never mix those two colours
Its from an eromanga, Quack.
Which was pretty funny i might add. :P
Huh? Someone quoted Arturia Pendragon and it slipped past me? Or are you not talking about Fate/stay night?
quack failed to recognize saber's line
That would harm Japan's economy and raise the crime level.