40% of Internet Losers “Have Never Kissed”
- Categories: Japan, News
- Date: Apr 13, 2010 01:37 JST
- Tags: 2ch, Dating, Internet, Otaku, Relationships, Ronery, Statistics
A survey of Japanese Internet users reveals 40% admit to having never dated or kissed.
The surveyors first asked 131 male members of their own site “How many times do you normally date a girl before you kiss,” finding that 70% fell between 1-3 times.
Then they decided to find a bigger sample, going with a 2ch-based online survey of 2,000 usersof all ages, asking the same question: “How many times do you date before you kiss?”
1. I’ve never dated/kissed a girl! – 39.5%
2. We kiss on the first date – 19%
3. We kiss on the third date – 16%
4. We kiss on the second date – 10.6%
5. We kiss on the fifth date – 6.2%
Presumably the survey did not include dakimakura, monitors or DSes.









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And I'm a girl who's never kissed a boy :C
"He's 38 years old......never kissed a girl."
I do not have a GF, and i m 19.
<,< but at least a have kissed
ahahahaha! i may be an internet male but i got a quick kiss with an 11 year old girl! <3
(was 17.9 years old at the time)
'hey guess what guys i'm a pedo!'
congrats. loser.
I was option one 2 years ago and I thought things were never gonna change, but after a drunken night of Victorious Boxers and Hokuto no Ken Shinpan no Sososei Kengou Retsuden with my few true friends, I called a childhood friend chick and two weeks later we were together.
I find this hard to believe, even in japan. Perhaps most of the posters are middle/high school students...? hopefully....?
I am an internet male.
I've sucked stripper nipple. I fear where they've been, but oh well.
gross
I hope this isn't true. I wonder what the ages are? It just says all ages which, being net users, could be just young teens maybe. Still, a kiss is just a kiss. No big deal.
Well that sucks.
get a life =D
seriously, I am not the most popular guy, but I can't just be confortable being in mine, don't even try. I don't kissed a lot of chicks, 6 more precisely, but man, I tough I was not so good with then
define life
pushing 30 years and not one
Finding a girl is tough, but it's a lot harder when you have a hard time talking to ANYONE. Not to mention I find that a lot of women I try to talk to have no real hobbies or interests whatsoever. And "walking" isn't a hobby damnit!
I guess I'm just a selfish prick who wants to find a girl with personality but can't find any, or is unable to.
I also have standards that put me out of the game. I found some nice girls in online games - real girls, I've met them in person multiple times - and maybe even my ideal. But trying to get a relationship started? Damn... first, I'm now an old buddy to them, and second, now that we're all out of the games, communication is so sparse it's like courtship via turn-based laproscopy, so I can't recommend it.
I got the same problem, I want a girl that have similar hobby, but it's almost impossible.
why don't you increase your social circle and make friends who respect you and present you to other friends which may possibly get you a girlfriend.
Look about the hobbies part,you have to be a really good explainer and use the best stuff to affect them to like your hobbies,but do watch out what you present the first time.Just try guessing what part of your hobbies could the girl like.
you do know not all internet users are into girls
We should have a similar poll here on sancon
I was force as a child to kiss a Girl.
"2channel Ita-news?"
"DQNplus?"
So basically, they asked /b/ what their dating experience was... I don't think that's quite the same as internet males in general.
Still, reporting in... in the last few years I got several hugs from girls... it ruled. Damn this safety lockout that makes drunks disgusting.
... that means you've never kissed a girl?
Nothing meaningful... I've really met very few I'd want to.
fapfapfap
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAhAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Thank God for Alcohol... works like aphrodisiac...
o.o'
This has got to be some kind of troll. What's the source? A cite akin to CNN trying to portray all otaku in a negative light? This can notttttttttt possibly be true... can it? o.o'
Not too surprising. Though when you take an online survey and don't have any restrictions, that data can pretty much mean anything. Like how many young kids took the survey?
And here I thought I was a bit too introvert for my own good, having had only 2 girlfriends at 24 and all.
Since my last girlfriend I've met more girls, but I just can't be bothered to start another relationship, I lost my taste for romance I guess. Sex? yeah sometimes, I've managed to find girls for that purpose so far. Another relationship? No, I'm afraid I don't feel the need for a sentimental partner at the moment.
Does it matter if you ever kissed a girl or not? If you care what all those mindless sheep of our society think of you, then probably yes. But if you actually have a brain of your own, you know that "get a life" or "you're a loser" are just empty words with no meaning.
I am 22 and still a virgin, and you wouldn't believe how high my self-esteem is. Just be yourself. Even if you spend all your day on the internet, if it's what you enjoy, do it!
Im the same as those 40% but Im not a jap.
Im 26 by the way.
what a coincidence, me neither.
a kiss implies love and respect. i have neither for anyone. and to get to 3rd base and in her pants, it will cost you probably thousands of dollars in meals, taxi's, and other indulging expenses for the 5 seconds of pleasure that you are going to get.
buy a hooker for a hour...? priceless! well, its about 100 bucks, but more experienced and way the hell cheaper! best of all, they never call back, so you save even more money.
I guess its bad luck to make the fourth date your third kiss.
3 strikes and you're out. Btw, if you kiss and then don't get her into bed after another 3 dates max, you again are screwed. PS applies to ADULT relationships, kids please disregard
I used to kiss my cousin and finger her pussy when we were 6, but I haven't touched a girl since then, now I'm 19. So does that make me part of the 40% ?
She was the one who asked me to do it at first, then she couldn't get rid of me anymore, now she's engaged.
Kissed on the first "date" inside a karaoke bar. Or better i was kissed (yeah im shy) and it was no date because i knew her only for some hours.
And no she wasnt drunk. ^^
I've never dated or kissed (In a non-greeting way).
But I did somehow manage to finger someone, however.
same here, but im okay with it.
a more proper question would be:
how much of that 40% is okay with it?
Ah, how the internet changed.
10 years ago it would have been 80% at least.
Silly normalfags.
Wait, never kissed a girl as in virtually or in reality?
I haven't kissed a girl before and i'm 19 T_T
I understand ow u feel TT_TT
no biggie, considering that kissing a guy is the same as kissing a girl.
do the math what is so hard to figure about that?
o.0*! ! !
http://news.livedoor.com/article/detail/4713092/
Actually the 2,000 sample survey is explicitly said to have been for both men and women. And nowhere in the options does it mention kissing girls...
You are quite correct - I mistakenly conflated the two surveys.
However, the source used is basically part of 2ch and has at least 66% male participants so it is not clear if the sample is all that balanced.
does it really matter that much?
I wish I was one of them. Married bar sluts give me the creeps.
thx op i cum on cat it hiss at penis
Oh.. I haven't kissed too.:(
i had sex with a virtual girl in my dreams,feels good man.
I've never kissed a girl.
Soo sad.. I'm pathetic!!!
Damn where's that rope and soap when you need it.
I used to date, kiss and have sex with girls
but everthing stopped ever since I started to lurk on the internet
I haven't touched a girl since many years and I fap on Hideyoshi pics now
does it make me a part of these 40% ?
No, I don't think so. In your case you seem to have distanced yourself from it willingly. Yeah you can boast about being "more normal" than that 40%
Psh,If everyone just used what they learned in eroges they could probably get a kiss or two.
And then there was a Nice Boat.
Or a Nice Trap...
It's one thing to get a kiss, it's another to get more than just a kiss.
It's one thing to get a kiss, it's another to get a lawsuit...
"...what they learned in eroges..."
- but, you know, 3DPD :)
Tried... and failed. :3
And then Anon was like "I CAN ALREADY SEE THE ENDING!"
Im one of them too. Whell if not countign kissing old class friends form high school on my birthday. But its a friendly kiss (onto the lips). But no passion, no love... Just an inocent kiss...
I miss this option: "I don't want to kiss 3DPD girls and never met any else."
Those among the 40% who claim to have never dated/kissed a girl needn't feel down about it. They all have the potential to make it happen. It's just a question of whether they're willing to put forth the effort necessary to make it happen. So long as your alive you still have a chance.
Twelve men broke free in '73...
What if someones skips the kissing part and just goes to the action?
(also, where so many comments are rated down when almost everyones agrees?)
this is quite funny actually, even by japanese standards i wouldnt have expected it to be 40%
but well at least now i know im not alone all cause im guilty as well
Holy crap, get a life people...
If the girl shows enough interest I'll kiss on the second date already. The first one seems too early *nods*
i use internet,i have sex every day
Your right hand is not a girl, no matter how often you kiss it.
But my donkey is!
guess i belong to the 60%
Time for the Love+ lips attachment to be added to the DS. That way they can all say they at least kissed all the girls in Love+. Maybe make a WII kissing lips attachment as well with a lounge that french kisses.
Now yall know if you really wanted to kiss a girl
you could, thats what spring break is for, bitches so drunk they dont care who they bang!
"Evan: You know when you hear girls saying like 'ahh I was so shit faced last night I shouldn't have fucked that guy,' we could be that mistake!"
- Superbad!
HA! That doesn't happen!
I also find myself a bit skeptical about the specifics of his tale of sexual renaissance, but he does speak a basic truth: keep your outside self "cool" and you will get laid, save your freaky inside self to yourself and you may get to try some of the crazy hentai stuff on pretty real girls.
You don't have to believe me, but I will say that my own tale, although differing in the specifics, stays true to the basic truth I outlined above.
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Sandalphon : Yes it happened... its but one story. I'm in my late 30s and I date mostly girls in their 20s. I'm supposed to have a date with a 22yr girl this Friday, I think I really like her and hope she is able to make it this time.
Since I started being "normal / open" - I've learned to drink, dance, party and have sex. There is a bit more sex I have access too that I don't want. When a girl I want to ONLY have sex with, wants a relationship. Also, I went from an over-weight t-shirt wearing fan boy (245lbs) to a muscular dude (185lbs). It took me about 4 years to loose the weight and change my attitude. I also changed my car to a sports car.
Things I've done, that I never done in my 20s.
- Dated and have sex with Lesbians (okay, sometimes they switch)
- do 3-somes with girls, more times I can count that I don't count.
- Been to some sex parties (not quite orgies) in which a guy I meant was a total animal with girls, but I realized he WAS an anime-geek from 10 years before and knows the same people *I* know.
- One of my EXs had her boobs drawn on at a party at an anime con by an artist in a room with 20+ guys and 2-3 other girls also took off their tops. (have photos)
- had sex with 3 different women this past new-years even (two at the same time)
- twice, talked to a girl for 5 mins go into a bathroom stall or other and have sex. yes, I keep condoms in my car.
- Had sex with pretty much all races. I prefer whites, but done black, hispanic and of course Asians (Koren, Singapore, Thai, Chinese) - but not Japanese yet :( With that experience, it was the Asian ones that got my dick the hardest and NONE of them were into Anime at all.
- Sex outside, various places. Some exhibition.
- finger banged girls while at bar (like waiting for the bartender to come by so I can order)
- sucked on tits and felt up girls on the dance floor (ie: past the undies)
- ate girls out while on phone with MOM (one of my favorites) with "Why did you DO that?!" heheh
But of all the sex, I miss my last love and want a girlfriend. One of the Asians was the best GF I ever had. And *IF* I wasn't open to people, I never would have had a chance.
Yeah... many years ago I thought came to me.
Q: if I don't have life experiences or things of interests to talk about, how am I going to get laid or get a GF?
A: Go out and date, change your life. There are only few girls into Anime and many of them, I wouldn't want to have as a GF or stick my dick into.
I love Anime, the art and the stories. And I like the hentai stuff as well. I've had GFs who'd fantasy about TRMs... :) But if that was ALL I had to work with, how will that impress the ladies, much less Asian ones.
Without EXPERIENCE, miss-right could be right there next to you, but you're a dork or an introvert and afraid to ask her out.
The Asian GF I loved, she was a model and easily a 9 on the babe scale. I meet her at a club, walked up to her within 5 seconds of seeing her. She wanted a one-night stand, but it turned into many many nights.
I didn't see this post before (why my response was so delayed) and I'm off to the a workout to burn- off more winter-weight. At 195lbs, my girl-attracting cool clothes don't fit until I hit 185 or below, should take a few more weeks. My lightest was 170lbs.
I'm not desperate enough to kiss/fuck some random slut.
You guys depress me T.T
well life is very depressing for some people it could hit you or not.But like someone suggested tapping it would be usefull to save you and just incase check falserapesociety
Seriously you guys, I am disappoint.
Oblivious anon is oblivious...and lame.
why don't you explain why you are dissapointed.
well, you know if a woman kisses you on the third date she's your Shipoopi
That was lovely.
and then her feeling comes and she feels bad and ashamed the next day and reports you to the police that you raped her.
Hurt feelings for irresponsibly drunk consenting yet still being there and feeling atraction to a guy,next day she thinks what she did and that she doesn't like it and you are screwed.
So you should tape it all, of course, just in case you have to prove she was consenting.
Easy - make sure she is so drunk she won't remember who she fucked.
Worked for me.
true,but then judges can again punish you for recording without her consent and certain women wouldn't want to have sex if you recorded her will not consent to recording.Which could actually mean a man that could have real evidence against a false rape accusation .Destroying every chance of a man being innocent while she consented to sex and latter said rape.
But if you have a tape of her consenting and then when she accuses you of rape later,then that will be used as evidence against that claim and you will be saved.
I think men should be free to record for preventing false rape accusations.
We're talking about someone who has consented to have sex with you; if she's so drunk, taping it (and taping the recursive consention of taping it) won't be a problem.
it won't help you if she will show signs of obvious drunkness and you record that and america will deem that as a woman who can't give consent if she accused you of rape.
Look they won't know if she was still there realizing everything what was happening only she can know this and only she can say the truth,which by hurt feelings when it wasn't rape she could lie or just be unshure.
But if she is flatout drunk,you know that is kinda like date rape.Well you are only risking yourself there,either get accused or not you are playing a game which could even destroy your life for real and don't think troubles go away just because you are innocent if you were accused.
In the US its legal to record as long as atleast one party is aware of the recording.
but you should worry are in america or other feminist mental disease infested lands.
lmao spring break, do I look rich?
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What I did this weekend... Got nicely drunk. Girl in hot out-fit nice and dunk.
She had to pee behind the wall... so I gave her a hand as she was finishing up and still squauting.
I pulled out Mr' Winky and she sucked it
Then pulled out her boobs (very nice) and sucked them.
Pulled her up and got down and licked her clean while using 2 fingers inside (she's a bit tight)
Bend her over and well, you know...
Then I kissed her on the lips and enjoyed her boobs some more.
Oh, got some pee on my hand, she licked it clean.
Have photos, before and after... We had a good time and will do it some more.
We we're not on a date together. I'm not Japanese so I guess I don't qualify for this?
Pics or it didn't happen..
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Hehehe.... Not going to give out pics. Besides, none taken during the fun. Had other things on my mind. :)
Oh, she's 25yr old, a hot girl who does dress freaky when going out. Fishnet body suit, mini-skirts, bra-less sometimes. Shes done some modeling, implied nude and sexy shots.
Do you have photos of your last masturbation? If not, I won't say it didn't happen!
A) I'll ask about photos next time and how she thinks about posting, but how would I post it here? Flicker and myspace don't usually allow such photos.
I'm pretty much sure she's cool with me taking such photos, but sharing is up to the girl before I do.
B) This is the INTERNET, it would be possible to google "guy pees in girls mouth" and use such a photo and say "that is me"....
C) 2D girls has no flavor.
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Whore and Slut = not the same thing.
But then again, GFs can be whores too "honey, buy me this, buy me that", get married - divorces, etc.
Oh, I see whatcha mean about the "sign"... blur out "face" photo of course.
Who knows when this may happen again, we were having too much fun. I'm interested in dating another girl, who "appears" more normal and compatible.
So how would I let the another "ANON" know it happened? Then again, since some of my real friends know both of us - they know.... so my issue isn't proof. But that some people think "things don't happen".
In my 20s, I was like many Anime fans. Did the con thing, manga, etc and I didn't do well with girls. Well, Anime is now more mainstream, I watch little of it, but I still love great artwork, including sexual and non-sexual 2D but todays girls are more INTO anime. But also, I drink, party and put myself in places or projects that are far more "COOL" than anime cons.
So, I'm now more cool (on the outside) which means I date and have SEX with different girls. I'm now burning out of one-night-stands and more interested in a single girl who is also bi-sexual as more than half my GF or FWB tend to be bi and its fun. Yes, I even hook up girls with other girls.
So yes, money and effort can get you LAID! I date all races including Asians. I love Anime... and some of the perverted ideas from hentai, I get to try out. Of course, being a tentacle monstar is not possible and no actual raep.
Don't feed the troll.
"I'll ask about photos next time and how she thinks about posting, but how would I post it here?"
Post in the forums.
"This is the INTERNET, it would be possible to google "guy pees in girls mouth" and use such a photo and say "that is me"...."
If you do take pics then do something so that we know it's legit (something like holding up a piece of paper that says "For Sancon" in one of the pics).
BTW from how you described her, she sounds like a whore. I'd suggest that you get tested, you might have caught something.