8 Reasons Why Girls Should Date Sad Virgin Men
- Categories: Japan, News
- Date: Mar 15, 2010 04:06 JST
- Tags: Comparison, Dating, Marriage, Otaku, Rankings, Relationships, Virginity
Most women avoid romantic losers as though they were plague carriers, but some are prepared to accept there may be advantages of dating a romantically inexperienced man. 8 such reasons are presented below.
Otome Sugoren explains:
1. You can dye him your colour
If you’re his first girlfriend you can have him dress and date how you want. It’s best not to be too forceful and take into account his wishes as you move him closer to what you want though.
2. He’ll be delighted with simple things like you cooking for him or holding his hand
These might be expected by people with lots of experience dating but a romantic novice should be moved by them all the same.
3. You can avoid being compared to his last girlfriend
As he likely never had one, he’ll not compare you to his last. For example your cooking or what you want to do for birthdays, etc. But you should avoid comparing him to your last boyfriend too – upset men tend to get jealous.
4. You can pursue an innocent romance
He might be nervous or awkward on dates. But you can also relive your “innocent” school romances. For a woman looking for “pure love,” a novice might be just the thing?
5. You needn’t be jealous of other women
With an experienced guy you never know when he’ll make a pass at a girl. But with a greenhorn he probably doesn’t know how to talk to girls properly so there’s no danger of that. On the other hand, he’s more likely to be jealous of you so watch what you do with other guys.
6. You needn’t use relationship tactics on him
You don’t have to bother playing hot and cold with him by being deliberately nice or nasty to get what you want. In fact doing this might backfire as he might overreact to such stimuli. Perhaps best to be straight with him.
7. He’ll remember your anniversaries and events
When you started dating you probably cared about these things at first. It’s like that for a guy with no experience so he’ll care about them a lot. He may not know what to expect so you can tell him what you want him to do too.
8. You don’t have to worry about him cheating on you
He’s likely to take romance seriously so the chances of him cheating are low. However, romance can open a man’s eyes so you’d better watch him closely.
On the other hand, a woman looking to have a romantic novice in the palm of her hand may find the competition unexpectedly stiff.
The 2ch response:
“For a woman looking for “pure love,” a novice might be just the thing?” < I want to die!
You think we’d be trolled so easily?
I think we’ve already been trolled easily…
That stuff may be true but the sex will still most likely be terrible.
The disadvantages probably outweigh the advantages.
I’m a virgin but I’m not having any non-virgin!
But the person writing this kind of article is probably trying to help us!
But you guys are playing around with hundreds of 2D girls already. Despicable.
What’s it feel like to have the bitches you look down upon look down on you?
The guys who hunt virgins probably do it because they have no experience to speak of.
I’d like to ask the people who write these articles if they actually do any research at all?
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This list sounds like it came from a butthurt female
......the problem is whether you got money or not.....oh..and about the jerk...i think some of the girls is already smart enough to choose a rich, friendly and smart nerd.....
Easy to look down upon, but I wonder if those spinsters enjoy dying alone.
I know a few geeky guys who don't really have the confidence to hit on girls, this list really applies to them. They're nice guys and would really treat any girlfriend with a lot of respect. But since women prefer confidence to nice, they remain 'losers'...
sadly the poor guy wont ever notice that hes being use in some backfire/trap/reverse TRAP?!- plan. his life is hers :/ that kinda makes me want to punch a woman in her genitals.
While the descriptions notes that the guy's a newbie to relationship this actually make him quite a potential tool to women.
Otherwise, the title of this article wouldn't include "sad virgin men"
Uhhh.....yeah......I don't think women really want guys that don't have a backbone....unless they are the older world weary ones ready to settle down.
So virgin is automatically one?
"You needn’t use relationship tactics on him"
These should never be used. Fucking mindgames.
I am so waiting.... Like 20 years....
I mean what unorthodox female would fall for something like that and try to date an otaku or a neet?
But maybe romance would jolt one out of hikikomori and neet status....
All in all, lower standards.
And the guys who hunt virgins do it cause, well it feels nice to be first. Blame it on the world for making all those games and competitions where the winner, is usually the first one to reach the goal.
it would be adorable and cute at first, that you would be able to sortof control what to do, this and that, so on...but eventually, it'd get tiring D:
i prefer a man who doesn't necessarily have had a lot of experience but atleast he has enough guts to show that he's a man and take the lead in the relationship.
don't get me wrong, i would love to be aggressive in a relationship and all, but it just sucks when the guy is so passive and lame..
IMO, acting all innocent and virgin-y only looks cute on girls...there could be exceptions on guys but it's rare :P
The other comments are right, I married a sad virgin. Just being in a secure relationship increases male confidence ten fold... I won't lie it is hard work, but nearly all of my friends seem to struggle with their husbands... I bet even confident men give you problems too, just different ones. You gotta marry the man with problems you can handle and, innocent men have innocent problems.
Most likely, the guy won't remain passive forever. The simple fact you're with him should stir up some confidence in him and eventually move to the aggressive leading role in the relationship, provided he knows you want that. If he doesn't, then confidence is not the cause but an effect.
*Taking note wholeheartedly*
Okay, anything else you like your partner to be, Simca?
I love the mosaic of this article's pic in the sidebar. The last line's pretty funny, too.
Unfortunately, I'm going to need a mosaic for the image that pops up in my mind when I see that sidebar now.
I laughed so hard.
It's funny to see how women think that they have an opinion or that said "opinion" matters to anyone.
girls are kinda disgusting they like guys that had alot of girlfriends ugh disgusting much i like mines unexpirienced
most of these would probably ring true with me.
I'm the 40 year old virgin, and I endorse this list.
A few good points but most are contradictory or redundant.
For example "3. You can avoid being compared to his last girlfriend", doesn't everyone hate this? I don't think experienced daters would ever pull something like ex-to-present-girl comparison out loud.
A good point though is "6. You needn’t use relationship tactics on him".
If you are a pick-up artist you compare often and loudly. Because the girls who like those kinds of men, like to be the one to "win" them.
"I’m a virgin but I’m not having any non-virgin!"
Bwahahaha! Fine then, deny yourself the moist warmth of a real woman's vagina.
So what if her hymen is already broken? It was going to end up like that anyway.
Used goods are used, bro, they can't be repaired.
technically they can, doctors can reconstruct the hymen now. it may be used but it can be repaired now.
They can repair someone physically but they can't repair them mentally. The bad girl stays broken inside even if she looks put together outside.
it seems like this could arise the friend/wingman situation.
Example: a hot girl sees you with another hot girl and asks herself; wow, whats up with that guy to get such a hot girl. he must be rich, intelligent, interesting, etc. and will try to make a move on the guy. the guy surprised that yet another hot woman has approached him might not contain himself.
just a thought. maybe unlikely but not impossible.
I'm an inexperienced man! Women of the world, come to me!
LOLZ! Don't start the party without us!
Why is love so complicated?
It's is not love that is complicated, it is people who are complicated
I think the number reason to not date them is because most them are too ugly, and those that aren't probably don't have any trouble getting a girl. Don't worry though, the girls will eventually come around when they realize that they themselves are too ugly and shallow to get the guy of their dreams. Either that or it will simply reach a point where nobody is getting any, which apparently seems to be the current situation.
If you kill yourself, you'll never have a chance.
Somehow i just want to do a death wail, curl myself in my blanket, and purchase a love plus game from my bed...
I guess nerds can be the same everywhere, they could be over thirty overweight and living with their parents but god forbid they have to lower their expectations to a woman not pure as the driven snow with the body of a super model.
Ultimately it all comes down to two people wanting to pursue a romance with the other rather than what their own ideals for a partner might be.
Sadly, I don't think these women will be meeting any "sad virgins" anytime soon, and understandably so. These guys need to get off their butts and meet women if that's what they want, the woman won't come to you if she doesn't know you.
Less likely of contracting an STD I'd bet as well.
"I’m a virgin but I’m not having any non-virgin!"
LMAO
This will likely submit a huge flame contest, but when it comes down to it, (Mind you i am atheist) in the so called Biblical days women were the original; sinners. this further proves that fact. Of course it doesnt change the fact that i will alwayus bee looking for a woman that matches my tastes exactly. Chances are I'll die a lonely and cold death because i am simply too picky with no intent of changing. All these "Sad Virgins" need is a Dakimakura if they cant work up the confidence to ask a lady out. its not that hard, just ask them... what are they going to do? Cut off your balls? Hell no, they will either say yes or no. There's nothing to be afraid of.
~bcummans@ymail.com
Read this and was like WTF?
...what's wrong with dating an otaku just because you like him? D:
I think this article is horrible, it pretty much is telling girls to pimp guys who are virgins and that is not right...Or at least that's the impression it gives me. But I'm open minded to this article as well, though more for The main idea being Girls should not Dismiss guys who are more romantic than usual. Although I don't understand why them being a sad virgin is only secluded to Men, the ideas can apply to Women as well, that's my opinion though.
-Sica
lol, can´t believe that I feel the temptation to post this here right now, but who cares anyway xD.
Are there any sad German virgin men here? I 21 y virgin girl.
Would be kind of awesome to fall in love through meeting on a website like sankaku, LOL.
To explain myself: reading this article and the comments made me realize that I might prefer an anime/manga fan (and/or otaku xD) as husband lol.
Be taller than 185 cm!
I found your post very endearing, probably because of your [imagined] sincerity.
Sadly, I'm not what you're looking for, but I wish you good luck.
OK..somehow the comment system here does not like me...wrote something but it did not appear.. meh :x
OK again then: Is there a sad German virgin man here?
Me: 21 y virgin girl.
Explaining myself: Just realized how great it MIGHT be to have a husband who is also in manga/anime :P.
And it would be awesome to find love on a website like sankakucomplex xD.
Be taller than 185cm!
Dear Princess Lala, If you are what you say you are... I will be in Munich on the 1st of January 2012. I will wear a Huge BMW cap in BMW welt. I am 187CM and am built like a Hokuto no ken character
Thats an epic pic
totally aggred with these, after I got fed up with my first girlfriend and threw her out, my thinking changed and my standards rose into the sky. won't ever submit to a woman this much as I did with her. I have my own needs too, and if she can't keep up with it, it's her problem.
Oh man, thats so sad...
Gotta love it when sluts think that they will be loved. Nope, just banged until they are boring and left to hang. I, as an experienced man with a few women, would want a semi experienced woman. A inexperienced person can be fun but its 50/50. When I was an inexperienced man, I only wanted an inexperienced woman and I got my wish.
Well, if girls take this with a grain of salt you guys might actually get laid.
Article aside; that picture... ('O.O)
No comments!
"I’m a virgin but I’m not having any non-virgin!"
this
Kind of obvious since they stated in previous articles they don't want "second-hand goods". lol
Second-hand goods are not worth the price, when it comes to relationships.
Because you were never the first choice, hence your flaws will be considered worse than they normally would be, and you are not considered to measure up to the first guy.
So your relationship is very likely to be overshadowed by the spectre of a guy who couldn't make it work with the girl, but whom she sees as somehow perfect compared to you.
Not a good foundation at all.
“But you can also relive your “innocent” school romances. For a woman looking for “pure love,” a novice might be just the thing?” <-- search "pure love" like this is like paying for loyalty. It looks like it, but it's not.
You're more likely to get "pure love" with someone who hasn't had relationship experience, vs. someone who has had plenty of experience and knows how to play mind games.
lol im one of those people, that if you have even 1 thing in common with me, we can easily be great friends. you have to know that one person who is popular with everyone, im him. except i have a very twisted view on life and am a fairly competent manipulator. there have been people in the past who tried to do what this thing suggest, mold me into what they want me to be. you know whats really fun. realizing what they are doing, go with it for so long, and than just fucking stop doing it, or manipulate them from behind there backs without them knowing, than carefully explaining to them what you did, how you manipulated them, and seeing there face twist when they realize they were in the palm of your hand, when they thought you were in their's.
thankfully still a virgin, not because of lack of opportunity, but because the only person i actually love, i could never provide her with a good life, so i gave her up.
Nice sociopathy you have there, anon.
Very understandable.
If you can't be with the one you want, don't get a substitute.
Keeps your standards high + you don't have to bother about divorce, STDs or kids.
A very responsible way of looking at things.
Mr. Anon, we could be greates pals ever.
On the other hand they say people with too much in common don't get along that well.
Agree with both of you. xD I'm quite similar to anon and chen believe me I've got a friend of mine who also is into anime like me and a lot of the times we're arguing xD well there are some cases where we have good talks and laughs but sometimes we argue xD we recently came to the conclusion we're just opposites (yin yan) but still with our similarities and differences. Is fun how we both view the world the same way. The only things we argue about are animes and characters and we sometimes make fun of each other (well who doesn't) but we're still very good friends. xD
The problems with these....
1) You can't do much with him, fashion-wise. He's got no wardrobe and good luck convincing some guy to spend shitloads of cash on clothes you pick out for him.
2) This overlaps with four, but remember that most sad virgin men are probably into the really freaky porn. There's enough futanari on the web that I have my suspicions about who uses it.
3) This isn't limited to sad virgin men. Any guy with a quarter of a brain will avoid comparing you to any other woman just to avoid pissing you off.
4) See two. Besides, who wants to date someone who hasn't developed, emotionally, beyond his teenage years? Here's a hint, if you want an innocent romance, don't blow him on the first date. Ladies, us lads can tell when you have some self-respect. Not going for the the contents of our pants right off the bat is a firm indicator of that.
5) This contradicts harshly with the first item. Take your guy, make him fashionable, and then don't put out. You think he WON'T go for an easy girl who starts hitting on him because you made him look good? He doesn't have the experience to know how to say no without offending her, and likely doesn't have the willpower to do so anyway.
6) Relationship tactics DON'T WORK in a good relationship in the first place. Men are not stupid. We know when you're manipulating us, and when we see it, we'll do it right back.
7) This isn't limited to sad virgin men. Any guy with a quarter of a brain will remember anniversaries and important dates because he doesn't want to piss you off. And in this day and age, with the staggering amount of handheld devices people have, most people won't have to remember the date in the first place because it's in our phone/computer/myspace/facebook and we get an automatic reminder.
8) See my comments Re: Number 5 on the topic. You're making him sexy to other women and then refusing to have sex with him, and yet you expect him to have the willpower to turn down a girl who'll put out. *facepalm*
I think the whole point of those suggestions is that if they grab a loser, said loser will do anything to keep her around, including, but not limited to, suggestions 1-8 of this guide.
You can't show off a loser to your girlfriends. Thats the biggest minus.
The sad part is you can. "Look at my pet, isn't he adorable?"
yup, bitches and whores.
I AM NOT YOUR BOOTLICK.
first off all women have different pussys and all men have to learn what they like and how they like to be fucked.
some like to be pounded and others like it slow and deep.
its more about the woman than it is about the man. all a man can really do is change speed and insertion angle.
SO GET THE FUCK OFF IT YOU STUPID FEMALES.
2, 3, 5, 6, 7, & 8 sound less like advantages of dating a "sad virgin" and more like advantages of dating someone who is fairly intelligent and at least somewhat considerate. (Just talking about the bold text parts, not the comments following them)
good luck with finding a sad virgin (rich, succesful and handsome) man
I'm actually more interested in that picture with that face which is strangely named otaku-is-beautiful.jpg
That Japanese caption is very misleading..
If that's beauty, they'll be alot of lonely otakus!
Isn't that the same guy who married his Fate Testarossa dakimakura?
Yeah, i believe so too. SO hes Korean, not Jp right ?
I guess this list doesn't apply to me. I may be a virgin but I'm far from sad.
i may be sad, but i'm not a virgin.
also, i can get over being sad.
Well that's pretty much the way it goes. Women either want a strong, confidant well -off man who can provide and lead. Or a weak newbie guy who needs to be molded in their image.
Anything in between is just a hassle.
Not true for me, but then I read this website so I can't be all normal>>
"But you guys are playing around with hundreds of 2D girls already. Despicable."
seems like these parasite lonely women don't know that you can have Nene, Manaka, and Rinko all at the same time!
2ch in denial lol
And so are we.... Or at least those who haven't had their first romance....
Their standards must be really be high. I guess 2ch's ideal woman would be one of 2D and a virgin... ┐(´ー｀)┌
The day they get their wish for real is the day the Japanese cease to exist. None of the men will want real relationships and all of the women will have their bloodlines diluted because of the need for them to find rich foreigners to keep their "ideal" husband theory afloat.
@09:34
You speak as if the world consists of only the Japs and Westerners. Think of the other races!
That "ideal woman" who has fair skin, blonde hair, and blue eyes is a load of bullshit. If it was true then all the celebrities would be blonde haired and blue eyed, and Hilter probably would've continued making this world one race of blonde, blue eyed people. I'm just sayin'
Hilter? Who is that? I know someone named Hitler, but Hilter...
Someone remembered me!
The Sad truth is that most normal foreigners (not the japanophile type of foreigner)are not interested in Japanese women. The ideal beautiful woman to most westerners is a fair skinned blonde with blue eyes.
Gowdin's law.
This pretty much works for any country though. Seriously, sluts are all over the place, and yet there is always a guy willing to treat them like a queen. But it's only when the sluts REALIZE they are sluts that they take back all the crappy stuff they said about otakus and nerdy guys, and then hunt them down for future husbands
A 2D that remains virgin after a deflowering.
- Or a 2D nympho...
Only problem with that whole "2D virgin" thing is....if hundreds of thousands of other Otaku's are fapping (read: molesting in their minds) to the same 2D women...do they even count as virgins anymore?
That means their quest for the girl of their dreams will go on forever.....heh.
"I’m a virgin but I’m not having any non-virgin!"
YEAH! >_<
Being a Virgin is better for a girl but doesn't matter for a guy....
And I don't want any USED products.
same here =)
What makes these whores think that virgins would want them anyway? I wouldn't want to have a relationship with a woman if she's only dating me because of my inexperience.
Good luck with that. Do be sure to tell me how it turns out.
Virgin for Virgin. Fucked for Fucked. Peace!
2d girls save us from these wanton women!
Same goes for the other way. What makes 2ch think that any virgin would date them if the only reason 2ch people are dating them is because they are virgins.
Same goes for the other way. What makes 2ch think that any girl virgin would date them if they only want them because they are a virgin.
Hell yeah! If I want a whore I'll pay a professional. No less than a virgin.
I don't think anyone would like to discuss that here. Maybe a discussion on how virgins should settle for non virgins...and vice versa?
Yeah, it's an old subject.
Let's discuss how women take shit instead!
females shitting. /thread
virgin tribadism!!
Here we go with that stupid 2d/3d bullshit again.
Same goes for the other way. What makes virgin think 2ch would date people that are dating virgins because they are virgins.
wrong..sry bout that..but someone should be experienced
lol 2ch is canon fodder as far as we're concerned
"But the person writing this kind of article is probably trying to help us!"
LOL.
They do hit one point though. The writer of the article seems to assume that changing a mangy otaku into something she'd even want to bother with in the first place, would even be worth the effort.
aka disadvantages outweigh advantages.