I Want to Become a Woman! – Mental Health Through Manga
- Categories: Manga, News
- Date: Feb 24, 2010 07:50 JST
- Tags: Crossdressing, Marketing, Medical, Mental Illness, Translation, Web Comic
Why do so many men say they want to become women?
Yuu Mental Clinic, an accredited psychiatric clinic, provides an explanation of this facet of male psychology in manga format with the aid of doctor Ryo Shinnai and nurse Asuna Kangoshi, translated below:
The original Japanese version.
Yuu Mental Clinic is by Ueno station in Tokyo – those in need of mental health services can visit their site here; they also publish a series of web comics explaining the treatment mental health issues through manga.
See also “Pedophilia” vs “Lolicon” – Mental Health Through Manga.
















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I actually agree with this. And I actually sometimes say it out loud that it wouldn't be bad becoming a woman. This is not to do with sexuality really, but that it just seems more freeing to be a woman.
Society in general protects women (UNLESS YOURE MUSLIM. BADUM CHING), women are expected to show emotions on their sleeves, women typically don't scare away people just for being women, they have more sensual bodies to show off with fashion and with fitness, etc etc.
For me, I have problems with people being scared of me on a constant basis just for being a little tall and big (as in muscles).
And of course, if I want to get into anything cute or stylish or anything like that, there's that horrible 'that's gay' accusations. Being a man, there's a lot of social cornering going on. Not saying that being a woman will be easy (like their bodies obviously not being as sturdy/intimidating as a man's would be for the most part), but I definitely see the greener side of the pasture.
Be glad that you're a man -_-"
all my life I wants to be a man. Being woman is ANNOYING, dammit. Your parents will get overprotective, people will underestimate you, if you're cute, you'll be raped/chased, and some of them can be very annoying -_-" Skirt isn't nice. Menstruation isn't nice either. Not to mention the pain of giving birth and 9-months-of pregnancy. And you will be you husband's slave, sort of. When I cry, people will tease me.You want to wear something cute? well, I wanna wear pants and shirts, not some kind of uncomfortable gown.In my country, women have lower status than man. It happens in most countries actually. it's okay for you to run free, play dirty, not wearing make-up and gown (it wasn't comfortable at all. it's itchy. and it'll constrict your move.)I can't do that. Breast are annoying and heavy. it jiggle when you're run, bra is SERIOUSLY uncomfotable,I'm weaker than boys even when I'm already train my body, and blah blah blah. just a few hours ago I asked some boys, "shich one do you think is better, being boys of girls?" and they all said, "boys". in unison. Fuck my life,indeed.
is not fun being a man
Why not be a lesbian futanari?
Best of both worlds.
Being a woman, I have to disagree with a lot of this.
Personally, I want to become a man.
What an adorable and informative little comic. Thumbs up for that mental health clinic, rather fresh ideas.
As for the issue, I think women have it easier at certain points in life and would indeed like a woman "try-out" for a week/month or so, but in general I like my Y chromosome very much.
Looking long term I'd much prefer being a man. Being able to have a child aside, you'll do much better in life as an older, well educated and financially stable man than an older woman. Which is why it's not that uncommon to see older men with much much younger women, but reverse rarely happens. Might sound sexist but men age "better....until they die earlier cause of the crippled Y chromosome. =(
Men want to be young beautiful women until they start to grow old and saggy and look ugly, THEN they want to become men again.
Men age better, older men are better looking then older women (without makeup).
Oh and Men want to have the experience of being submissive/raped at least once.
Oh god the ED one
External links seem broken for me most of the time, the script adds a ";" at the end which some sites tolerate but most others don't.
An ugly man can become popular by being rich, funny, smart, talented, determined, hard working.
An ugly woman is doomed no matter what she does.
A pretty woman has an expiration date.
Frankly, I'd rather be a man.
This is win!
I want to become a woman...with a dick.
I can't wait to see more chapters of this. Both that I've seen here so far are definitely both informative AND entertaining.
I don't know about the Japanese but I like being a man and am proud of it.
I don't care about the sexual or social perks that women may get.
I'm satisfied with the relative advantage of control, stability and physical freedom, endurance and power.
So do men want to become women because all men deep down want to be waifus and be able to have a life grow inside of them?
Well, on the bright side, men becoming waifus will have a real 3D waifu to play with and give ke~ki to. Themselves.
Those mental health mangas make no sense whatsoever.
I rather be loli '-'
oh wait... where is the trap? LOL
Women do NOT have it easier on society. Men like to think so however.
Women make 75 cents on every dollar a man makes. Women are often seen as bitchy if they're assertive, or whores if they're seductive. Women are much more often the target of rape and murder, and if a woman is happy being single and not having a child or husband, something is inherently wrong with her. There will never be a woman president in the US, and we constantly have to live up to the expectation that women have to be hot and skinny to be of worth, and men can look however the fuck they want. We have to deal with the constant danger of a man posing a threat if we turn them down or decide to break up with them, as well. Women can show their emotions, sure, but I don't see how that means that men have it easier. They're more than welcome to do the same, but it's their own personal pride that prevents it. If a woman takes interest in something inharently "manly", like sports or video games, they must be fake or an attention whore.
Men like to whine about "ohhh, she makes me clean up after myself" or "ohhh she can get out of a speeding ticket by batting her eyelashes", but they don't realize that the first part about women being naggy is because the man is usually being a pig in some way or another, and the latter is invalid if you aren't a pretty little thing.
Also, what the fuck has been with all the men making "kitchen" comments towards women? I know it's all in jest and everything, but it can be hurtful to some women. Rape jokes aren't funny, either. |:
Video games are "manly"?
Fuck, there aren't nearly enough female gamers in the world.
"I just said that you're pretty. Even when you're covered in...engine grease, you're... No, especially, especially when you're covered in engine grease."
—Simon Tam to Kaylee, Firefly
wage gap is a myth:
quote: "How much less do equally-qualified women make? Surprisingly, given all the misused statistics to the contrary, they make about the same."
http://money.cnn.com/2006/02/21/commentary/everyday/sahadi/index.htm
not all but many women are strong liars.
Wage gap debunked several times,i am checking stuff,but don't want to usually waste time explaining or posting stuff here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DtjaBQMog0Q
About rape:
http://antimisandry.com/false-allegations/about-half-rape-allegations-false-research-shows-25018.html
http://objectifygirls.blogspot.com/2010/02/women-and-children-dont-lie-about-rape.html
Just don't lie about rape,you are hurting real victims of rape,because you waste police time and money that could be usefull to real victims.People wouldn't believe real victims so easily,because there are so many liars,well dna is one way to find out sometimes.
For some reason I was expecting to see Baka to Test's Hideyoshi mixed in there somewhere.
If you're a man though you dont get to wear any sexy panties. :(
Who actually has the gall to claim that they know which sex has it easier? If you're male, you only know what it's like to be male and vice versa. I'm sure if we had to live an entire year with a body of the opposite sex, some aspects of that life would catch us completely off guard.
(Transsexuals don't count; you can get a sex change but you will never know what it's like to have a biologically natural body that corresponds to whichever sex you identify as. So you'll never know what it's like to have the "full package". sry2say.)
Also, we'll probably never get to know what it feels like to grow from a child to an adult (sexually) as both a man and a woman, and what it feels like to become old and degrade for both genders.
I'm a woman and I would like to be a man. I simply hate my "femenine" side u.u
Same as you. I hate breast & menstruation. but I still like my cute face& cute dress(though most of my clothes is t-shirt & trouser)
I'd never say this anywhere else, but I'd really like to be a man. A flat chest, no bleeding once a month, a deeper voice, never being expected to wear makeup/skirts/dresses/panties or be feminine EVER AGAIN... Sounds good to me.
I'd probably be gay, but hey, whatever. XD
The grass is always greener on the other side...
Both sexes have their advantages and disadvantages. Fashion and emotions are still valid arguments, but things are changing slowly but surely for the best in those.
Interesting, amusing, and well-executed: a tripartite of good characteristics. I'd love to see translations for the others on their site - one of them seems to include an elaborate Ace Attorney parody.
I'd rather be a man. You'd get to get with beautiful women instead of men with their ugly ass dicks.
If you're ugly and fat as a man, you'll be just as ugly and fat as a woman(unless you get tons of cosmetic surgery). That's something most guys do not think about.
As derived in Astro Boy.
"I don't desire to be something else. I am made of X gender, so I may as well be the best damn X there ever is."
If you are wondering about why men want to become women, think about this: you go out on a date with a cute girl: who pays?
what I would like to know is the name of the mangaka! He's actually pretty good in terms of balance between script and art. Anyway, thanks for another yuu mental clinic, Artefact
I would rather be a man for the simple reason that society (at least in America where I'm from) is still incredibly sexist and men are more likely to be successful in almost any field. With a few notable exceptions men can choose to pursue a career in almost ANY industry while women are still practically barred from many. Just look at film directing, for example. I could probably count on my fingers the number of successful female film directors in the entire history of film. It's not like women have anything less to offer, just look at Kathryn Bigelow, but they remain an incredibly small majority in a male dominated industry.
stop talking rubbish feminist woman
what, no lolicon ? :)
"don't let out things which shouldn't be let out" :)
The two are the best doctors I know.
This made me think why school lessons weren't taught with mangas... It'll be entertaining and educational and I wont fall asleep
I think, most men fail to understand that with a man's responsibility comes power. Things might be easier on women, but women will often get the short end of the stick in society.
Then again, a lot of those femanist issues have been dealt with already. However, there are still real life dangers to being a woman. For one, your safety will always (bold italics underlined caps) be in question. So, it really depends on where you live.
how about this one?
http://yucl.net/man/219.html
please translate this too!
oh well men were always slaves to society and women XD
well i dont personally feel that first one is ok, but there isnt anything lost in being ont he womans good side ;) if you know what i mean, just NEVER got on the bad side O_O
Its true more advantagous to be a woman, at least that what I think.
sure there advantagous of became a man like more opportunity open in military or other hi risk jobs like deep sea oil exploration.
but same apply to the woman that have job exclusivly for their respective gender
Being a man also hold more advantageus posision in emergency situation, like disaster. or when no toilet man just can pee under a tree with no problem ./lol
but in general public, advantage of being women maybe more significant (other than what have been stated above). I noted few things like
-There are ladies night but no Men Night
-girls get treat, like free drink or special bonuses more often
-special treatment in public service
-Expresion "Ladies First" explain the meaning
-public service prioritise woman over man, like gain more hospitality services
-can raise social status without education or hard work, just by using physical apparance (in other word) seduction. while on man being overshadowed by the wife is embaresing thing
-see a girl cry and man will try to get whatever she want (Flaten your mate wallet realyy fast) - Tears is powerfull weapon that can criple man with ease
-Etc
but also noted, that as age progresing Life as a women became more harder, due to pressing of community.
while a single man in age of 35 can be regarded as mature, economic stabiliity and have good prospec in raising a family
but if women in age of 35 is single, that don't look very good in public eyes
IMO women have more advantage, especialy in youth
but the presure will became more heavy as age progresion, since woman must care and aware for physical aparence and trend.
while man have constant preasure since birth
when there is no one to rely on like in catastropic disaster, being a man is more advantageus. since no one to rely on
but in the normal condition, woman have more advantageus position over man, especialy if she is young and beutiful XP
When I cried, they just tease me more
agreee
being man mean advanture and challange
being women mean safe and stable
What are these worthless discussions for?
WHO THE HELL CARES, I bet not even one of you actually will have a sex-change. Seriously, it's all good and well if you're happy with the advantages of being a man when you're a man, and the same applies to women.
If you're so dissatisfied, go and have a sex change.
that would work is the sex change was perfect like magic, but you know how horrible that looks like
Sadly no, that is not an option. Sex changes can't change your sex, no matter how they're called. Maybe in 30 to 50 years we have the knowledge and technology (retrovirus-based approaches might be a promising starting point), but right now, by getting a sex change, you'd be merely deceiving yourself.
A "sex change" doesn't magically turns you into the opposite sex.
I'm well-aware of that...
But like the advantages mentioned won't apply to someone who's a transsexual?
I wasn't even talking about an operation, I was making a statement that discussing about whoever is the best doesn't help at all.
I want to be Obama
I'd like to be one just for a while to experience how they feel having sex, multiple orgasm!!
I'm thinking of ranma in showering alone maybe if i splash myself with cold water I think i don't think being a girl is a good idea wherein hot water makes you hot that means you don't consider being a girl an option for having fun to yourself
Personally, I see it far more advantageous to be a man than the other way around. While "men" do have more "responsibilities" so to speak, they have just as many "privileges" as well. That said, I also tend not to discriminate in terms of sex.
Hmmm, I'd love to be a cute little girl. I act like a tough, hardened guy, but I really hate that act. I'd like to be like one of those moe blobs from k-on. But that attitude would be gross on a young man as manly as me, and I wouldn't get anywhere in life, so I try not to think much of it and act like I'm expected to.
I know being a man has a lot of advantages though, so I just try to see the good side, because there's no helping it, that's how I was born. Maybe some day they'd invent a magical pill that turns men into cute lolis, that'd be awesome. Meanwhile I'll live that fantasy watching anime and stuff... *sigh*
Isn't it everyone's fantasy to become a mahou shoujo?
Not really. My fantasy is to be able to solve all my problems by setting them all on fire.
Hey, good idea.
Is there a problem we can't solve by setting it on fire?
sure she could! if she only got up the nerve to set kazumi on fire everything would be fine!
So your fantasy is to become Shana???
But she can't solve her love problems by setting it on fire.
funny comic, i wouldn't mind being a woman if all you had to do was take a needle and next day u'd wake as one, and then if you wanted you could just turn back.
But if the woman is anything below pretty this argument is invalid.
Sure thing there can't be a woman without the female pelvic bone and structure so be sure to get that transplanted in too, asl well as the uterus and tubes.
This is all well and good, but it's very... generalised. I want to become a woman, but it's not for any of the shallow or stereotypical reasons described here. The feeling runs a lot, lot deeper than that... I'm sure it's true for quite a few other men too.
IMO the "expressing your feelings"-stuff comes pretty close.
Funny how now that I'm a mental health patient, I'm frequently told to share my worries, but when I was a kid, bottling them up was encouraged.
Thats cuz if you didn't bottle them up you wouldn't have become a mental health patient. and if it weren't for that you'd still be having people tell you to bottle them up!
Japanese men wish to be women just so they can express themselves? How depressing.
Well there Japanese I mean c'mon. These are the guys that want to wear bra's and skirts so its not really a surprise. As much as I love there culture wearing woman's clothing and wanting to get a sex change is where I draw the line.
Idiot! This happens EVERYWHERE! Go outside once in a while!
Yeah, and why did Anon at 09:48 get down voted? It's true, and he has a point, and this article is really silly. Maybe it's funny, but most of it is a load of crock.
no sorry i can't leave the Internet for a Minuit or i will get sick ...
Judging by some of the sad stories on here about how a man can talk to a girl and be charged with sexual harassment, I really don't see why they wouldn't want to become women. If I couldn't talk to any females without fear of being charged and labeled as a sex offender, I'd want a sex change too.
Genius :)
I wish I have a girly face ):
I wish I had a "not Quasimodo" face :<
Why not have the best of both worlds? Sure, you only get to live one side vicariously, but anyway. Fans of Isaac Asimov will know which song I'm referring to.
I want to be a bra (a DD cup 36)...all the benefits plus no regrets.
Until you get purchased by an Otaku who likes sniffing womens underwear.
I thought they only sniff worn underwear.
Honestly, women do have it easier in society. And I know things like PMS and childbirth seem to be a good argument, coupled with the fact that, appearance wise, much more stress is put on a woman to look her best.
With the PMS issue... it may be physically painful, but it's also an excuse to get away with any kind of attitude. literally. As a male, I have hormonal and "off" days but we don't get any slack during these times and anything we say seems to go wrong. And the "pressure to look your best" is just a shallow sense of fitting in.
I am not saying I would want to "become a woman" but that it shouldn't be a big surprise that the stress put on men causes them to envy the opposite sex.
You'll never know how much of a fucker periods are unless you actually have them. It's best not to assume, yes? Though I do know that some PMS is more serious than others, and I agree, it's true that some women use it as an excuse, but it's generalizing that all of them do. 90% don't - you will NEVER be able to tell which girls are having a periods, because they don't ALL bitch out on guys when it happens. It's not like you walk into the street or into school and you can just tell.
Actually I can just tell. because I'm psychic. maybe someone should take their own advice and not assume, yes? it pointless to say that guys would never understand unless they had it happen to them because you know what? even if we did have an equivalent it wouldn't matter. because men just have to "suck it up". You might never know how much of a fucker it is to get most of you body, including you genitals, covered in third degree burns. however, if you ever did find out what that's like it wouldn't be the same. Do you know what the reaction the last person i talked to about that had? they laughed at me and insulted me. insisted that a real man "wouldn't have let a bit of pain get to him", that "if i were a man i should've been able to just walk it off".
You were treated badly. No one should have been told to "walk it off" for something like that. But does it really fix the problem to tell women to do the same as you've been told to do?
I bottle it up when I have scream-level cramps. People don't know why I'm overemotional and headachey and I just try to act normal. But it's really hard to act normal when you feel so awful. You would know from the 3rd degree burns, except it's socially acceptable to talk about burns more than with cramps. I'm sorry you didn't get sympathy, but I'm telling you women don't necessarily either. There are some who take advantage of it and say "I have a right to treat you like dirt because I'm cramping" but they are just being like the tough guys who shot you down and hurting other members of their gender to do better themselves.
It's not socially acceptable to talk about bleeding or how gross it is when you run out of pads or how painful it is to have an organ shedding a thick layer by force... so most women don't, in front of men. We are in exactly the same situation as you, so I would appreciate it if you wouldn't say we're all better off because SOME of our gender take advantage of it.
As a guy, you won't really understand what PMS is. For some women, it's not a big deal, and others overdramatize it and use it as an excuse, like you said. However, some women have it really bad. I usually don't have PMS very bad, but from time to time it will really hit me. It's not something you can control. For example, I felt like I was so full of emotion, all of it trying to burst out of me, so much so that I cried for a half-hour during Tarzan. And normally I'm not a very emotional person.
Also, having your period can really suck. Like I said, some women are lucky and have very little symptoms, while others are hit hard. My mom had to miss school every time she had hers, because the pain in her stomach would get so intense that she would faint in class. I don't have it as bad as her, but on the first day I always get horrible stomach aches and can't sleep. Afterwards it's fine, but then I spend the next 6 days feeling like I'm carrying a bowling ball in my stomach, it aches dully and drags me down. Then it's gone, only to repeat 30 days later.
I'm not saying men don't have problems, they do. I just think that unless you have had a period and experienced PMS (which no male can), you won't really understand how tedious it can be to be a woman. I know many women who would kill to be men.
I believe men want to be superficial women in theory.
No man in their right mind would like to spend upwards of 3-7 days a month menstruating.
On top of that where's the macho factor? I'm very aggressive in martial arts but there's still only so much I can do against well developed man. You're telling me men would give up that defining character trait/ability?
"... well developed man"? Are males _that_ awesome at developing muscles?
Or are u thinking of the occasional Hercules wannabe that pops out by the genetic lottery?
Next time, mebbe try out joint locks. All the development in the world and yer joints still break like anything else.
And besides, a swift kick to the balls cause any man to kneel over. Your overdeveloped physiques is irrelevant.
More!! Translate more! I wanna read more Artefact Translate more!! PLEASE!!! I love them!!!! ^_____^
this is fake and gay
I still hope that one clear starry summer night, an alien space ship crashes into the hill I'm sitting on, absent-mindedly looking at stars above; and when they try to restore my body to make up for the damage they caused, they accidentally make the extremely beautiful and cute female version of me...
You mean like this?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Qxp8JdHfcQ&fmt=18 [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Qxp8JdHfcQ&fmt=18]
Amen to that.
And if it all goes well, you'll get to choose to be with either Hocchan or Yukarin.
I like this manga. Pretty entertaining while being educational.
Nurse Asuna is hot.
fairly interesting, although not as good as the former story about lolicon. good shit sankaku.
I want be a woman.
So i can be raped anytime.
nobody wants to rape a 3D pig