Top 10 Shocking Secrets Your Lover Might Hide
- Categories: Japan, News
- Date: Oct 27, 2009 10:05 JST
- Tags: Crossdressing, Dating, Marriage, Money, Otaku, Rankings, Relationships, Statistics
A survey reveals what Japanese men and women find the ten most shocking secrets their partner might harbour, with men evidently highly concerned about whether their partner is really a woman, and women concerned about the financial history of their partners…
1. She used to be a man
2. She’s been declared bankrupt
3. She’s in debt
4. She’s had plastic surgery
5. She’s a former delinquent (“yankee”)
6. She has a mother complex
7. She’s a former gyaru (gal)
8. She’s lying about her age
9. She’s a groupie
10. She likes cosplay
1. He’s been declared bankrupt
2. He’s in debt
3. He has a mother complex
4. He’s actually unemployed
5. He used to be a woman
6. He’s a groupie
7. He likes cosplay
8. He’s had plastic surgery
9. He’s a former crossdresser
10. He’s a former delinquent (“yankee”)
Bankrupt cosplaying transsexuals in awe of their mothers take note… Otaku however get off relatively lightly, coming in at number 13 on both lists.
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If the girl is cute.. Why would it be bad for her to cosplay? :/
or you can speak it this way: If the girl is cute.. Why would it be bad for her used to be a boy or is a boy?
"8. She’s lying about her age"
That's perfectly fine as long it turn out to be YOUNGER!
Maybe a petition about the secrets people are actually hiding would have been more interesting?
Also, I find the worst secret would be like "he/she doesn't love you", not if the other person is poor or whatever. :S
Gotta be careful of number 8
though 10 makes me sad =(
same shit
I was hitting on girl, She had beautiful green eyes, blonde hair, delicious flat chest fitting her slim figure, and charming girly voice.
But after hours together I realized She was He. I was enough shock for me to escape as soon as possible. And even then, I lied to her/him to not hurt his/her feelings, and ran away.
But one thing is still bugging me. Maybe it was my chance to find my own Jun-chan?
Will never know...
vomit.
I suppose tranny surprises happen a lot in Japan?
10. She likes cosplay
that would be nice ^_^
Obviously lacking a lot of options, for example: He/She has AIDS
hmmm...I can't see why they dislike it when the female cosplay or any other things.
I hate them, because usually only the fugly, stupid bitches do cosplay.
He used to be a woman
Win!
So are they given the same exact options to choose from in the surveys ?
whats so bad about cosplay?
its because cosplay is geekish.
otakus are a minority even in japan....
Bankrupt cosplaying transsexuals in awe of their mothers
Hm for me she's probably just a cosplaying transsexual in awe of her father
Women who like cosplay is a bad thing? How so? Unless the character don't suit them or their body shape...
"10. She likes cosplay
10. He’s a former delinquent (”yankee”)"
.. wait.. what?
Wouldn't cosplay be a plus for men when it comes to women, though? Unless if those asked weren't otaku...
That yankee slang for delinquent is just uncalled for.
Why is it: She used to be a man? It should be: "She's a man" because even with sex change your genes won't change + you have no ovaria/womb = man without male genitales... This is the worst nightmare that could ever happen and why is the womens equivalent only at 5th place... it worries me a bit /swt and why are all superficial traits ranked higher than crossdressing/being a delinquent/etc., the women seem to have a serious problem with their minds....
Also,shouldn't it be father complex for women rather than mother complex?
1. She used to be a man No problem if you're hot now
4. She’s had plastic surgery Again, no problem
5. She’s a former delinquent (“yankee”) Awesome. Tell me about it
7. She’s a former gyaru (gal) so?
8. She’s lying about her age as long as you look good
9. She’s a groupie so?
10. She likes cosplay sexy
"1. She used to be a man No problem if you're hot now"
Man, you're one desperate SOB.
I wouldn't be dating a 'girl' in the first place unless #1 was active.
poor jun:( all he wanted was some boobs, she does look mighty fine with em tho
And why do people fear cosplayers so much?
of course! they afraid cosplay is because of you!!! and me, and whole sankaku who like to fap to cosplayer!
Ya, we Sankaku readers are all fine with cosplayers. The rest of the world may not be so accepting.
liking cosplay is bad?! T_T they didn't even say "he/she does cosplay", but just liking...?! >_>"
wtf is wrong with being a yankee?
People worldwide hate them.
Male Ranking:
....cosplay is bad how?
Hey megalomaniac and evil genius did not make the list.
Though I'll admit to cosplaying a few times but none of it involved cross dressing.
being into Cosplay is a bad thing?
Worst seacrets evr
I think most(japanese) male cosplayers are way better looking then all those otaku's. And whats better then having pictures of your girl dressed up as your fav childhood hero?
i dont think many boys had female heroes. Atleast i never dreamt of becoming wonder woman when i was a kid.
If I find one with only #5... I FOUNDS ME A WOMAN.
The survey seems to be a ranking system with only 10 choices. It most likely asked people to rank the ten categories in the order of concern. Therefore, cosplay being last means it's the least of men's concerns, and being a former delinquent is the least of women's concerns.
Translate: Men like women who dress up for fun, but are wary of traps. Women like drop outs, but are concerned with their income levels.
I think this list is a fabrication.
1. She used to be man
Doesn't that mean she knows exactly how to act out your fantasies now?
8. She's lying about her age
All women do this. Get over it.
10. She likes cosplay
...what.
The female with mother complex thing puzzles me... Is that even common? For males I can see the Oedipus thingy but female?!? Shouldn't it be father? How strange...
I'm guessing that they're not talking about an Oedipal style mother complex, like this translation suggests. They probably mean that they're worried about their girlfriends and wives being too dependent on or influenced by their mothers. And a bitchy, controlling mother-in-law is a completely legit worry.
Btw, the female version of an Oedipus complex is usually called an Electra complex.
If she was a man once, I would break up without hesitation. There's nothing with that, but I would just never look at her the same way again.
I laughed so Goddamn hard when I read the first one on the male list...
"She used to be a man"
XD
You can tell these people are just looking for sex not love. But love barely exists in this modern world.
Men fear a bankrupt and in debt woman because of what they will have to pay for her.
Women fear a bankrupt and in debt man because he won't have money to pay for them.
Anyway from the men list. I only care about 1(that's definitely shocking) 4 an 6.
Now i understand that money ain't the only reason Japanese men can't find a woman but also because they have stupid fears.
Really who the fuck gives a shit if she was a delinquent, she likes cosplay or whatever the fuck she used to do.
Yeah, if any I'd be more shocked to find out she was doing porn...
"She's lying about her age"
I'm sure we all know how often this happens when your girlfriend turns out to not be legal.
What ever happened to loving your partner for who they are, not for how much they have in the bank account? >.>
Because you maybe need to pay their debts.
It just never left the world of fantasy...
Since when does marriage have something to do with love? -_-
yeah man... what a sad sad times -_-
The NEW male ranking: (btw not ranked accordingly)
1. She got raped before
2. She’s have been selling her body
3. She’s is a runaway child
4. She’s had plastic surgery
5. She’s a former delinquent (”yankee”)
6. She used to be a lesbian
7. She’s has a split personlity
8. She’s love SM
9. She’s a otaku
10. She is 4 years younger than what it's seems to be
#1 & #2: get blood test done before sex.
#3: Check that ID! Ya don't want an underage-sex conviction.
#4-#6: don't care
#7: That's a deal-killer. Though arguably most women have this condition.
#8: A deal killer for me, but a plus-point for some others.
#9: Okay, as long as she doesn't ignore me for sake of her hobby. (Hilarious/sad thought: two TVs side-by-side. You're sitting at her side, watching one and fapping to yuri anime; she's schlicking to yaoi anime playing on the other TV.)
#10: WTF?! Women typically SAY they are YOUNGER than what they look! And, I wouldn't care unless she were legally underage. As with #3, check that ID.
Mmmm more tasty Jun pics.
1. She used to be a man.
Don't mind that
5. She’s a former delinquent (”yankee”)
Don't mind that either, wonder what's her dere dere side is like.
There is no dere.
What the fuck is wrong with cosplay? She wants to cosplay tell bring it in the bedroom!
is it only my feeling?i get a feeling jun watarase appear often in sankaku nowadays.maybe artefact in love with 'her'?well,honestly me too
I can see females not liking the cosplay thing for their guys, but the other way round? Especially in Japan? Something ain't right here.
The list for both men and women were the same. So perhaps they were given the same list and were asked to rank them.
Number 10 is, comparatively, barely a problem. Thus they end up at the bottom. Makes sense that way.
But I might be wrong.
I totally agree.. and seriously what's bad about being a FORMER gyaru or deliquant..note the keyword here: Former.. that doesnt apply to the present so who cares really
There's probably nothing wrong with it, but it could still come as a shock. To think that your cute girlfriend was once a delinquent would be a surprise to most people.
Also, what if her old buddies decided to drop by for old times'sake ?
Think of it like dating a former gang member. She was probably giving it up with fellow gang members all the time.
"1. She used to be a man"
Now that Sucks
At last the most japanese once-males look like pretty females.
That happens a lot in the US.
If you can't tell by looking, why would you care?
I think it's because, they can't have children...
Because I like pussy, not dicks.
And a natural pussy thank you.
It's ok to dream, anon.
"Natural pussy", hmmmm?
SOMEBODY has been buying all those inflatable sex dolls/RealDolls/dakimura/etc.
If you can't tell by looking, why would you care?
Having a woman with _certain_ male traits would be great.
Me, walking in the door with a paper shopping bag: Hi.
Her (raises one eyebrow): Hi. It's been a while.
Me: You mean...
Her: Yes. Let's do it.
Me: Fifteen out of twenty wins. Loser buys beers.
Her: You're on!
(Both race to identically-configured gaming computers, fires up first-person shooter server on dedicated third box, and begin blasting each other)
... Later ...
Her: What's in the sack?
Me: I got you a little something. Emphasis on 'little'.
Her (digging through sack): Oooh! It's a 'Naughty Nurse' outfit! Can I try it on?
Me: That's what I got it for. Say *ahem* "Nurse, my leg hurts. Can you help me?"
Her: Just lie down over here and I'll take care of you. I'll be back in just a minute or two...
You're also missing the part where his Vagina is in fact a Penis turned inside out. No offence, but that's really the one most important issue with "he used to be a man"...
Developmentally speaking, a natural vaginia is pretty close to being a penis turned inside out... or a penis is a vagina turned inside out. And labia ~ scrotum, clitoris ~ glands, etc
Its the principle of the matter. And you might want to reanalyze yourself as to what you consider you're sexuality type...
+ 1000
"Yes... Discovering that the girl you were in love with was actually a guy must've been quite shocking... Really... This kind of love is quite shallow... What a weak heart! You love him from the bottom of your heart, then your heart has been betrayed, then your blah blah... Your just Ridiculous! On the Outside you fell in love with at first sight, but deep down, you haven't changed at all. Am I right? If for instance he was always a girl would you confess to him again, only to be rejected like that again! Listen well you Idiot! It's because you can only give shallow love that your this unpopular!"~ Sanzenin Nagi
It isn't shallow love it's what you call "a wake up call",time to move along
With all the animes about guys disguising themselves as girls to go to an all-girls school, and girls disguising themselves as guys to go to an all-guys school, and body-sharing, and spirit/body swapping...
... I was gonna say, "you think we'd be used to the idea by now", but now, I'll change that to, "wow, the Japanese really obsess on the gender-swap thing. Are they insecure about that for some strange cultural reason?"
Ya gotta wonder.
"used to be the other sex" would not have even entered my mind. LOL @ Japan.
Yeah, me neither. Thailand I'd understand, but Japan? Must not be uncommon.
I'm surprised there isn't anything about cheating on the other spouse on those lists
Yes, and yet there is something about being afraid they are the wrong gender. Peculiar.
>Bankrupt cosplaying transsexuals
Fuck, I picked the wrong thing to be today :P
2 out of 3 ain't bad.
Being a broke lesbian-in-a-man's-body ain't what it's cracked up to be. -_-
So you say...
I feel your pain, sister.
Okay..... so I fibbed a little....
Being a broke lesbian-in-a-fat-man's body ain't what it's cracked up to be.... better? o_0
Cosplaying?!
seems both genders fear the same things.
Stop posting surveys that yield the same results. Its fucking tedious.
They're not the same result though.
Men fear transsexuals the most, followed by bankcrupcy or debt.
Women most fear bancrupcy, debt, unemployment and THEN that it's a transsexual xD
I find this highly amusing...
Plus, male ranking doesn't hold female's #4.
They might have been given the same list of items and simply asked to rank them ;o But I'm too lazy to find out.
No problem if she's younger... ^_^
Guys dislike that? Why? O_O
She hides the fact of her preference to cosplay prolly due to embarassment only, guys sure like dem.
there were probably only 15 things listed on the survey lol...
the scariest secrets that i wish my wife doesn't have.
by the way, I notice there are a lot more surveys on Sankaku recently, most of them just say:"a recent survey from Japan"
so, what is the credibility of these survey? I can do survey like that myself pretty easily(or make up one if you like,lol), but there is a big ass difference between a survey done by a well know organization/university and some random people. A good survey should have more details than this,like demographic, age, what kind of people interviewed,ect
Not to mention that most of those surveys show things that are pretty obvious already, like "money is God".
Good surveys should have as high test group as possible. A survey of 200 people hardly represents the minds of a 127M population...
These ones are based on results from a popular ranking site.
The total sample sizes are all over 1,000, with the gender and age group of participants recorded and controlled. As an Internet survey, it is obviously imperfect, but as such surveys go it is quite a good resource.
The legitimacy of all these polls have always put me into doubt about the sanity of the Japanese.
But since I was there a few years back, I noticed that them people love to read. I mean Read in great bucket fulls of absolutely everything. They have Weekly magazines (Full Sized) lining the shelves with a torrential pouring of opinions and essays about damn near anything crawling around those pages!
I don't know how most of those work, but I do know that polls forms and web-links are always in sight. Manga lives by the weekly poll on favorite stories and I've seen great starting series die due to it. They just never know what the fuck they like outside of tsudere lolitas.
I just loved the picture, I would think a girl is cute if she was shy about her boobs like that.
There is no source mentioned, I think this is made up, remember you are reading sankaku..
pretty much
you just rank them in order of highest to lowest and then they tabulated all of them (highest getting the most points, lowest getting the least)
it was the same for previous polls
on the male survey, I wouldn't mind the last one at all, except she's a cross dresser or a transvestite.
I can live with numbers 5 and 10 (reverse trap yankee?)... I'd gladly be her banchou, if you know what I mean...
whats wrong with cross dressing ?
yes, it is sad that much of the world is motivated by greed
I'M IN DESPAIR! THIS WORLD THAT IS MOTIVATED BY GREED HAS LEFT ME IN DESPAIR! X0
But Greed is such a pleasant homunculus!
The world is ruled by money so greed is just a logic result of it.
True, but I'm sure none of us on the site are any different.
I must say I find it funny that the survey portrays 'Yankees' and 'Delinquents' as the same thing. Did I learn the wrong definition to each of these words, or do they just despise Americans?
You learned the wrong definition; 'yankees' are a style of delinquents that got quite popular in Japan during the '70/'80s or so iirc.
Man, it's been decades non-US people haven't been calling Americans "Yankees". Probably since WW2.
My bad, ambiguous case; A native or inhabitant of the United States, or New England (according to google lol), always knew it as a generic term for Americans.
Well, learn something everyday, Japanese history ftw
A lot of articles which continually repeat that Japanese women seek high paid men, and that they are 'gold diggers' of a sort.
Interesting that women would be less surprised at a sex changed individual.
Gold diggers are especially common in non-US countries. If you got lots of pocket money and can speak english you're as good as laid.
Meh, n1 Anon:18 ^^
Also:
"Gold diggers are especially common in non-US countries. If you got lots of pocket money and can speak american you're as good as laid."
~fxd
Wow... 'Non-US countries'?
Thanks for confirming for us that the US is the center of the free world and all that shit.
We, the citizens of non-US countries, prostrate before your mighty country of freedom and pretend-democracy. And please send us some of your fat and ugly feminist champions to save us from gold diggers.
lol someone's butthurt
>implying that there aren't a ton of gold diggers in the US
Oh you guys.