Comments on: What Japanese Men Hate on a Date

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sun, 26 Jun 2011 14:28:33 +0000

Sounds like a very considerate man, though don't let a rude woman walk all over you.

It's the people like this that restore some small hope that there's actually decent/caring men out there.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sun, 19 Jun 2011 16:10:30 +0000

Women can get either defensive, or highly self-concious around large groups of people. Despite being a woman myself and knowing that, I don't necessarily care if a place is crowded or not. Would it even matter if the grocery store was crowded or empty? You still shop at the same speed, same for the check-out line. Generally, if it's busy that day, more lines are opened.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 30 Nov 2010 22:16:06 +0000

tell her you're going to the bathroom and run lol

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 30 Nov 2010 22:12:19 +0000

Lame! you totally missed out on a flag moment

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 30 Nov 2010 22:04:01 +0000

if they ignore you on the date then they probably just expect a free meal.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Mon, 03 May 2010 03:51:08 +0000

dude i read this comment some time ago n tried it on a friend... man it worked wonders!!
i had to like search tis site to find this comment!!!
THX mate !!

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Mon, 12 Apr 2010 22:56:22 +0000

Preach it brother Anon! We men are stupid creatures. We can't infer millions of iota of information from a single glance. We aren't Edward from Twilight. And he still sucks at it with over a hundred years to practice! There's your hint: if a guy needs over 36500 days of solid training to learn something, he isn't going to learn it. /Tell us/. Tell us what you /want/. Directly. Any man will bend over freaking backwards for a woman they can understand, who speaks "English", not only "girl". (Or Japanese, insert "real" language of choice). Not many girls speak Lojban or Hymmnos, completely unambiguous and "easy to identify reason" languages.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 26 Mar 2010 11:56:42 +0000

Honoko, that's your own fault. Instead of complaining that you're bored or tired, TELL him what you want. Men are not mind-readers anymore than girls are or would like men to be. If you say you're bored and he acknowledges, ok you're bored, so what? What? WHAT! He may be keen enough to ask what you want to do, or where you want to go, but in my experience girls often don't have a bloody answer anyways, even if keen so far as to have suggestions. You shouldn't expect him to have an answer for entertaining you.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 01:34:01 +0000

agree, just went on a date the other day, she kept getting txt from her friend. i can tolerate the curiosity of how its going but no in large amounts.

By: Honoko

Honoko — Sat, 23 Jan 2010 03:32:26 +0000

I would agree with everything but “Want to do something else.” And “Complain about being tired or having sore feet.” Because last week I went out with my BF and I told him I’m bored and tired especially because I just got off of work and he just drag me all over SF just to go shopping for sun glasses and window shopping. I told him I’m bored and he got piss off and said he wants to go home and drag my arm and said I don’t tell him anything. I told him that what he wanted to do I went along with it but when I’m interested in something he just drag me always. And when I said “I’m bored” he just throws a bitch fit. Of course I would be bored we been looking at nothing but men clothes and men sun glasses and the whole time I wanted to sit down and didn’t get a chance. I even told him I was hungry and he told me lets wait half and hour so he could shop some more. I told him everything and he still complains that I don’t say anything so I just walk off and he just follow me. He kept asking where we are going and I didn’t respond and just kept walking but he try to drag me again and I just kept going until I hit a Japanese tea cake shop that was recently open. I always wanted to go there but never got a chance and I told my BF about it. So he bought me something there and we made up. Afterward he kept trying to buy me expensive clothes just to make up some more and I just say no because it’s a waste of money especially since I don’t need it or want it. I’m not a materialistic girl I just want to be respected, and if your partner is bored or complain about being tired you should try to understand why. I understand why my BF act the way he did because he is just like the many Asian men who grew up in male dominance society and just want the woman to do what they want. Women get sore feet because the men drag them everywhere and a lot of woman wear high heels.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sun, 10 Jan 2010 03:58:24 +0000

4. Get unhappy just because it is crowded.

WHERE THE FUCK IS THE PROBLEM WITH THIS.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:33:44 +0000

1. Expect to be treated as a matter of course.
of course a guy would get mad at this. you're going on a date with me as much as i'm going on a date with you.

2. Take a haughty attitude to waiters.
well that's just rude.

3. Do nothing but check for mail.
rude again. why don't you go on a date with your cell phone instead?

4. Get unhappy just because it is crowded.
i'm fine with chilling in a park if you want to.

5. Want to do something else.
ok, think of something else.

6. Keep looking at other members of the opposite sex.
hey, if you don't mind me checking out other chicks and maybe getting a number or two, then we're cool. otherwise, we own each other for the duration of our date.

7. Complain about being tired or having sore feet.
ok, no big deal, let's sit down.

8. Make a racket with ringtone after ringtone.
silent plz. and by "plz" i mean "now".

9. Take the attitude that a treat was a right.
hahahahaha.
on a side note, once i told a japanese girl off about doing this with her bf and actually convinced her that she was being a bad person XD

10. Make no effort to make conversation.
mmmkay i'm gonna go call up someone else who actually wants to go on this date.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 07:47:17 +0000

Totally true

By: Black_Troll

Black_Troll — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 03:48:37 +0000

Signs like this mean its time to bail out LOL!

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 15 Sep 2009 11:08:19 +0000

9. Take the attitude that a treat was a right.

This applies to chinese girls pretty well.
Chinese mens are machos, but girls are generally worse.
I know few exceptions to that fact.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 11:01:30 +0000

20 bucks? How'd... What... And end at her place?! Darn. you Sir, are a genius. I can't even manage that on the third date. Too slow? Heh.

By: AmericanGrunt

AmericanGrunt — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 10:24:47 +0000

Personally, most of those are valid complaints.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 16:27:41 +0000

lol
Each of my dates consisted 200% of this. :)
And I was dumped 7 times.
lol
And I never even thought something was wrong and could be in any other way. xDDD

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Mon, 20 Jul 2009 09:26:09 +0000

maybe try being more interesting.... or atleast be cute... there are reason they would ignore u

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 15:14:41 +0000

Sorry, but your question ...
"Are you more attracted to a male if he possesses the following qualities: looks, money, intelligence, personality, character, status, and prestige?" is too hard for females.
First you must ask: are you stupid? and then ask your "last" question.
Because if woman dont like: intelligence, personality and character... she is a whore, if woman dont like: looks, money, status, and prestige she is romantic... but "if" she dont like all this things she is stupid or 2D character...

By: Athrun

Athrun — Tue, 23 Jun 2009 08:02:00 +0000

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By: Athrun

Athrun — Tue, 23 Jun 2009 07:55:51 +0000

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By: tokupoku

tokupoku — Mon, 22 Jun 2009 21:56:31 +0000

Your point being?

By: tokupoku

tokupoku — Mon, 22 Jun 2009 21:48:45 +0000

I find most of these unreasonable:
1. Expect to be treated as a matter of course.
Well you asked them out, when they ask you out you can expect to be treated.
2. Take a haughty attitude to waiters.
Reasonable.
3. Do nothing but check for mail.
Somewhat reasonable, but maybe they are worried about it, make it a point in conversation. If you feel she is ignoring you ask her questions, if she answers right it means she is paying attention to you.
4. Get unhappy just because it is crowded.
Unreasonable, just get the fuck out of there.
5. Want to do something else.
Unreasonable, just go do something else.
6. Keep looking at other members of the opposite sex.
Unreasonable unless she doesn't let you do the same.
7. Complain about being tired or having sore feet.
Unreasonable she is tired, just carry her in your back to the nearest love hotel.
8. Make a racket with ringtone after ringtone.
Unreasonable, just play with her on the damn phone until you reach the love hotel.
9. Take the attitude that a treat was a right.
Same as #1.
10. Make no effort to make conversation.
Give me a break, do you really want a chatty girlfriend? I can understand if you want someone to talk to, you want to be talked at? A girl is not forced to make conversation unless you count moaning as conversation.