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Japanese ladies share the ten things they never want to hear from their partner.

The top ten:

1. “Haven’t you put on weight?” or being asked her weight – 17.4%

2. Having unwanted hair she thought would not be noticed pointed out – 13.2%

3. Being compared to a female friend for dating purposes – 12.2%

4. Being told she is “unwomanly” when she has no idea what this is – 12%

5. Being told she is humourless – 11.2%

6. Having her great new haircut be ill-received – 9.2%

7. Being told her painstaking cooking is no good – 8.2%

8. Being told her fashion sense is bad – 7.2%

9. Being compared to female celebrities – 7.2%

10. Being told her favourite perfume is too strong – 2.2%

The methodology and sample size of the survey are not disclosed.

These seem a fairly universal set of objections, though what is left unsaid is just how willing the average Japanese lady is to forgive such grievous faux pas…

Unmanly behaviour” is also much loathed. What women do actually want to hear from a partner seems mainly related to his earning potential.



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    Comment by Karnalgas
    05:42 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    I think is the same with every woman....
    here if you say something like that, its crap all day :(

    Comment by loplop
    05:47 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    My first thought too.....

    Comment by King of Hentai Gods
    23:19 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    +1 =]

    Comment by nobody
    06:14 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    yup, it's common sense.

    Comment by Storm Wing
    12:27 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    "10. Being told her favourite perfume is too strong - 2.2%" is the cause of my ex left me... "oTL

    Comment by Denshoni
    06:19 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Yeah, that whole list should be fairly standard for...everywhere.

    Comment by Shanyy
    18:10 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Yeah. But just because every women are stupid. Raging at so tiny things...

    Comment by Anonymous
    15:10 15/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    so are otakus, raging at some music anime ending early. that's like premature ejaculation, isn't it?

    Comment by Jira
    06:58 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Right...not just Japanese women, but any women.

    Comment by Anonymous
    07:42 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    ITT: Things not to say to your girlfriend

    Comment by Rethardus
    20:37 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    What girlfriend?

    Comment by Harry
    08:44 13/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    s/girlfriend/hand/

    Comment by Anonymous
    18:59 17/11/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    then you have no cause for worry.. unless that dremel tool you use for modifying those Gunpla models suddenly goes on overdrive and takes your hand off ...

    Comment by Anonymous
    07:57 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Yeah, as a woman, this is just stuff you are better off not saying to any woman unless you are trying to piss her off.

    But you can be forgiven of these crimes. My fiance has pulled at least half of these on me throughout our relationship and I haven't kicked him to the curb yet.

    Comment by liveevil
    00:41 13/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    These aren't crimes. Women needs to accept criticism. They always criticize men for similar things, i.e. fashion, hygiene etc.

    Comment by Anonymous
    21:06 13/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Feh, i say it's how it's said rather than if. It applies to being said to both men and women. If you're rude and unhelpful you can go fuck yourself, If you happily enable and help a better lifestyle then it's all good. Or maybe the two partners are just incompatible and need to split up (if they try to change each other instead of enhancing what's already there).

    Comment by Anonymous
    08:06 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Half of this is common sense, the other half seems like something that should be said before something embarrasing happens.

    Comment by Anon-kun
    08:08 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Yeah, ouch. Sometimes its longer than a day. I never learn.

    Comment by ninjabastard
    09:37 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Let's see I've done 1, 4, 5, 6 and 8.

    Comment by Anonymous
    13:12 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    agreed....

    Comment by Waterfall Towers
    00:31 14/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    But of course.

    Comment by Buru
    14:58 14/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    I think different....
    japanese girl is so "stranger" in style/way ... I wanted has dated an japanese girl...but I don't...but she "japan girls" is too different to brazilian girls in some points... I don't know american girl...
    can someone tell how is american girl????

    sorry for my english ...

    Comment by Anonymous
    05:42 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    So they're just like other women around the world after all.'

    Comment by Chrouya
    07:03 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    That's what you get with 3D...

    Comment by Waterfall Towers
    00:32 14/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Indeed. And hi, pink Icy-nee-san

    Comment by blazefreak
    05:42 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    i tell my japanese friends shes fat all the time...

    Comment by Anonymous
    05:43 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    She wants to kill you secretly.

    Comment by Hangmen
    05:49 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Remember to press A, A, B to dodge her attacks, or else you'll get the NICE BOAT ending.

    Comment by (Girly Kenshiro)
    05:59 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    School Days "Happy Ending"?

    Comment by o__o
    14:36 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    dodoooooon....

    Comment by Harouki
    06:03 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    she probably has a hidden deathnote on her

    be careful!

    Comment by (Girly Kenshiro)
    06:23 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    If a guy or a girl enquire about the 1st question to me i will go Katsura Kotonoha "nice boat" on them as an answer.
    http://chan.sankakucomplex.com/post/show/305459/itou_makoto-katsura_kotonoha-parody-saionji_sekai-

    Comment by hachilio
    05:42 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Last one isn't that very important:P Most points are just common sense though.

    05:42 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    If the perfume is too strong then it is too strong. Some people are allergic to that shit.

    Comment by Uraisamu
    05:52 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    yeah that is true lol, I can't stand strong perfume, I'll start to sneeze like crazy... maybe they were trying to keep my away from them o_0

    Comment by Anonymous
    09:22 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Ya, like me, any perfume burns my eyes, burns my nose, and makes me sneeze like crazy.

    Comment by Anonymous
    05:44 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Why isn't "You are to old, I like loli" on the list?

    Comment by Anonymous
    05:46 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Probably because that would come out before you get a girlfriend.

    Comment by Michio
    05:46 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    In other words, be nice.

    Comment by Tessa
    06:32 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    In other words, you lie.

    Comment by Anonymous
    07:12 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    I 2nd that.. xD

    Comment by Mechwarrior
    08:18 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Be nice, while lying. It makes it more believable.

    Comment by liveevil
    00:43 13/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Tell that to women as well.

    Comment by basilio
    05:46 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Being told her painstaking cooking is no good - 8.2%

    So, like, if you eat the food, and it tastes horrible, you should hold it in, smile at her, and say, "That was pretty good =)," and then contract food poisoning later? Interesting proposal.

    Last one is weird though. Perfume should never be applied so strong as to cause unease for others around you.

    Comment by Yangth
    05:50 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Of course you eat it anyways! You should already know this from all the anime we all watch.

    Comment by Anon X
    06:14 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Yes, if her food tastes horrible you eat it and smile, and tell her it tasted great. That's if you want to get laid that night, no wonder why the Japanese birth rate is so low, guys have no idea how to get laid.

    Comment by Firo
    07:40 13/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    I once cried on the bus... 'cuz GAWD, the perfume pawah levels were over 9000! D:

    Comment by Anonymous
    21:09 13/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    If her cooking sucks ass, give her a Good Eats dvd-set or a method/technique cook book, and read/view it with her. Because if she keeps fucking up recipes then her problem is with her methods, rather than the recipes.

    Comment by Atma
    05:52 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    1.) Wouldn't bother me
    2.) + 7.) Would want someone to tell me this so I can fix it
    3.) + 9.) What if it's a compliment? If it isn't, just be the best you that you can be. The other girl is nothing. Why does nobody remember this?
    4.) This is a compliment for me
    5.) This is the only one I think would actually bother me
    6.) Hair grows out
    8.) Fashion sucks, spend your time and money elsewhere. Comfort > looks anyday
    10.) Perfume sucks, men's cologne tends to be more subdued and have better scents, so I go for that if I use anything.

    I find this list to be extremely nitpicky in general

    Comment by smooches
    06:01 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Your underwear has dickholes

    Comment by takuya13
    06:07 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    lol hahaha... at least ur open minded

    Comment by Mikiway
    06:15 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    ooOoh!!! Atma, you're exactly my type! And my humour sucks sometimes so I wouldn't blame you if you didn't understand some lame jokes of mine.

    I just wondered for statistic purposes: do you prefer men or women? You have no obligation to answer.
    M.

    Comment by Miroku74
    06:54 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Sadly, she's strictly lickly. Otherwise, I'm sure some other enterprising fence-jumper would've beaten everybody else to the punch.

    Atma's mentioned this a good number of times before.

    Comment by CS
    12:25 13/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    *swoons*

    I was gonna respond to the article's points, but now I can only "Ditto," and move on.

    Comment by TsubasaNoTenshi
    06:00 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Apparently Japanese women's values are not as different as thought by many, be this for better or worse.

    Comment by Anonymous
    06:00 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Well, I guess they won't mind hearing "Did I mention I have HIV, and now you do too"

    Comment by Anonymous
    06:01 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    aren't those things...obvious?

    Comment by Yangth
    06:03 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Yes. Yes they are.

    Comment by schmide
    06:05 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Even better.

    Are we having fish for dinner or is that you?

    Comment by Mikiway
    06:09 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    ha ha ha... good one for the case you wanna change girlfriend.

    M.

    Comment by CC
    06:10 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Being compared to female celebrities - 7.2%

    Comparing her to a male celebrity would be worse imo.

    But seriously, that could be a compliment as well.. of course telling her she looks like Swedish royality would get you no point. But saying something like "You're even cuter than " would be a compliment? :x

    Comment by ataraxia
    11:04 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    +1.

    Comment by Anonymous
    21:11 13/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Only if she's insecure enough to consider that person a threat. But that might spectacularly backfire and she may feel her fears confirmed. Insecure people are annoying to deal with.

    Comment by AchubaNanoiaBR
    06:11 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    I'm sorry, but this is stupid. If you and the girl connect well enough, you can pretty much say whatever you want, as long as you be polite about it. This is just something you shouldn't say to someone you just met, otherwise you just help turning women around you into bitches.

    Comment by Mikiway
    06:17 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Agreed, this is more like a list of "what not to do" for dating purposes. Doesn't suit every woman though.
    M.

    Comment by Narcotic-Nightmares
    06:18 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    well, that's the same with every girlfriend or girlfriend to be... it's sort of common sense to be honest...

    Boils down to: Want to get laid? Don't offend her

    Comment by Anonymous
    12:17 13/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    theres a book called "everything you can say to a woman that won't offend her." and all the pages are blank.

    Comment by Miroku74
    12:22 13/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    I've heard of a similar book. It's titled 'What Men Know About Women'.

    Comment by Anonymous
    06:20 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    that's all women

    Comment by Onizuki
    06:21 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Me likes teh Yomi on OP piccie....nice bodeh

    Comment by R
    06:40 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Poor Yomi, she just needs a guy to say to her that she's beautifull all along, and that that bitch Tomo is just envious of her.

    Comment by maxchain
    07:16 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    I'll do it.

    To the Fiction-i-tizer!

    Comment by MaidNiac
    13:40 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Her loli version is Hidaka from Kyou No Go No Ni..

    Comment by GourmetPrince
    06:29 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    I'm going to say each of those things in order and the Japanese girl would still be all over me.

    Comment by R
    06:33 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    You're rich, right? ;)

    Comment by KamiOkurimono
    08:32 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    He has to be, he's a prince. :P

    Comment by SaruDa
    06:31 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    You're pretty humourless...HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

    What, you don't get it? It was a joke!

    British spelling ftw!

    Comment by R
    06:32 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    According to the surveys posted here, what you really really can't tell her is:

    1. That she profits more than you

    2. Tell her that you would like to see your old female friends, even after dating her (remember kids, it's cheating on their heads)

    3. Tell her that you like anime, mangas, and the like (if you're smart enough, you'll search her profile in Facebook, Orkut or other and know about the visual-Kei ou fashion bands she likes)

    4. Tell her that you prefer that she continues working, EVEN after you're married

    5. Tell her that you're in love (it'll be so much for her - after all, they're in it for profit!!)

    If you have more ideas, please pot it ^_^

    Comment by Anonymous
    21:20 13/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Huh... Of all the female friends I know, none of these apply to them (except for half of 2 for one very insecure friend: She doesn't like her boyfriend being alone with female friends, but has no problem with him hanging out with mixed groups). Doesn't apply to me either. Most of the women I know IRL abhor the idea of becoming a stay-at-home wife, except for during any parental leave (the gov gives parents the right to stay home for a bunch of months when their kid's just gotten born. The mom often takes the first half of the leave and the dad the second)..

    Comment by Anonymous
    06:34 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    11. Being told her penis is too small.

    Comment by Anonymous
    06:40 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    lolwut

    Comment by R
    06:46 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Maybe he's dating Maryia (from Maria+Holic) :\

    Comment by Anonymous
    06:48 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    According to the polls, it's no wonder the japanese race is in decline. Both genders are gold diggers, neither of them want to work. They'll probably all die out soon... :(

    Comment by R
    06:53 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    The male otakus work (in the anime-manga industry) for passion, and the (few) female otakus as well. Eventually, they'll meet each other and multiply.

    In a hundred or so years, Japan will be a 100% otaku nation! \o/

    Comment by Anonymous
    15:42 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Never underestimate the number of female otaku.

    Comment by Lazydabear
    06:52 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Thats like saying to 27 year old Japanese women I don't want to have sex with her.

    Comment by Nyanymous
    06:59 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    They'll hear that from their partner only after they're married and the sparks are gone. The spoils of the battle is spoiled.

    Comment by shalala
    07:02 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Most of that stuff should be said.

    Comment by liveevil
    00:46 13/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Yes.

    Comment by Castronaut
    07:07 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    You'd have to be a special kind of asshole to say any of these things to a woman.

    Comment by Firetail
    07:13 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    1. “Haven’t you put on weight?” or being asked her weight - 17.4%

    I think its better to hear it from me then the guys at the fast food joint. :p

    Comment by R
    07:24 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Can be even worse: "Congratulations! I didn't know you're pregnant!! ^_^"

    Comment by Anonymous
    21:21 13/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Just talk is pretty worthless. Take her with you to the gym or start jogging together.

    Comment by Anonymous
    07:14 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    2. Having unwanted hair she thought would not be noticed pointed out ---> holly shyt shave that forest

    Comment by maga
    07:28 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    All real women are then say and none of them are worth it...

    Comment by Castronaut
    07:32 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    What?

    Comment by susume
    07:48 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    all these are pretty self explanatory.

    Comment by minakichan
    07:53 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    It's common sense, but you'd be surprised how many guys don't get it....

    Comment by Vegio
    07:56 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    i do

    4. Being told she is “unwomanly” when she has no idea what this is - 12%

    5. Being told she is humourless - 11.2%

    6. Having her great new haircut be ill-received - 9.2%

    7. Being told her painstaking cooking is no good - 8.2%

    8. Being told her fashion sense is bad - 7.2%

    all the time, when right. I'm extremely picky, though there are some exceptions. I don't mind unwomanly women, i like to be with them, but of course i'll point it out, since it can be funny. I don't talk to humourless girls, so i guess i solve the matter in another way rather than just tell 'em °L°
    I'm extremely picky concerning haircut and fashion sense, and i usually point it out as a suggestion, or as a joke: also being comfortable, and being able to smile and matching dresses with personality works without having to get god knows what brand.. i don't even know brands. And concerning cooking, just let me handle it. Please.
    maybe the reasons i'm single ?
    oh well, 2D wins anyway.

    Comment by Icy-nee-san
    08:03 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Japanese girl friends, you mean all girl friends x__x

    Comment by Ruwi
    08:30 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    11. Konata is cuter than you (>,....,<) (```)

    Comment by Anonymous
    20:01 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    lol...and a pic above the comment too..(^ W ^)

    Comment by paul
    08:37 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    1-9 is easy to do but 10 is just annoying.i cant remember how many times i smelled a woman with perfume thats too strong

    Comment by Chibicon
    08:39 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Number 10 might not bother the women a lot, but it sure as hell bothers me.

    Most of the time it is too damn strong.

    Comment by Anonymous
    08:54 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Being told her favourite perfume is too strong - 2.2%

    I rofled

    Comment by バカも一芸
    09:13 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Awww, Yomi ^_^;

    Someone should tell that poor girl she's absolutely perfect the way she is <3

    Comment by Anonymous
    09:24 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    #3 is funny because they are always jealous and constantly ask me whether I think their friends are attractive. egomaniacs.

    Comment by yaku
    03:15 13/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Insecure is the word.

    I don't see how different this is from guys comparing each other's dicks. If a girl was to tell you your dick was a lot smaller than her last one, how would you feel?

    Comment by Anonymous
    21:23 13/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    This isn't much better when she says it as a compliment, even though plenty of chicks feel pain when being stabbed with too long dicks.

    Comment by Meiun Gyoushi
    09:33 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    If some said any of that to a girl, then they should be slapped.

    Comment by Parn
    09:44 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Yomi's jelly rolls are erotic.

    Comment by Ukonkivi
    10:09 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Me telling a woman she's unwomanly would be a compliment.

    But the one that really caught me by surprise is that celebrity bit. I would think anyone would be happy to be compared to a celebrity that is drooled over by the masses.

    Japan, for their amounts of traps, has a surprising hatred of androgyny and worship of gender roles.

    Comment by liveevil
    00:52 13/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Hatred of androgyny? Last time i checked Japan is the #1 trap country. Even with celebs. UISSSHHHH

    Comment by Nochegame
    10:16 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    11. Being told she is “feminist” when she knows that means "whore".

    Comment by yaku
    10:24 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    If you apply most of these to the other gender (male) they most probably will feel insulted or depressed. It's not something just exclusive to women, you know.

    Comment by Anonymous
    20:50 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    I don't see anything there that would bother me except in certain contexts. For example, if it were done intentionally to annoy me, then I might take exception to the intent; picking fights is not conducive to a successful relationship. I do know for certain that I do not want people to refrain from earnestly telling me they don't enjoy something I've cooked, because I am doing that specifically for their benefit.

    Comment by yaku
    03:18 13/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    I most probably have to hang out with you then; no matter the gender a lot of people I've known were bothered to some level to a lot of these comments.

    Comment by ragaraga
    10:46 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    i think thats for every woman .... i think

    Comment by SnooSnoo
    11:05 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    I'd probably commit #2, #4 and #7.

    Comment by Karim-sama
    11:14 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    One thing is true... Woman seems do be missing sense of humor lately.

    Wassup with that?!

    Comment by plmko
    11:54 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    I say a lot of these things to female acquaintances and they seem to like it (well of course they'll pretend not too).

    Comment by boozedimpulsegundam
    12:05 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    #11 calling out girlfriend #1's name well with girlfriend #2

    Comment by Vegio
    20:03 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Weird they didn't even said that. Maybe japanese women are not jealous ?

    Comment by boozedimpulsegundam
    03:54 13/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    well actually #2 was my roommate before she and i were together after #1 went back to japan. She said it was ok because she understands that we were together for 4 years and i miss her so she said don't worry about it. God!, I love japanese women!

    Comment by Anonymous
    13:05 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Errr... Most of these I wouldn't even dare say...

    Comment by ReddHeretic
    13:38 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    I say much worse things on a regular basis, in colorful ways, with impunity.

    Well, almost. There WAS that young lady who tried to hand me a 3GB virus. I didn't even know such things existed. Either way, I preferred not to confirm it on my computer. :-P

    You can say whatever you damn please if you're good in bed. Kissing ass for booty is a sad existence.

    Comment by MaidNiac
    14:01 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    That's why having Yui as girlfriend is ideal...

    Comment by Riot Gear
    14:02 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    yep,the top question you'd never ask for a girl is about their weight also,if they had their period.That's really P.O'ed.

    Comment by Sixo
    14:19 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Why the hell *would* you say these seriously without expecting to be dumped?

    Comment by GB2Ktchn
    14:55 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Less talking, more punching.

    Comment by Anonymous
    15:39 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    I'm a girl and I wouldn't want any of these things said to me, obviously, but I'd rather have a guy in touch with his feminine side and I would actually prefer it if he liked anime. It would give us more in common, even if on a rather superficial level. I wouldn't care if he played eroge, owned figurines and dakimakura, or watched hentai as long as he was a nice guy. Well, okay, I'd mind it if the hentai or eroge had dog-fucking in it or some crazy shit like that, but other than that it's fine.

    Oh, and he'd have to let me snuggle with the dakimakura. Those things look awfully comfortable.

    Comment by Anonymous
    15:47 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Actually, upon further reading I wouldn't really care if a guy said to me 4, 6, 8, 9, or 10. I don't even wear perfume, I don't like the smell of it.

    Comment by Tommy
    17:05 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    I must that note to this then if not I might get kill by my girlfriend in the future.

    Comment by AmericanOtaku83
    18:39 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Things not to say to a Japanese Girlfriend:

    12: I'm American.

    Comment by dude
    22:22 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    so... rape is like saying hello. haha!

    Comment by Anonymous
    23:10 12/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Humorless? Eh heheh...

    Comment by Anonymous
    00:14 13/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Cheeseburgers taste better hot, than cold.

    If a woman doesn't have an open mind, to be criticized freely by the people around her, then can she safely say she isn't insecure?

    Everyone is judgemental, and everyone is conceited, that is pretty much all that i can put into this.

    Om Nom Nom Nom.

    Comment by liveevil
    00:33 13/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    So Japanese women can't handle the truth?

    Comment by Blacksun88
    00:34 13/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    i like the choices of picture. yomi is going extreme on her weight haha

    Comment by RiderFan
    03:01 13/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    More things:
    * Yes, that does make your ass look big.
    * Wow, there's a lot of gray hairs!
    * Your breasts are really starting to sag.
    * Yes, this is exactly what it looks like.
    * No, you do not have the body to pull that look off.
    * Here, put this paper bag over your head.

    Comment by Anon
    08:41 14/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    As usual, Riderfan, everywhere I see you you're an expert at pissing people off.

    Comment by Karma
    11:58 13/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Looking through these, it's blatantly obvious why women would be bothered - they do sound like harsh criticism that really digs into the roots of who she is - e.g. her personality, and how you (the person she evidently cares about the most) perceive her as.

    On a different level, I'm not sure how I'd react if I were told these things. For me 1) would be a compliment (as I'm pretty skinny). I prefer honesty rather than someone being too concerned with being polite. I find that if I'm in a relationship, I think communication is absolutely imperative. If you're getting trembling legs are the thought of casually asking your partner a question like those listed, it speaks about the flimsy foundation of your relationship. Of course ... it's one thing to get momentarily annoyed at these comments (as I can imagine most women would), but to be seriously offended is a sign of a problem in my opinion.

    There's a difference, however, from being honest and being indifferent to her emotions. If her cooking really is bad, it's simple human decency not to spit out out her food and mercilessly berate her especially if she tried very hard. It might be easier to suggest some kind of added flavour, or ask if she'd like to cook with you sometime, that kind of thing. Honesty comes in different forms, and sometimes I guess both have to meet halfway in terms of concern for their emotions and what should be said.

    Comment by Anonymous
    12:31 13/06/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    2

    Comment by yu
    13:31 10/07/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    same here

    Comment by Anonymous
    14:12 02/09/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Hmph. Sometimes the truth hurts, women aren't too hesitant to tell us when something's wrong with us. That's for sure.

    Comment by Black_Troll
    12:37 28/09/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    100% agreed with first poster, this applies to all women regaurdless of ethnicity. Most of this should be common sense and you would have to be a real dick to honestly bring any of this up if you plan on staying in a good relationship, woman love to be flattered and this shit is the total opposite.

    Comment by Anonymous
    11:27 26/10/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    Anyone thats told some of those things,whether male or female,they won't like it.

    Comment by Anonymous
    18:34 04/12/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    I disagree with half of this list.

    No.1
    I'm asking about the weight quite often. She tries to put some healthy weight on.

    No.2
    It is better if I notice this first than anybody else.

    No.3
    It depends how close you are.

    No.7
    There is always a space for improvement.
    is your cooking 100% successful? Maybe never tried to make something new?

    No.10
    I thought that Japanese are oversensitive to smell? no?

    btw No.9 Being compared to female celebrities
    Do yo know that 99% of the pictures published in the magazines are modified? they wear heavy makeup and pictures are most commonly modified in photoshop but other software can be used as well. it is called retouching. less weight, bigger bust, better shape? with digital photography it is all possible.

    Comment by Anonymous
    22:14 30/12/2009 # ! Neutral (0)

    well..i kinda failed at no 7
    i told her her sandwich were great and couldn't helped vomiting in front of her..

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