45% of Japanese Women Cheat on Partners
- Categories: Japan, News
- Date: Jun 9, 2009 08:07 JST
- Tags: Adultery, Dating, Rankings, Relationships, Statistics
The latest in a long series of unflattering survey results shows Japanese women can apparently be trusted about as far as they can be thrown, with a not inconsiderable 45% of them admitting in a survey that they have cheated on a partner.
However, 37% of them reported being cheated on at some point, so it seems that this untrustworthiness runs both ways.
When asked just what it is they considered the point at which cheating started (when done to themselves at least), the number one concern was “holding hands” with 37% considering this infidelity, “because lovers do it”, and “holding hands has a deeper meaning even than H or kissing.”
The next most unfaithful act was “being alone together”, at 20%, as “without a good reason drinking together is already cheating” and even “because it doesn’t feel right”.
The third start point for infidelity was said to be “kissing” at 18%, since “kissing can’t happen without affection” and “from here on it is serious.”
9% thought exchanging mail and phone calls was the beginning of cheating, and 8% listed “H” as being the point at which cheating occurs.
These results stemmed from online surveys of the members of a woman-oriented site, and with no detailed methodology apparent they should of course be taken with a grain of salt.
Even so, it is hardly a reassuring picture, especially considering the rather mercenary tastes of Japanese women with respect to their money providers…
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SLUTS
feel so unsecure to be a japanese guy in japan
If ure a japanese guy then u should know more about it . LOL
So if I fapped to something on SanCon, I am cheating on my waifu?
2d has never cheated on me.
2d > 3d
Who exactly did they survey? Did they survey women from different areas that live different life styles or did they just survey a group of women from the same area?
Too many people are buying illusions.
Hey, you are stupid if you expect a person to be 'faithful' to you and only you. I NEVER promise that to a person who I am going out with, I tell them "I am not guaranteeing that I will be monogamous with you, and I don't expect YOU to be monogamous with me!"
I... guess that's because you're not looking for a serious relationship, but others actually want something serious and settle down with just one person that's why they are willing to trust in them
i wonder if looking at porn is also considered cheating. *trys to hide 2d wifu from 3d one*
If the survey provider or whoever interviewed these women are guys, then that meant that at least 92% have cheated on their partners.
Lol just read your comments and i'm laughing XD (in a good side :) )
Well , this news made my day AHAHAH
Yeah , boy japanese didn't satisfy Woman desires ^^
"9% thought exchanging mail and phone calls was the beginning of cheating,"
Patriarchal society, we welcometh thou.
If you wanna cheat, at least notify your other half you're gonna do that, so it wont be a cheat anymore. And by the way, polygamy and swing rules.
lol it's women cheating and a woman walks in on it :D i sense a threesome!
@tanaka
interesting story, meng. :D
Why they are cheating?
Because husband is almost NEVER at home.Work, drinking Friday after work, pachinko or Golf are far more important than wife or children.Almost no sex life in married couple.after 2 years of marriage, especially when first child is born, no more sex nor affection.
all divorced woman i talked with here, told me the same scenario.
Reason of divorce:
1)Never at Home
2)Does not have a fuck about the children
3)No sex/ affection(one didn not had sex with husband for 6 years...)
4)cheated on her.
domestic violence was not mentioned, not even once.
Gar these seem like assumptions meant to justify cheating. Plus, we're talking about cheating, not divorce. I don't think anyone here has a problem with a wife divorcing if she feels neglected or unhappy or in danger. I'd probably have more of a problem with people make stupid dedications to people they don't know well in the first place.
A lack of sex life can just as often be the wife's fault if she lets herself go.
The Blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice...^.^
Maybe my last chance at finding a girl, is to go to Japan...
Isn't it interesting that these articles about girls cheating show a guy and a girl making out and ANOTHER GIRL walking in on them?
So if it's the girl who is cheating, then... I like where this is going :)
People are so jealous and possessive. Everyone should just embrace polyamory like in the good ol' days.
No wonder the guy on youtube have alot of Sex Dolls, he was right about women in Japan cheating.
Lmao. You make it sound like this only is true in Japan.
There are disloyal people in every country. So there are loyal ones (I think). I just can't believe that so many women are disloyal. Or i just don't wanna xD
There are a bunch of different people.
like the old saying goes, can't turn a whore into a housewife...
But a perfect canvas for my Blast!
Yup, love me a whore.
Again, I think it is same trend everywhere in the world. By holding hands, I think more than 50 percent of global female population is committing adultery.
My friend is an American guy and found out that his Japanese wife - Junko Muto of Tokyo - is already married to another guy - She never got divorced from her first husband!!!!
My friend met her and married her in Japan and had registered with the local government office as required in Japan. However, the Japanese wife as it turned out had been married to another man in the US. This US marriage was a legally recognized marriage in Japan, consequently, according to Japanese law, she was guilty of a crime, bigamy.
Eventually the American guy had to enagage legal help, which took an incredible amount of time and money that he had to pay to get the mess sorted out. He had to engage both US and Japanese legal counsel and ended up in Japanese family court.
My friend was uncharacteristically naive and was taken advantage by this girl looking to meet a well off foriegn guy. The word is that this Japanese woman is back out looking for the next guy, so please BE CAREFUL!
I always knew hand holding was hardcore stuff. We need more hardcore hand holding in shows.
I'm as loyal as they come; cheating is one of the few things on Earth that outright disgusts me. Loyalty is sexy.
perfect avatar for the comment
I like to think Kallen and I make a good team
Fully agree with you.
*bows*
I commend women as you; who are loyal.
You are a "rare breed" and if one is found (as yourself) any ~ self respecting man ~ would do what is needed to ensure that the relationship carries on without problems.
Loyalty is strength (when) combined with many other factors, which (in turn) becomes the bonding strength needed for a relationship to succeed.
I too have been loyal to the max, but (at times) some situations tax a relationship, and its those taxing times that tests relationships.
Usually communication is the first to suffer, followed by unwarranted assumptions, then the rest just falls apart.
Failure is not just one-sided.
Just my 00.00.02 cents worth.
Loyalty is not rare. It is a biological necessity these times, so most of you are exaggerating.
sadly... the loyal male/female always meets the disloyal ass/bitch.... .... so....
*nods* - Ndeed ~ true
Thats just how the hands of "irony" and "fate" like to mess with you!
DAMN THEM TO HELL!!
It's across we just have to bear. Someday, hopefully, there will be a big payoff for all the crap we go through.
That's one commodity I wish was held more valuable than any of the crap on the Stock Market.
If you're being true to your S.O., then it stands to reason that you'd expect the same from her/him, correct? Or is that asking for too much? o_0
Apparently it is, when things like fucking goddamn Online Booty Call and other terrible things exist telling people that loyal, dedicated partners are garbage and you should only use people to get off and then never call them again.
I hate what our romantic culture has become.
2d girls never cheats on you
But we cheated on them with another 2D characters!
It's not cheating, it's polygamy.
*clap* *clap* *clap*
Polyamory actually, unless you're marrying your 2d characters, which is okay, fictional waifus ftw. They don't steal your money like real ones do.
AMEN
o_o? Aren't they never yours to begin with? I mean if you buy a game you get that one copy, but hundreds of other people are slapping the salami with another copy of your loyal 2D girl.
Not if it's your own creation to begin with...
H = ecchi which could contain, heavy petting, sexual innuendos and peversions of the sort.... also known as foreplay before/after/during sex.
hentai = porn with cartoons....
Ecchi when used as a noun can be translated as sexual intercourse aside from what you said and hentai just means pervert in Japanese, but it has been associated as "porn with cartoons" in the west for some unknown reason.
From what i know hentai means literally sexual pervert not pervert alone. Just easier to say pervert.
Well...I think ranivusu was just using the twisted English/Retard slang for Hentai/H
Jap Women are ............WTF........
In case u r in relation with one of those extremist Do u have to isolate urslef from World to be considered Loyal ??!!
If Drinking is cheating then Dying is also cheating !
nobody has posted the article about the guy in America that raped and beat an infant to death yet.
..... if artifact posted every article that featured human dipravity.... then we would stop coming here becasue it would be CNN....
This is so obviouuuuuus. Since when a japanese woman marries a man, he is like don't have any time of emotional conection to her besides her doing his dinner and they even don't have sex anymore since they get married...
And they also visit yakuza's parlors instead of having great married sex with his wife. :P What do you xpct?
I would totally hitting other guy if i were in that situation.
EVERY Japanese man is like that, sure.
Much to the same way they all want to be white.
I love western stereotypes...
Well at least you only need to get past one major hurdle and it's smooth sailing all the way. Unlike say these Western women who put you through so many trials and tribulations to reach home plate...most of the time anyway.
Just another difference in culture I guess, though one difference I favor over current Western standards.
Really? a 45% chance of cheating? no wonder theres so much rape in Japan.
...um, except there isn't. Don't spout bullshit.
0.1% If you want to be specific.
http://www.nationmaster.com/graph/cri_rap_vic-crime-rape-victims
To me Japanese women seem to have this kind of very overboard sensivity when it comes to there feelings.
So not only does the vast majority want a millionaire for a husband; more than half of these gold diggers then go and cheat on their millionaires?
That's amusing for all the wrong reasons.
One can only hope that these surveys are horribly wrong.
And why do you think they want a so millionare man?
Simple, since all they know their life are gonna end up as a "something standind there" next to their husband, not even getting love or sex... so if there's no love, it's obvious there's a hole in their life, so why don't fullfill it with expensive bags and brand-clothes?
:\ if you're gonna winning around about, us females being sluts it's because there are reason, and specific with the japanese woman, that's the case.
Indeed i'm not denying there's real whores out there, self-absorved and selfish. But it's not all the woman as, it's not all the mens that are bastards.
Solution: don't marry someone who doesn't love you? You're acting like their husbands bought them on the black market and own them or something.
Material possessions are no substitute for love, especially superficial crap like clothes and bags. I've never understood my fellow females' obsession with such things. If you are begging for that as a replacement for love, you're doing it wrong.
And that is why Japanese men have sex with their beds.
GTFO if the man doesn't love you.
You're nothing but an expensive whore if you're demanding expensive bags and brand-clothes in return for staying with a dumbass that doesn't love you.
"if you’re gonna winning around about, us females being sluts it’s because there are reason"
Yeah: with you enjoying your status as a personal prostitute topping the list.
Oh wait, I just realized something. You'd not even be a prostitute (seeing as he doesn't want to have sex with you). You'd be nothing but a bastard taking advantage of your luck in finding a rich dumbass foolish enough to give you access to his money.
I don't know, I can throw a Japanese woman pretty far
I have gained a little more confidence in japanese women from reading that o-o
2nd that...
Someone explain to us women and non-otaku, what the hell is "H"? What are you, stupid?!
>>non-otaku
>>in sankakucomplex
OK, I lol'd
You shame my gender
H is whatever you want it to be in the land of porn, anime, and titties.
You know, it's sort of like going to St. Peter to see the pope and ask who the guy from the balcony is.
"What are you, stupid?!"
NO U
H = sex as in like hentai
H DOES NOT MEAN HENTAI
http://web.archive.org/web/20030405141146/http://home.attbi.com/~kagamix2/H_does_not_mean_hentai/
The argument is so old we needed the Wayback Machine to find the relevant article.
"H" = Ecchi = erotic stuff, sex. At least I think that's what they were referring to.
PS: Real woman disappoint me. Lately they all seem so untrustworthy. Is like every single one of them is just after money or likes to play with you and hurt your feelings. Yeah, not many good experiences..
You need to get laid ASAP dude.
This is why I will be forever ronery ;_;
more money for figures and candy girls....:D
Ronery, but *not* Alimony-Broke.
Hahahah. Clearly you're just too ugly or unpleasant to be with for anyone to want to stay with you. Too bad!
Don't lump all women together just because you don't know what 'H' or Ecchi is.
What are you, stupid?
sucks to be japanese.
THANK GOD Someone else asked that question *wipes brow* :P
whoa, ninja replied to wrong comment...
Forward previous comment to: "Someone explain to us women and non-otaku, what the hell is “H”? What are you, stupid?!"
:P
Some of these seem rather tame
tame and lame...
it can't be helped, japanese boy tiny cock, can't give enuf pleasure to the girls, so they enjoy cheating & gang bang =]
So the tiny cock problem is solved by fucking other tiny cocks?
1+1=2 you see?
Apparently you don't Anon. Because that's how it works.
I don't think you know much about sex
The fact is that the rumors of asian penis sizes are just that rumors. There's a fair bit more to sex than that. Even then this article focuses more so on the actions that constitute cheating in their minds than that. I think that if your heart is with one person and you're not having sex or spending tons of time with anyone else then you're not cheating. Plenty of people have much different standards which is quite important to note. Another thing to look at is that in Japan things don't work the same as they do elsewhere.
my penorz is small
Especially when 37% consider holding hands as cheating... It's ALL about the sex isn't it?
Guys, since only 18% of 45% are actually cheating (other women have a ridiculous view of what cheating is) this means that only 8.1 are cheating, seems like good news.
1+1= 2?
But normal males've got 11 fingers.
So that beats your math crap.
Women don't betray over cock length, they're not as active as we are, so you choose to believe they're bitches by nature(some of them are,all of them not) as in not admitting the couple's faults.
Betrayal is a misguided way some people choose to "deal" with their problems and/or dissatisfaction.
kings line of reasoning is thus: quantity, quality be damned, enough 2inchers and you'll get off someday.
But they're in Japan....they'd be cheating with *other* Japanese men, your argument is completely ridiculous prince.
It simply appears that many of these women surveyed are simply being rather paranoid and overprotective...
Exchanging emails / phone calls? ZOMG, quite mendacious of the opposing partner indeed.
Paranoia like that usually comes from *gasp* cheating on OTHERS!!
Actually, all that paranoia just goes to prove that it's hard for them to say no, at any given time.